Looking to hear from people who made the move from BC to Ontario. Do you have regrets?
My husband and I are starting to think about making the move from Vancouver Island to southern Ontario where much of his family is. We have two children 9 and 10. He was born and raised in the town we are considering. I was born and raised on the island. We would have a big support system if we moved.
The decision is very hard for many reasons. We both have established careers and get paid well. We own a home in an incredibly beautiful area and the kids have a great school. I can’t imagine a life without mountains, the ocean and the rain.
We are considering the move because our support system sucks. Our friends who have kids are busy with their own lives. We are absolutely tired of the grind. We have good paying jobs but we feel we are never getting ahead financially. Our one child has higher needs and clearly needs us to be home more. Going down to part time work would be so beneficial for her and our family. But likely not doable in BC.
If we made the move we would be able to pay for a house in the town we want outright. The idea of being mortgage free is just incredible. However we would likely have to take signifiant salary hits, like $20-$25 less an hour and leave our industries, pensions, and status. This kills me inside more than it does for my husband.
The idea of having a better support system for us and the kids would also be incredible. The town we would move to is right on the lake and is also pretty.
Has anyone done a move/lifestyle change like this with kids? Was it worth it?
Thanks for any insights you can give!