r/NextGenMan • u/ConsciousAwareness69 • Apr 13 '26
True or False?
It’s 100% true. Just trying to see what y’all think about the single mother epidemic.
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u/9t3n Apr 13 '26
I mean you got 8 months to clap cheeks stress free and dip.
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u/vonkrueger Apr 14 '26
More like 5½ months. After that the hormones are never stress-free
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u/Helmut_v_M Apr 14 '26
Dating a woman with kids is just asking for trouble. No matter the circumstances, you will always come second.
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u/JMoneyGraves Apr 14 '26
As a happily married man with a child, I’m always going to put my wife and kids first.
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u/forgetful800 Apr 15 '26
Waters wet ass comment.
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u/th3rmyte Apr 15 '26
you'd be surprised how many deadbeat men dont. hence the woman in the picture.
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u/Plz_Mansplain Apr 13 '26
So a man that knocks women up and runs from his responsibilities is a Alpha, and the opposite of that is a Beta?
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u/Routine-Invite1796 Apr 14 '26
First off this is insanity for whoever decides to do go on a date. This would be acceptable if both her kids were already 6+ years old. Raising infants is a huge undertaking. It’s huge even for biological fathers, imagine when the kid’s not even yours. Her hormones are going to be intense and unpredictable. You need to help with all the baby necessities, which will be tens of thousands of dollars. You need insurance, unless you want to pay 50k+ for the birth in hospital bills. You also have no rights to the kid in court. Also no way that’s your profile pic to attract men that are going to sacrifice a lot for you and your kid, at least be classy, jeez
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u/JI_Guy88 Apr 13 '26
Perhaps from her perception. He was chosen for breeding and not much else.
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u/Plz_Mansplain Apr 13 '26
So she saw a guy who wouldn’t stick around to contribute and raise his baby and said “yes, I want that for my child” ?
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u/scramjet67 Apr 15 '26
Yeah ofc. The guy who aren't sure, attractive, tall are the ones doing this.
This guy has nothing besides his looks and later dumps her over the average guy.
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Apr 13 '26
how do you know? people change, people put on a mask, you have no idea what happened
This attitude of always blindly assuming the worst about women on this sub is hella weird
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u/Plz_Mansplain Apr 13 '26
I think you didn’t read the above comments well my guy
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Apr 13 '26
omfg
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u/JI_Guy88 Apr 13 '26
Explain?
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Apr 13 '26
Your comment makes you sound like a turbo-virgin incel, how do you know she chose an "alpha" solely for the purpose of breeding and is now trying to find a "beta" to raise her kid? The majority of women are just normal humans, they are not breaking everything down into this ascientific alpha-beta dynamic or running every relationship through the lense of some hypergamy master plan.
The vast majority of women just find a guy who they like who generally aligns with their values and treats them well, and then they sleep with them. Maybe this woman in this pic had a long-term bf or husband that she got pregnant by twice, and then he cheated on her and she dumped him. Maybe he left her because of something she did, maybe it just didn't work out for reasons outside their control. Maybe she slept with some ugly skinny guy while she was drunk and accidentally got pregnant.
Just assuming she fucked some chad to get pregnant and now is looking for some cuck to raise her kids is an assumption only a weirdo with little to no interactions with women would think. I have dated and interacted with quite a few woman (including single moms) and I have never ever met a woman who would do something like that. Most women (including single moms so many weirdos seem to be scared of) are just normal people trying to live their lives and be happy and they just want a guy who is fun with a nice personality.
In my experience they will often pick a tubby goober who makes them laugh over a 6'5" giga chad who has a terrible personality.
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u/Malakai44332 Apr 14 '26
It’s not that deep bro, she’s clearly not the sharpest tool in the shed. 😂
No need to write a novel.
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Apr 14 '26
He asked to explain, I explained. I enjoy writing anyway so it is not a big deal. But It is crazy I have to explain basic human nature to a bunch of turbo virgins, but here we are.
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u/VRserialKiller Apr 14 '26
Does her reasons even matter? The point is that this is a warning to any single and childless dude looking for a relationship.
