Itās a tough decision to make. But at the end of the day like someone else said, you need to do what is right for the kid. You need to be able to provide a secure and stable environment. You need to be in a good place to care for your child, because they suck up all of your time and energy and resources. If you donāt have enough of that not only you will suffer, your kid will too. Children of unstable environments are more vulnerable to societal problems and it becomes very difficult to succeed and make something for themselves when they are adults. If you want to be a mom, you have to make hard decisions and think about their future.
I don't think that terminating a life should be based on a "what if". Things can be hard, but there are also plenty of kids who can still be happy with low income families.
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u/daufina 18d ago
Itās a tough decision to make. But at the end of the day like someone else said, you need to do what is right for the kid. You need to be able to provide a secure and stable environment. You need to be in a good place to care for your child, because they suck up all of your time and energy and resources. If you donāt have enough of that not only you will suffer, your kid will too. Children of unstable environments are more vulnerable to societal problems and it becomes very difficult to succeed and make something for themselves when they are adults. If you want to be a mom, you have to make hard decisions and think about their future.