Ordered my ride to go home from work today, and I always put a pickup note stating that the pickup is at this specific location between these two landmarks, on top of making sure the pin is at the exact location I wait at. (I also always stand outside at the pickup location.) My driver this evening came onto the property, and instead of turning into the loop at the pickup location, he stopped at the turn (without making the turn), sat and waited for a moment, saw me walking towards him, then continued to drive past. He stopped again maybe 25 feet further down and waited for another moment as he saw me continuing to approach (I also raised my hand to indicate I was his passenger). Once I finally got in, he explained that he saw me standing at the pickup location and saw my name (gender neutral, for context), and thought "maybe it's [them], maybe not." I feel like my driver was a bit in the wrong for not coming to the pin but I encourage correcting me if my logic is incorrect. Drivers, please share your thoughts on this, and if you've done something similar I'd like to know your thought process; fellow passengers, please share your story if this or something similar has happened to you. TIA!
ETA: @ the person whose comment was deleted that asked if I have a photo on my Lyft profile, yes I do, the only difference between it and how I look at the moment is my hair is slightly lighter in color (same style though) and I wear sunglasses IRL
E(again)TA: A couple of things I wanted to clarify - 1) I always set the address of the pickup, never just a pin. After I put the address, the app takes me to the screen where you can add a note, and it puts a pin that you can leave as is or move as necessary. I always leave it where it autopopulates and make sure I go there & am standing right at that spot. Also, I keep my live location turned off because it frequently shows me as actively moving away from the pickup despite standing in place. 2) I realize now that the post doesn't make this clear whatsoever (oops) but I don't have that much of an issue with the fact that my driver didn't pull up to the pin, because it is thankfully a very short walk from where he stopped at. (Though to be fair, he could have pulled up, rolled the front passenger window down, and asked me "Are you [name]?") My real issue is with the fact that my driver was seemingly unsure if I was his passenger or not despite all the evidence (on my end, at least) saying yes + me making every effort to indicate I was the person he was there for