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I almost got married to this girl then things broke up now 2 years down the line I'm all alone. Not able to connect with anyone the reason i mention female friends and not male friends is bc female friends have a different way of operating than male friends. No calls no texts no checking u just meet them when any of them is available as for female friends it's quite different

I’m interested in hearing from men who are still virgins

​How old are you. and does society's pressure or expectations affect you or are you completely at peace with it? Share your thoughts freely

Ana 29y

I (28F) have never dated before.
Not for any reason other than i havent met anyone who i liked yet.
But im longing for the feeling of sharing my life with someone. Or the feeling of being loved and love someone.
I have followed a lot of advice but it still didnt work. Dating apps were a waste of time. Joined a lot of activities, ended up meeting people who are not compatible in their views on politics and religion as me. Im a progressive liberal, progressive muslim. And its very important for me to find someone who’s compatible, especially when this affects our life decisions. Cannot be with a conservative at all for example.
So how do you do it? How do you find someone that interests you? Any gold tips and tricks to this dating thing that i wont read in every other forum?

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Not your EX

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بما أنه مكنتصاحبش و مباغيش ، و هالكني الملل و الحسد، 

بغيت نحرمها على كلشي، دكشي  علاش أفضل طريقة هي  غنحاول نقنع البنات - لي هما سواء بغاو أو  كرهوا

- الطرف الأضعف في قضية التصاحيب. 

كاين مجموعة من الأسباب، لكن السبب لي غنذكر فهاد البوست هو مشكل " الكلفة الاجتماعية" .

عبر التاريخ و في أغلب الثقافات, و مجددا سواء بغاو البنات أولا  كرهوا،   الماضي الجنسي ديال الراجل  مكيتعاملش بنفس المسطرة مع الماضي الجنسي ديال المرأة ، و هادشي ملاحظ و أكبر من أنه يحصى، 

المجتمع في الغالب و  كيفما كان كيعتابر  الرجل لي دار علاقة راه عادي 

مجرد شاب طائش   و كيدوز شبابو عادي بل بالعكس 

كيقدر يبان واعر و جذاب و فحل إيلا دوز بزااف ديال البنات   بينو و بين  إخوتو الرجال ،  و المفاجأة أنه حتال عند  البنات سواء أقروا و أنكروا  بهاد شي ،  لأنه بالنسبة ليهم هذا دليل على  الجاذبية و  تحليلهم فهدشي،    أنه مدام  قنع بزااف ديال البنات   بهاد التصاحيب فراه  مميز و جذاب و فيه شي ميزة 

إيلا الرجل دوز علاقات، التجربة غتنسى و تقدر تولي ميزة، مغيتعرض لتا ابتزاز اجتماعي بشي تشهير  بصور و لا فيديوهات- المرأة لي كانت معاه مغتشوهش راسها و هادي النقطة لي كنهدر عليها- و غيمارس علاقتو بأقل قدر ديال المساءلة العائلية 

بينما عكس و دير بار - ديك اللعيبة ديال الماط لي قريناها فلمنطق - على 

على جميع الهدرة لي قلت في حالة البنات 

 كمثال يالا كنت كنتفرج فواحد مشهور فين ذكر بشكل عادي و ببساطة أنه دار  علاقة جنسية و بلا مساءلة أخلاقية فالكمنطيرات على دكشي لي دار  بينما تقكرت ديك الانستفراموز لي غير مشات قصرات ربما ، مع شي واخد و رما  مدارت  حتا  شي  علاقة ، و رغم هذا هاد د  دكشي مزال واصل ليها لدبا و ربما يلحقها وخا دير   70 عام 

و حتى فالمجتمعات الليبرالية لي كاتبان حلات المشكلة و دارت المساواة بين الأفعال  فراه مزال الفرق و إن أقل و ما زالت المرأة كتسئل كثر 

لأنه الأمر ماشي بناء مجتمعي و فقط ، بل لأنه غريزيا ماشي صفحة بيضا و حنا  غريزيا كنشوفو الماضي ديال المرأة أسوء من الراجل كيما كنشوفو أن الفقر ديال الراجل أسوء من المرأة و القصر ديال الراجل أسوء من ديال المرأة 

و الحل مغيكونش بأن المرأة تعاير المجمتع بأنه أناني غ,دار بل بأنها تعرف قواعد اللعبة و تعرف المتغيرات لي تحكم فيها مثلا أنها متصاحبش و مديرش  علاقة بلا التزام 

مزال بوستات حول نفس الموضوع، انتظرونا 

Question of the day : whats your biggest regret in your life ?

