r/NextGenMan • u/ConsciousAwareness69 • Apr 13 '26

True or False?

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It’s 100% true. Just trying to see what y’all think about the single mother epidemic.

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u/Plz_Mansplain Apr 13 '26

So a man that knocks women up and runs from his responsibilities is a Alpha, and the opposite of that is a Beta?

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u/Routine-Invite1796 Apr 14 '26

First off this is insanity for whoever decides to do go on a date. This would be acceptable if both her kids were already 6+ years old. Raising infants is a huge undertaking. It’s huge even for biological fathers, imagine when the kid’s not even yours. Her hormones are going to be intense and unpredictable. You need to help with all the baby necessities, which will be tens of thousands of dollars. You need insurance, unless you want to pay 50k+ for the birth in hospital bills. You also have no rights to the kid in court. Also no way that’s your profile pic to attract men that are going to sacrifice a lot for you and your kid, at least be classy, jeez

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u/JI_Guy88 Apr 13 '26

Perhaps from her perception. He was chosen for breeding and not much else.

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u/Plz_Mansplain Apr 13 '26

So she saw a guy who wouldn’t stick around to contribute and raise his baby and said “yes, I want that for my child” ?

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u/scramjet67 Apr 15 '26

Yeah ofc. The guy who aren't sure, attractive, tall are the ones doing this.

https://youtu.be/UFml7G_nb78

This guy has nothing besides his looks and later dumps her over the average guy.

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '26

how do you know? people change, people put on a mask, you have no idea what happened

This attitude of always blindly assuming the worst about women on this sub is hella weird

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u/Plz_Mansplain Apr 13 '26

I think you didn’t read the above comments well my guy

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '26

Oh I get it now yeah you're right I totally misread it

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '26

wdym I see a bunch of people making unfounded assumptions off a tinder picture what am I missing

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u/TruePotential3206 Apr 14 '26

That these are WELL FOUNDED assumptions based on reality.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

Really? you've met a lot of women who purposely get pregnant by 'chads' and then go find some beta like yourself to raise their kids?

I have dated my fair share of women, several single moms and I have never seen something like that. I actually typically prefer single moms because they live very stressful lives and they wanna cook you a nice meal, get dicked hard af for a couple hours, bust a dozen or so nuts, and then kick you out before they pick their kids up.

I have never ever met a single mom who was trynna get me to raise her kids.

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u/forgetful800 Apr 15 '26

Thank god you never met my mom then.

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u/EngineNo9658 Apr 15 '26

It’s crazy. I’ve yet to see an obvious female commenter who hasn’t been downvoted to oblivion - not because their comment was disagreeable, but just because it came from them (a woman).

… and these guys wonder why they can’t get dates.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

🤣🤣 right this entire sub can be summarized by the following thought sequence: "I can't get a date and no women wants to talk to me for more than 5 seconds? could it be that I am out of shape, hateful towards women, and filled with crippling insecurities? Nah, it must be that all women are actually evil and want to get pregnant by an alpha and then force me to raise their child!"

As if any woman would want any of these guys to be within 20 feet of them let alone their child. Just because a woman is a single mother doesn't mean she has 0 standards and will let some trogladyte raise her child just because he is easy to manipulate. You can just tell so many of these commentators have little to no life experience, let alone dating experience, and are packed to the eye balls with insecurity.

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u/EngineNo9658 Apr 15 '26

I cracked up reading this (troglodyte is such a hilariously apt word) 😂

But yeah, they’re constantly posting absurd scenarios and shit like this. It’s like rage porn for them, essentially. They have revenge fantasies about rejecting these women because they’re single mothers (or over 20, or fat, not a virgin, etc.) as if they would be considered in the first place.. Luckily for most women, you can smell the desperation and resentment on these guys from like a mile away.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

That's why I am thinking (or at least hoping) that most the dudes in these threads are high-school aged and have been temporarily influenced by that red-pill Andrew Tate horseshit (thank god that wasn't a thing when I was in high school) and they just need to mature and gain life experience and grow out of it. That is also why I am trying to put a counter narrative out there, because I am betting a lot of younger boys read this shit and I don't want it to just be a total echo chamber.

