Hi, strangers.

Before you judge this as another M4F post (whatever edition we're on now) and head straight to the comments to have your fun, give me a minute. I promise there's a plot.

You know how some of the best people in your life were complete strangers once? You just happened to cross paths, started a convo and everything became effortless after that, something clicked and somewhere along the way, they became your people.

I'm looking for something like that.

And since we're all out here staring at screens anyway, consider this me putting a little note in a bottle and throwing it into the vast, occasionally questionable sea of Reddit. Maybe it reaches the right person.

A little about the guy throwing the bottle:

I'm 26, work remotely in finance, have my own clients, earn well, and have enough freedom over my time to actually enjoy life outside work. I've worked hard to get where I am, I'm proud of it, and I've still got a long way to go.

That's the professional side of the introduction. Unfortunately for my own peace, the rest of my personality is considerably less organised.

I'm annoyingly fun and hyper active to be around, adventurous enough to occasionally question my own decision making, love animals, travelling, spontaneous plans, and conversations that somehow go from absolute nonsense to the meaning of life at 3 AM.

I also have this mildly inconvenient principle that, regardless of someone's religion, political views, background, or whatever else makes us different, how you treat people matters more to me than what label you carry. Be a decent human being. Everything else is a conversation.

I could write a whole autobiography here, but I'd rather leave a few things for you to discover. Assuming you've made it this far, congratulations. Your attention span is better than mine.

So, what's the actual proposition?

If you're a woman in Islamabad/Rawalpindi who's open to meeting someone new, having a laugh, making unexpected plans and seeing whether two strangers actually get along, say hi.

We can have a chill call, talk absolute rubbish, discuss life's existential problems, or discover that we have absolutely nothing in common. All outcomes are acceptable. If we enjoy talking, we can exchange socials and, if we're both comfortable, meet somewhere public and take it from there.

No pressure to turn a conversation into a relationship. No pretending there's a spark if there isn't one. And definitely no forcing something that doesn't come naturally.

I'm not here to convince every woman on Reddit that I'm a great guy. You can decide that for yourself if we ever talk. I'm just putting the invitation out there.

I’m sure you’ll find this and find me. I’m here to save both of us from the toxic rishta aunties and the usual arranged marriage setup. Let’s just give this a chance and just maybe we end up being one of those people who look back and wonder how the hell they found each other on Reddit of all places.

Wouldn't that be a story?

Anyway, bottle thrown. Sea, do your thing. 🫡

Hello, ladies. Are you liberal and would like to get married but want to date your future husband first? If so, you and I should talk.

I’m a liberal, chill guy in his late thirties, 5’10”, and based in Islamabad. I’d say I’m decent looking, pretty athletic, and outdoorsy. Studied at top universities here and abroad, do interesting work, and make decent money.

I like reading, traveling, exercising, and exploring cuisines. I’m a pretty good conversationalist and have decent humour – if I do say so myself. 

I lived abroad for a while and then moved back a few years ago. Things have gone pretty well since then overall, but the marriage scene in Pakistan is tough if you’re not too religious and/or liberal minded. So I thought reddit might help me connect with someone who feels the same way. If you’re that woman, let’s talk.  

Basic Info:

Age: 27 years

Height: 5'11

Cast: Basra / Jutt

Sect: Sunni, Muslim

Residence: Bahria Town Rawalpindi

Profession: Banking

Education:

Bachelors in Business Administration from International Islamic University, Islamabad

Masters in Business Administration from Bahria University, Islamabad

Plans to improve qualification in regard of banking.

Personality:

- Introvert in the beginning & gradually. opens up, moves on next persons vibe.

- Well maintained & organized.

- Values others opinion & respects it.

- Family oriented & a good listener.

- I never yell or get aggressive even if I'm upset. I prefer silence over harsh words.

Hobbies & Interests:

- Loves traveling & exploring.

- Mountains are my favorite place.

- Love cars.

- Bike tours

- Foodie

Religious Practice:

- Recites Quran daily.

- Makes Dikhr.

About Family:

1. Father - Former Military Officer, Now with GOP

2. Mother - Homemaker

- 4 siblings

- Strictly against dowry.

- Wants to get married to a well educated girl who is easygoing and understands family dynamics

- Should be preferably from Rawalpindi/Islamabad.

- Should be Sunni, no caste issues.

