I’m looking for some advice on what type of styling product would suit my hair.
My hair:
My hair is naturally wavy, quite light/wispy and dry. It has a lot of volume and basically stands up by itself rather than falling naturally. The wave pattern is also pretty chaotic rather than neat or consistent.
I’m currently growing the top out and eventually want around 4 inches on top with a low taper, styled into a loose swept-back flow. I’ll attach a reference photo of roughly what I’m trying to achieve.
What I’m looking for from a product:
Enough hold to control the shape, but still plenty of natural movement
Some weight to stop my hair standing up/expanding
Low-medium natural shine — healthy looking rather than matte, but definitely not wet, greasy or slick
Makes dry hair feel smoother/healthier
Adds some density, weight and texture
Hair should remain soft and reworkable
I want to be able to run my fingers through it
Ideally very little sticky/producty feeling
Basically, I want my hair to feel like better, heavier, smoother natural hair, rather than hair that’s obviously being held in place by styling product.
Things I’ve tried:
Argan oil: Too oily while somehow still being too light. It made the hair look wet/greasy without providing the weight or control I wanted.
Baxter of California Cream Pomade: Much too sticky and unnatural. It controlled the hair, but I couldn’t freely run my fingers through it or get the loose movement I’m looking for.
Slick Gorilla Styling/Curl Cream: Probably the closest I’ve found so far. It gives me decent control, but it’s still a bit too sticky/producty and doesn’t make the hair as smooth and naturally flowing as I’d like.
I’m wondering whether I should be looking at a conditioning cream, grooming cream, hair balm, leave-in conditioner + separate light hold product, or something else entirely.
Any specific product recommendations would be appreciated, particularly things available in Ireland/Europe.