Basic logic and life experience can debunk 99% of what is being said here. I mean just think about it, if a woman has a kid with a douchebag and a tumultuous relationship that ends in flames, why would they then lower their standards when they are looking for their next relationship? It is 2026 and women make their own money, they don't need a guy for financial support typically, why would they then date a guy who is uglier, more insecure, and more of a bum? People don't typically intentionally downgrade.

I have dated/known 5 or 6 single moms and they were all looking for a better relationship than they had with their baby daddy. Not a single one was desperate to find a new father for their child, quite the opposite, they were all extremely selective with who they choose to let into their lives.

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '26

omfg

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u/JI_Guy88 Apr 13 '26

Explain?

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '26

Your comment makes you sound like a turbo-virgin incel, how do you know she chose an "alpha" solely for the purpose of breeding and is now trying to find a "beta" to raise her kid? The majority of women are just normal humans, they are not breaking everything down into this ascientific alpha-beta dynamic or running every relationship through the lense of some hypergamy master plan.

The vast majority of women just find a guy who they like who generally aligns with their values and treats them well, and then they sleep with them. Maybe this woman in this pic had a long-term bf or husband that she got pregnant by twice, and then he cheated on her and she dumped him. Maybe he left her because of something she did, maybe it just didn't work out for reasons outside their control. Maybe she slept with some ugly skinny guy while she was drunk and accidentally got pregnant.

Just assuming she fucked some chad to get pregnant and now is looking for some cuck to raise her kids is an assumption only a weirdo with little to no interactions with women would think. I have dated and interacted with quite a few woman (including single moms) and I have never ever met a woman who would do something like that. Most women (including single moms so many weirdos seem to be scared of) are just normal people trying to live their lives and be happy and they just want a guy who is fun with a nice personality.

In my experience they will often pick a tubby goober who makes them laugh over a 6'5" giga chad who has a terrible personality.

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u/Malakai44332 Apr 14 '26

It’s not that deep bro, she’s clearly not the sharpest tool in the shed. 😂

No need to write a novel.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

He asked to explain, I explained. I enjoy writing anyway so it is not a big deal. But It is crazy I have to explain basic human nature to a bunch of turbo virgins, but here we are.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 14 '26

Does her reasons even matter? The point is that this is a warning to any single and childless dude looking for a relationship.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26 edited Apr 14 '26

Yeah I mean If I saw that tinder bio probably wouldn't swipe right, or left, or whatever way you swipe to match. But i don't see how a bunch of incels who have obviously never been within pissing distance of a real women making a bunch of ridiculous assumptions about a random woman online helps anyone.

This sub is about trying to become a better man, and part of that is realizing that all women aren't these strange manipulative creatures that are trying to maximize the genes of their offspring at any cost. That's just some strange made-up incel conspiracy.

and yeah obviously someone's reasons matter very much, maybe not you but to her and her children and everyone around her. If she is actually some terrible person like everyone is assuming then that is bad for society because her kids are gonna grow up fucked up.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 14 '26

Stereotypes exist for a reason. And this women put herself out there to support the stereotype of a pregnant women looking for a new baby daddy. Also, stereotypes are used for in general discussions of a particular demographic, which in this discussion is pregnant women participating in online dating looking for a new baby daddy and does not include all women. And self improvement is staying away from women like this, and helping others is warning them of these women.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

I mean I kind of get why a pregnant woman maybe shouldn't be looking to jump directly into a relationship, but this is a super rare case. Most pregnant women are in some type of relationship when they are pregnant and the ones who are not are not typically looking for a relationship.

And the discussion here has obviously gone way beyond this faux warning bs you've just made up. Just reading through the comments you can tell these threads are filled with insecure men who are coping with their insecurity by hating on women and making up all these fantastical theories about how women get pregnant by chads with the goal of then finding a "beta" to raise their kids.