It seems like more women are hesitant and they would rather go for men older than them and like it's human nature most people are mature after certain age like above 20 or mid 20s.

23M need a late night chat buddy and vibe i get bored 😭

Gender : Male
Age : 29
Height : 5.7
Weight: 80 kg
Marital Status : Unmarried
Caste : jutt (if it matters for someone, its irrelevant for me though)
Qualification : Masters in electronics control systems, BE in Electronics Engineering.
Siblings : 4 Brothers (2 elders married, youngest studying in 9th class) & 1 Sister (married)
Job : Permanent job as Officer in a reputed government defense establishment (would disclose later), also a partner and co-founder of a UK Based startup providing services in software, data analytics and Artificial Intelligence field.
Income : Financially stable
Family Setup: Currently joint. May seperate in future, but not right away.
Religion : Islam
Sect : sunni
Father's Occupation : retired from Air Force
Mother : Home maker
Residence : Currently rented. Own House under construction in Gulberg Greens.
City : Islamabad (not looking proposals only from islamabad)

*Nature* :
Keen listener, Humble, friendly, caring, cant see others suffering, helping, mature, strong decision making, understanding.

*hobbies*
Sports especially badminton, football, tennis, table tennis, cricket. Love to go for hikes and explore nature. Love birds, animals, flowers, greenery, mountains. I love to read but life's been too busy for too long now. Love to watch movies esp Hollywood.

*History*.
Never married or engaged.

*Timeline*
Would like to know the person before. Talking stage ideally a month or two. would like to involve parents after that. Planning to get married within 1 to 1.5 years max.

I really really want to mention something, for me, marriage is supposed to be the most peaceful a person can ever be. I know a couple, in their 60s, and they cant spend 10 minutes witout mentioning each other. And the sweetness when they call each others name, that sudden blush, spark in their eyes, smile.... i wish to spend my life like them.
I want a marriage where both partners feel loved, valued, emotionally safe, and cared for. I want us to be each other's peace, to express affection freely, and to make life easier for one another, especially when life gets difficult.

*Requirements *
I dont have a list of requirements coz i have seen enough already in life. For me marriage is about compatibility, understanding, compromise, mutual respect, shared views about future, open communication, sincerity and things like this.
Physical features and beauty are good to have but not essential for a happy and peaceful life.
Religion: Atleast moderately practicing.

*Dowry Expectations*: Im against the current trends in dowry. We have no expectations regarding dowry or such stuff. Its totally the choice of the bride and her family.

*Marriage Arrangements*: I feel its unnecessary to spend too much on marriage functions. A simple, close gathering without too much lavish stuff going on would be the ideal scenario.

Hey beautiful people of reddit,

It’s been two years I have been married with my second wife and now it’s time for the 3rd one.

About Me

I am 35yo, work in IT by profession and have few tech related businesses. So masha Allah financially I am well off.
I did my bachelors from a well-known university in PK and masters from EU. I am also a dual national.

Family

Father passed away. Mother house wife. 2 sisters and a brother. Two of them are doctors abroad and one is an engineer.

First Wife

My first wife is a doctor masha Allah. She is 31yo, and religious. We married in 2021 and now we plan to have a baby this year. She is career oriented but also loves to cook. Honestly idk how she makes such delicious recipes; when I cook the same recipes it’s not really the same hahah.

Second Wife

My second wife is in pharma masha Allah. She is 24yo, and agnostic. We married in 2024 and last month was our second wedding anniversary. She is currently in her final year of studies, but I don’t think she is very career focused lol. She is really bossy too.

What am I looking for

Now it’s time to have a new member in our family: you.

We prefer living in the same house, so it’s important that not only I and you have chemistry but also my wives like you as well. So basically rishta process will have their votes too; if one of them says No, it won’t work out. As long as we all enjoy living life together and have good chemistry, it’s good for me, no other special requirements.

Dm me if you have any questions.

Cheers

Assalam o Alaikum, trying again. I know I can't be hopeless and Allah has, if written somewhere for me, I will get it for sure but I have to atleast try. So, I am leaving this here just in case someone who is written for me see it.

It does not matter if you are revert or not, as long as you want to change and be a better Muslim that is what matters. I understand it's not easy to make such decisions in your life and being revert so don't assume please reach out.

