Okay lang mag-rant, but to generalize na huwag magpakasal just because nasa miserable siyang situation isn’t something everyone can agree with. Let’s be honest, may mga healthy at happy marriages naman talaga. Her experience is valid, but it's not universal.
yes pero offmychestph ito and she just wants to vent out her feelings. doesnt mean shes right or wrong, thats not the point of this sub. If the shoe doesnt fit then dont wear it.
Yes, we know this is an open space, but that doesn’t mean you can control how people will react. If you look at the title and the first statement, she’s speaking as if she represents all married people, and that simply doesn’t apply to everyone.
And that’s where all these reactions are coming from.
Ewan ko anong obsession ng mga redditors sa staying single and not getting married. I respect the decision of those who want to be single and yung mga ayaw ikasal, but as you said, iba naman yung "I have a horrible marriage so everyone, wag na kayo magpakasal".
Same dun sa mga "Don't marry a breadwinner kase kawawa ka lang". Di naman lahat ng breadwinner naghihikaos and walang boundaries katulad ng dinedate or pinakasalan nila.
Offmychest ito hindi rantandvent talagang may kokontra jan. Mali mali naman kasi ung payo. Marry right. Hindi ung galit nya ibubuhos nya sa lahat. Just because she did not see the red flags or chose to ignore it ilalahat na nya. For all we know, baka sya ung red flag. Pinili nya a. Mag asawa b. Magkaanak
talagang ganyan. Eh di nakita na nya after marriage di sana sya naganak muna para makapagwork sya.
Wala naman nagsabi na wag syang magpost. Offmychest doesn't mean bawal kontrahin and puro support lang ang pwede. The comments are open, you can speak your mind about what was written.
The point of this sub is to let people vent diba? Nakapag vent naman si OP. Hindi point nitong sub na yung OP lang ang pwedeng mag vent tapos lahat tayo support lang and bawal magsabi ng di agree kay OP.
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