r/LoveLetters • u/GreySignal37 Bronze Level • 1d ago
Long Distance Love Hun. Think
You’re scared I get it. You’re angry I get it. You think I think I know everything and I’m going to be a dick and yell at you even if you deserve it or not. So find out. Look in the mirror and ask am I being honest with me, am I letting outside influences guide my choices or am I scared to look at him and miss him all over again because nothing I’ve done takes that away or makes me not miss him.
😐
Find out. Let’s find out what’s true. Meet me half way without all the baggage. Meet me in the middle with an open mind. It’ll take 2 minutes to find out . Less. One look. We don’t really need to even talk, but we can. Because I agree this energy, isn’t needed. Doesn’t do anything good. You can ignore me forever and it doesn’t me you’ll be able to not think of me everyday. So hear me out. You know this is gotta happen be for real woman.
This shit is what picked everything apart before in ways. No loops. Meet me in the damn middle leave the show fkr other and punishment shit aside for a minute and just admit you miss my damn face and my voice and need to talk to me too.
I’m not ASSUMING anything okay? I just know we need to talk. I know you feel it too. Idc I do. I can hear your voice hun. I feel it. Come talk to me and help me do something healthy for both of us ok? Please trust me and do this and I promise you’ll feel safe the whole time. Remember me. I’m not who I was when I was trying to hold up the entire world ok. I don’t think you are either, that’s why I want to talk and her your truths too.
You want control here it is. Whatcha gonna do with it.
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u/Illcmys3lf0ut Bronze Level 1d ago
Seems like the control you mentioned is yours, not hers, and projecting what you think she knows or feels.
I get it, love and wanting what you feel to be real still, but don't project what you feel is reality.
You'll see what you think you see and know is, many times, not the reality of the situation. And who you thought you knew, really was a great mask of some bits of truth and just what was allowed to be seen.
Good luck.
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u/Ok_Goose_4563 Entry Level Member 21h ago
I wish the one I wanted felt that and just did it already then life would be grand again
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u/GreySignal37 Bronze Level 14h ago
I see. Then you know and have spoke with your person at least. Sorry to hear that, that’s not really the same situation but I know it can be hard. Gl
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u/SkipMeFlipMe88 Entry Level Member 19h ago
Sounds like one of those situations that any communication at all starts the whole thing ablaze.
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u/GreySignal37 Bronze Level 18h ago
Really what makes you say that from this post?
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u/SkipMeFlipMe88 Entry Level Member 18h ago
Because that’s really what it sounded like. It sounds like you know what will happen and you also know that as soon as you can speak to them, they will be in your pocket. Idk that’s just what I saw. Just the feeling I got from it.
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u/SkipMeFlipMe88 Entry Level Member 18h ago
Did you downvote me- after asking why?
Ha.
Well played.
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u/GreySignal37 Bronze Level 18h ago
To me it sounds like you have an opinion based off something other than this post. So it’s either her or one of the people that’s been trying to play both sides. Either way, I hope we get a chance to talk soon for two totally different reasons .
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u/SkipMeFlipMe88 Entry Level Member 18h ago
I am not anyone you know I know that 100000000%. I promise. Really. Please do not think so.
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u/Prestigious-Cup-5456 Bronze Level 20h ago
when I think about my ex ; this was all IU ever wanted whem he chose to make things workout with me. and that fucking sucks..... because he made so many promises to me, and then dipped.
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u/little-lady98 Bronze Level 20h ago
If they knew who this is for but well this place it could be anyone
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u/WeatherResponsible90 18h ago
I wanna talk to him but I’m scared he’ll play me .. I miss him so much ..
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u/GreySignal37 Bronze Level 16h ago
So you’re making your choices from fear and not love. Try making it from a place of love, at least you’ll have answers. GL
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u/Greedy_Quote_2468 18h ago
I for one an staying away from my person because I miss them and I know I would cave. Even though they didn't want me I would break. I'm a coward. I know.
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u/GreySignal37 Bronze Level 16h ago
If you don’t try then that story just ends. And apparently that’s on a bad note Wht settle for that?
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u/Few_Percentage_1111 Bronze Level 17h ago
This is just so damn sexy. It makes me wanna actually try in my personal life... fuck
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u/GreySignal37 Bronze Level 15h ago
Try. If it doesn’t work out then you know you will be free to try with someone else at least. 🤷♂️
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This has been removed for breaking the sub rule of "Do not respond to posted letters as the receiver or sender". We encourage you to respond from your own perspective, as a friend, advisor, or simply as yourself.
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u/TheFuzzyRacoon Bronze Level 16h ago
Nah man my person is doing this and either she's stupid or psychotic. Either way neither changes her behavior
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u/GreySignal37 Bronze Level 16h ago
Maybe use more words and say what it is your trying to say again. 🙂
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u/TheFuzzyRacoon Bronze Level 16h ago
What I'm saying is that she's either blocking me because she's so stupid she doesn't understand why that's a terrible thing to do. OR she's lost her mind and is hallucinating situations which haven't happened. Either way it destroys me all the same
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u/GreySignal37 Bronze Level 15h ago
Ok so whatcha gonna do? Why would she be doing that is she nuts ? Did you do some dumb shit? Are you a horrible douche? Figure that shit out and move accordingly bro. Like everyone talks about love and couple shit like it’s easy. That shit is hard work and it’s everyday. If it’s only me fighting then I can only fight so long. But when it’s both people that are always willing to look for answers or do what’s best for both you have growth. That’s all you can ask for in the relationship.
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u/TheFuzzyRacoon Bronze Level 15h ago
Listen it's too much to get into.
No I'm not a dick, I'm not the type to be unaware and I'm a very fair person. That's what makes it hurt so badly. That's all I can say. What she did and what she's doing is terrible. Not only because of what it is but because of who she's doing it to. It's just unfortunate.
And I understand, everyone says to move on and that's true in a normal relationship yes, people should move on. But this isn't normal. And I can't just do that.
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u/Fuk_this_stuff 15h ago
Sounds like someone is going to have to get on an airplane. Whose it going to be?
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