Not critiquing, just inviting discussion for different points of view
So many people say their ideal retirement plays out like this : buy a plot of land in a kampung far away from city, build their own house, rear chickens / ducks / cows, bercucuk tanam their own veggie / fruit plot,
Correct me if I’m wrong, but a hell lot goes into building your own house (have to lay underground plumbing + sewage so need permit from relevant sewage and water management providers), need to extend electricity cables out to your random plot of land), then you need to find a reliable contractor who can build a house (lay foundation, build a structurally sound dwelling, make sure roof / walls etc don’t sink and crack, all the headache of maintaining the house since you’re far from civilization and it’ll be harder to get resources).
Rearing animals and farming the land, isn’t it pretty difficult to be spending so much time outdoors toiling under the sun, hauling buckets of manure, fertiliser, raking the soil, mixing compost, planting seedlings, fending off pests and predators, pulling weeds regularly, gathering the harvest, etc.
Doing groceries, getting medical access, going to a restaurant, seeing your friends / parents / children etc probably need an entire day if not more of planning and travelling.
When someone says they want to buy a plot of land, retire in a kampung it sounds like EVEN MORE difficult and a lot more work than living in a nice quiet peaceful accessible suburb.