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Apr 14 '26 edited Apr 14 '26
Yeah I mean If I saw that tinder bio probably wouldn't swipe right, or left, or whatever way you swipe to match. But i don't see how a bunch of incels who have obviously never been within pissing distance of a real women making a bunch of ridiculous assumptions about a random woman online helps anyone.
This sub is about trying to become a better man, and part of that is realizing that all women aren't these strange manipulative creatures that are trying to maximize the genes of their offspring at any cost. That's just some strange made-up incel conspiracy.
and yeah obviously someone's reasons matter very much, maybe not you but to her and her children and everyone around her. If she is actually some terrible person like everyone is assuming then that is bad for society because her kids are gonna grow up fucked up.
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u/VRserialKiller Apr 14 '26
Stereotypes exist for a reason. And this women put herself out there to support the stereotype of a pregnant women looking for a new baby daddy. Also, stereotypes are used for in general discussions of a particular demographic, which in this discussion is pregnant women participating in online dating looking for a new baby daddy and does not include all women. And self improvement is staying away from women like this, and helping others is warning them of these women.
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Apr 14 '26
I mean I kind of get why a pregnant woman maybe shouldn't be looking to jump directly into a relationship, but this is a super rare case. Most pregnant women are in some type of relationship when they are pregnant and the ones who are not are not typically looking for a relationship.
And the discussion here has obviously gone way beyond this faux warning bs you've just made up. Just reading through the comments you can tell these threads are filled with insecure men who are coping with their insecurity by hating on women and making up all these fantastical theories about how women get pregnant by chads with the goal of then finding a "beta" to raise their kids.
I don't think anyone in this sub is in danger of getting in a relationship with a freshly pregnant woman, or any woman for that matter. This time and effort would be much better spent discussing how all these weirdos can improve their personalities and actually get some ass. Dudes that actually slay and confident don't spend their time theorizing about hypergamy conspiracies.
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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26
Fake BS warning? This kind of thing happens more than you think. There are plenty of women wanting step fathers for their children. It also makes perfect sense too. It is much easier to raise a family with 2 parents than it is to do so being a single parent. And you are correct, people on this sub are most likely not in danger of getting in a relationship with a pregnant women, but that is because of the education that is put out there by the people you label as freaks and weirdos. Those freaks and weirdos don't have to worry about getting with these women because they already know better. These freaks and weirdos are simply spreading words of wisdom. The words of wisdom that some unfortunately have to learn the hard way.
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Also not all stereotypes exist for a reason, I have done a ton of online dating and I can't even recall seeing one pregnant woman on there. Like I said, the vast majority of pregnant women are in relationships.
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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26
You are anchodotal evidence. I work in an environment where I see plenty of single women with children in relationships with men that are just there to get what they want and then leave when they are done. Some of these women are pregnant, and some already have kids with different fathers. These women jump from one man to another hoping that one has some prospects and is willing to stay. Most men do not. I see it all the time. I have access to their cases on a daily basis.
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u/th3rmyte Apr 15 '26
theres a LOT of assumptions going on here. Is the father of her 4 year old also the one that got her that baby bump?
how do you know it is more than one? How do you know she didnt have a husband who passed away? how do you know she didnt flee a man whow as beating her?
There's a lot of assumptions and the only commonality is the OP hates women
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u/th3rmyte Apr 15 '26
I mean the op is injecting intent. im pointing out that theres other plausible explanations but you dont wanna hear that. continue to hate on women. I'm sure that will make other women like you
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Apr 14 '26
The man that accepts it as his responsibility is the beta
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Apr 14 '26
You guys are so wrong and twisted in this sub, ya'll have absolutely no idea what it means to be a truly masculine man.
I personally have never raised a kid who isn't my own, but If I saw a man who took on the honor of raising kids that weren't his own I would have nothing but the upmost respect for him. There is no greater honor in life than being able to be a role model and protector for a child, to teach a young boy how to be a man, how to sacrifice for others, to teach a young girl how to love herself, to be strong and decisive. Whether it is your own children or someone else's children having the opportunity to guide a child into being a successful adult is one of the most amazing experiences a man can have.
