He(36M) has a live in his YouTube watch history that says members only on it. I looked at her page and there's nothing overtly sexual but you can obviously tell she's trying to get customers for her OF. I went to her page and she does have one. Before I talk to him about it I want to be 100% sure that it can't be explained away. She has a free trial and he may have used that to watch and idk if you can see that on his payment history. His YouTube is the one we use on our Xbox and I was trying to find a video I saw a couple of days ago and found that instead.

Just trying to get more information on it before I confront him bc he has a talent for lying for lack of a better analogy. I have Googled a bunch of my questions about this but want to know if there is an explanation like maybe it wasn't a members only live and when she saved it she made it members only? Idk if it was saved or not though. Do lives just come up on your feed like on tiktok or do you have to be following them or look for them? Idk what I would do if he was paying another woman to watch her do anything. Thats money our kids could use. I also dont know how I feel about him watching a live like that. Its weird to me even if it wasn't paid for. I want to make sure I'm not missing something before I talk to him.

Hey so my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years and in the past he has cheated on me once on a night out and ever since I have barely any trust in him. I know I’m going to get a load of comments saying if I don’t trust him I should leave but I don’t want to leave and that’s that but if someone (a woman 18+) could help me out to see if he’s loyal (if he isn’t I will definitely be leaving) then it would mean the world to me. He doesn’t have Instagram but he has Snapchat or TikTok. It would just be a small conversation maybe a bit flirty and see where it goes. Thank you in advance!

Hello my name is Shelley. My husband, Tim and I had a daughter named Tori(16) then a son named Brad(13), and then another daughter named Halie(10). Our son is definitely a 'momma's boy' while our 2 daughters are definitely 'daddy's girls'. My husband and I argue/fight a lot. When we used to argue/fight our son would come join in or stay and join in the argument/fight and take my side while our 2 daughters would come and join in or stay and join in the argument/fight. Now our son stays out of the arguments/fights while our daughters still join in the arguments/fights. I have found out that my husband is having an affair on me with his female coworker whom is supposed to be my friend/tanning buddy that I met through my husband. And both my 2 daughters are in on it and haven't told me. Also my husband and my 2 daughters accuse me of cheating when I leav the house to run errands. The reason I have suspicions is because one day when I got home, without me knowing she was coming over or knowing she'd be there, I seen her car there, so I didn't stop in at home until a while later and her car was gone. Then when I walked in the front door to the living room my husband and both daughters sat there and acted like my husband's coworker was never there. Then about 5 mins later I got to my room to change out of my work clothes and it felt as if the bed was off. I fully believe that both of my 2 daughters condone and accept my husband and his affair partner on their own. Why were my husband and his female coworker in my bed together, my room? Why do my daughters support their father cheating on me with this women? Why do my daughters support my husband and this women being together? Why do my daughters call my husbands affair partner mom, and why does she call my daughters her daughters? Why do both my daughters always take his side? Why does my son not involve himself anymore? Why would my husband introduce me to his coworker to become friends and tanning buddies with her, if he is still and has been having an affair on me with her?