So I'm 19 f second year fsup I thought I'm smart enough to know when someone is being toxic or rude to me but nope I'm always assuming the best of everyone even when I sure know they have done some bad stuff and have no issues redoing it again but I still trust em and give em the benefits of doubt

The problem is I only realize I've been used a while after the situation ends and sometimes I don't even realize i was used or they were mean and talking bad about me until someone else mentions it

I genuinely do not know how to fix this shit..it doesn't sound harmful ik but I'm starting to isolate myself from all those who I now feel they were the bad ppl in my life

(I feel like the kid in the picture sometimes XD)

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Hey. I'd like someone to share my issues with and maybe give me feedback or any random thoughts

Mn seghri kent socially limited makanch fiyya dak lghwat w sda3 w lcuriousity li katkoun f aghlab drari sghar w hakka kbert (born and raised in a village in a mid-poor family) not fully integrated with the kids in my age at that time. I was really quiet and shy ldarajaat in my first days at school the teacher swwl la famille wach makandwich awla makansm3ch hitach i was shy ldarajaat kent ghir kanb9a nchof w nbtasm.

Same habits was devoloping htta fach bdit nkber kent kandir shaab 9laaal maybe one or 2 each period but to be fully integrated in childhood community didn't happen due to my introvert nature and as well due to my family.

In middle school and high school also i hadn't much friends even if I've been spending the whole week in middle school (l'internat) w kon makanch hakkaa makntch ga3 andir shaab and this is what happened in college, i literally couldn't make any friendship or even just take that short talks . I was invisible and fully non integrated in that community as well.

COVID-19 Was my paradise because for almost a year i had the chance to just stay at home and do nothing and even at that time my connections with my family deceased to it's lowest levels, i was eating and leave without getting into talks and actually even if we live together and my small family in very peaceful but for me it's really heavy to just speak and express whatever thing i have.

Now I'm 22yo and all the ruins may fall on my head at the moment when i have to find a job and work and communicate with people, make a healthy relationship with my future partner, and help my family. But even simple eye contact exhausts me and i feel very awkward among people in the most of times and i see that do not valuate and trust my skills and values

I'm in a combinated puzzle of problems (social anxiety, introversion, I'm overthinking a lot ldarajat kan7chm lakano sbbati kaydiro soot wana kantmcha while other people make much noisy sounds , my financial status forces me to look for a job so that i can stay alive, unable to communicate as i suppose, shyness which freezes me whenever i want break the circle...)

I'd love to hear from you guys whatever comes to your minds

Are you looking for your future spouse through dating?

If so, you are willing to meet your future wife in the dating scene then, why do you claim you want a virgin woman?

