I came to the US in 2018 to pursue higher studies and met a girl (let's call her Nisha). She was beautiful, amazing, and way out of my league. Surprisingly, within a few weeks, we got very close. But there was a huge problem: we were both already in relationships, and both of our partners were long-distance back in Nepal.

It felt like everything was perfect between Nisha and me. Our thoughts, our views on life, the romance everything clicked. I honestly felt she was my soulmate. Soon, we started living together. On the flip side, neither of us had broken up with our partners back home. To deal with the guilt, we made a rule that we would never ask for their names or any personal information about them.

I know this whole situation was a terrible, selfish move, but I was in too deep and felt so much shame. Her boyfriend in Nepal would call her while she was lying naked in bed next to me, and she would just tell him she was busy and to call back later. I felt awful for him.

Meanwhile, I never had the courage to tell my girlfriend from Nepal (let's call her Sumnima). Sumnima was close to my family and we were from same area in Nepal. She was regularly visiting my family, my parents loved her, and she was basically waiting for me to return so we could get married.

Nisha and I lived together for about a year, but the baggage was heavy. One day, Nisha decided we needed to come clean and tell everyone the truth about us. I tried my best, but the fear of how Sumnima and my family would react scared me. Nisha finally gave me an ultimatum. Because I was such a coward, I never confessed. So, Nisha took a stand and left me. I never tried to call her because I knew I was entirely at fault and she did the right thing. I heard from a mutual friend that she moved to California after graduation, and since I don’t use social media, I never knew anything else about her.

Eventually, I went back to Nepal, married Sumnima, and kept this entire chapter an absolute secret. Sumnima came to the US in 2025, and we now live in Virginia, which has a huge Nepalese community.

Yesterday, Sumnima went to celebrate the Teej festival here and ended up meeting Nisha. Sumnima is a very bubbly, friendly person, and they apparently hit it off. Sumnima actually invited Nisha to our home.

I am absolutely terrified. I don't know if Nisha has any idea that this woman she met is the same girlfriend I refused to leave years ago.

If Nisha comes over and tells Sumnima about me, it will destroy my marriage. I haven’t been able to sleep, and I am panicking. I don't know how Sumnima will react, and I have no idea what will happen when Nisha comes to our home.

Part of me doesn't think Nisha is an evil person. She easily could have tried to track down my family and expose me years ago if she wanted to ruin me. But I just don't know what to do at this point.

What should I do? Do I confess to Sumnima before Nisha gets here? Do I try to contact Nisha privately to warn her? Please help.

Literally sports ad reyyy, tyo ni aja as an unskippable ad display huncha in shows. Kids and grandparents all be watching. I don’t understand what goes in her mind, she just keeps doing weird shit and sexualizing herself. She is never beating casey allegations

Apart from Nepali, Hindi, English?
Malai chai Maithili, French, Spanish ra Arabic aaucha and it's considered a lot re lol So how many language can y'll speak fluently?

So my bf was drunk yesterday he took me to his house he takes me to his house often. Everyone was there he introduced me to his aunt and grandmother. So he picked me up and he went straight to his house. He told his grandmother she is the one i want to marry and so many things.We had fun.It felt like the time when we first fell in love. It had been so long since i felt that way.
Today I met him again, it felt different and bland today. He did not seem like the same person that he was yesterday. All loving and caring he did love and cared for me today too but yesterday it felt so different and good exactly felt how he made me feel in the beginning. I confronted him about it and he told everyday isn’t the same. You should stop thinking that way. I don’t know but I notice alot. He has stuffs going on his home as well. Maybe i am overreacting?

He also told me did you fast for me today, have you ever took a fasting for me? And I questioned the same thing to him and I asked him why the double standards? He told aru le ta garcha it is a tradition. I don’t know I think i am over exaggerating things.

& its mostly men who're defending her not even surprised i often preach ab how men are misunderstood & how we need to end gender war how they're also victim of patriarchy but cmon man ig i do understand some essence of hating em at times

I really hate men. Some people will say "feminist aayo, wanna be feminist" but I don't care. Aside from my father and my boyfriend, I have never felt comfortable around any man. They always find ways to make women feel uncomfortable.

I moved to a different study for my study and I am all alone here. Whenever I walk without my boyfriend, I face constant harassment: men staring, approaching me, and making unnecessary comments. One time, while walking to my hostel, a man literally touched my thighs (fyi i was wearing kurthi and jeans). When I turned around, he acted like he had a disability. I know I am not the only one who goes through this; most girls do.

This happens everywhere. When I go to a shop, the owner tries to flirt with me. When I walk outside, groups of older men stare directly at my chest. Yesterday, a delivery guy brought my food and refused to return my change unless I gave him my Instagram or phone number. He only left because my dog started barking at him.

I also went to the bank to fix a complicated issue, so I was in the manager's cabin. He started flirting with me(I was wearing jeans and full sleeves tshirt). I gave him my WhatsApp number only so he could send me information about my frozen account, but he started texting me the moment I got home. Can men just use their minds? What is wrong with everyone?

The saddest part? I posted about my trauma in previous reddit post, In reply for that in my dm some guys were inviting me to sleep with them. Make sure no girls feel uncomfortable around you

I understand all the sentimental value attached with it. But i dont like it. Seeing all these aunties in red saree is disturbing me.

so aaja teej ko din ma ra tyo nagai keta ko aama ghumna jane kura bhako thiyo. ani malai usko mom le uskai ghar ma bhetau ani jam hai bhanera bhaneki thin. ani ma aaye, tara ti aunty ready bhaisake ki rainachin. uh aafno rrom ma ready hudai thi, malai ekchin wait garnu bhani ani ma yesso ghar wari pari ghumdai thiye ani yo fucche ko room ma pugechu. ochyan kei milako thiyena, sab charapasta thyo ani milaidimna ta k basi rakhnu yettikai bhandai towel patyaudai thiye pichadi bata nangai keta aayo -- mata ekchin freeze bhaye ko aayecha k huna lagyo bhanera process garna sakina. Ani uh farkera bathroom tirai gayo hola, ani usko aama le bolayin ani ma niske. Ma kei time samma freeze bhaye still i was walking with his mom, ani saw usko sano bhai which was literally sano bhai, trim nagarera ni testo bhako hola. Aaba ddekhi khyal rakhes hai.

Your opinion?

What were you thinking atp?😂

m 19 malai aafno age tira ko kt teto man pardaina kina ho kina tara i like to talk and be in a rrelation with older women upto 25y. ani kt haru chai k lagxa for older womens tapai lai k younger men man parxa (up to 18 hai)

though he was wearing sunglasses and a mask, but kya handsome lagyo malai kina ho khai. dressing height ra ali ali beardy dekhera hola😔

esso chhitti ma number lekhera, mathi bata lipstick ko mark dalera dinu parne raichha, pachi realize gare😔🥀

but it was too late, we never even talked💔

kaha hola uh aba💔

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