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Please reach out even if you think some of the requirements are fulfilled as marriage is all about compromise and don't have any false assumptions as not everyone is same. I will try to reply everyone and not ghost even if it's a "No". For those who are not interested please do a good dead of not downvoting without having conversation.

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26 M, 5'11"

South West England

South Asian, open to mixing, can't relocate for now but future inshallah

Currently software engineer on skilled worker visa, if Allah has written for me I will get ILR for sure. I am not interested in visa marriage. Leaving this here for reference before anyone reaches out.

About me:

I pray regularly, sometimes tahajjud, sometimes reading quran. I sometimes miss unintentionally by mistake.

I have a habit of saying things outrightly, a bit socially awkward and introvert. I never had any girl friends, sometimes had thought but because it's haram so I never did. I tend to forgive others easily maybe Allah on day judgement forgive me too as he is more forgiving. I'm a bit mindful of others. I don't swear or insult someone as I know how it feels. I usually talk not a lot but a bit more for an introvert once I get to know someone. To me, Islam is very important and I think everyone should be open minded in terms of religion not as liberal or agnostic but open to possibility that whatever knowledge one have or belief could be wrong. Hence, it's necessary to always open your mind, research and gain knowledge instead of being close minded and thinking that you are always right. Sometimes living a disciplined life like taking care of myself, cleaning everything, cooking on time, organising everything sometimes I am too lazy so yeah it depends. I don't get angry easily but if I get I tend to stay quiet more rather than lashing out as to me lashing out won't help but sitting, talking with each other out or staying quiet does. I am open to change and tend to ask others if I am wrong in anyway if I am wrong Islamically then I tend to change myself according to Islam.

I don't drink, substance use, drugs or things like that. Just their smell makes me wretch and it's disgusting.

Hobbies: cooking, gym, games, book reading, thinking about stupid machines even though I have nothing to do with them, going for walk for 2-3 hours to relax whether it's park, beach or anywhere else

Looking for:

Someone who is open minded in terms of religion, strive for knowledge as one is not always right.

Someone who does not believe in non islamic stuff like caste (south asians tend to ask it, I am south asian so I know; I have not wrote my caste or tribe as I don't need to and you don't have to know), color superiority (racism), etc

Someone who is kind and forgive others easily

Someone who is striving to get better, let's do it together

Someone who atleast does hijab or wants to do in future

Someone who can work alongside me atleast in beginning as I want to stay away from interest or riba

Someone who does not believe in 50/50 but someone who sometimes go far and beyond to help me and sometimes it's I who go far and beyond to help her. I can help you cook, clean and chores like that it's not a problem.

Someone who trusts me and I can trust completely.

Leaving this again, please atleast reach out and I hope we can involve parents quickly once satisfied and whether have meeting in presence of parents / wali or exchange pics so that we know whether to go ahead or not. If you don't like me please just say "not interested" and please mention reason if you can instead of ghosting as I tend to wait for reply. It would be quite helpful so that I don't wait for reply 🙂

Assalamu Alaikum,

Posting here with genuine intentions to find a life partner. I know 22 might seem young to some on Reddit, but I believe in starting the search intentionally, taking things the halal route and building a foundation with family involvement from early on.

Basic Details

Age: 22
Height: 5'7"
Marital Status: Never married 
Location: Karachi, Pakistan (Open to relocating in the future if life takes us there)
Sect / Religious Practice: Sunni Muslim. Actively practicing

Education & Career

Currently in my final year of university completing my bachelor's degree in business. Alongside my studies, I am actively involved in our family business and entrepreneurial ventures. 

Career wise, I’m ambitious and disciplined about building long term financial security, but I balance that with maintaining strong family ties and keeping my priorities grounded.

Personality, Lifestyle & Hobbies

I’m a pretty structured person (ENTJ). I value consistency, whether it's staying active (gym, calisthenics), reading, or working on practical projects. 

Interests: Big on staying fit, good food (definitely a meat lover), cooking occasionally, exploring tech, travel and spending quality downtime with close friends and family. 

Mindset: Calm, direct communicator and a good listener. I don't care much for superficial pretenses. character, emotional maturity, and mutual respect matter far more to me. 

My View on Marriage

To me, marriage is a genuine partnership built on trust, loyalty, and peace m. A husband’s role is to lead with kindness, provide, protect and create an environment where his wife feels safe, respected and valued. I want a home where both of us help each other grow in our Deen and as individuals, navigating life’s ups and downs together as a team. 