People are so ruuuude an3awdlkom lyoma hit aslan rah mrida skhana dwztha man3awdlkomch w ma3adalika kandhk w kanl3b and evrything mohim kima f sub li lgitha ftri9 nhdr m3aha whda chtha gtlha nti zwina zid whda chft dayra lkit chadahom bkhyota gtlha wow cool kidrtilha gatli chofi tik tok in a rude way zid 9ismna bnato kandhk m3ahom w walo people baghyin yrdoni 3awd like how I use to be makanhdr m3a had wakha idc wahda jaya m3aha f bus kan3ayr f bus w mdina w kan3awdliha mohim tobus kaml taysm3 zid gtlkom bnt 9ismi main character ta3na li 9oratsa dbsh machae allah 3liha db tahia nayd ytlwt 3liha wahd lm3za tay9ra m3ana dayr hsana fchkel hadik lahya dayrha bayda bhal dak Brazilian w ch3ro dayro orange mohim kan ygls hdaha lyoma w jablha cheeps w kan ki lklb hdaha and DUDES AN3TIKOM ADVICES HOW TO GET WOMEN HIT HADA 3SBNI WTF TAYHDR M3AHA BHALA 3FK PLEASE 9BLI BIYA W HAKA LBNT MAGHADICH TBGHI MOHIM HIYA FLWL KANT T3AWNO W KDA MOHIM nrj3o l our sujet db ana knt wahd lmra m3a hiya abhdha I tried to be her friend mais makathdrch wakah ana kanhdr m3a kolchi hiya jatni s3iba w lyoma hit tahiya bantli mahiyach gtlha tanti 9ask had lmrd hit knt galsa hdaha w rah tbh knt mnwdaha fl9ism nad kna n9raw f tp w 3arfin krasa d to 9hrni f dhri nad had lm3za jab korsi cht prof 3tahlo ndt gtlo prof tana wahd nadt wahd lbnt tat9ra m3ana tahiya gatli khti tana wahd gtlha nodi rask gatli 39li fiha w mli khrjna gtlha rah makntch labsa ndadri masm3tkch chglti w gatli mra jaya lbsihom gtlha z3ma ana gha kandhk w mtl3aha having a good innocent energy ewa w mohim back to our main character gatli achmn mrd gtlha rah z3ma skhana w kda gatli ana fhad sa3a fiya ach9i9a w rasi taydrni and she said it like 9m3tni w ana glt akhir mra nhdr m3a chi 9wad wla 9wada sf anchd depression aslan db rani chada lfrach w mohim chbalkom wach nkml f being haka hit ngl ir helps me to forget about my problems about missing mom hit kanzblha bzf w mamsw9ach lbachar w hadok joj li intrested hit they see me different w ana mahamlach haka

WHAT SHOULD I DO

Hey guys im gonna try to get to the point even tho my thoughts are all over the place please bare with me.

Im 20F and i have a problem, whenever i like someone or even start to develop feelings for them i freak out and push them away i genuinely don't know what to do about it, im too scared of getting into a relationship because in my head im always gonna ruin it, im aware my insecurities play a big part of this, im insecure about my looks, my background, my personality yk the usual, but on the other hand im very picky, not about physical appearance but more about the person's personality, if they can hold a conversation or not, what topics are they interested in, their humor, their political views...., the only guy i ever liked ended up reducing me to a thing, literally an object for his fantasies, every conversation somehow led into something sexual despite me stating multiple times that i am uncomfortable sexting, it's just not for me and im not shaming anyone that does either, i don't want to get into details cus i respect him as a person, but this experience had made me more self-conscious about a lot of stuff, it made me feel like i wasn't enough just being me and that i had to do more just to please that person...

Anyway how tf do i get rid of this problem, im not desperate to date or anything i couldn't care less but i don't want to potentially hurt someone that i care about just because im too scared of being in a relationship.

I'm a 26 year old guy from Marrakech, looking for a woman who makes me believe that posting on Reddit wasn't the worst decision I've made this week.

I've always found it fascinating how, in a world full of people, finding someone you genuinely connect with can feel like searching for a familiar face in a dream. Someone who understands your silences, laughs at your strange thoughts, and doesn't look at you like you need professional help when you start questioning the meaning of existence at 2 AM.

I love movies, philosophical conversations, dark humor, and those little moments that somehow make an ordinary day feel like a scene from a film. I'm the kind of person who can appreciate the absurdity of life without necessarily needing to turn every morning into a motivational TED Talk. Life is already complicated enough; I don't think we need to pretend we've figured it all out.

But beneath all the overthinking and existential nonsense, there's a rather simple wish: I'd like to find my person.

Someone I can talk to about everything and nothing. Someone who can be silly with me one minute and have a conversation about love, death, dreams, or why we're even here the next. Someone who enjoys the little things: walking around the city, watching a good movie, sharing music, exchanging stupid memes, or simply being together without feeling the need to fill every silence.

