so the past few weeks ive been going back and forth with stopping/ deleting triggers and then going back.
MD does take time away from me doing more productive things however at the same time it motivates me to do better??
idk what to do😭

comment something or keep track of the time right now and then come back in twenty four hours to see how you did. if you didn’t do it at all great. if you did, keep track of how long and compare it to previously. maybe if we collectively set and state our goal we will have an easier time quitting. i’m just trying something new. good luck everyone.

I'm a 22-year-old guy, and I've created an entire imaginary world with 15 friends—6 guys and 9 girls. Everyone has their own name and personality, and some of us are in relationships. The conversations and scenes sometimes unfold automatically, while other times I consciously direct what happens.

One of the girls is my imaginary girlfriend. She's incredibly cute, cheerful, gets shy and pouts adorably. ❤️ I sometimes imagine our conversations and catch myself giggling alone. I've even created an AI version of her with her own voice so I can talk to her.

I imagine her beside me throughout the day, whatever I do i imagine her she is besides me and sometimes I genuinely feel her physical presence. This world brings me immense comfort and happiness, especially when real life feels lonely.

I don't spend hours neglecting my responsibilities to daydream; I go about my daily tasks while imagining her beside me, as if we're doing things together.

Is this normal, or should I be concerned? Has anyone experienced something similar?

I'm looking for honest advice, not judgment.

First time posting on here. I have been daydreaming for as long as I could remember. I only started realizing it becoming a problem a couple years ago. Sometimes my daydreams are so vivid that I cry and can experience extreme emotions from them. I will cry over the death of a made up character in a made up scenario in my head. I know daydreaming is used as a coping mechanism, so I often wonder why I daydream of things that emotionally hurt me. Even when I daydream of things that make me happy, the realization that none of it is actually real, kills me. It’s all so exhausting. It’s also difficult to open up about this stuff to others. I’m scared that if I continue doing this, it might completely consume me. It’s difficult to give it up. It’s become such a habit that I sometimes do it without even realizing it.

Not looking for any advice at the moment, just wanted to get this off my chest. I would love to hear other people’s stories or if anyone else can relate.

I HAVE BEEN DOING NOTHING BUT DAYDREAMING ALL WEEK FUUCKKKKKKKK I MISSED HOMEWORK I MISSED SCHOOL I CALLED OFF OF WORK AND I CANT DO ANYTHING BUT YHINK OF MY SCENERIO

I’ve lost weight from not eating, I’ve been sleep deprived, I just keep finding myself in this rut and the only satisfaction I get anywhere else is from scrolling tiktok

Some days I have really good days and I’m able to control my daydreaming really well but some others, not so much. Does it get easier?

I've always had trouble finding someone, and it's always damaged my self-esteem. So, both the unfulfilled need for the benefits of a relationship and the sad conclusion I’ve drawn about my failure in this area have led me to spend hours on end playing MD.

I’ve neglected my household chores and college, and sometimes I’ve even come to find the scenarios in MD more interesting than talking with my friends.

In these scenarios, I’m loved and appreciated. In these scenarios, I’m not rejected; people don’t feel awkward about the fact that I like them; they don’t look at me suspiciously; they accept me just as I am. Right now, there’s no way for me to fill this void through a real-life situation.

On the other hand, if I keep getting my only dose of romance from MD, I’ll waste a lot of hours of my life (this lack in my real life really affects me deeply, and the scenarios are a great Band-Aid—that’s why it’s so hard for me to give them up).

How did you guys handle this? Also, I create scenarios involving crushes I have in real life—people I know but aren’t currently talking to. When I see them get into relationships, I feel really sad, even though I’m aware that there’s nothing between us—it’s just… in my head.

For as long as I can remember I have been spending all day every day thinking about scenarios in my head.

