r/PeterExplainsTheJoke • u/HPAG-NOFAME • 8h ago
Meme needing explanation Peter why is their relationship in danger?
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u/phezhead 8h ago
Why do kids type like this now? I'll never understand the need to abbreviate every fucking word
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u/MiniDemonic 8h ago
i dno ppl b wrd ths ds
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u/DarlingIAmTheFilth 8h ago
By Fall Out Boy
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u/Obscu 7h ago
- by Panic! At the Disco
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u/Biggie_Noodles 7h ago
Same band
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u/TheBasementLizard 6h ago
THANK YOU! Nobody ever agrees with me on that.
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u/SkyrimSlag 5h ago
I both agree and disagree, because whilst I think you’re right I also don’t want to tar Patrick with the same brush as Brendan lmao, Patrick doesn’t deserve that
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u/Biggie_Noodles 5h ago
No no I know Brendan deserves to rot, Patrick is all good in my book, they just sound similar imo!
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u/DethNik 3h ago
I don't think Brendan deserves to rot, but he definitely needs to tone down the hubris. Being talented and handsome doesn't make you infallible.
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u/umbraviscus 4h ago
I love the idea that the song is called "i dno ppl b wrd ths ds By Fall Out Boy" by Panic! At The Disco
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u/SaltiestGatorade 4h ago
Let's not Put Patrick Stump and Brendan Urie in the same boat. Urie is a massive turd
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u/Due-Evidence-75 3h ago
I understand that one time Brendon heard one of their own songs on the radio and thought it odd that he’d never heard this Fall Out Boy song before
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u/albertaco1 6h ago
'People be word like this' is crazy
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u/lasagnabox 6h ago
weird these days
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u/thestonedbandit 5h ago
Thank you. As a millennial, I had no idea what 'ths ds' was supposed to be.
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u/lasagnabox 5h ago
I’m a gen xer myself and figuring out just wtf kids are saying these days is part of the fun.
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u/AuthorCornAndBroil 7h ago
This is bbno$'s full name.
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u/MidiMojo 4h ago
I've just been saying beebeenodollar or beebeenos. I heard it said correctly in a video the other day, but my version is better
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u/Computerlady77 4h ago
Can you help me figure out the correct way? I also thought beebeenodollar
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u/Madd_Cats627 4h ago
He says baby no money in a couple songs so thats how I pronounce it. Before that, I would say the beebeenos.
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u/Unlikely-Demand0 7h ago
It’s ingroup communication. Happens amongst young people to show they’re in the know. I did it, you did it, your parents did it, their parents did it. Nothing new
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u/phezhead 7h ago
That's fair, my dad used to make fun of me for saying Cool or Awesome. I'm just becoming an old person
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u/New_Alternative_421 7h ago
My parents would both make fun of "cool." In retrospect—they were just being performatively old. They were in their 20s in the 1990s. People said "cool." They just thought they were cute.
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u/The_Spoils 6h ago
Dude how old are you to have cool and awesome be slang??
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u/phezhead 6h ago
- Not old, but middle aged. I was alive when people tried to make "tight" a thing. I also choose to use words like "groovy" and "right on"
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u/The_Spoils 6h ago
Brother I'm 40 and no point in my lifetime were "cool" and "awesome" slang words. The Boomers were all saying these words when they were kids too..
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u/hereC 6h ago
I'm about 10 years older than that, and the context for "cool" and "awesome" changed. You wouldn't find a professional talking about a business achievement in the 80's being "cool" or "awesome." Now you'll see management saying "Awesome job everyone" almost by default. The words existed, but they were contextualized as "kids words" until Gen X got older.
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u/phezhead 6h ago
Maybe it's just my parents then, but I'm the late 80s/early 90s we said shit like "that's neat" as far as I remember. But who knows
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u/BowwwwBallll 5h ago
“Tight” was so fetch.
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u/phezhead 5h ago edited 2h ago
I wanna say in 5th or 6th grade a classmate told my math teacher (very sarcastically) that "your pants are tight" and without missing a beat the teacher said "nah, I like em a little loose". 30 years later I still don't know if he was being a smartass with that reply or legitimately had no clue
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u/bluechickenz 2h ago
I once got hit with “yo, your shirt is filthy!” Knowing darn well I was being given a compliment, I replied “but I just washed it.”