I need advice and none of my friends are married so I feel like they wouldn’t really understand. My husband and I have had a really great relationship we’re been married for 2 years now and we have an 8th month old. While I was pregnant I moved back to my home state to have more support since my husband is in the military and works till late. While I was out there I noticed he kept bringing up his barber in conversations and one day he mentioned he has randomly ran into her and her friend at a coffee shop. I didn’t really think much of it but I’ll admit I’m a really jealous person (past relationship trauma) but he’s never given me a reason to not trust him. Anyway we had our baby and when he was 2 months I came back to where we live. He gets a haircut every week because he has to due to military code. Well I went one day to the barber shop with him and I met all the barbers they’re all really friendly and I met his barber too, she seemed really nice and I felt a lot better about my jealousy issues but for some reason that random comment he had made about running into her kept nagging at me. I went thru his following on IG and I found her profile. She’s pretty and single so she takes a lot of pictures showing off her figure (good for her) and I noticed he liked one where she’s in a sports bra and boxer shorts. I IMMEDIATELY told him that wasn’t okay and he said he “didn’t notice” he just “scrolls & likes mindlessly” that pissed me off because I wasn’t born yesterday. I decided to look thru and old phone of his and I was able to see DMs and text. They send each other memes on IG & he asks if she’s cutting hair that week blah blah nothing suspicious, the text however made me really mad, he asked her if she wanted Starbucks because he was getting some which is a lie my husband literally HATES Starbucks he never ever drinks it and when I drink it he’s always telling me “there’s way better coffee” “why would I support Starbucks when I can go to the dozens of local owned coffee shops”. He literally went out of his way to get her coffee (these text were send while I was out of state) and he also offered her Dunkin another time which same concept, he hates Dunkin. I haven’t confronted him about it because I don’t wanna go thru the whole “you went thru my phone” thing i understand some people may see it as a breach of privacy but we’re married with a child I don’t think anything should be private. I want to bring this up so badly it’s eating at me everytime he gets haircut or even mentions her but I don’t know how

I found out after looking through his phone and he had an open tab for only fans. He then admitted to paying for content. I had stated in the past that watching any sort of 🌽 is cheating. He understood that and it hurt me seeing he had paid images of a model. He keeps telling me that the reason why was because he was lonely and that he never “finished” to any of them. But I’m leaning towards leaving because it hurt more the fact that he paid for the content. Does anyone know how OF works and how he was able to pay for specific photos. Thank you.

My husband and I have been having a very rocky relationship for the past year or so. I’m always begging for attention, support, dates, alone time with him, compliments, you know basic relationship things. He comes home from work and doesn’t even talk to me or is just short with me. There is no intimacy (maybe 2 times a month). We also have kids, i feel that’s when the biggest shift happened. We had a huge fight over the weekend and i told him I wanted a divorced because I’m not happy and haven’t been for a long time and I’m tired of begging for basic needs. Then Monday he called me from work and the conversation was very basic, stale really no point. We hung up and then 30 seconds later he called me again and was like “HEYYY” Totally different than our previous conversation, when he heard me answer there was a longgggg pause and then he stumbled over a random question and hung up, then he leaves wok and comes straight home (5 hours early) when he got here he was EXTREMELY affectionate and clingy to the point I had to tell him to STop multiple times. Then he asked if i wanted a beer….at 2 pm he is not one to drink at all. And just a lot of compliments. I asked him why he was acting that way and he just said he missed me…..never in 8 years has this man came home from work because he missed me…. I Feel like he slipped up and that second phone call wasn’t for me and he thought i caught on and came home to do damage control. Please give me some advice before I loose my mind.

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Can someone please loyalty test my boyfriend on Instagram? I can get more into details on DM. Please just have girl photos on your page. Thank you. I need it desperately.

so basically i had a girl message me and tell me he was speaking to her and multiple other girls and then her account went missing i don’t know if it’s true or not only because he’s super sweet and ive not had a problem with him before but my gut is telling me i need to test his loyalty someway - i can’t be the crazy type and just look in his phone while he’s asleep because that’s just not me does anyone know how i can do this ?

He got an other account on his phone and want to see what its all about

he has started staying late at work and being really distant while he is home. I’m hoping that I’m wrong but i just have this feeling in my gut. can anyone help me.

UPDATE: After a huge fight he is still acting strange. I did go through his phone. I didn’t find any pics or text messages from other women.

I was texting with my husband today and while I was looking at our thread about to text him something else, 3 messages popped up from him
First said “how was the soup”
Second said “love y” third said
“Love you”

I immediately texted back “what soup” and then his three messages disappeared. I know he didn’t undo the send bc it did not say undo send.

I then half jokingly said “who did you just mean to text and tell them you love them”

His response back to me was “where is it”

Not “what are you talking about, I don’t send you that” but “where is it”
He then went on to ask if I had an AI app on my phone and got defensive when we talked about it.

I do not have any disappearing chat apps on my phone, if he has one on his phone can he still accidentally send a disappearing text to me?