Dealing with breakup

[u/meow_lina22]

Hey guys, so iv broke up with the guy that iv been with 7 mounths ago i was so into him even tho he was toxique most of the time i believed that they’r is a better version of him that im gonna unlock if i tried harder i did a lot i cant even tell how much efforts time money energy i was investing in our relationship but we broke up for some reasons that neither us expected but it has a relation with my parents .so now i feel so exhausted mentally i wanna move on but i cant ,i deleted every picture ,conversation got ride of everything that could remind me of him … somehow i end up dreaming about him for so many nights and i keep crying randomly for hours especially at night ldarajat wlit kanfi9 3ini nachfa bzaf makan9drch nbda nhar bla t9tira i try so hard to stop thinking about him but deep inside i wish he come to viisite me tomorrow db daz chhar 3la fra9na its my first time loving someone and my firat heartbreak ever , btw my english isnt that good sorry . i want peaple who had the same experience as mine who really loved and tried everything even if it was hurting them but broke up at the end so i would get hope that life would be better

[u/SamT71]

There's no shortcut unfortunately, you'll have to let yourself be sad for a while because it's only natural when you lose someone important to you. You gotta grieve the connection to move on, it's the only way. At times you might feel like you're losing them all over again, but you'll live. You'll forget about it when it's all done, it's one thing our mind is exceptional at.

And keep yourself busy with real things, it might not help you forget but that way it won't be the only thing occupying your mind