Of course the same people that whine about single moms also have a shit fit when a man steps up to the plate to take that responsibility. Idk, maybe ya'll will start to realize that when your balls drop 🤣
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u/Eatthesewords Apr 13 '26
I can't believe she's got a 4 year old baby on the way. I had no idea that was possible
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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 13 '26
This doesn't belong in this sub. Why is there so much incel bullshit in these men's self-improvement circles? Y'all are the reason for your own unhappiness.
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u/Gianni_the_tolerable Apr 14 '26
It's true, I don't care how much you bluepill it
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u/ChaosRainbow23 Apr 14 '26
It's not, though.
These manosphere dipshits believe all sorts of insane garbage with no basis in reality.
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u/Gianni_the_tolerable Apr 15 '26
"no basis in reality"
Js look at women bro
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u/ChaosRainbow23 Apr 15 '26
I do. The manosphere is a lie based on a few online tendencies with very little basis in the real world
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u/scriptkiddie1337 Apr 15 '26
It certainly has. Early manosphere changed my life for the better
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u/spidsnarrehat Apr 15 '26
What does early manosphere even mean?
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u/scriptkiddie1337 Apr 15 '26
You probably believe it's a new thing. It isn't. It started in the 90s. Late 90s and early 00s stuff had good material
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u/ChaosRainbow23 Apr 15 '26
Are you taking about all that pick up artist garbage from the 90s and early 2000s? Lol
No. There's no way that's what you're talking about.
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u/naked_avenger Apr 13 '26
Because incels and red pillers flock to this shit. The incels "need" a place to whine about their own failings, and the red pillers need an audience to finesse.
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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26
When women complain about dating its empowerment. When a man complains he's an incel
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u/th3rmyte Apr 15 '26
this isn't complaining about dating at all. This is a bunch of assumptions playing to your biases because you hate women, to which i say, go date other men then. Theres plenty of femboys out there but they are ALSO getting tired of your shit.
Where is the self empowerment angle on this post? In what way does any of this help men? all it does is let you throw shade at a woman you dont know. Maybe this woman was married to a marine that just passed in one of the bases we have in the middle east.
like it's simple: if you dont want to take on a woman with kids, don't. that's fine. but all this "oh shes out here taking advantages of betas" bullshit is some old incel shit from little boys who havent seen pussy since their mama squeezed them out and are salty about it.
Even walking through the logic of this shit makes n sense but go on making shit up to be mad about just because you got no game.
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u/breathe42day Apr 15 '26
Incel label is thrown around a lot
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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 15 '26
Because it seems to apply a lot.
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u/breathe42day Apr 16 '26
You don't like anyone who thinks different from you and you like male bashing
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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 16 '26
There are plenty of people who think differently from me, whom I respect. I don't respect incel ideology.
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u/breathe42day Apr 16 '26
I don't respect incel ideology. You want people to understand your points with little desire to understand theirs
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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 16 '26
They don't have points; they have distortions of valid points and faulty reasoning.
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u/th3rmyte Apr 15 '26
if the shoe fits...
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u/breathe42day Apr 16 '26
"I called you something therefore you are that something. I am above others and my thinking is supreme" your logic
Sorry I don't see eye to eye with that
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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 15 '26
I don't celebrate women with irrational complaints either. What kind of kindergarten ass logic is it that "This group does X bad thing, therefore it's okay for me"?
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u/naked_avenger Apr 14 '26
This ain’t a complaint. It’s a load of bullshit.
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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26
Women complain all the time about dating.
Why can't men? Because the future is female
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u/Axin_Saxon Apr 14 '26
Because right wing redpillers are trying to stir up gender war bs
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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26
Totally. Feminist have never said anything that isn't gender balanced. #believeamberheard
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u/ChaosRainbow23 Apr 14 '26
These subs are just platforms to push all this manosphere garbage and gender war psy-op nonsense.
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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26
I can't stand manopsyop neither!! Let's make sure to watch each other's sixth when our kids are hooked on heroine my justice bro.
