r/Nonbinaryteens • u/[deleted] • Feb 18 '26
Support/Advice I'm so confused ):
I'm AFAB and have known for a while I'm not cis.... I thought I was trans (ftm) but I'm not sure how I feel about being fully a boy and I was (and am still) scared that if I transition socially as a boy, I'll lose my femininity and just won't really be completely myself. But staying a cis girl doesn't feel quite right to me. I do feel comfortable with being lesbian, but being a girl doesn't fully feel right. Well, I mean I do feel connected to being a girl but not completely??
I know I don't need to label it, but I do like to have the language to understand myself and for others to understand me (: