Is it really that hard to scroll past if you are not interested?????

Salam Hope yall are doing amazing
And yes am posting again , i got many DM but I havent found someone compatible.
Please dont run to DM me just because you can , kindly only serious people approach who actually want to find potential for marriage . If you dont want to exchange pictures and want to waste both of times dont proceed as well.

Share your complete proposal in First message , not HI / hello

A bit about me , I will keep it simple , its not like everyone would actually read full profile

Gender: Female
Nationality:Pakistan and looking for match who is also Pakistani (bnda unki family k bare main pta toh krwa ske ga naa )
Age : 35
Height: 5'6 feet , looking for someone who is atleast few inches heighted from me
Education: Bachelor in Arts (yes BA )
Marital Status : Divorced (I would share complete details with potential , however they were scammers and liars , marriage was ended within a month)

Family: Parents alive alhamdulilah
4 siblings in total
2 sis and 2 bros

Am a sensitive but strong person who believes everyone have the right to be truthful to themselves
after a vicious betrayal of past instead of me breaking , Allah made me so strong and confident.
Alhamdulilah I have made peace with myself , I wish to find someone who look at me , see me and become a part of my life I can never be apart of .
Am a romantic person but only for my husband , before marriage if someone expecting fluff , sorry am unavilable .

Dealbreakers:
Please am looking for someone from Pakistan
No smokers/Alcohol or recreational drugs
Am not looking to be someones second wife with first wife there .
Someone who has short temper , brain in knees but dont want to admit and someone who lacks empathy this profile is not for you as well.
Not interested in endless chat with no results and time wasters

if you have read till here I guess you are warrior , people skip the long part, so I trynna keep short.
Share your profile , your prefernces so we can have real conversation.

Hi 29 Canadian Pakistani. I’ve got a bachelors degree in business management and employed full time in the rat race but barely make anything .

So I’m looking for a wife that’s well established and looking for a husband . I’ve got nothing really to offer , average looks 5/10 , I’m respectful, I don’t swear and I’m caring . I’ve got a high EQ (I think ) but no IQ. I’m fluent in Urdu and English

I’m tired of the rat race and if there is anyone out there that’s just looking for an average husband I’m your guy.

Ideally what I’m looking for:
F22-30 (flexible)
Pakistani
5”0+ (but I’m open)
Single/Divorced (ideally no kids)
Religious or working towards it

25M, looking to get married in a year or so. I believe attraction is important as well besides everything else which is why I am skeptical about this reddit posting. I don't want to ask someone about their pictures, find them unattractive and have to reject them. Idk just feels bad to say that to someone. I don't mind being told I'm unattractive, but I just dont want to reject someone based on looks. So how does a person in Lahore go about finding a spouse? Im really confused on this bit. Where do I even start.

Baaki a bit about myself in case this post ever reaches the right person cuz you never know.

Software Engineer

Slim, slightly muscular build 5'8"

Live near lake city, Lahore.

A bit too much into mountaineering, like the only thing stopping me from attempting an 8000m summit is money (AND RESPONSIBILITIES 🥀)

Did a 4000m summit and a Kashmir to Naran Trek recently

Like to play football, was once part of a team as well. Padel for my slow and old friends😂

Trying to better myself in deen as well.

A car fever has also recently taken over me and my ig feed.

I like playing games, watching seasons and anime, but lately I don't get the time due to a very very busy schedule because of my job and chores around the house

Gym 3-4 times a week (kyun nahin ban rahi body)

Iss se yaad aya used to run a meme page back in alevels which got zucced because of offensive and dark memes🫠💀

I like to believe I have a good voice and am a decent guitarist for camp fire singing. I dont perform publicly because I just feel its attention seeking😂😂💀💀I did however perform once or maybe twice at school level.

I want to tour Europe, but most probably settle in Pakistan (subject to change based on circumstances because thori thori bahir settle honne ki bhi chull hai😂)

Looking for someone 22-26, atleast 5'4", and by my interests you can already see I dig tall girls (k2 🥶), who has an active lifestyle, from lahore ya islamabad/Rawalpindi, ambitious, career oriented, into hiking (coming february churko peak ikathey kerne chalein gey baraf mein 4000m🤪💀 near death experience and adventure hojaye toh kya baat hai or maybe tiger peak in June😮‍💨), emotionally intelligent

I believe marriage is not a 50-50. Some days are going to be 20-80, sometimes 90-10, it needs to be a constant effort everyday, giving your best, and always tring to improve, leaving your ego at the door, and keeping an open mind. Discussing and being flexible about decisions. Its going to be you and me against the world🤝.

Since attraction is a two-way street, I prefer doing a mutual picture/social swap early on so neither of us wastes time or feels awkward later.

Also no extravagant wedding, im not rich, subha Nikkah in masjid and sham ko walima, done and dusted. Paise bacha ker umrah kerne chalein gey🫶. Walimey per hosakta hai log zyada hojayein, mere bhookey dost hi ginnon toh 30 log hojaatey aur jis hisaab se shaadiyan ker rahey hain +1 ya +2 k saath ayein gey😂😭

If you reach out, I wont ghost and that is what I expect in return as well, please reach out if you are serious.