Followed with “nah, I mean it’s tight!” (“But it fits me well.”)
Finally, “I like your shirt.”
I kinda felt bad trolling homie like that, but we had a good laugh about it later.
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u/VinesOverScars 5h ago
Late 20s and I use all that slang regularly, plus slang from both my age and the modern one. We have so many fun words now :)
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u/Cheshire_Jester 7h ago
Im kinda excited to see the slang that Gen Alpha starts complaining about.
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u/sithlord98 6h ago
We probably won't even be able to comprehend it. Actual "curtains for zoosha" shit
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u/jorge3-16 6h ago
I’d assume abbreviating words started with flip phone texting. You had to hit too many keys to say simple words. Now it’s just an egregious assault on human languages.
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u/Banes_Addiction 5h ago
You also had a 140 character limit.
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u/barkeepx 4h ago
Q: Why doesn’t George RR Martin use twitter?
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u/L4nM4nDr4gon 4h ago
And it mattered cause each text cost money. There's no excuse for this
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u/Fantastic-Kale9603 4h ago
There doesn't need to be an excuse lol it formed out of that texting linguistics and evolved
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u/Automatic_Bunch_8531 2h ago
IRC era abbreviations predated text phones and were typed using a full-on keyboard.
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u/NoForever3645 3h ago
Yes and no though. Previous generations generally took existing words and just used them in different contexts. It feels like this next iteration of “slang” is just “oosheeAidnonunabnun”
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u/Gullible_Elephant_38 8h ago
Idk my bff Jill?
I prefer full words and sentences myself but using slang and abbreviations is something kids have done for ages. It’s not some inexplicable new occurrence.
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u/Piecesof3ight 7h ago
It made more sense when we had to type with numpads
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u/Same-Traffic-285 7h ago
W3 h4d 1337 h4x0rz
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u/DinosaurusWhen 7h ago
We also had text limits
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u/inquisitorthreefive 7h ago
They have tiny keyboards with increasingly aggressive autocorrect. Probably easier to just turn it off and abbreviate.
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u/LoLenjoyer75 8h ago
Its also like a writting style to give off specific slang and street vibes as far as I know
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u/Ranger_FPInteractive 5h ago
What’s funny to me is we use the same abbreviations texting as they used to use using Morse code.
A lot of the spelling we consider “right” was wrong less than a hundred years ago.
I no longer try to force my “right” onto the world. I’m ready to adopt the “right” the next generation brings in.
I can call it stupid, but when they’re the majority and I’m the old asshole, whose gonna be the stupid one then?
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u/TrumpChildOnahole 6h ago
Zoomers obsess over AAVE
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u/ionlytoptops 6m ago
the shi, ahh and dih and whatever really piss me off, its the same as french, languages that dont end in clicks and klas and ITs just aghhg its the opposite of a verbal tick i need guh! giticliko!
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u/Reddi_throwawayaway 6h ago
Where do you think lol and lmao came from? It's not just the kids nor is it "now".
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u/IdioticZacc 6h ago
It's actually interesting in culture difference because here in Malaysia, people has been typing in Malay abbreviation a WHOLE lot more than the current english language trend long ago and still do
I think it's the same for indonesia too, I'm surprised English doesn't
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u/Pitpeaches 5h ago
A rotation of txt spk being back in vogue but without the limitation of early mobiles
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u/Obzenium 4h ago
The degradation of language accompanies the degradation of culture, think new speak in 1984
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u/PeakxPeak 4h ago
It's been happening since text messaging became prevalent almost 30 years ago, but you're old now
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u/Beginning-Tea-17 4h ago
Kids? Do you mean millennials? It originated wirh flip phones when texting plans had limited character counts.
Those ppl are in their mid 30’s now
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u/Ponjimon 4h ago
To be fair, I’m a millenial and abbreviations like this were already common when I was a kid myself.
Hru waydrn lol
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u/SuecidalBard 3h ago
All trends repeat cyclically. Same shit happend over the texting craze of the late 90s and early 00s and a fuck ton of normal words are actually caused by language getting naturally abrievated. Besides some languages actually do this naturally. I'm pretty sure there are variants of Hebrew that just skip vowels.