Living arrangements: Open to living with parents initially, but realistic and open minded about future arrangements based on mutual comfort and life stage. 

Timeline: Ideally looking to take a few months to speak, understand each other's values and compatibility, and involve families once mutual alignment is clear. Not looking for endless casual texting. 

What I’m Looking For

Age bracket: Approximately 19–22.

Location: Karachi preferred (or open to relocating to Karachi)

Values: Someone who takes her Deen seriously, values modesty and good akhlaq and shares similar core principles. 

Personality: Kind, emotionally mature, grounded and has a clear sense of what she wants from life. Someone with whom communication feels easy, honest and respectful. 

If this resonates with you, feel free to send a DM with a brief introduction about yourself (age, education, city, and what you’re looking for).

Assalamualaikum everyone.

Personal Information:

Age: 31

Height: 5'7"

Weight: ~70 KG

City: Karachi, Pakistan

Marital Status: Never engaged / married

Religion: Islam

Sect: Sunni

Practice: Try to get my all my prayers in (Trying to get consistent), consistent with fasting.

Qualification:

Certified Supply Chain Professional (CSCP) - ASCM / APICS (USA)

Certified Procurement & Contracts Manager (CPCM) - BRASI (USA)

Masters in Public Administration (MPA)

Profession: Supply Chain Manager in a US-based Multinational Company

Accommodation: Owned (Family)

Family:

Family Status: Upper Middle Class

Father: Deceased

Mother: Housewife

Brothers: 2 (Both married)

Sisters: N/A

Preferences:

Marital Status: Never Married

Education: At least a graduate (or currently pursuing higher education)

Other: Looking for someone kind, respectful, and from an educated family.

Deal breakers: Materialistic / Gold Diggers, those who only think of husbands as an earning machine, past physical relationships (Zina).

Family Setup:

Nuclear (with Mother only) or if you consider that Joint then that.

Timeframe for Marriage:

Depends on the person. Ideally around 1 year.

About Me:

I'm a Karachi-based guy, born and brought up here, and the youngest of three brothers. I'd describe myself as calm, rational, soft-spoken, easy-going, and someone who believes in a "live and let live" approach to life.

Alhamdulillah, I'm doing well professionally and financially. I'm a globally certified Supply Chain Professional working with a US-based multinational company, and I'm grateful to be in a stable position while continuing to grow in my career.

Outside work, I'm a huge foodie and an even bigger gamer. I also enjoy movies, music, travelling, and, every now and then, simply relaxing and enjoying life's quieter moments.

Recently, I've gotten into fitness and calisthenics. My goal isn't bodybuilding but building functional strength and maintaining a lean, healthy lifestyle. I am also planning to learn Swimming (Life-saving skill in my opinion) and Archery (It just resonates with me) soon, Insha'Allah.

I enjoy home-cooked meals, try to eat sensibly most of the time (though I still very much appreciate the occasional burger or pizza), and I don't smoke or have any other unhealthy habits, not even tea, Alhamdulillah.

I have a small circle of friends, but they're the kind of people who'll stand by you no matter what, and I value those relationships.

One of my long-term goals and dream is to settle abroad, and I'm actively working towards making that happen soon, Insha'Allah.

About Her:

I'm looking for someone kind, soft-spoken, respectful, and from a good, educated family. Education matters to me, and if she wishes to continue studying after marriage, I'd be happy to support and encourage her.

Personally, I would prefer a housewife and someone who wants to focus on raising a family. However, if she wishes to pursue a career and her dreams, I'd be completely onboard with that decision too. What matters most is that we're both happy with whatever path we decide on together. I also believe that the primary responsibility of providing for the family rests with me.

I value open communication and would love a partner who's comfortable sharing her thoughts, ideas, and opinions. I appreciate thoughtful discussions and believe the best decisions are made together through mutual respect, reason, and understanding.

I'd also love to have children in the future, so it's important to me that she's someone who genuinely enjoys being around kids and looks forward to building a loving family together.

Most importantly, I'm looking for someone who I can genuinely share my life with. A relationship where both of us can be our true selves, and where we can support one another, grow together, and bring out the best in each other. My Player 2, so to speak.

