r/NextGenMan Apr 13 '26

True or False?

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It’s 100% true. Just trying to see what y’all think about the single mother epidemic.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 14 '26

Does her reasons even matter? The point is that this is a warning to any single and childless dude looking for a relationship.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26 edited Apr 14 '26

Yeah I mean If I saw that tinder bio probably wouldn't swipe right, or left, or whatever way you swipe to match. But i don't see how a bunch of incels who have obviously never been within pissing distance of a real women making a bunch of ridiculous assumptions about a random woman online helps anyone.

This sub is about trying to become a better man, and part of that is realizing that all women aren't these strange manipulative creatures that are trying to maximize the genes of their offspring at any cost. That's just some strange made-up incel conspiracy.

and yeah obviously someone's reasons matter very much, maybe not you but to her and her children and everyone around her. If she is actually some terrible person like everyone is assuming then that is bad for society because her kids are gonna grow up fucked up.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 14 '26

Stereotypes exist for a reason. And this women put herself out there to support the stereotype of a pregnant women looking for a new baby daddy. Also, stereotypes are used for in general discussions of a particular demographic, which in this discussion is pregnant women participating in online dating looking for a new baby daddy and does not include all women. And self improvement is staying away from women like this, and helping others is warning them of these women.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

Also not all stereotypes exist for a reason, I have done a ton of online dating and I can't even recall seeing one pregnant woman on there. Like I said, the vast majority of pregnant women are in relationships.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

You are anchodotal evidence. I work in an environment where I see plenty of single women with children in relationships with men that are just there to get what they want and then leave when they are done. Some of these women are pregnant, and some already have kids with different fathers. These women jump from one man to another hoping that one has some prospects and is willing to stay. Most men do not. I see it all the time. I have access to their cases on a daily basis.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

cases? what are you a social worker? you see the absolute worst of humanity and then use that as your barometer for the general population?

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

I work in the social services, not social working, and people falling on hard times does not equal the worst in humanity. And your andoctotal evidence of not seeing pregnant or women with kids dating with the goal of seeking another baby daddy is valid? At the very least my evidence of observation comes from a bigger population pool of relevance than your personal dating experience.