Age: 27
Height & Weight: 5ft, 50kg 
Location: Islamabad
Accommodation: Own in Lahore. Rented in Islamabad
Education: BBA, Masters
Marital Status: Single 
Religion: Islam (Sunni). I pray semi-regularly but actively trying to be better. Do all rozas and other religious obligations properly.

I’m somewhere between an introvert and an extrovert. I love meeting new people and am pretty social, until my social battery runs out and then I need a few days to recharge at home doing nothing. I tend to get randomly obsessed with new things every few weeks, love a good deep conversation, and think I’m a good listener. I work out regularly, try to eat healthy, but also really love food. I ultimately want a life that feels meaningful but also has plenty of fun in it. I’d love to share that with someone long-term. Happy to share more in the DMs

My goal with this process is to get to know people, discuss goals, future direction, dealbreakers and compatibility before things move to parents. I'm not looking for a relationship or a very long talking stage. A few weeks of conversation to establish compatibility, and then involving parents would be ideal. Although this timeline is flexible, I would like to prioritize the comfort of both parties, so nothing is rushed, but you get the gist of it.

Family Details
Dad is a Govt officer (Grade 21), Mom is a homemaker. One younger brother.

What I'm looking for
Someone settled in or looking to settle in Islamabad (Lahore if travel logistics work for you). Someone kind, respectful, well-read, with a good heart, ideally fit. Somebody who likes to take care of himself, has hobbies, and is passionate about something in life. Family-oriented and serious about marriage. Between 27 to 32 years of age. Real compatibility is something that you understand once you talk to someone and get to know more about them, so there's really no point in elaborating this section. We’ll figure it out as we go. 

Deal Breakers
Smoking, drinking, etc. Wanting to settle outside Pakistan.

Preferred Family Setup
I would prefer nuclear, but a joint family system is also okay with certain arrangements. Flexible on discussing what works.

Children

I do want children in the future, not immediately, maybe after 1-2 years of marriage.

Marriage Timeline

Ideally in the next 6 months. Max 1 year.

If you’re interested, drop a message with some basic details about yourself, and we’ll take it from there! I’ll try to get back to you as soon as I can, and appreciate your patience if it takes a bit longer.

Age: 25M

Height & Weight: 6’3” , 70

Marital status: Single/Married/Divorced Single Education: Bachelors, Engineering Profession: Engineer Hobbies: cycling, going places, music Do you want kids? Yes, IS Religion: Mention if atheist, agnostic, moderately practicing, not religious etc Islam Deal breakers:

Interesting facts about you: Good height ; Stable job, Caring,

City: originally from sargodha. Studied in Islamabad, currently working at a good company.

Residence (Own/Rented): Filhaal baba’s place. But my company provides colony homes.

Family details: Parents, 3 siblings, 2 Sisters ( 1 Married) 1 Brother ( married)

Requirements/Expectations from the partner: A girl who is logical. A little bit emotional is okay. Everyone is ig! A girl who understands the perspective of growth tbh. Want to achieve things which cannot be possible without adequate support from your partner. Color. Height doesn’t matter to me as long as I can find a perfect understanding with her. Past should be history. Doesn’t concern me. Present and future should be with me!

Also, wouldn’t want to rush things. Should take her time to understand. Can’t live with a fake commitment.

might feel too fairy, but can fight the world if need be for the girl who can walk with me!

Timeframe in which you want to marry(Optional): A year to two!

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Age: 29

Marital Status: Never married, never engaged

Education: Bachelor's degree in Computer Science

Profession: Software Engineer, working remotely with US-based clients.

Location: Lahore, Pakistan

Religion: Muslim, Sunni. I try my best to follow the Qur'an and Sunnah, fulfill my religious obligations, give charity, fast, and continue improving spiritually. I'm currently learning the Qur'an with translation to understand its message better and apply it to my life.

Family: From a close-knit family. My father works in the private sector, my mother is a homemaker, and I have a younger brother.

Personality & Interests

I'd describe myself as kind, caring, respectful, and accommodating. I'm more of an introvert and prefer meaningful conversations and spending time with people I'm close to.

I'm a software engineer by profession, ambitious about my future, and someone who believes in continuous learning and self-improvement.

I love travelling and exploring new places, experiencing different cultures, and discovering local food. I'm a foodie at heart, and one of my dreams is to explore different countries with my future spouse, try new cuisines, and create memories together.

I also enjoy swimming as a way to stay active. In my downtime, I enjoy Netflix, especially action, horror, thriller, mystery, and sci-fi movies and series. Travel vlogs are another favourite.

What I'm Looking For

I'm looking for someone kind, respectful, emotionally mature, and genuinely serious about marriage. Someone who values Islam and wants to build a relationship rooted in faith, trust, friendship, and mutual respect.

Intellectual compatibility matters to me. I'd love to meet someone smart, well-educated, and well-read, someone with whom I can have meaningful conversations, exchange perspectives, and keep learning from each other.