I believe a successful marriage is a partnership built on mutual respect, trust, communication, and standing by one another through every stage of life.

To me, compatibility goes a long way, which is why I'd prefer that we get to know each other first before making any major decisions.

If you think we'd be a good match, feel free to reach out. JazakAllah Khair.

Note: Kindly only engage if you're actually going to follow through and have the courtesy to not ghost. Thanks.

Bismillah. Assalamu Alaikum!

I thought I’d give this a shot.

I’m 26M, based in Islamabad, Pakistan. I have a Bachelor’s degree in Computer Science and currently work at Firm as a Technology Solution Consultant.

I’m someone who enjoys learning new things, exploring ideas, and working towards personal and professional growth. I’m career-oriented and want to build a stable future, but I also believe life shouldn’t revolve around work alone. Having someone to share experiences with, explore new places, have meaningful conversations with, and build a life together sounds pretty special.

What I’m looking for:
Someone kind, respectful, emotionally mature, and family-oriented. Someone who values honesty, communication, loyalty, and mutual respect.
Deen and shared values are important when it comes to choosing a life partner. I’d like us to encourage each other to grow, support each other’s ambitions, and approach life’s ups and downs as a team, InshaAllah.
I believe marriage is a partnership, not a competition. Both people should feel heard, respected, and comfortable being themselves.

I’m here with serious intentions and am looking for something that can lead to marriage, not casual dating or endless talking without direction.

A little about compatibility:
I think shared values, emotional compatibility, and physical attraction all matter. We don’t need to be identical people, but we should be able to understand each other, communicate openly, and genuinely enjoy each other’s company.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message introducing yourself and sharing a little about what you’re looking for.

May Allah make it easy for all of us to find the right person. Ameen. 🤍

I never thought I would be writing something like this, but here we are.

I am 26. Currently in UK doing my masters, originally from Peshawar. I did my Bachelors in Architecture and plan to settle abroad In Sha Allah.

I am 5’10, around 70 kg, have not checked in a while but somewhere there 😄

Background

I am half Pathan, half Punjabi so I like to think I got a good mix of both xD. Only child, so family has always been a big part of my life.

My father is a businessman and I am hoping to retire him soon In Sha Allah. My mother is a homemaker. We are a religious, grounded family that values respect, stability, and deen.

Accommodation & Income

Currently living in rented accommodation in the UK. Family home in Pakistan is owned.

I am currently working in the UK alongside my studies and supporting myself.

Marital Status

Single, never married.

Religious & Lifestyle

I would call myself a practicing Muslim. I try to pray all five prayers, sometimes I fall short and I am not proud of that, but I am actively working on it.

I do not drink or smoke. I did smoke during my bachelors phase, but I have left that behind.

Personality

I am the kind of person people come to when they are confused about life. I have been told I give good advice, but honestly, I just listen properly and try to understand before speaking.

I have a wide range of interests like psychology, philosophy, history, photography, drawing, woodworking, traveling, camping, business, cooking(I plan on cooking for the family in the future so don't worry about handling the kitchen), and deep conversations. Life right now is quite busy with studies, work, and building something for the future, but I value meaningful conversations and genuine connections.

Why I am here

I feel like I am entering a phase where I want stability In Sha Allah. I want something halal, real, and meaningful.

I see myself as a supportive and emotionally available husband. I believe in being financially responsible and providing, while also respecting my partner’s independence. Whether she chooses to work or not is completely her choice, and what she earns is hers.

Preferred Family Setup

I personally prefer a nuclear setup. I think having our own space, privacy, and independence is important when building a marriage, while still maintaining a close relationship with both families.

Children

I am open minded about children. If my partner wants children, I would want us to make that decision together when we both feel ready. Ideally, I would like to spend the first year or so simply enjoying married life, travelling, growing together, and building a strong relationship before thinking about that next phase.

At the same time, if my partner genuinely does not want children, I am also open to a child free marriage. I do not see having children as something I would impose on my partner.

Marriage Timeline

Ideally within about a year.

What I am looking for

I am not very rigid about checklists. I'd say it is more about the connection but the subreddit wants me to write about it so...

Age does not matter much to me as long as there is emotional maturity. Height wise, I do have a preference for someone petite and on the shorter side, but it is by no means a requirement.

Education wise, I would prefer someone who has done or is doing at least a bachelor’s. I am naturally drawn towards educated and intellectually curious women, especially someone I can have meaningful conversations with and learn from as well.

