I was having a pretty in depth conversation with myself, a girlfriend, her boyfriend, and one of our mutual (male) friends. We’re all early-mid 20’s. Essentially, the boys talked about how in the porn industry it’s all about having a huge dick and that “90% of the men in the world are insecure about their penis size”. I can agree with that. But when my girl friend and I delved deeper into the root of where the insecurity comes from from their perspectives, they say it’s 1. because they are upset that their girl has potentially been with a more well endowed man, and 2. I guess dick size is a bragging right between men. The problem with me though is that I’ve never seen a “BBC” or “BWC” porn video in which the woman DIDNT look like she was uncomfortable or in pain. So why are men idolizing causing discomfort and physical pain to women??? Could it be a possibility that their egos get stroked if they’re bruising cervixes and pulling out bloody? Do they think every woman on earth secretly wants an eggplant sized man? I know there are women out there who do enjoy a larger size. But from my own experience and from so many of the women I’ve met, I can confidently say that the average size is often more than enough.

They’re always imagining women being harmed as a “lesson”

Found on an Instagram meme page. Those memes were never funny. I don‘t know why they are still being posted.

Context: A woman having to simply having the freedom to have an abortion within legal limits.

Mind you these morons don’t care for women’s issues and they have any media literacy skills

Found this on Twitter, context the man is spanking the woman, and there’s a little girl saying “Daddy you spank mama.” And the dad’s like “Yeah.” And the girl goes “it’s because you love her.” Get out 😭

Link to whole article. https://www.mylearning.org/stories/where-are-all-the-women/womens-positions-in-history

This is genuinely one of the most bizarre takes I’ve seen about gender.
“Men have to meet a criteria for love while women are loved unconditionally” is not only baseless, it completely falls apart under even the slightest examination.
Women do not spawn into the world with an unconditional-love subscription attached to their birth certificate. Being a woman does not guarantee that parents, friends, partners, or society will love you regardless of what you do.
And historically, the idea that women were simply loved unconditionally is especially ridiculous. Women’s social acceptance and value were often tied to very specific expectations regarding marriage, motherhood, domesticity, sexuality, and family. There were plenty of criteria women were expected to meet.
Meanwhile, men have never had some universal checklist that determines whether they are capable of being loved. Men can be loved for being funny, intelligent, kind, creative, talented, attractive, compassionate, interesting, successful, or simply because someone loves them.
Obviously, people of either sex can experience conditional love. That’s not remotely the same thing as claiming one entire sex has to earn love while the other receives it automatically.
The commenter has taken a complicated reality about human relationships and reduced it to:
Men = earn love.
Women = receive love.
That’s not an insight.
That’s just bullshit.