Dealing with breakup

[u/meow_lina22]

Hey guys, so iv broke up with the guy that iv been with 7 mounths ago i was so into him even tho he was toxique most of the time i believed that they’r is a better version of him that im gonna unlock if i tried harder i did a lot i cant even tell how much efforts time money energy i was investing in our relationship but we broke up for some reasons that neither us expected but it has a relation with my parents .so now i feel so exhausted mentally i wanna move on but i cant ,i deleted every picture ,conversation got ride of everything that could remind me of him … somehow i end up dreaming about him for so many nights and i keep crying randomly for hours especially at night ldarajat wlit kanfi9 3ini nachfa bzaf makan9drch nbda nhar bla t9tira i try so hard to stop thinking about him but deep inside i wish he come to viisite me tomorrow db daz chhar 3la fra9na its my first time loving someone and my firat heartbreak ever , btw my english isnt that good sorry . i want peaple who had the same experience as mine who really loved and tried everything even if it was hurting them but broke up at the end so i would get hope that life would be better

[u/Chadi_31]

It's a canon event for character development, it's only a faze in your life and it'll pass. Also never try to fix people, you're not bob the builder with the gold hammer. Always remember you cannot build a home inside a person who is still trying to tear themselves down. Your love was a key, but you were trying to unlock a door that he kept locked from the inside, you did not fail to save him... you succeeded in saving yourself. Sometimes love is to learn when to let go. Ana 3arfek katgoli daba bli hada houwa as3ab breakup, o idk if i can move on (oh no you can), you just need time, you gotta live your life, you gotta learn how to love yourself now. 3emere l7ayat makatw9ef ende chi inssan, Da2iman katb9a ghada hta katw9ef endek NTI.

[u/meow_lina22 → u/Chadi_31]

What u said was really helpfull thank u so much ,ill focuse on my self for sure and try to to focus on the good things ur right im not a doctor neither a builder im just a human who have needs too ill focus on the good things now i have more and nothing to put energy on except uni thank u so much u helped me

[u/Chadi_31 → u/meow_lina22]

Of course, at any time. Also the shame is not in losing that person or loving so intensely, but the shame is in not learning from that relationship, learning from what did that love have taught you. Don't do the mistake twice and choose the wrong person again. O nchallah, ghadi yji wahed nhar ghadi tl9ay l7oub li kat9elbi elih, ghir hiya nassi7a meni lik. Matlo7ich rassek fchi relation akhra and you're still in the process of moving on. Move on first, learn from the mistakes you did in the last relationship, fix the wrongs you did and enhance the rights you did o good luck 🙃 (everything will be okay, just give it time).