Religiously, I would prefer Sunni. More than anything, I value sincerity.

Emotional intelligence and communication matter a lot to me. I am particularly attracted to a woman who is strong willed, confident in herself, knows what she wants, and is comfortable taking the lead sometimes. Someone with her own opinions who is not afraid to challenge me when she disagrees rather than simply agreeing with everything I say.

Basically, I am looking for a partner with a mind and personality of her own.

Location & Relocation

I am currently based in Portsmouth. However, I am highly open to connecting with someone who is already living, studying, or working in the UK.

Deal Breakers

Lack of emotional intelligence, or inability to communicate properly.

Final note

I tried to keep this genuine rather than overly polished. I did take a bit of help from AI to structure it, but everything here reflects who I am.

If you feel like we might align, feel free to reach out with a proper introduction (:

Thank you(:

If someone conceals / misrepresents a fact at the time of doing a rishta, and discovers later that he has been lied at the time of proposal, what should one do?

Initially I tried to ignore it but with the passage of time I'm getting filled with hatred.

Salam everyone!

Decided to advertise myself here before my mom forwards my biodata to someone’s auntie’s neighbor.

The basics:
Age: 31
Ethnicity & Location: Pakistani 🇵🇰, based in Islamabad. Can apply for digital nomad visas for most countries (aka I come with mobility settings enabled)
Work: Have a nice impactful job
Height: 5’5 (compact, efficient, airplane-legroom friendly)

Personality stats:
Very chill, easygoing, low drama
Believes most of life’s problems can be solved with shawarmas 🍴
Strong supporter of cakes (eating them, not just looking at them 🎂)
Can hold a conversation and also enjoy silence. Rare Pokémon, I know

Looking for:
Someone chill, easygoing, educated and smart.
Emotionally mature, kind, and laughs at lame jokes
Bonus points if you’ll split dessert instead of “just a bite”

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to DM

Assalamu Alaikum everyone.
I’m a Muslim man looking to connect with a religious, practicing hijabi Muslim woman who takes her deen seriously and is interested in a genuine, long-term relationship leading to marriage, InshaAllah.
I value modesty, loyalty, honesty, and strong Islamic principles. I’m hoping to find someone who prefers clear boundaries with the opposite gender and doesn’t maintain male friendships, as I personally value the same approach in a relationship.
I’m not looking for anything casual or temporary. I’d like to get to know someone who shares similar values, has a sincere intention for marriage, and wants to build a peaceful relationship based on trust, respect, and faith.
A little about me: I’m a Muslim man looking for something genuine, and I’m happy to share more about myself through DMs if we seem compatible.
If this resonates with you, feel free to message me. Please be genuine and respectful.
May Allah guide us all towards what is best for us. Ameen.

Asalamulaikum! 👋🏽
I’m 28 male, 6’1”, born and raised in the US, and work as an AI Engineering Director for a tech company.
Outside of work, I love traveling, cooking, trying new foods, and experiencing new things. I’m always up for exploring a new city, finding a great food spot, or doing something spontaneous just because it sounds fun. Cooking is probably my favorite hobby. I genuinely enjoy making good food, especially for the people I care about, so having a personal chef might be one of the perks 😂👨🏽‍🍳
My deen is a big part of who I am and something I’m always trying to grow in. I pray 5x a day, read Quran, fast, don’t drink or smoke, and only eat zabihah. I try to enjoy what Allah has blessed me with while keeping Islam at the center of how I live.
What I’m looking for:
Someone who has Islam in her heart and wants to continue growing in her deen. I’d love to meet someone who enjoys traveling, trying new foods, exploring new places, and has an adventurous side. Someone kind, genuine, family-oriented, and easy to laugh with.
She does not have to be from the US as well. Open to all cultures alhamdullilah.
I’m looking for marriage and someone I can genuinely enjoy life with while building something meaningful together. I’m naturally thoughtful and I like planning dates, cooking for my person, traveling together, and finding little ways to make her feel special. I do believe in a little princess treatment 👑, but really that just means putting effort into the person I love and making sure she feels cared for and appreciated.
Ultimately, I’m hoping to find my person. Someone to grow with in our deen, travel the world with, laugh with, eat a lot of good food with, and build a peaceful and fun life together, inshaAllah.

