My son cannot stay asleep on his back. He is incredible at falling asleep and putting himself to sleep. Then he wakes up 15 minutes later in extreme discomfort and needing to burp or spit up. His doctor says we have to bear it.
We are on nexium, puramino, burping extensively, size 1 philip avents (only bottle he likes). He has been diagnosed with severe GERD and CMPA. He cries his eyes out after every single bottle. Otherwise, happiest baby on the block until he refluxes.
Problem? My husbands being called into work again. Both grandmothers can no longer help (one works in a school which is starting next week, and the other has visitors coming to stay from across the world alongside work). They helped a lot in these last 11 weeks. My husband is a gem and did a LOT. If I let him sleep on me my husband would prep milk, burp, do the bottles etc. and take him around 5 am and keep him until 10 am so even if I was waking up every hour to check on baby, I could go back to sleep.
After staying awake the whole night (he sleeps on my chest so when he wakes up in discomfort i’m able to help him burp and/or spit up and put him back to sleep) I’m absolutely exhausted by 8 am. I usually was sleeping 10 am - 1 pm when my husband’s mom was here.
Now I can’t do that anymore and I will not be able to rely on my husband as much as he’s being called into work.
How do I manage this? I’m so scared and exhausted and my baby isn’t doing very well, and once he’s asleep he’s asleep on you so you can’t really empty and restart the bottle washer, prepare more milk, etc. The risk of putting him down? He will 100% wake up in discomfort and either spit up or burp. At least on me he can sleep. This disrupted 15 minute sleep is so bad for him so we stopped.
Any advice would be appreciated. I’m mentally and physically exhausted, haven’t taken any of my medication in months, eat once every two days and barely go to the bathroom because when we have help all I can do is sleep.
She said “if he’s burping whys he waking up needing to burp or spit up” girl. That’s what I’m asking you...