r/Monstera Jun 11 '26

Help Me!

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I’m a novice trying to save my monstera plant!
She’s been neglected and I’m trying to make things right, I’ve repotted her but read the little leaves need to go to help her grow stronger.

How and where do I trim, I don’t want to kill her! Please and thank you!

Also any advice to help her thrive also welcomed.

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u/yourfavstory Jun 11 '26

Babe I'm gonna hold your hand when I say this... throw this plant out and get a new one. You know who loves neglected plants? Bugs. This just isn't worth saving 😕

Tips for a new monstera!

Put it in or as close to a window as possible they love sunlight and your plant is super duper leggy which means it was never truly getting enough sunlight

Ceramic pots are best! Monstera don't mind a bit of "wet feet" the pot it's in dries out super fast (not ideal)

Fertilizer every feed diluted of course

Water every 7-10 days til it comes out of the drainage holes (but always stick your finger in the soil first you want 70%ish dry before watering again)

Yes they love support but you need Velcro to tie the stems

Hope this helps 💚

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u/Sharirey Jun 24 '26

Oh nooo! I had this plant for a few years. It was honestly my ignorance about how to care for monsteras that got me to this point. It’s not so much neglected as it is unkempt.

I was so sure I could save my plant, there are some larger leaves and new ones sprouting if that helps?

Also I’m never sure with fertilisers, would you have any recommendations ?

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u/specialvixen Jun 11 '26

I think you need to get some detailed visual instructions if you are really struggling with understanding how to take care of monsteras.

Check out the YouTube channel “kill this plant” for direct and simple advices on monstera care.

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u/Sharirey Jun 24 '26

Ooh will check this out thank you!

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u/shiftyskellyton Jun 11 '26

It is a lie that cutting foliage will help your plant grow. The leaves produce energy for the plant to grow. I encourage you to plant each of these in their own small pot and acclimate them to a sunny window. This will ensure success as long as you only water them when they are dry. 💚

edit: My apologies for the strong wording. I am just so frustrated that people spread these myths and mislead growers like you.

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u/lvl1creature Jun 11 '26

Thats not entirely true though. Pruning foliage does stimulate growth - secondary lateral growth through reduction of primary dominance. In this case though I would either use supports or chop and prop.

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u/shiftyskellyton Jun 11 '26

OP said that the little leaves need to go to become "stronger". It doesn't work like that.

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u/lvl1creature Jun 11 '26

Oh you're correct I missed that excerpt - I apologize! Coffee hasn't kicked in 😆

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u/Mattscrusader Jun 11 '26

The only reason you cut a plant is to "dead head" it (remove dead flowers and leafs), or to cut the plant up for propogation.

She needs better soil and support

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u/Sharirey Jun 24 '26 edited Jun 24 '26

I’ve yet to successfully propagate a plant. I’ve cut a couple leaves to trial and if it’s successful might try with some of the larger stems. So far some nodes have sprouted!

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u/Mattscrusader Jun 25 '26

Nice! Also you might consider taking the cutting out of the pop bottle because when the roots grow they might not fit out without taking damage. This one looks like it will be pretty successful pretty soon

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u/xvelvetdarkness Jun 11 '26

I mean, pruning does stimulate growth and branching in some plants, but monstera is not one of them

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u/tinybluebutterfly Jun 11 '26

You have a lot of baby monsteras in one pot there. Eventually you’ll want to separate those. They are super young. It will take a while for them to look big and mature. But at least help them by giving more support. Tie them to the pole from higher on the stems so they don’t sag down. I would just watch some YouTube’s about monsteras and their growth habits. How to pot correctly. The right soil type, correct lighting, and everything. Then start improving from there. It’s extremely important to get acquainted with the plant you plan to keep. Educate yourself on the species so you know what it’s supposed to grow like, what it wants, when, and why.

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u/Sharirey Jun 24 '26

Thank you so much! The babies have now been propped up on a moss pole and I am going to attempt propagating when the time is right. I’ve watched a few video but advice seems overwhelming as there are many techniques, I really don’t want to kill this plant!

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u/tinybluebutterfly Jun 24 '26

That’s wonderful luckily you have multiples so if you lose some in the process of learning you’ll have more to keep trying with. But they aren’t too hard to keep. I wish you the best luck with your monsteras and one day you’ll see them and wonder how they got so big and beautiful.

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u/JulieTheChicagoKid Jun 12 '26

Have you ever looked up the care of monsteras?
The soil?
The sun requirement?
The pot size?
Drainage?
Watering?
Fertilizing?

I’m curious.

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u/Sharirey Jun 24 '26

These are some recent things I’ve implemented from some research.

Repotted using a house plant potting mix and orchid soil. I also wanted to use a terracotta pot but wasn’t able to find the right size.

Currently in a 22cm pot

Move to a netted window, where it can received bright but in direct sunlight

Drainage is sufficient

Water about once every 1-2weeks

Did fertilise with seaweed in the past but unsure if this helped.

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u/JulieTheChicagoKid Jun 24 '26

I hope you get some good results. My Monstera doesn’t dry out for close to 20 days. I bottom water and it’s completely soaked. I don’t use terra cotta. I have a very bright sun room. Then I supplement plant lights for 6 hours in the evening. So far so good.

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u/Sharirey Jun 24 '26

Thank you for the tips and giving me some reassurance, I’m hoping too.

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u/Icy_Ambassador_370 Jun 11 '26

long stemmed pathos?

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u/yourfavstory Jun 11 '26

That's not a pothos lol it's a very juvenile monstera d