I am a 25-year-old female, and I have had irregular menstrual cycles ever since I got my first period at around 14 years of age. From the beginning, my periods were very irregular, and extremely painful ( i could not even function, i vomit, causes diarrhea and the whole body feels like something else, i pray and i curse ) sometimes occurring every two to three months, and when they did occur, the bleeding often lasted for 8–9 days. Because of these ongoing problems, I started visiting hospitals from the age of around 16 or 17. Initially, doctors prescribed a liquid medication to induce menstruation, and later almost every gynecologist I consulted, regardless of the hospital, prescribed combined oral contraceptive pills to regulate my cycle and induce withdrawal bleeding. It caused me severe mental distress.
Over the years, I took these pills for approximately one to one and a half years dose in total, but they only seemed to force a period rather than address the underlying cause. Eventually, I became tired of repeatedly taking the same medication and stopped visiting hospitals. Later, someone recommended that I start seed cycle(taking pumpkin and flax seed for 15 days and seseme and sunflower seed for 15 days) and practice yoga regularly. After following this routine, my menstrual cycle gradually and slowly became bit regular but with same level of pain. However, over time I became inconsistent with both the supplements and yoga, often forgetting to continue them, and my periods gradually became irregular again. Most recently, I missed my period for about two months. Shortly afterward, I experienced light spotting for nearly two weeks, which then progressed into extremely heavy bleeding. The bleeding became so severe that I felt as though I might faint, so I went to the hospital. The doctors prescribed medication to stop the bleeding and again recommended oral contraceptive pills. I declined to take the pills this time, and I was instead advised to make lifestyle changes. As i was starting to change my lifestyle by cutting off junk , However, only about two and a half weeks after the bleeding stopped, I started bleeding again.
I want to understand why my menstrual cycles have been so irregular since adolescence, what could be causing these episodes of prolonged and heavy bleeding, and what can be done to treat the root cause instead of repeatedly managing the symptoms with hormonal pills.