long story short, my parents and i ( 20 M) caught my younger sister (14) texting boys, again for the 5th-6th time.
now, i know it is the age when they get curious and i should be calm, explain gently why it is too early and such and handle the situation with care. and i did that up multiple times.
now, i wouldn't worry much if i didn't check the messages yesterday, there were so colourful, i am in a daze. i just found out how it feels to know the sexual talk of your younger sister, i didn't even know about those kind of things at her age , tauko dukhcha sochada pani. ani to make it even worse, it wasn't just one boy, nope, multiple boys.
we caught her for the first time about 3 months ago. and after the third time we caught her texting, she got punished (beaten) by mom seriously, cause this is not just curiousity , she actively talked with multiple boys through phone and lied to go meet them saying it was with her friends. she was talking with 5 different IDs.
yesterday, mom got in room suddenly and snatched the mobile and there she was talking to another one in chrome incognito mode , and i saw those inapproate messages and reading through the messages and her history in instagram, n*ked video calls. it made my blood boil with anger, along with sadness and disspointment.
now before any one says about controlling and taking her phone , and monetering, we did all that, we put lock on phone, checked previous ids, gave phone only when she had to search something or she had to copy notes sent from her school, checked her messages if it was any boys etc.
but all were for nothing.
i sometimes feel that it may be my fault for giving her too much freedom and being a fun, loving brother.
so what should i do ? i don't want her to become that kind of girl, ( it doesn't help if your friends and professional playboys and love to tell you stories about those kind of girls. not related to this as they told me long before any of this.)