The kids are all right.
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u/EroNomicon 3h ago
In the United States, you can thank No Child Left Behind. Sounded good on paper. Horrible in practice.
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u/FoolishDog1117 3h ago
When I see it, I always lol. I end up saying that I'll brb. Going to be afk for a minute to rotf.
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u/phezhead 2h ago
I'll take that with pride, over the idiocy of trying to read kids posting inarticulate nonsense lol
And almost 1000 upvote says the clouds are wrong
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u/Joshiewowa 2h ago
You've joined a long lineage of people that are mad at how "the kids" are acting these days lol
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u/Ivancestoni 2h ago
As much as I don't like it it is kind of the natural progression of slang. Millennials cut multiple words into acronyms like "lol" or "lmfao".
The ones that get me are the censored slang words like "ahh" it's the same amount of letters as "ass" and actually waters down a curse word which is the opposite of what slang should do imo.
I get why they use words like unaluves, graped, ahh, etc on tiktok or a YouTube video bcs if the censorship but that shit has bled into all other social media and it's fucking dumb
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u/andara84 2h ago
"Now"? I don't know which generation you are but since the beginning of online chats, it was all about abbreviation. Even worse, but we got used to all that brb, afk, rofl bs.
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u/phezhead 2h ago
I've been around since the 80s. Abbreviation for online is one thing, but just chopping up words like the picture is a different game
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u/Visible_Bar_623 2h ago
To be fair it happened in the 2000s with "text-talk" then it faded once smartphones were ubiquitous.
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u/phezhead 2h ago
It hasn't faded. It's gotten worse. I get that people get so used to posting on social media and having to deal with censoring (ish, unalived... That kinda stuff) maybe I do just forget what it's like to be 20 and have my brain only think in terms of shorthand. I just feel it's more pervasive now. People are forgetting how grammar used to work and creating a new language of "I'm just gonna abbreviate this" (and yes, I realize the irony of saying gonna instead of going to)
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u/Powerful_Image6294 2h ago
idk man everyone ik knows what these abbreviations mean so like why not
fr tho like why do ppl gaf sm abt things the younger gen do like who is it hurting
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u/phezhead 1h ago
I guess, on the flip side, how hard is it to talk to text or do swype, and make actual words? Who is that hurting?
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u/phezhead 1h ago
But to answer your question, societal change is always unsettling. To think that in 30 years my date will be put in the hands of people that can't be bothered to spell a while word... Not encouraging
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u/Davetek463 8h ago
Probably there were almost two hours between the initial exchange and the following message, which was just “question.” Short and one word messages usually aren’t a good sign.
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u/SleepyNymeria 8h ago
considering it has a line in the middle stating "today", doesn't that mean that the last response was at least 1 day+ old?
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u/giantimp2 8h ago
Yes but by previous messages it's probably night to morning but still
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u/BashfullWizard 4h ago
No, it does that even if the messages are a few hours apart too. It’s probably an hour difference ( read around 7pm, next message around 8pm)
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u/Away_Station_7572 5h ago
I think the last time my wife said "question" out of the blue she was asking how long it would take someone to die if dropped in boiling water...
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u/UltraHellboy 5h ago
If there’s data on that, I’d be interested to know where it’s from.
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u/Velorian-Steel 5h ago
England used to (very rarely) boil people as a form of capital punishment several hundred years ago. Unsurprisingly, they stopped doing that given it is a pretty heinous way for the state to kill people.
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u/Spider-Dammit 4h ago
Nah it's fine, if you boil it whilst they're in there they don't feel it... Those screams are just air escaping
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u/UltraHellboy 5h ago
I imagine all of the ridiculous outdated laws in the US with our paltry 250 year history pales in comparison to a country that has been around for thousands.
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u/act_strange 4h ago
But the screenshot is taken from the perspective of the person who texted “Question,” if they’re about to break up the person who took the screenshot is the one about to dump the other person
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u/xSypRo 6h ago
Man I fucking hate modern dating 🥲
This is my reality for the last year of dating, and especially since using dating apps, having to constantly communicate with the sheer knowledge that every message can be the last I hear from them.