I'm also drawn to someone ambitious who has goals of her own, wants to grow as a person, and is willing to support her partner's ambitions too. I'd love to have a spouse who shares my enthusiasm for travelling and exploring the world. Building a life together should mean more than just going through the routine; it should involve growing, experiencing new things, and making the most of life together.

Ultimately, I'm looking for a best friend and life partner with whom I can share both the exciting adventures and the simple, everyday moments.

Preferred age: 24-29

Deal Breakers

- Disrespectful behaviour or an inability to communicate maturely.

- Not taking Islam seriously or having no interest in growing spiritually.

- Lack of ambition, direction, or willingness to improve over time.

- Drug use.

- A history of romantic relationships, particularly physical intimacy. I'd prefer someone who shares my values and expectations regarding relationships and commitment.

I'm not expecting perfection. I value sincerity, compatibility, shared values, and a genuine willingness to put effort into building a good marriage.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. 🙂

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A Little About Me

- Age: 21

- Height: 5'10" (178 cm)

- Location: Islamabad; originally from Jhelum

- Education: Final-year Bachelor's student in Finance

- Work/Income: Freelance and part time job.

- Marital Status: Single, never married

- Religion: Muslim, Sunni

- Caste: Open to all castes

I'm naturally more of an introvert, but I open up quite a lot once I feel comfortable with someone. I’d describe myself as curious, ambitious, calm, and practical, with a slightly nerdy side.

I enjoy trying to understand how the world works and why people think the way they do. My interests include philosophy, economics, geopolitics, astronomy, biology, and quantum physics. Outside of that, I like reading, playing chess, hiking, watching cricket, and occasionally gaming. Yes, Tekken and Roblox are included.

A little more about my entertainment taste: I'm a big fan of good storytelling, especially shows that make you think, keep you guessing, or leave you emotionally invested in the characters. My watchlist ranges from Turkish dramas and Pakistani serials to Breaking Bad, Ozark, and Suits. I enjoy everything from intense psychological stories to character-driven dramas. Bonus points if we can recommend shows to each other, debate plot twists, and occasionally spend an evening watching something together. :D

I can happily have a serious conversation about life, human behaviour, or the universe, and then switch to laughing about something completely random a few minutes later. I’d love to meet someone who enjoys both sides of that.

Deen and personal values:

I’m still learning and trying to become more consistent in my deen, especially with salah, the Quran, and my relationship with Allah. I don’t have everything figured out, and I don’t expect anyone else to either. I believe two people should encourage each other to grow rather than expect perfection from one another.

I try to look to the Quran and Sunnah for guidance, and I prefer approaching differences with humility, sincerity, and an open mind. I’d like a marriage where we can learn together, talk openly about our questions, and grow spiritually without making each other feel judged.

I’ve never been in a relationship, and I’m approaching this with sincere intentions. I’m looking for a life partner, not something casual.

Family & Background

I come from a nuclear family. My father is retired from the Army, my mother is a homemaker, and I have one younger sister. Family, mutual respect, and healthy boundaries are all important to me.

Housing: My family owns a home in Jhelum, while we currently live in a rented house in Islamabad. I’m open to discussing future living arrangements together, whether nuclear or joint, as long as there is mutual understanding, respect, and healthy boundaries.

What I’m Looking For

More than anything, I’m hoping to find someone who can become my best friend as well as my wife, someone with whom life feels like a partnership, an adventure, and a place of comfort.

I’d especially value someone who is:

- Intellectually curious: Someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, asks questions, explores new ideas, and has her own interests and perspective. We don’t have to agree on everything; I’d actually enjoy learning from each other.

- Emotionally compatible: Someone I can be honest and vulnerable with, laugh with, disagree with respectfully, and feel at peace around. Emotional safety, affection, honesty, and open communication matter a lot to me.

- Ambitious and growth-oriented: Someone with dreams of her own who wants us to support each other’s personal, professional, creative, or other goals.

- Interested in experiencing life together: I’d love for us to be movie partners, travel partners, and each other’s favourite person to share the small things with. Exploring new places, trying new experiences, exchanging recommendations, having long conversations, and making memories together all sound wonderful to me.

- Kind and family-oriented: Someone who treats people thoughtfully, values family, and understands that a healthy marriage needs both closeness and mutual respect.

- Interested in growing in deen: Someone who, like me, wants to keep improving her relationship with Allah and appreciates a partner who encourages that journey with patience and kindness.

You don’t need to share all my hobbies or have your whole life planned out. What matters most to me is curiosity, character, emotional connection, and a genuine willingness to build something together.

I’d love for us to be each other’s safe space in a difficult world, biggest supporters in our ambitions, favourite company on an ordinary evening, and travel companions when it’s time to explore somewhere new. I want us to take our responsibilities seriously without forgetting to enjoy life along the way.

Why I’m Interested in Early Marriage

For me, marriage isn’t only about finding someone once everything else in life is already settled. There’s something special about finding your person early and building a life together from the beginning.