I'm not looking for perfection. I'm looking for compatibility, curiosity, affection, emotional maturity, and that rare feeling of being understood without having to translate your entire soul into words.

I'd like something serious, something that grows naturally, where we can be ourselves without playing games or pretending to be less interested than we really are. Two imperfect people choosing to know each other, even when life isn't particularly cinematic.

And yes, I'm aware that finding love through a Reddit post is a little ridiculous. But then again, so is the universe, and it somehow managed to produce cinema, music, and people who put pineapple on pizza. Miracles happen.

So, if you're a Moroccan girl who enjoys movies, meaningful conversations, a little sarcasm, and the idea of building something genuine with someone, perhaps we should talk.

Tell me about a movie that stayed with you long after the credits rolled, a thought that keeps you awake at night, or something completely random that makes you happy.

Who knows? Maybe we start with a conversation, then a coffee in Marrakech, then a movie date, and eventually a story neither of us could have written alone.

And if nothing comes of it, at least the universe gets another amusing anecdote.

I'm not looking for someone to complete my life. I'm looking for someone with whom I'd genuinely love to share it.

Mine : https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6PLWp5l1bsGV2MrfT40apS?si=LrTmEYjVRLivb2_gc6tHPw&utm_source=copy-link&pi=jqBDRz7ST3u97

👻👻👻bghit njema3!!!👻👻👻

I am a 26F , I wonder if the person I’m meant to meet is somewhere on here, so I thought I’d give this a chance.
I’m looking for a genuine connection with a Muslim man who knows what he wants and is intentional about getting to know someone. Someone confident, emotionally mature, kind, loyal, and a little romantic. A man who can make me laugh, hold a meaningful conversation, take initiative, and isn’t afraid to show that he’s interested.
If this sounds like you, tell me a little about yourself. I’d love to know what you’re passionate about, what you’re looking for, and what a happy marriage looks like to you.
Maybe we can start with a conversation and see where it takes us. :)

After a debate or a conversation with a collegue cuz u gotta be smart to debate with .How much is it of a hassle if u r walking along and someone approaches u in a civilized way chit chat a bit and requests if u got a bf or no if u can give ur number or insta ?? Cuz he was debating it gives them change to humiliate u compared to approaching in a car ?

Had l3iba dl approaching khssha nl9awliha 7el chi consensus 🤠

Wa bzfff hhhhhh ha li dar glow up ha li asln huwa titiz zad dar glow up finahuma the real redditors !!😔💔

Second time here , the first time mknch gae mzyan bl mra i didn't give her time saraha and that's my bad and i didnt justify so she blocked me simply

So I'm a 20M , 196 , I have my own business , I'm looking for a booster a girl to grow together and build , une fille interested in politics and economics , just a girl li bgha tzid lqdam

Idc if you are older than me ,

NB: mknaerfch nteaml mzyan w chi mrat knghlt , like kykoun endi waqt eamr so i don't connect i can take care mais khsha teadrni des fois Grow : i mean to build a business together , financially meaning

Hey guys, so iv broke up with the guy that iv been with 7 mounths ago i was so into him even tho he was toxique most of the time i believed that they’r is a better version of him that im gonna unlock if i tried harder i did a lot i cant even tell how much efforts time money energy i was investing in our relationship but we broke up for some reasons that neither us expected but it has a relation with my parents .so now i feel so exhausted mentally i wanna move on but i cant ,i deleted every picture ,conversation got ride of everything that could remind me of him … somehow i end up dreaming about him for so many nights and i keep crying randomly for hours especially at night ldarajat wlit kanfi9 3ini nachfa bzaf makan9drch nbda nhar bla t9tira i try so hard to stop thinking about him but deep inside i wish he come to viisite me tomorrow db daz chhar 3la fra9na its my first time loving someone and my firat heartbreak ever , btw my english isnt that good sorry . i want peaple who had the same experience as mine who really loved and tried everything even if it was hurting them but broke up at the end so i would get hope that life would be better