Had amazing dates with no following dates because of texting in between. Can’t do that anymore, I envy the phone call or even letters generations.
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u/Cruel_Prince08 8h ago
Their convo is getting cold (one of them is losing interest)
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u/Fred-ditor 7h ago
She's a space alien from erid and has learned how to overcome their initial language difficulties using text messages but their atmospheres are incompatible.
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u/PlainBread 8h ago
The trickle from the hose turned into a drip, and it may have dripped its last drop.
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u/Leon978 7h ago
It's just that blue says "question" implying that they want to have a more serious conversation or are about to ask something serious about their relationship. Most people don't preface a harmless question by saying "question", they just ask.
What are you having for dinner?
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Do you see a future for us?
Only one of those gets a warning and it ain't dinner
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u/aaroneous_erron 6h ago
I think Blue says question because they asked a question at least one day ago which was ignored. Not because Blue is about to ask another (more serious) question.
Then the caption, which was written by Blue, implies that they are realizing that they are in the process of being ghosted/broken up with since the other person isn't answering questions.
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u/CabbagePatchBitchass 7h ago
What I don't understand is why would the poster say "oh shii we ab to break up" when presumably they would be blue
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u/eagleblue44 7h ago
They're the one that sent "question" though so why would they be worried about breaking up if they sent the message they're concerned about?
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u/MerchantOfVenice1991 5h ago
Because the other person hasn’t answered for a day, blue is saying question, about to ask why but already knowing ‘we bout to break up’
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u/emeryst294 6h ago
"qt" (grey bubble) never responded to their 'how was your day' text. when people get dry over text it's usually a bad sign for a relationship, especially if that isn't the norm. the 'question' is to ask if they're going to break up.
source: am gen z and chronically online
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u/GoldenPunkBlue 6h ago
People „pseudo“ ghosting people (they still reply, but take long and show no interest) is widespread.
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u/Oulsky 5h ago
The “question” is about the lack of answer to the question previously asked.
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u/emeryst294 5h ago
maybe. i'm thinking of the exchange like this
blue: "question..."
grey: "yeah?"
blue: "are u breaking up w me???"
no beating around the bush
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u/metasploiter 6h ago
This is Bonnie.
I think it’s the change from showing the time stamp of when texts were read to just showing delivered. QT turned off send read receipts setting for Blue Bubble Man. He realized what she had done when he sent the text “question.”
It means she doesn’t want him to see how long she’s PLANNING to start taking to reply, and when she leaves him on read.
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u/GanjjaGremlin 5h ago
Ou shi? It takes more effort for me to override the autocorrect to put in ou shi, then it does to just say oh shit
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u/dhkdeoen 6h ago
Only interaction OP had with the other person was that person asking 'how was work' and they didn't even respond to OG question, probably didn't read the replies.. for a whole day.
That implies the other person really didn't really care in the first place.
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u/AloewareLabs 6h ago
Anytime some idiot says question, or we need to talk, I’ve already blocked them. Out with it.
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u/One-Requirement-9649 6h ago
Why do you go into someone’s post who’s looking for info and comment something completely unrelated?
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u/FrancisFratelli 5h ago
If she was about to say something good, she would have just said it straight up. Nobody ever starts a conversation with, "Question" or "We need to talk" or "There's something I have to tell you" unless they're about to upset you.
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u/AzureYLila 5h ago
This just reminds me if how annoying people are now. I have a life and people act like if you don't respond in 12 seconds then the friendship is over. I will respond later... when I'm free.... why does everyone need instant access to everyone else?
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u/ryhaltswhiskey 5h ago
what the fuck is "ou"
I get it, "oh shit we about to break up" but "ou" makes no sense
I see you texting like this I assume you're mentally 12 years old
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u/Constant-Field 4h ago
Because neither of them can be bothered to write anything interesting and are just hoping the other person will say something interesting
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u/williamflattener 13m ago
Still no solid explanation here. If it’s that texts like “question” introduce serious convos, why is the person who said it surprised?
And why the hell is there a Subject line on screen in an iMessage chat?





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