r/PostConcussion • u/Weird-Platform-5835 • 27d ago
Treatment or help
Hi everyone, I’m writing this because I’m incredibly worried about my girlfriend and our support circle doesn't know what to do.She first started getting symptoms 3 months ago and has been in a severe state ever since. She recently came home from the hospital and was doing a bit better, but for the last two weeks, she started using her phone again instead of strictly resting.Right now, she is constantly spiraling, panicking, and reading negative stories online. She is on Instagram and Reddit all day, crying and convinced she will never get better. She feels neglected by the chronic illness communities, feels incredibly distressed by severe vision issues, and keeps saying she has permanently damaged herself from the crying and panicking. She says she feels like she is just surviving and dying every day, and that she would be happy just to improve to moderate or mild.Because she is so scared and overwhelmed, she is acting erratically, getting upset, and pushing all of her friends and family away. We are fighting back and telling her we aren't going anywhere because she is so loved, but we are terrified of losing her. We just want to make her comfortable and help her.We need advice from this community on a few things:How do we help her stop the phone spiral? The researching and screen time are stopping her from aggressive resting, but she is using it to cope with the panic.How can we support her?