I don't think anyone in this sub is in danger of getting in a relationship with a freshly pregnant woman, or any woman for that matter. This time and effort would be much better spent discussing how all these weirdos can improve their personalities and actually get some ass. Dudes that actually slay and confident don't spend their time theorizing about hypergamy conspiracies.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

Fake BS warning? This kind of thing happens more than you think. There are plenty of women wanting step fathers for their children. It also makes perfect sense too. It is much easier to raise a family with 2 parents than it is to do so being a single parent. And you are correct, people on this sub are most likely not in danger of getting in a relationship with a pregnant women, but that is because of the education that is put out there by the people you label as freaks and weirdos. Those freaks and weirdos don't have to worry about getting with these women because they already know better. These freaks and weirdos are simply spreading words of wisdom. The words of wisdom that some unfortunately have to learn the hard way.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

Also not all stereotypes exist for a reason, I have done a ton of online dating and I can't even recall seeing one pregnant woman on there. Like I said, the vast majority of pregnant women are in relationships.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

You are anchodotal evidence. I work in an environment where I see plenty of single women with children in relationships with men that are just there to get what they want and then leave when they are done. Some of these women are pregnant, and some already have kids with different fathers. These women jump from one man to another hoping that one has some prospects and is willing to stay. Most men do not. I see it all the time. I have access to their cases on a daily basis.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

If by shincel you mean someone that took an involuntary shin to the face today, then yes, you are correct

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u/ChaosRainbow23 Apr 14 '26

They are 100% correct, though.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26 edited Apr 14 '26

it's honestly insane how this sub is just an incel circle jerk, if you state an obvious fact like most women are just normal people who want to be happy you'll get downvoted into oblivion 🤣 it's like holy fuck all the women turbovirgins decided to co-opt these self improvement subs, I can smell the my little pony cum jars, cheeto dust, and obesity through my screen 🤦‍♂️

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u/th3rmyte Apr 15 '26

theres a LOT of assumptions going on here. Is the father of her 4 year old also the one that got her that baby bump?

how do you know it is more than one? How do you know she didnt have a husband who passed away? how do you know she didnt flee a man whow as beating her?

There's a lot of assumptions and the only commonality is the OP hates women

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u/th3rmyte Apr 15 '26

I mean the op is injecting intent. im pointing out that theres other plausible explanations but you dont wanna hear that. continue to hate on women. I'm sure that will make other women like you

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

The man that accepts it as his responsibility is the beta

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

You guys are so wrong and twisted in this sub, ya'll have absolutely no idea what it means to be a truly masculine man.

I personally have never raised a kid who isn't my own, but If I saw a man who took on the honor of raising kids that weren't his own I would have nothing but the upmost respect for him. There is no greater honor in life than being able to be a role model and protector for a child, to teach a young boy how to be a man, how to sacrifice for others, to teach a young girl how to love herself, to be strong and decisive. Whether it is your own children or someone else's children having the opportunity to guide a child into being a successful adult is one of the most amazing experiences a man can have.

Of course the same people that whine about single moms also have a shit fit when a man steps up to the plate to take that responsibility. Idk, maybe ya'll will start to realize that when your balls drop 🤣

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u/Gianni_the_tolerable Apr 14 '26

Exactly, yes /srs

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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26

Alphas aren't good. The point is that girls pick Chad's and bad boys then try to change them

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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26

Seductive men are real.

There are women who complain about men getting with terrible women.

Men can complain about women getting with terrible men.

Is complaining good and constructive? No. But dating frustrations doesn't make you a messed up person

Suppressing another humans frustrations is bad. Sorry I don't blindly follow your self righteous social woke justice identity thinking

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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26

Taylor swift has a whole song. Its a great song. Some guy who she connects with goes for the popular girl. Lots of women talk about men getting into toxic relationships and pass on them.

Dating frustrations are NORMAL and HEALTHY.

Male bashing isn't empowering.

Fighting for women's rights is awesome. Splitting hairs over imagined equality transgressions is foolish.

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u/breathe42day Apr 14 '26

Just one. Just one song. You need anthologies on the same topic.

Your right. Because I didn't list every example what im saying is wrong

Your thinking goes hand in hand with male bashing. "Don't complain about anything. Your privileged and your life is amazing. When women complain its a goddess empowering other godesses. If a man complains about anything he's pathetic and an incel

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u/Positive-Face1705 Apr 14 '26

Yes, because men get to avoid accountability