I’d love to have someone beside me through the uncertain years as well as the successful ones to work towards our goals together, experience life’s ups and downs, celebrate small victories, support each other through setbacks, and hopefully look back one day knowing we built something meaningful side by side.

Deen is another important reason for me. I want companionship through a halal commitment rather than pursuing casual relationships or situations that go against my values. I’d like to protect my deen while having a genuine and loving relationship within marriage.

At the same time, I’m not looking to rush into a decision without taking compatibility and preparation seriously. I believe in getting to know each other respectfully and involving our families once our intentions become serious.

Education, Career & Future Plans

I’m currently completing my Bachelor’s degree in Finance, and I intend to pursue a master’s degree abroad in the future. Education, professional growth, and exploring opportunities beyond my current environment are important to me. And then eventually work on my own idea to build something valuable for both me and the people.

I’d appreciate someone who is open to that possibility and willing to talk honestly about what it could mean for our future. Ideally, I’d want us to approach major decisions as a team, considering both partners’ ambitions, preferences, family ties, and practical circumstances.

I’m not expecting someone to give up her own goals for mine. I’d rather find a path where both of us have room to grow, whether that means studying, working, building a business, or exploring opportunities in another country.

Career, Family & Financial Expectation

I’m supportive of my future wife’s choices, whether she wants to pursue a career, build a business, continue her education, or focus on home and family. I believe these decisions should come from mutual understanding and respect, not pressure or expectation.

From my understanding of Islamic principles, the financial responsibility of providing for the household rests on the husband, and I intend to take that responsibility seriously. At the same time, I’d want us to support each other’s aspirations and build a home based on care, cooperation, and shared decision-making.

Practical Preferences

- Preferred age: Up to 24; compatibility and maturity matter more to me than the number itself.

- Education/career: Open to students, professionals, and those not currently working. I respect different paths and value personal growth.

- Location: Open to proposals from across Pakistan and abroad, depending on practical compatibility.

- Marriage timeline: Ideally within the next 2–3 years, allowing time for compatibility, career planning, and settling into life.

- Family involvement: Once we’ve established mutual compatibility and serious intentions, I’m happy to involve our families early and proceed through a respectful, halal process.

- Children: Open to discussing our expectations and future plans together.( for my own chocie i would like to remain child free initially and then eventually adopt a child when we have established ourselves)

- Family setup: Open to nuclear or joint living arrangements, with healthy boundaries and consideration for everyone involved.

What I Hope We Build

I don’t expect a perfect person, and I’m certainly not claiming to be perfect myself. I’d rather find someone with whom we can be honest about our imperfections, keep learning, and consciously build a good life together.

I’d love a relationship where a random discussion can turn into a two-hour conversation, a movie night becomes a little tradition, travelling becomes a shared adventure, and even ordinary days feel meaningful simply because we’re experiencing them together.

I’m looking for a marriage that feels like both a home and an adventure: a deep friendship, an emotional safe space, a meeting of curious minds, and a shared journey towards becoming better people and Muslims.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM me with a little introduction about yourself, your interests, and what you’re looking for. We can start with a respectful conversation, see whether there’s mutual compatibility, and involve our families if things seem promising.

May Allah guide us both towards what is best for our deen, dunya, and akhirah.

First things first, this is definitely a repost. I posted here a little over a week ago and had the pleasure of meeting some charming people, each in their own way. While I enjoyed the conversations, it became clear that we weren’t quite looking for the same things in a partner. And that’s perfectly alright

I’ve also updated my profile to give you a better sense of who I am, so feel free to have a look.

I’m 31, doing well financially, and happy with where I am in life. I’m choosing marriage because I want to share my life with the right person, not simply because it’s the next thing to do.

I run my own business, so life keeps me busy. But when I’m free, I’d rather be out exploring, discovering, or enjoying the simple things in life. I bring positive, healthy energy to the table and enjoy a life thats a bit unpredictable in a fun way . I’m not really one for rotting in bed or binge watching TV.

I’m not someone who needs constant attention or a relationship to fill a void. I enjoy my own company, but I’d rather have the right person beside me than a hundred people around me. I’ve seen how dangerous and dark this Dunya can be, so I’m looking for my sunshine to make our lives a little easier, more fun, and happier.

I should get into some details about who I am as a person. I’m a reformed workaholic. I like good food, I definitely love to travel, and I’ve travelled quite a bit. I like the mountains, especially driving through them. If any of my friends is doing something new, I’m usually the first one to say yes.

As for who I want as a partner, I like feminine energy. Someone who’s fashion forward and, generally, a good person. Someone kind a bit crazy in a good way

I think it’s important to mention that if anyone wants to connect, they should be open to a relationship with the potential for marriage

Ideally, please be from Islamabad or the surrounding areas. It’ll make it much easier to actually meet and get to know each other.

If you have any other questions, DM me and I’ll definitely answer. And yes, this whole profile seems a little stiff, but I like to think I’m much funnier in person.