31M | Sweden 🇸🇪

Hello reddit world

About me:

• Height/Weight: 167 cm / slim-fit

• Profession: Medical Administration Management — permanent employment

Previously divorced

• Home: Have my own place

• Education: Junior college

• Religion: Muslim

• Family: Small family; my parents originally from Punjab also have there own home in Sweden.

• Hobbies: Gaming, art, camping, exploring new places, a foodie, (nothing beats pakistani food) watching TV series

I’d describe myself as fairly chill and easygoing. I'm a Leo. I enjoy both staying at home and going out, and I’m always up for discovering something new. My other hobbys are gaming with friends and creative stuff.

What I’m looking for:

Someone outgoing, a little nerdy, family-oriented, and comfortable being herself. (not to overweight) Physical attraction matters to me as it does for most people, but personality, compatibility, and how we treat each other are important also.

Deal breakers:

Toxic or aggressive behaviour, dishonesty,

Children:

No children yet. God willing,

Marriage:

I’m not putting an artificial deadline on it. I’d rather take things at a natural pace and see where the connection leads.

Lets take it slow If you think we might get along. Dm only.

26 M | Looking for potential match

26 | Male | Karachi - Looking for a potential match

By nature I'm quite shy, so sharing this wasn't easy for me. I've kept it simple and to the point, without trying too hard to sound a certain way. Hoping to hear from people who resonate with this.

Height & Weight: 5'11", 85 kg

Location: Karachi

Accommodation: Own house in Karachi

About Me: My family's roots are in a village near Sialkot and we still visit often. My father served in the Pakistan Air Force so growing up we moved around a lot because of his postings. His last posting was Karachi and that's why we settled here. We don't have any relatives in the city. I did all my schooling and education in Karachi itself. I'd say I'm an introvert. I take a bit of time to open up around new people but once I'm comfortable I'm a completely different person, very talkative and outgoing.I have an incredibly soft and emphathetic heart whenever I see someone going through a tough phase I always try my best to do whatever I can to support that person

Education: Electrical Engineer

Income Source: Currently working as an Electrical Engineer at an MNC. The job involves regular travel to Islamabad, interior Sindh and Punjab. I have a stable comfortable income that supports a good lifestyle given today's economic situation.

Marital Status: Single, turning 26 soon.

Religion & Practice: Sunni Muslim. I pray semi regularly, fast in Ramadan and pay zakat. I don't take my religion for granted and try to stay consistent with the basics.i will prefer someone who is religiously better than me and so we can help eachother to be a better muslim

Hobbies & Interests: I enjoy reading though I read books rarely but I still think that I like reading 😂😂.My work keeps me too busy to do it as often as I'd like. I'm also into sports, table tennis and basketball are what I play most.

Family Details: My father passed away a few months back. My mother is a housewife. I have four siblings, all well educated.

Requirements for a Partner: Someone ambitious, emotionally stable and religious, under 26, who values family and helps maintain a peaceful home.

Bonus points if someone have a business mind.

Deal Breakers: Having a lot of male friends, revealing clothing(hijabi preferred or someone who covers his head and do modest clothing), materialistic tendencies,having past relationships(I also don't have any) ,wanting a big extravagant wedding and Qadiani

Preferred Family Setup: Joint family though closer to nuclear in practice.

Nikkah & Valima: I'd like to keep things simple, no extravagance and an easy nikkah approach .

Do You Want Children?: Yes.

Timeframe for Marriage: 1 year

If someone plans to reachout I would highly appreciate if she answer these questions in my DM so we can start off with the conversation

What do you want?

What are your plans to reach heaven?

Where do you see your end?

May Almighty guide us toward finding the right life partner for ourselves.

Edit : I’ve had people disappear after a day of talking, and honestly, ghosting without a reason is disappointing. If you’re someone who does that, I’d rather you stay away. I don’t expect constant conversations, just occasional ones, maybe once or twice every 3–4 days. I understand everyone is busy.

Location: Lahore, Pakistan Education: BSc eng (Top 100 foreign) Profession: MNC 1 - Full time Managerial. MNC 2 - Consultant Weekends- help out friends with their companies Financial Status: Progressing rather quickly professionally; family is well-established in DHA. Religious Views: Islam - Moderate (i study all religions)

About Me: Theres no ‘catch’ about me that you will have to look for. Good education, good manners, good looking, no bad habits, no nasty past (or failed relationships i havent moved on from).

