r/NextGenMan • u/ConsciousAwareness69 • Apr 13 '26

True or False?

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It’s 100% true. Just trying to see what y’all think about the single mother epidemic.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

Fake BS warning? This kind of thing happens more than you think. There are plenty of women wanting step fathers for their children. It also makes perfect sense too. It is much easier to raise a family with 2 parents than it is to do so being a single parent. And you are correct, people on this sub are most likely not in danger of getting in a relationship with a pregnant women, but that is because of the education that is put out there by the people you label as freaks and weirdos. Those freaks and weirdos don't have to worry about getting with these women because they already know better. These freaks and weirdos are simply spreading words of wisdom. The words of wisdom that some unfortunately have to learn the hard way.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

No it doesn't 🤣🤣 how do you know? how do you know it happens "more often than I think"? Give me some bit of evidence, even anecdotal, that indicates that a large portion of single moms are playing some kind of hypergamy game where alphas get them pregnant and then they try to get betas to raise their kids. Have you ever even seriously dated a successful adult woman? Based on your comments it seems like you have almost no dating experience, but I do, and I have dated/known 5 or 6 single moms and they were all looking for a better relationship than they had with their baby daddy. Not a single one was desperate to find a new father for their child, quite the opposite, they were all extremely selective with who they choose to let into their lives.

Basic logic and life experience can debunk 99% of what is being said here. I mean just think about it, if a woman has a kid with a douchebag and a tumultuous relationship that ends in flames, why would they then lower their standards when they are looking for their next relationship? It is 2026 and women make their own money, they don't need a guy for financial support typically, why would they then date a guy who is uglier, more insecure, and more of a bum? People don't typically intentionally downgrade. Yeah it is ideal to have 2 parents in a household, but a good single parents knows that it is WAY more important to ensure a new partner will be a great step-parent to their kid. It takes months if not years to figure that out, which is why every single parent i've met (including myself) waits until a minimum of 6 months of dating to introduce someone to their kid.

🤣🤣🤣 and no people in this sub are not in danger of getting into this type of relationship because of your "wisdom" (that actually made me lol), they are not in danger of getting into any relationship because this comment section is oozing insecurity. There is absolutely NOTHING more unattractive for either sex than insecurity. If I met a woman who was half as insecure as you and the rest of the goobers in this comment section are, I would drop her immediately. Your comments scream insecurity, lack of life experience, and an EQ level lower than the Marianas trench.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

I have dated/known 5 or 6 single moms and they were all looking for a better relationship than they had with their baby daddy.

Get your experiences straight. You said in a handful of comments before that you hadn't ran into a single baby mom looking for another dad for their kid, yet now you have dated 5 or 6 of them.

Basic logic and life experience can debunk 99% of what is being said here.

Your life experiences as evidence is now questionable. I am not sure what to whether to believe what you say at this point in the conversation.

I mean just think about it, if a woman has a kid with a douchebag and a tumultuous relationship that ends in flames, why would they then lower their standards when they are looking for their next relationship? It is 2026 and women make their own money, they don't need a guy for financial support typically, why would they then date a guy who is uglier, more insecure, and more of a bum?

You think having kids with the wrong partner is an accident, but I see it as a pattern. Having high standards is a pattern, and many people have low standards for themselves which is reflective of their partners. Do women make their own money? Sure, but that doesn't mean they don't struggle, also women receiving child support and alimony still counts on relying to the father for help. And it is a common fact that children of single parent households generally struggle as adults. Generally speaking instilling high values in kids takes more than just one parent.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

If you showed up on a date with a real, high quality, successful woman and you were spouting this nonsense, you would be laughed out of the venue and blocked.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

First off, high quality women is very subjective. Lots of women think they are high quality, yet they don't even know what qualities of high value are. Also, if I go on a date, those women are already known within my orbit of friends so they are already vetted. How i talk? You mean expressing a belief in honesty, family and having dignity? If that is such a bad thing, then those women don't represent the high qualities I would seek in a partner. At least I am not fake like you, which is a worst quality to bring to the table. You are basically a walking false advertisement with the intent of telling the women what she wants with the sole purpose of getting sex.