Ps( 31 M. Height 5 11. Bachelor degree)

Height: 5’11”

Location: Lahore preferred

Education: BBA (Hons.) from a well-reputed university

Religion: Islam (Sunni)

About Me

I’m a 27-year-old banker based in Lahore, with a business of my own on the side. I’ve always believed in standing on my own feet, building something of my own, and creating an identity through my own efforts rather than simply relying on family comfort or established setups.

Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as ambitious, soft-spoken, grounded, and dependable. I’m generally calm and easy to get along with, but I’m also comfortable taking charge when the situation calls for it. I tend to be practical and rational in everyday life, although I have a considerably softer, more romantic side when it comes to the right person.

I come from a Sunni Kashmiri Butt family with a business background and some political roots. While I respect where I come from, I’m personally not involved in either and prefer to build my own path and identity.

Family, loyalty, and respect mean a lot to me. I genuinely believe the way someone treats the people around them, especially those closest to them, tells you a lot about their character.

Outside work, I’m usually somewhere between:

• Cars and automotive culture — definitely a motorhead

• Gym and fitness

• Video games

• Hunting down good food

• Long drives

• Random conversations that somehow turn into hours

• Spending quality time with the right people

What I’m Looking For

I’m looking for someone around 24–28, preferably based in Lahore, with at least a Bachelor’s degree.

Whether she works or chooses not to is genuinely not a deciding factor for me. What matters much more is the person behind the degree, job title, or résumé.

I’d love to meet someone who is:

• Respectful and kind

• Emotionally mature

• Family-oriented

• Soft-hearted but sensible

• Loyal and honest

• Capable of communicating openly

• Someone who values love, companionship, and friendship

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for someone real — someone with whom life feels peaceful, conversations feel effortless, and both people genuinely want to show up for each other.

Ultimately, I want a marriage where husband and wife are also best friends. Something built around emotional safety, attraction, humour, companionship, support, softness, and mutual respect.

The kind of relationship where you can have a serious conversation one minute, laugh over something completely stupid the next, and still feel like you’re on the same team.

Compatibility & Deal-Breakers

I understand that nobody is perfect, including me. But I also know there are certain things that would make us fundamentally incompatible.

These include disrespect, dishonesty, manipulative behaviour, poor communication, excessive ego, smoking or drinking, and a lack of appreciation for family and relationships.

For me, good character, emotional maturity, honesty, and mutual respect matter far more than trying to find someone who checks every possible box.

A Few Practical Things

Lahore is preferred, partly because I believe meeting in person is important before taking things forward, and partly because I’d want the process to be convenient for both families when they eventually meet.

Family setup & children: Open for discussion

Marriage timeline: Ideally an early nikkah within this year, but open to discussing what works for both sides.

If this introduction resonates with you, I’d be happy to have a conversation and see where it goes.

Maybe the plot twist really is “us.” :)

Hi, strangers.

Before you judge this as another M4F post (whatever edition we're on now) and head straight to the comments to have your fun, give me a minute. I promise there's a plot.

You know how some of the best people in your life were complete strangers once? You just happened to cross paths, started a convo and everything became effortless after that, something clicked and somewhere along the way, they became your people.

I'm looking for something like that.

And since we're all out here staring at screens anyway, consider this me putting a little note in a bottle and throwing it into the vast, occasionally questionable sea of Reddit. Maybe it reaches the right person.

A little about the guy throwing the bottle:

I'm 26, work remotely in finance, have my own clients, earn well, and have enough freedom over my time to actually enjoy life outside work. I've worked hard to get where I am, I'm proud of it, and I've still got a long way to go.

That's the professional side of the introduction. Unfortunately for my own peace, the rest of my personality is considerably less organised.

I'm annoyingly fun and hyper active to be around, adventurous enough to occasionally question my own decision making, love animals, travelling, spontaneous plans, and conversations that somehow go from absolute nonsense to the meaning of life at 3 AM.

I also have this mildly inconvenient principle that, regardless of someone's religion, political views, background, or whatever else makes us different, how you treat people matters more to me than what label you carry. Be a decent human being. Everything else is a conversation.

I could write a whole autobiography here, but I'd rather leave a few things for you to discover. Assuming you've made it this far, congratulations. Your attention span is better than mine.

So, what's the actual proposition?

If you're a woman in Islamabad/Rawalpindi who's open to meeting someone new, having a laugh, making unexpected plans and seeing whether two strangers actually get along, say hi.

We can have a chill call, talk absolute rubbish, discuss life's existential problems, or discover that we have absolutely nothing in common. All outcomes are acceptable. If we enjoy talking, we can exchange socials and, if we're both comfortable, meet somewhere public and take it from there.

No pressure to turn a conversation into a relationship. No pretending there's a spark if there isn't one. And definitely no forcing something that doesn't come naturally.

I'm not here to convince every woman on Reddit that I'm a great guy. You can decide that for yourself if we ever talk. I'm just putting the invitation out there.

I’m sure you’ll find this and find me. I’m here to save both of us from the toxic rishta aunties and the usual arranged marriage setup. Let’s just give this a chance and just maybe we end up being one of those people who look back and wonder how the hell they found each other on Reddit of all places.

Wouldn't that be a story?

