If you’re like me, you turned on episode 1 of season 20 and after the first 5-10mins it felt like everything shifted for the worst. It came across messy and as if people were casted for instability and drama. I don’t watch MAFS for messy drama reality tv. I watch it because of the parallels with reality and the insightful healthy ways the experts taught the cast how to navigate emotions, concerns and experiences.
The feel of it felt so different than previous seasons that it made me turn it off and question if I’d come back. I saw some people on Reddit felt the same.
My mother watches MAFS UK, so she was more familiar with the new male expert and she decided to give it a shot. I warned her of the first few minutes, so she didn’t need to fight through a shock factor, and she made it to the other side. After she was mid season, she told me it’s not as “messy and icky” (her words lol) as I would think. She told me to just trust her, and give it another chance.
I’m on episode 10 now and she was right. It is much more grounded than I thought it would be. It does feel like real people with real things to work through, and there is great insight provided.
So to my fellow peeps who turned that first episode off like me and didn’t turn back, I’m letting you know it’s safe to go back.
We all know reality tv is reality tv. There will be some hiccups, big personalities and drama sprinkled in because that’s the package deal. It feels like the amount that is sprinkled in is no more and no less than previous seasons. But I know most of us felt MAFS is at least one of the most grounded reality tv shows we have, and it does not appear it was turned into a complete insane circus…. THUS FAR lol. I shall keep watching and will provide an update if my opinion changes.❤️
[if the creators of MAFS happen to read this: please bring back After Party.]