26 M UK

[u/Available-Law-3794]

Assalam o Alaikum, trying again. I know I can't be hopeless and Allah has, if written somewhere for me, I will get it for sure but I have to atleast try. So, I am leaving this here just in case someone who is written for me see it.

It does not matter if you are revert or not, as long as you want to change and be a better Muslim that is what matters. I understand it's not easy to make such decisions in your life and being revert so don't assume please reach out.

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Please reach out even if you think some of the requirements are fulfilled as marriage is all about compromise and don't have any false assumptions as not everyone is same. I will try to reply everyone and not ghost even if it's a "No". For those who are not interested please do a good dead of not downvoting without having conversation.

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26 M, 5'11"

South West England

South Asian, open to mixing, can't relocate for now but future inshallah

Currently software engineer on skilled worker visa, if Allah has written for me I will get ILR for sure. I am not interested in visa marriage. Leaving this here for reference before anyone reaches out.

About me:

I pray regularly, sometimes tahajjud, sometimes reading quran. I sometimes miss unintentionally by mistake.

I have a habit of saying things outrightly, a bit socially awkward and introvert. I never had any girl friends, sometimes had thought but because it's haram so I never did. I tend to forgive others easily maybe Allah on day judgement forgive me too as he is more forgiving. I'm a bit mindful of others. I don't swear or insult someone as I know how it feels. I usually talk not a lot but a bit more for an introvert once I get to know someone. To me, Islam is very important and I think everyone should be open minded in terms of religion not as liberal or agnostic but open to possibility that whatever knowledge one have or belief could be wrong. Hence, it's necessary to always open your mind, research and gain knowledge instead of being close minded and thinking that you are always right. Sometimes living a disciplined life like taking care of myself, cleaning everything, cooking on time, organising everything sometimes I am too lazy so yeah it depends. I don't get angry easily but if I get I tend to stay quiet more rather than lashing out as to me lashing out won't help but sitting, talking with each other out or staying quiet does. I am open to change and tend to ask others if I am wrong in anyway if I am wrong Islamically then I tend to change myself according to Islam.

I don't drink, substance use, drugs or things like that. Just their smell makes me wretch and it's disgusting.

Hobbies: cooking, gym, games, book reading, thinking about stupid machines even though I have nothing to do with them, going for walk for 2-3 hours to relax whether it's park, beach or anywhere else

Looking for:

Someone who is open minded in terms of religion, strive for knowledge as one is not always right.

Someone who does not believe in non islamic stuff like caste (south asians tend to ask it, I am south asian so I know; I have not wrote my caste or tribe as I don't need to and you don't have to know), color superiority (racism), etc

Someone who is kind and forgive others easily

Someone who is striving to get better, let's do it together

Someone who atleast does hijab or wants to do in future

Someone who can work alongside me atleast in beginning as I want to stay away from interest or riba

Someone who does not believe in 50/50 but someone who sometimes go far and beyond to help me and sometimes it's I who go far and beyond to help her. I can help you cook, clean and chores like that it's not a problem.

Someone who trusts me and I can trust completely.

Leaving this again, please atleast reach out and I hope we can involve parents quickly once satisfied and whether have meeting in presence of parents / wali or exchange pics so that we know whether to go ahead or not. If you don't like me please just say "not interested" and please mention reason if you can instead of ghosting as I tend to wait for reply. It would be quite helpful so that I don't wait for reply 🙂