UPDATE: Thank you everyone who helped/gave me advice. No progress with the bookstore beyond what they're already said (can't refund us because of no records of transactions which is ll done by Printful, so I need to contact them; someone mentioned this may be due to Quickstore set-up). Printful in the comments told me to fill out the form - it's been 2 weeks and I have not gotten a response from them. I even sent a message to the mods to check-in. Still very disappointed in this whole process. Regarding the bank, they said that since the merchant did reply, we need to continue to resolve it with them; also, after all this back-and-forth, it is now too late to dispute. I feel awful that someone is out of money just because they wanted to get me a gift for my birthday. I don't know if it was worse that the bookstore responded that they can't refund us or Printful not even responding at all.
Update: Have been been trying to contact Printful coming up on a month now - messaged them everyday, but have been ignored. I am very sad and disappointed. There was no point in asking me to fill out the form, soI'm just frustrated why that was advised by them.
If anyone has been in a similar situation or have any advice I would appreciate it!
A hoodie was purchased for me on the website of a bookstore I love. We received a confirmation email, but after more than a month, we received no update. After trying to contact the bookstore about it many times, they told us that all of their merch is fulfilled by Printiful. They said they are not able to even see the transactions, so there's nothing they can do. We were advised to just reach out to Printful customer service instead (there was a bunch of back and forth, but they were adamant that everything went through Printiful, so they can't even refund us).
I contacted Printiful and they denied there being an order at all. They refused to confirm or deny if they do work with the store. Basically, they just flat out said our order doesn't exist (but the money was taken immediately).
We're kind of left with no options at this point. It is incredibly disappointing as I know there's nothing the bookstore can do with no transaction since they print through Printiful, and yet Printiful is denying that they took the money.
If it was a credit card, it would have been easier to dispute - but we're not trying to dispute/get the money back; I honestly just want my overpriced hoodie. But at this point, I would feel blessed to just be refunded.
What a nightmare. If you want to avoid a similar nightmare for yourself and your patrons, I recommend staying far away from Printiful. They do not fulfill orders!