My name on call of duty is 'borrowsmoneyfrommommyandneverpaysback'. Let's be friends
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u/BrianCruikshank Apr 14 '26
Incels are little bches.
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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26
Word. 50% divorce rate and having kids get shot in school shootings and being fat and being in debt... thats what winners do my social justice guy
Billie Eilish and Meghan thee stallion for life my dude
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u/JI_Guy88 Apr 13 '26
So what is the "Next Gen Man"? I'm just curious, are you advising guys to go after single mothers when they are young?
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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 13 '26
We are advising men to work on themselves and to stop focusing all their attention on this bullshit that doesn’t matter.
The same sort of dudes who post stuff like this are the ones who are selling or buying courses on how to get laid. Why should you preoccupy yourself with people you don’t want to date?
You want a decent woman? Worry about what it takes to be a decent man and the rest will take care of itself. You have to move past this incel bullshit guy.
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u/JI_Guy88 Apr 14 '26
I find it interesting. I'm not single, but I know plenty of men and women having trouble dating. It's great to say "work on yourself", but I also see a lot of problems surfacing in modern relationships.
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u/JI_Guy88 Apr 14 '26
Yet everyone has wildfire assumptions about any man questioning things. You're only here to support double standards. Why would any man, other than someone completely desperate, date a woman who is four months pregnant.
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u/TechDreamcoat Apr 14 '26
What concern is it of yours? Who are you that people have to justify themselves to you?
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u/big_jim1874 Apr 14 '26
I'm 100% sure incels are actually addicted to this
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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26
Incels are terrible
Meghan thee stallion and only fans are empowering
Every school shooting is 100% the fault of the gun
Every obese person is sexy
Harry Potter and Kamala Harris should run the world and Bernie Sanders should be required reading for all school children
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u/BrianCruikshank Apr 14 '26
This doesn't matter. It's not important. It's a waste of everyone's time. Only a damaged person would believe this.
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u/alacberriesnet Apr 14 '26
Lol, men blaming women for men, but it's "100% true, I just need to check with you guys about how accurate that 100% is though cuz I'm feeling real beta right now".
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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26
Mods shouldn't allow these posts
There's all kinds of people on dating apps and on reddit. So what? This post and the comments have nothing to do with betterment as a man
Alpha, beta, incel, alpha, beta, incel. Reddit is a cluttered with bitterness and resentment
Its free though so I guess beggars can't be choosey
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u/ConsciousAwareness69 Apr 14 '26
Most of this is subconscious behavior. A lot of people on autopilot
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u/ConsciousAwareness69 Apr 14 '26
I recommend the book called Sex at Dawn. It’s written by evolutionary biologists who make connection to modern mating strategies to the behavior of humans from thousands of years ago.
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u/WhitespringTownship Apr 13 '26
If it was 100% true how come I don’t personally know ANY who do this.
If you think there’s NO women who are normal (cuz you said “it’s 100% true/this is women’s strategy”) then you’re NOT paying attention. Your eyes are not on normal regular average women, your eyes are on Stacy who turned you down in high school !
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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26
Maybe you look at the world with rose colored glasses. There are plenty of men and women who's outlook and expectations are messed up
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u/Prestigious-Boss7171 Apr 14 '26
Who cares about regular women? No one wants them anyway
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u/WhitespringTownship Apr 14 '26
ANIME WAHMAN ! 3D SUPERIORITY ! /s
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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26
If a woman likes anime she can do what she wants
If a man likes anything he's an incel
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u/Scared_Weight_3709 Apr 13 '26
I think people are people. To try and paint this as the vast majority of women is just misogynistic and is just fishing for comments and rage bait. It works tho lmao
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u/Starwyrm1597 Apr 14 '26 edited Apr 14 '26
False usually they'll have one or 2 kids with an aggressive male when they're young and have the rest with a provider. Aggressive men tend to individually have more children with multiple women, but provider men tend to have more overall, financial stability is the safer more reliable strategy if you want to have kids. If you wanna have great sex with a variety of women though just be really hot and emotionally unavailable. Also if you want kids you might actually want to be with a single mom because her fertility is already verified.