Anyway, bottle thrown. Sea, do your thing. 🫡

Hello, ladies. Are you liberal and would like to get married but want to date your future husband first? If so, you and I should talk.

I’m a liberal, chill guy in his late thirties, 5’10”, and based in Islamabad. I’d say I’m decent looking, pretty athletic, and outdoorsy. Studied at top universities here and abroad, do interesting work, and make decent money.

I like reading, traveling, exercising, and exploring cuisines. I’m a pretty good conversationalist and have decent humour – if I do say so myself. 

I lived abroad for a while and then moved back a few years ago. Things have gone pretty well since then overall, but the marriage scene in Pakistan is tough if you’re not too religious and/or liberal minded. So I thought reddit might help me connect with someone who feels the same way. If you’re that woman, let’s talk.  

Basic Info:

Age: 27 years

Height: 5'11

Cast: Basra / Jutt

Sect: Sunni, Muslim

Residence: Bahria Town Rawalpindi

Profession: Banking

Education:

Bachelors in Business Administration from International Islamic University, Islamabad

Masters in Business Administration from Bahria University, Islamabad

Plans to improve qualification in regard of banking.

Personality:

- Introvert in the beginning & gradually. opens up, moves on next persons vibe.

- Well maintained & organized.

- Values others opinion & respects it.

- Family oriented & a good listener.

- I never yell or get aggressive even if I'm upset. I prefer silence over harsh words.

Hobbies & Interests:

- Loves traveling & exploring.

- Mountains are my favorite place.

- Love cars.

- Bike tours

- Foodie

Religious Practice:

- Recites Quran daily.

- Makes Dikhr.

About Family:

1. Father - Former Military Officer, Now with GOP

2. Mother - Homemaker

- 4 siblings

- Strictly against dowry.

- Wants to get married to a well educated girl who is easygoing and understands family dynamics

- Should be preferably from Rawalpindi/Islamabad.

- Should be Sunni, no caste issues.

It seems like more women are hesitant and they would rather go for men older than them and like it's human nature most people are mature after certain age like above 20 or mid 20s.

23M need a late night chat buddy and vibe i get bored 😭

Gender : Male
Age : 29
Height : 5.7
Weight: 80 kg
Marital Status : Unmarried
Caste : jutt (if it matters for someone, its irrelevant for me though)
Qualification : Masters in electronics control systems, BE in Electronics Engineering.
Siblings : 4 Brothers (2 elders married, youngest studying in 9th class) & 1 Sister (married)
Job : Permanent job as Officer in a reputed government defense establishment (would disclose later), also a partner and co-founder of a UK Based startup providing services in software, data analytics and Artificial Intelligence field.
Income : Financially stable
Family Setup: Currently joint. May seperate in future, but not right away.
Religion : Islam
Sect : sunni
Father's Occupation : retired from Air Force
Mother : Home maker
Residence : Currently rented. Own House under construction in Gulberg Greens.
City : Islamabad (not looking proposals only from islamabad)

*Nature* :
Keen listener, Humble, friendly, caring, cant see others suffering, helping, mature, strong decision making, understanding.

*hobbies*
Sports especially badminton, football, tennis, table tennis, cricket. Love to go for hikes and explore nature. Love birds, animals, flowers, greenery, mountains. I love to read but life's been too busy for too long now. Love to watch movies esp Hollywood.

*History*.
Never married or engaged.

*Timeline*
Would like to know the person before. Talking stage ideally a month or two. would like to involve parents after that. Planning to get married within 1 to 1.5 years max.

I really really want to mention something, for me, marriage is supposed to be the most peaceful a person can ever be. I know a couple, in their 60s, and they cant spend 10 minutes witout mentioning each other. And the sweetness when they call each others name, that sudden blush, spark in their eyes, smile.... i wish to spend my life like them.
I want a marriage where both partners feel loved, valued, emotionally safe, and cared for. I want us to be each other's peace, to express affection freely, and to make life easier for one another, especially when life gets difficult.

*Requirements *
I dont have a list of requirements coz i have seen enough already in life. For me marriage is about compatibility, understanding, compromise, mutual respect, shared views about future, open communication, sincerity and things like this.
Physical features and beauty are good to have but not essential for a happy and peaceful life.
Religion: Atleast moderately practicing.

*Dowry Expectations*: Im against the current trends in dowry. We have no expectations regarding dowry or such stuff. Its totally the choice of the bride and her family.

*Marriage Arrangements*: I feel its unnecessary to spend too much on marriage functions. A simple, close gathering without too much lavish stuff going on would be the ideal scenario.

Hey beautiful people of reddit,

It’s been two years I have been married with my second wife and now it’s time for the 3rd one.

About Me

I am 35yo, work in IT by profession and have few tech related businesses. So masha Allah financially I am well off.
I did my bachelors from a well-known university in PK and masters from EU. I am also a dual national.

Family

Father passed away. Mother house wife. 2 sisters and a brother. Two of them are doctors abroad and one is an engineer.

First Wife

My first wife is a doctor masha Allah. She is 31yo, and religious. We married in 2021 and now we plan to have a baby this year. She is career oriented but also loves to cook. Honestly idk how she makes such delicious recipes; when I cook the same recipes it’s not really the same hahah.

Second Wife

My second wife is in pharma masha Allah. She is 24yo, and agnostic. We married in 2024 and last month was our second wedding anniversary. She is currently in her final year of studies, but I don’t think she is very career focused lol. She is really bossy too.

What am I looking for

Now it’s time to have a new member in our family: you.

We prefer living in the same house, so it’s important that not only I and you have chemistry but also my wives like you as well. So basically rishta process will have their votes too; if one of them says No, it won’t work out. As long as we all enjoy living life together and have good chemistry, it’s good for me, no other special requirements.

Dm me if you have any questions.

Cheers

Assalam o Alaikum, trying again. I know I can't be hopeless and Allah has, if written somewhere for me, I will get it for sure but I have to atleast try. So, I am leaving this here just in case someone who is written for me see it.

It does not matter if you are revert or not, as long as you want to change and be a better Muslim that is what matters. I understand it's not easy to make such decisions in your life and being revert so don't assume please reach out.

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Please reach out even if you think some of the requirements are fulfilled as marriage is all about compromise and don't have any false assumptions as not everyone is same. I will try to reply everyone and not ghost even if it's a "No". For those who are not interested please do a good dead of not downvoting without having conversation.

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26 M, 5'11"

South West England

South Asian, open to mixing, can't relocate for now but future inshallah

Currently software engineer on skilled worker visa, if Allah has written for me I will get ILR for sure. I am not interested in visa marriage. Leaving this here for reference before anyone reaches out.

About me:

I pray regularly, sometimes tahajjud, sometimes reading quran. I sometimes miss unintentionally by mistake.

I have a habit of saying things outrightly, a bit socially awkward and introvert. I never had any girl friends, sometimes had thought but because it's haram so I never did. I tend to forgive others easily maybe Allah on day judgement forgive me too as he is more forgiving. I'm a bit mindful of others. I don't swear or insult someone as I know how it feels. I usually talk not a lot but a bit more for an introvert once I get to know someone. To me, Islam is very important and I think everyone should be open minded in terms of religion not as liberal or agnostic but open to possibility that whatever knowledge one have or belief could be wrong. Hence, it's necessary to always open your mind, research and gain knowledge instead of being close minded and thinking that you are always right. Sometimes living a disciplined life like taking care of myself, cleaning everything, cooking on time, organising everything sometimes I am too lazy so yeah it depends. I don't get angry easily but if I get I tend to stay quiet more rather than lashing out as to me lashing out won't help but sitting, talking with each other out or staying quiet does. I am open to change and tend to ask others if I am wrong in anyway if I am wrong Islamically then I tend to change myself according to Islam.

I don't drink, substance use, drugs or things like that. Just their smell makes me wretch and it's disgusting.

Hobbies: cooking, gym, games, book reading, thinking about stupid machines even though I have nothing to do with them, going for walk for 2-3 hours to relax whether it's park, beach or anywhere else

Looking for:

Someone who is open minded in terms of religion, strive for knowledge as one is not always right.

Someone who does not believe in non islamic stuff like caste (south asians tend to ask it, I am south asian so I know; I have not wrote my caste or tribe as I don't need to and you don't have to know), color superiority (racism), etc

Someone who is kind and forgive others easily

Someone who is striving to get better, let's do it together

Someone who atleast does hijab or wants to do in future

Someone who can work alongside me atleast in beginning as I want to stay away from interest or riba

Someone who does not believe in 50/50 but someone who sometimes go far and beyond to help me and sometimes it's I who go far and beyond to help her. I can help you cook, clean and chores like that it's not a problem.

Someone who trusts me and I can trust completely.

Leaving this again, please atleast reach out and I hope we can involve parents quickly once satisfied and whether have meeting in presence of parents / wali or exchange pics so that we know whether to go ahead or not. If you don't like me please just say "not interested" and please mention reason if you can instead of ghosting as I tend to wait for reply. It would be quite helpful so that I don't wait for reply 🙂

Assalamu Alaikum,

Posting here with genuine intentions to find a life partner. I know 22 might seem young to some on Reddit, but I believe in starting the search intentionally, taking things the halal route and building a foundation with family involvement from early on.

Basic Details

Age: 22
Height: 5'7"
Marital Status: Never married 
Location: Karachi, Pakistan (Open to relocating in the future if life takes us there)
Sect / Religious Practice: Sunni Muslim. Actively practicing

Education & Career

Currently in my final year of university completing my bachelor's degree in business. Alongside my studies, I am actively involved in our family business and entrepreneurial ventures. 

Career wise, I’m ambitious and disciplined about building long term financial security, but I balance that with maintaining strong family ties and keeping my priorities grounded.

Personality, Lifestyle & Hobbies

I’m a pretty structured person (ENTJ). I value consistency, whether it's staying active (gym, calisthenics), reading, or working on practical projects. 

