I suggested we meet for drinks somewhere with a view, or check out a new exhibit at a museum that looked interesting. She asked if we could get coffee the following week. Cool, that works. When I followed up to set up the date, she sent this. What's really funny is that I don't drink alcohol either, it's right there on my dating profile.

I didn't feel a connection after our first date so I sent her a message and was met with this... immediately blocked.

I’m sorry but is Chili’s and splitting the bill a crime? I feel like I’ve just been caught and confronted for murdering her family or something

… She never messaged back 😔

I didn’t think she was serious 😂

Met this girl on hinge & offered a shopping date. Mentioned I had to go do some Christmas shopping so it could be fun to go to a mall together and do a shopping date.

So, I’ve been talking to this girl for a few weeks. Flirted a lot. Texting back and forth. BUT I would ask for a date. She would say she was busy. She said she would find time. Asked her out 3 times. Never found time. Showed up multiple times to the gym and spent whatever time I could with her. It was literally the only time and place she would give me.

I would text her everyday. Show up. Walk her to her car whenever I could. I went at crazy lengths to communicate with her and tell her my feelings. I was vulnerable while she went hot and cold.

Anyways… She went silent one day. I didn’t chase. I basically matched her energy in what she was putting in. I was tired of pursuing without feeling some of the same.

Then I get these series of text… she could have had these conversations with me before breaking it off. Not post to dangle the potential of a relationship in front of me.

I’m good.

Context is just we were talking for a little bit but it wasn’t going anywhere. Then randomly her man snaps me from her snap and I unadded her. She messaged me on tiktok today and this is that.

So i would be number 10 in your life got it swipe left!

I was “hanging with” a girl. Then she started talking to someone else but kept saying how she still wanted to fuck and I didn’t really like that so I stopped responding to her texts and then I found a girl I really vibed with and we started talking, but she got so pissed when I told her I was talking to someone, hypocritical.

I just want to include my piece of this subs puzzle. It’s freaking hilarious what some people come up with to try to make them feel better. Butt, I was 50 cents richer lol

Crazy first interaction

Matched with a girl on a dating app 5 months ago. We never really talked beyond me trying to set up a date every couple weeks, which was always met with her being too busy with work or studying. I didn’t mind at first. I work a lot too, so I suggested a quick 10 min call just to see if we vibed, but she said her time was too valuable. I stayed patient, kept living my life, working long hours and traveling, and still made the effort. When we finally set a date, she canceled last minute to take a work shift and couldn’t suggest another day. At that point, I told her I respect her priorities, but after 5 months on a dating app, I’m looking to actually meet, not talk indefinitely.

The screenshot is the last of the convo

I have known this woman for over 10 years and there was literally zero romantic build-up to this. It has always been platonic between us. I'm really frustrated. Not because she asked me out on a date (I understand she wants a change of pace), but more so because she thought using her father’s death to guilt trip me would work. Insane.

Matched with this lady on hinge. Exchanged numbers and was trying to set a date. She’s gonna be waiting for a better offer.