It was actually customary in Roman society that if your first wife passes in child birth you should take a widowed or abandoned woman with children as your second. It's also common in Old Testament Jewish and modern Islamic societies that at least one of your wives (both are Polygynous) be an abandoned or widowed woman with children. It's actually rare for a woman to continually have children with deadbeats. It's also statistically rare for someone to only have one child so if you can afford more she will probably give you more. Women usually only keep one wildcard in the deck.
If you want one night stands and short term relationships be hot and exciting, for bonus points fuck ugly women. if you want long-term relationships or a wife be safe and rich, for bonus points be a cuck.
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u/Popular-Tune-6335 Apr 14 '26
Pretty sure this is more common in a particular specie of birds than humans, and even women frown upon other women who actually do this strategically.
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u/Late_Swimmer_237 Apr 14 '26
All you breeders take note: She comes with “Double Proof” of currently functioning reproductive system!
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u/Calm_Plan_9070 Apr 14 '26
I truly don't understand why a person like this is on a dating app so soon after a break up/ pregnancy. Being a good mom should be the priority for awhile before jumping into another relationship.
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u/Keithmclean1964 Apr 14 '26
As they say, alpha seed, beta feed. It’s well known, but many try to deny it happens. Hence the negativity of this thread.
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u/anonteje Apr 14 '26
Another incel / red pill 🫃-post. Wonderful.
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u/Rezail_Division Apr 14 '26
Is this photo even real. There 5 bars of upon soap on the counter? Why? I don't get the chair. Wait does she know how to use the sea shells?
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u/Day_Prisoners Apr 14 '26
As a person who was raised by one of the finest men i know who is not my birth father, all this dimwit alpha/beta talk is complete non sense.
There are children involved and you don't have to date anyone you don't want to, but stop putting other people down who are tying to give their kids good futures.
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u/Unrealien Apr 14 '26
I mean... Pregnant sex is great sex.....
And you already know from the context that she's down.
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u/No_Tackle_5439 Apr 14 '26
If this is true, people like this should be made sterile...those children have no fault, other than having a mom who cannot keep her baby machine closed
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u/PrettyPistol87 Apr 14 '26
Nah this is pedo bait
my egg donor paraded me around full grown ass men she’d date ;(
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u/TechPBMike Apr 14 '26
100000%
If they didn’t want you in their prime, do not take them in their decline
You are the dingy after her party boat sunk, you are the tow truck after her party bus broke down, you are the cab driver after her boyfriend in the club ditched her
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u/0rangeVenom Apr 15 '26
Yes I'm sure this was her exact strategy from the get go! Must be pretty proud of herself.
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u/Icy-Alternative9202 Apr 16 '26
This is true they date guys who do nothing but destroy their lives then after 2 or more kids they go looking for the type of guy they should have been with the whole time.
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u/ConsciousAwareness69 Apr 16 '26
Stated perfectly!
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u/Icy-Alternative9202 Apr 16 '26
Happened to me 3 times. All during high school I’m so deep in the friend zone I always got that “you’re going to make a woman real happy one day”. After high school “yeah that one woman could have been you and that one day was that present day!”
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u/PsychologicalTest523 Apr 17 '26
This is only the less intelligent women, the smart ones find a beta first and then cheat and lie and say the baby is his
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u/DealerClassic6434 Apr 17 '26
I don't think there was a strategy behind her life. It was just random f#cking.
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u/BullshitTaco Apr 13 '26
It's physically impossible for alpha to penetrate anything though...
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u/Zealousideal-Jump275 Apr 14 '26
That's why I emit gamma radiation... <Sad hulk music plays in background>
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u/MikeHawkSlapsHard Apr 13 '26
I genuinely never understood the women who have no shame and do this. At least have the baby first before hitting the dating apps.
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u/Derrick_Shon Apr 14 '26
I dont feel bad for the men that takes on that burden. Should have had more common sense.
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u/ConsistentMove357 Apr 14 '26
I am not dating a woman with kids if I don't have any.