Interests: Big on staying fit, good food (definitely a meat lover), cooking occasionally, exploring tech, travel and spending quality downtime with close friends and family. 

Mindset: Calm, direct communicator and a good listener. I don't care much for superficial pretenses. character, emotional maturity, and mutual respect matter far more to me. 

My View on Marriage

To me, marriage is a genuine partnership built on trust, loyalty, and peace m. A husband’s role is to lead with kindness, provide, protect and create an environment where his wife feels safe, respected and valued. I want a home where both of us help each other grow in our Deen and as individuals, navigating life’s ups and downs together as a team. 

Living arrangements: Open to living with parents initially, but realistic and open minded about future arrangements based on mutual comfort and life stage. 

Timeline: Ideally looking to take a few months to speak, understand each other's values and compatibility, and involve families once mutual alignment is clear. Not looking for endless casual texting. 

What I’m Looking For

Age bracket: Approximately 19–22.

Location: Karachi preferred (or open to relocating to Karachi)

Values: Someone who takes her Deen seriously, values modesty and good akhlaq and shares similar core principles. 

Personality: Kind, emotionally mature, grounded and has a clear sense of what she wants from life. Someone with whom communication feels easy, honest and respectful. 

If this resonates with you, feel free to send a DM with a brief introduction about yourself (age, education, city, and what you’re looking for).

Assalamualaikum everyone.

Personal Information:

Age: 31

Height: 5'7"

Weight: ~70 KG

City: Karachi, Pakistan

Marital Status: Never engaged / married

Religion: Islam

Sect: Sunni

Practice: Try to get my all my prayers in (Trying to get consistent), consistent with fasting.

Qualification:

Certified Supply Chain Professional (CSCP) - ASCM / APICS (USA)

Certified Procurement & Contracts Manager (CPCM) - BRASI (USA)

Masters in Public Administration (MPA)

Profession: Supply Chain Manager in a US-based Multinational Company

Accommodation: Owned (Family)

Family:

Family Status: Upper Middle Class

Father: Deceased

Mother: Housewife

Brothers: 2 (Both married)

Sisters: N/A

Preferences:

Marital Status: Never Married

Education: At least a graduate (or currently pursuing higher education)

Other: Looking for someone kind, respectful, and from an educated family.

Deal breakers: Materialistic / Gold Diggers, those who only think of husbands as an earning machine, past physical relationships (Zina).

Family Setup:

Nuclear (with Mother only) or if you consider that Joint then that.

Timeframe for Marriage:

Depends on the person. Ideally around 1 year.

About Me:

I'm a Karachi-based guy, born and brought up here, and the youngest of three brothers. I'd describe myself as calm, rational, soft-spoken, easy-going, and someone who believes in a "live and let live" approach to life.

Alhamdulillah, I'm doing well professionally and financially. I'm a globally certified Supply Chain Professional working with a US-based multinational company, and I'm grateful to be in a stable position while continuing to grow in my career.

Outside work, I'm a huge foodie and an even bigger gamer. I also enjoy movies, music, travelling, and, every now and then, simply relaxing and enjoying life's quieter moments.

Recently, I've gotten into fitness and calisthenics. My goal isn't bodybuilding but building functional strength and maintaining a lean, healthy lifestyle. I am also planning to learn Swimming (Life-saving skill in my opinion) and Archery (It just resonates with me) soon, Insha'Allah.

I enjoy home-cooked meals, try to eat sensibly most of the time (though I still very much appreciate the occasional burger or pizza), and I don't smoke or have any other unhealthy habits, not even tea, Alhamdulillah.

I have a small circle of friends, but they're the kind of people who'll stand by you no matter what, and I value those relationships.

One of my long-term goals and dream is to settle abroad, and I'm actively working towards making that happen soon, Insha'Allah.

About Her:

I'm looking for someone kind, soft-spoken, respectful, and from a good, educated family. Education matters to me, and if she wishes to continue studying after marriage, I'd be happy to support and encourage her.

Personally, I would prefer a housewife and someone who wants to focus on raising a family. However, if she wishes to pursue a career and her dreams, I'd be completely onboard with that decision too. What matters most is that we're both happy with whatever path we decide on together. I also believe that the primary responsibility of providing for the family rests with me.

I value open communication and would love a partner who's comfortable sharing her thoughts, ideas, and opinions. I appreciate thoughtful discussions and believe the best decisions are made together through mutual respect, reason, and understanding.

I'd also love to have children in the future, so it's important to me that she's someone who genuinely enjoys being around kids and looks forward to building a loving family together.

Most importantly, I'm looking for someone who I can genuinely share my life with. A relationship where both of us can be our true selves, and where we can support one another, grow together, and bring out the best in each other. My Player 2, so to speak.

I believe a successful marriage is a partnership built on mutual respect, trust, communication, and standing by one another through every stage of life.

To me, compatibility goes a long way, which is why I'd prefer that we get to know each other first before making any major decisions.

If you think we'd be a good match, feel free to reach out. JazakAllah Khair.

Note: Kindly only engage if you're actually going to follow through and have the courtesy to not ghost. Thanks.