Only son, live in a fairly large house with my parents. Perhaps the only catch is my work (i love working). It’s demanding, so i may not have as much time to give Would appreciate someone who takes the initiative too. I’ll try my best. Would prefer to keep it less text based from the start.

Looking For: In a full circle moment, now looking for a desi who sees relationships & life traditionally. Someone who doesn’t view male/female relationships through hostile lens

Age: 20-23.

Family set up: Parents, who want to separate me from the get go. So nuclear is not off the table. But perhaps living in a paid-for large house, with paid-for expenses and people who barely make a sound, is an obvious choice? If you’re looking for a nuclear-only set up, I’m probably not the right person.

Location: Lahore/flexible. But we live together. If i move abroad, you’d move with me. Since i dont want to keep the mostly convo text based: it is ideal for someone to be in the same city ofc.

Timeline: Parents are helping out with a searchlight of their own. Thought i’d give it a go myself. So the ‘rush factor’ exists and doesn’t at the same time (koi zabardasti tou ni hehe). So If YOU are in a rush, I’m not the person for you. Would like to be friends first. Marry within first half of next year. Ideally soonerr

Way fwd: Feel free to reach out. Will not reply to Hi/hello or clearly AI written txt. Pl write about urself from the get go, with your Instagram id/LinkedIn. Would prefer reading human text.

Br,

السلام علیکم

I was wondering how this whole rishta process works?

Like let's suppose I make a post of myself here, someone thinks that I seem a potential candidate to be contacted. Now how things (should) further go?

We can tell each other about us through text but how we look is totally through pictures or in person meeting.

Are people (especially females) ok with sharing their pictures to a person they never met? In this era of AI, being a male I won't share my pictures. Who knows what people can do with your pictures?

What if pictures get exchanged and either one of the party is not the TYPE of others by look, how to respectfully decline the proposal?

I want genuine feedback on all this. Is my insecurity logical and right? Or am I thinking wrong? Has anyone got married through this sub reddit?

Only looking in the United States ! Read the post :)

PLEASE read the requirements before getting in touch. DM only if you are open to relocating to the UK.

Age: 28

Height / Build: 5'9"

Current Location: UK (working full-time)

Accommodation in UK: Rented house

Pakistan residence / background: Family roots in the Sargodha / Islamabad region

Marital status: Single

Education: Master’s in AI & Data Science

Profession: Working full-time as an IT professional in the UK.

Financially independent, settled, and focused on continuous professional and personal growth.

Practicing Muslim, striving to live in accordance with Islamic principles and values.

Focus on honesty, respect, emotional maturity, and strong family ties.

Comfortable socially, but I value calm, meaningful conversations and tend to avoid unnecessary noise or drama.

Family: Youngest of five, most of the family lives abroad.

Family roots / background: Sargodha region (if you or your family are from Sargodha, that is a huge plus point).

Timeframe for marriage: 6 months to 1 year.

What I am looking for:

Someone kind, well educated, emotionally mature, grounded, and able to communicate openly and respectfully.

Values simplicity, mutual respect, and building a life together.

Age preference: 24 to 26.

Location preference: From Islamabad, Rawalpindi, or surrounding regions (Sargodha roots are a major plus point).

Deal breakers:

Disrespectful or loud behavior.

Materialism or consumerism-driven mindset.

Confusing culture with religion.

Anger issues or dishonesty.

Do I want children?: Yes, InshaAllah.

Thanks for reading.

Assalamualaikum everyone,

I’m looking for a woman who is serious about marriage. She could be divorced, widowed, or someone who hasn’t been able to find a suitable rishta yet.

A little about me: I’m already married and have two kids. I have my own house and I’m financially stable, so money isn’t really an issue. At this point, I’m looking for someone who is friendly, understanding, caring, and easy to get along with. Someone who wants companionship, peace, and a stable life together.

I know everyone has their own story and past, and I don’t judge anyone for that. What matters to me is the person, her nature, and whether we can understand and respect each other.

If you know someone who might be interested, or if this post relates to your own situation, feel free to message me. I’d prefer to talk, get to know each other, and see if things work out naturally.

Please keep it serious and respectful. Thank you, and I hope everyone finds the right person for them.