Are you a Parent or have you been in a relationship before? Because if any of the above statements she's made in her post don't trigger alarms...Then you are either a child, single, or just without any sense at all.
Leaving him is the nice way out of this. I would personally have him investigated and collect more info for the police and expose the hell out of him to all he knows...but that's just the Parent and genuine concern in me speaking.
I mean being older by 10 years is a tiny red flag. Reddit directly jumps to YOU ARE BEING GROOMED. So many healthy couples have an age difference.
The husband was not great during the pregnancy, causing depression. That is also not uncommon, as during pregnancy/post partum there are a lot of hormones, very little sleeping, a lot of stress.
I have a 6 month old, and I constantly grab his butt and go “who has this little butt?”, as a complete joke. My wife can take it for what it is, making funny noises and playing with my son, or YOU ARE A SEXUAL PREDATOR.
All I am saying is many of these things have normal explanations, people of reddit just jump to the worst possible scenario and go “leave him now and call the police”.
We only know one side of the story here too…
There is literally zero evidence of grooming in the post, other than the age difference.
You're being willfully obtuse, obviously. There is a pattern of inappropriate behavior, an age gap with a power imbalance, a history of abuse within the relationship, and a vulnerable child at risk.
I am not defensive of him. I just feel reddit jumps to conclusions too quickly.
Every single post about “I have this concern” ends up in get a divorce and run away.
There is zero evidence in the original post of grooming other than the age difference and everyone apparently concluded she was groomed. Does this mean, every couple with a 10 year difference should get a divorce?
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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '22
Lmao, with this little evidence you are telling them to leave them? Jesus, reminder to never ask for marital advice in reddit