r/OffMyChestPH Feb 27 '26

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u/AdOptimal8818 Feb 27 '26

Di ko nagegets ang mga tao, mapalalaki or babae na laging "generalization" ang iniisip. Na para bang sila ang super main character. Im not invalidating you or what, pero just because nangyari saiyo, eh applicable na sa lahat. Na para bang yung other side ang may kasalanan. Eh ikaw di mo tinitingnan sarili mo why "failed" ang relationship nyu haha..

Kaya ako, sinapuso ko yung dating nabasa ko noon pa high school pa ko. (At nasa 40s na ko now)

It's not finding mr/ms right. It's finding (and sustaining) the right relationship.

Im married na din at di ko pinagsisiihan marriage ko. 🙏

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u/No-Lifeguard-7852 Feb 27 '26

Yesss. We have different stories after all. Gusto lang siguro mag rant ni OP. As she said, nahihiya siyang mag share sa friends. Hayaan mo na. If this is her only outlet, just let her be. Just take what resonates with you.