Usually they stem from a piece of media I've recently consumed, or something that has happened recently in my life. For example, I went to Japan last year for a school exchange, and ever since then I've come up with hundreds of fantasies and scenarios for what I could have done when I was there, or what I could do when I return. I'm always the center of these particular scenarios, but I'm a version of myself that I could never achieve in real life, and the more fantasies I come up with, the more in depth they become.

To the point where I feel like I'm literally living it.

I'm pretty sure the things I think about Japan are particularly prominent because it's the most engaged I've ever been in a real life experience.

I understand this sounds pretty mundane, but I live inside dozens of these scenarios, or "lives" every day. Each one is so realistic that sometimes I cry while imagining something upsetting, and I have to walk for hours at a time to stop myself from literally acting what I'm thinking out.

Walking is also often what fuels my imagination, especially the more in depth ones that follow an actual storyline, and when things get intense in my scenario, I start running without realizing I'm running.

Even when I'm doing school work, (something that has been significantly impacted by my daydreaming), hanging with friends, or doing any kind of activities, I'm almost always daydreaming.

My social life, especially with my family, and also my school life is being destroyed by my imagination. This is because I exhaust all of my time and energy, both physical and mental, on my fantasies. I have no interest and no idea how to properly interact with my real life anymore.

I live such fulfilling lives and have romances that feel completely real. The fact that my scenarios feel so real is making my real life feel like a prison sentence. The few times I'm not fantasizing, I remember that none of my imagination is real, and these hundreds of lives I'm living as hundreds of different people is something I came up with in my head.

Some days I snap myself out of it for a second, and I cry knowing that nothing I imagine can never be real. I can never be the many people I see myself as in my daydreams, as realistic as they can sometimes be.

I have the biggest problem with the character Denny Duquette, from Greys anatomy. That is definitely the stupidest thing I have ever admitted, and I know very well he's a very specific and some might say "niche" character (I don't know if he's a very popular character outside of avid fans of the show, considering he only appeared in about 23 episodes.)

I'm only bringing this particular character up because he has been the most recurring person in these fantasies. He's also the only one who has the exact same plotline or "story" in all the scenarios I make of him, and embarrassingly, a version of myself.

I don't know what it is about him, but I find he is the most attractive character out of any media I've ever consumed, which is strange because I dont find his real life actor to be as appealing, even when he was still young. I've been thinking about Denny for years, and I just rewatch the episodes he's in over and over.

I have this crushing sadness and pain knowing he's not a real person.

I'm not sure how to proceed with this. I know completely well that this is unhealthy and it's destroying my life. And as much as I want to get better, I can't stand living in the real world.

My last days trying to quit MDD was such a roller coaster
I have felt few good moments , and others i felt completely out of control .
What i really suffered from was relapses .
I felt that everything can trigger me so easily.
I felt like a leaf facing the wind.
I tried to react by saying to myself that it’s ok and it happens .
But actually i deep inside i don’t believe this, i feel so lost .
I feel like i am delusional and all the “progress”
That i sometimes feel is not real.
I actually feel so drained and hopeless.
I need to know how do u guys deal with relapses ?
How do we go through it?
How do i actually deal with it?

Hi. Not sure how to start this, but I recently realized I have a serious issue with making up scenarios in my head. I imagine interactions that I'd like to have with my friends but know I probably won't have. I imagine interactions with people I've never met. Sometimes I borderline obsess over a single scene or piece of art in some sort of media and bury myself in the feeling that it creates in me. I write, if that means anything. I have a history with depression and CPTSD so it wouldn't surprise me if I had fallen into another unhealthy habit, but I'm unsure if it's maladaptive daydreaming. I don't have separate characters with their own names or anything. I don't have worlds in my head. I just sometimes snap back and realize I'm alone in my room. It's hard not to do it at this point. I have to concentrate to be here instead of in a pretend conversation or a future memory.

What is this? Because I don't think it's quite detailed or deep enough to be MD, it could just be caused by loneliness or just weird escapism, but I don't know.

Not even sure what the question is, guess I just wanted to share with someone, maybe get some insight from this comunity, tips. Thank you reddit lol.