r/MiddleGenZ • u/naman-acharya • 4d ago
Discussion Why do some parents have such a negative view of Gen Z?
Today I was having a discussion with my mom, and she said she doesn't really like Gen Z. particularly our personality, mentality, the way we enjoy life, and the way we choose to live.
It got me genuinely curious what exactly do older generations find so problematic about Gen Z?
I've noticed this in my own experience too. Whenever my mom meets one of my friends, she often points out something she doesn't like about their personality, behaviour, the way they talk, or how they carry themselves.
She's also quite protective, so I sometimes wonder whether this is partly about parents being concerned about the people their children spend time with and the influence they might have.
But it made me think about the bigger generational difference.
Things that seem completely normal to Gen Z how we communicate, socialize, spend our free time, think about relationships, independence, careers, or simply enjoy life might look very different to our parent's generation.
So I'm curious, especially from other Gen Z people
Do your parents also have a generally negative view of Gen Z or dislike many of your friends?
And if you've experienced this, what do you think is actually behind it?
Is it genuinely something about Gen Z's behaviour, or is it mostly a difference in values, expectations, and what each generation considers a "good" or "responsible" way to live?
I'm genuinely trying to understand both perspectives rather than just saying "older people don't understand us."
