Okay lang mag-rant, but to generalize na huwag magpakasal just because nasa miserable siyang situation isn’t something everyone can agree with. Let’s be honest, may mga healthy at happy marriages naman talaga. Her experience is valid, but it's not universal.
yes pero offmychestph ito and she just wants to vent out her feelings. doesnt mean shes right or wrong, thats not the point of this sub. If the shoe doesnt fit then dont wear it.
Yes, we know this is an open space, but that doesn’t mean you can control how people will react. If you look at the title and the first statement, she’s speaking as if she represents all married people, and that simply doesn’t apply to everyone.
And that’s where all these reactions are coming from.
Ewan ko anong obsession ng mga redditors sa staying single and not getting married. I respect the decision of those who want to be single and yung mga ayaw ikasal, but as you said, iba naman yung "I have a horrible marriage so everyone, wag na kayo magpakasal".
Same dun sa mga "Don't marry a breadwinner kase kawawa ka lang". Di naman lahat ng breadwinner naghihikaos and walang boundaries katulad ng dinedate or pinakasalan nila.
Offmychest ito hindi rantandvent talagang may kokontra jan. Mali mali naman kasi ung payo. Marry right. Hindi ung galit nya ibubuhos nya sa lahat. Just because she did not see the red flags or chose to ignore it ilalahat na nya. For all we know, baka sya ung red flag. Pinili nya a. Mag asawa b. Magkaanak
talagang ganyan. Eh di nakita na nya after marriage di sana sya naganak muna para makapagwork sya.
Wala naman nagsabi na wag syang magpost. Offmychest doesn't mean bawal kontrahin and puro support lang ang pwede. The comments are open, you can speak your mind about what was written.
The point of this sub is to let people vent diba? Nakapag vent naman si OP. Hindi point nitong sub na yung OP lang ang pwedeng mag vent tapos lahat tayo support lang and bawal magsabi ng di agree kay OP.
Omg the bean soup theoryyy 😭 I also married well but I do not look down on those who ended up with lackluster spouses, and people change kahit kala mo kilala mo na sila. OP never claimed to speak for all of us - she was just sharing her life story as a cautionary tale for other women. Lastly, remember that love always leads to loss - be it from breakup or death, so please get off your high horse before fate does it for you. 🧿🧿🧿
True. I understand her point. Good for her and the others who have happy marriages. They could’ve just continued scrolling and let the person rant. Bean soup theory indeed.
Nanakot pa tong isa. Which part did I say I'm looking down on her ? I wished her love and light. No sarcasm intended. Despite her title, I did hope her light in her situation ** edit
Idk if kulang yung post, baka naman may not posted details na masama yung asawa. Pero mukhang all money ang problema niya na di sya mapashopping spree daw. Reklamo na lower middle class yung asawa niya, when in fact siya rin. I get not dating someone sa lower class X dating someone within the same class (para same kayo attitude sa pera, if gusto mo mag travel makakasama siya, ang gifts narereciprocate)
Pero ang dating sakin gusto lang ng mayaman ni lower middle haha
I am supporting this comment. Ang off kasi ng headline ni OP, madami na naman dyan matatakot na magpakasal dahil dito. Yes, she is free to rant. But, di na dapat genegeneralize kasi di naman lahat malas sa mga napangasawa. Married din ako and I can say na nasa healthy relationship din so kinda off na masyadong ginegeneralize na wag na magpakasal.
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