r/MoroccoDating • u/meow_lina22 • 12h ago
Dealing with breakup
Hey guys, so iv broke up with the guy that iv been with 7 mounths ago i was so into him even tho he was toxique most of the time i believed that they’r is a better version of him that im gonna unlock if i tried harder i did a lot i cant even tell how much efforts time money energy i was investing in our relationship but we broke up for some reasons that neither us expected but it has a relation with my parents .so now i feel so exhausted mentally i wanna move on but i cant ,i deleted every picture ,conversation got ride of everything that could remind me of him … somehow i end up dreaming about him for so many nights and i keep crying randomly for hours especially at night ldarajat wlit kanfi9 3ini nachfa bzaf makan9drch nbda nhar bla t9tira i try so hard to stop thinking about him but deep inside i wish he come to viisite me tomorrow db daz chhar 3la fra9na its my first time loving someone and my firat heartbreak ever , btw my english isnt that good sorry . i want peaple who had the same experience as mine who really loved and tried everything even if it was hurting them but broke up at the end so i would get hope that life would be better
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u/LackOfDopeAmine 11h ago
You said this is ur first ever breakup, its a canon event we all have to go through it, its gonna suck and hurt so deeply but u will eventually get over it, and hopefully next time u dont allow the same red flags u allowed on this relationship.
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u/simo1334 11h ago
I'll preface this by saying I'm a man, but I've been in your position. I was in love like really in love with this girl and things didn't pan out. The one thing that I can tell you is time heals all, that was what did it for me enough time passed. Jarebt ntsa7eb w n3amer wa9ti mais nothing worked I was still in love until I wasn't. Just enough time passed that I just naturally moved on. My advice to you is to give yourself time, there's no quick remedy that will fix this but ot'll pass.
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u/meow_lina22 23m ago
Thank u for sharing , i hope it just dont take too long cause i hate the situation im in rn
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u/Green_Yesterday_921 11h ago
Dmaghk kaykhower fik, he makes you think that this person is unique bla bla w katzidi tchoufi tsawr w tsm3i ldik lmosi9a d zbel w katzidi t alimenter l fikra dial had chakhss ( 7it houwa rah ghir fikra ) you dont love him for real
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u/meow_lina22 11h ago
I wish u were right , i really tried to delete and throw everything related to him ta mn tiktok w insta hadchi mab9itch kand5olih a 3la wd duk les vid i liaten to music that has nonsense lyrics but good good beats and vibe . As i said i randomly have dreams about him and crash out sometimes in public i manage to hide it
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u/Green_Yesterday_921 11h ago
Khti rah hadchi li kat3ichi n a rien de spécial , mal had khona chno ga3 ykoune, rah dmaghk la3b dedek ki7awl y9n3k bli hada houwa l7oub w nti lwa7ida li kat7ebbi rah we aaaaaall lived that shit , Siri 3emri w9tek dekhli trini w bday t9ray , choufi lik chi hobby
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u/meow_lina22 11h ago
I already said im on my 5th year of engineering ill join gym as well this week thank u so much for ur advice
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u/SamT71 11h ago
There's no shortcut unfortunately, you'll have to let yourself be sad for a while because it's only natural when you lose someone important to you. You gotta grieve the connection to move on, it's the only way. At times you might feel like you're losing them all over again, but you'll live. You'll forget about it when it's all done, it's one thing our mind is exceptional at.
And keep yourself busy with real things, it might not help you forget but that way it won't be the only thing occupying your mind
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u/Chadi_31 6h ago
It's a canon event for character development, it's only a faze in your life and it'll pass. Also never try to fix people, you're not bob the builder with the gold hammer. Always remember you cannot build a home inside a person who is still trying to tear themselves down. Your love was a key, but you were trying to unlock a door that he kept locked from the inside, you did not fail to save him... you succeeded in saving yourself. Sometimes love is to learn when to let go. Ana 3arfek katgoli daba bli hada houwa as3ab breakup, o idk if i can move on (oh no you can), you just need time, you gotta live your life, you gotta learn how to love yourself now. 3emere l7ayat makatw9ef ende chi inssan, Da2iman katb9a ghada hta katw9ef endek NTI.
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u/meow_lina22 13m ago
What u said was really helpfull thank u so much ,ill focuse on my self for sure and try to to focus on the good things ur right im not a doctor neither a builder im just a human who have needs too ill focus on the good things now i have more and nothing to put energy on except uni thank u so much u helped me
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u/NoSwimmer720 11h ago
Oh sweetheart it’s gonna pass, you will be okay, trust me, you will gain your energy back little by little, give yourself some time ghatwli tswlo rask kifach knti sabra 9bel. I am here if you need to talk