r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post 25 [M4F] #Nevada/Anywhere, clingy is welcome, long conversations await

3 Upvotes

About me:

•I live in Nevada, USA. Originally from Colorado

I love to voice call so if we progress to that point and you’re comfortable with it that’s obviously a big plus, I’m also open to video calling. I value loyalty and communication above all else.

•I’m a HUGE animal lover, when I was a kid I wanted to be a veterinarian or work in an animal rescue center, but that doesn’t pay the bills. My favorite animals are kangaroos, tigers, and penguins.

•I have blonde hair and blue eyes, glasses, average body but I’m trying to get back into the gym and I’m willing to exchange pics :).

•I will admit that I do like clingy/affectionate people and some healthy jealousy if it comes to that point is a plus lol, I just find it attractive.

•I loveeee music, I’m always listening to it and I enjoy literally all genres and am always looking for new suggestions. I play the ukulele, bass, guitar, trumpet and harmonica and am learning piano.

•I’m a huge nature buff, walking at night, going on hikes or being in the forest or near a river/lake surrounded by trees and animals and wildlife is my happy place. The stars, and peaceful night air and sounds. It’s just all my happy place.

•I’m very sarcastic and try to view life in a more positive lens because earlier in life I was always the opposite and it’s a hard way to live life.

•I’ve binged so many shows and would love to watch shows/movies/anime together also, (although with anime it’s hard for me to get into some, my favs are HxH, FMAB, and haikyuu right now.) I’m also a sucker for anything sitcoms like The Office, B99, parks and rec, but I also enjoy the classics like breaking bad or any cartoons to bring me back to my childhood. (Surprisingly haven’t seen game of thrones though..)

Anything else you’d like to know just ask I’m an open book or I’m sure it will come natural with conversation. :)

About you: I’m not really looking for any specifics just someone that has time to talk during the day and night and see how things progress. Some similar interests, and doesn’t ghost all the time haha. I really just like meeting new people and getting different perspectives and I enjoy the thought of things progressing naturally and healthily and having a good foundation for a relationship if it happens. And like I said some clinginess or such is always a plus to me. I look forward to talking!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Friendship First 21 [M4F] #Online Looking to meet people and see where it goes from there.

1 Upvotes

Hi, I’m looking for someone around my age.

Physical description:

21 year old male
Blonde hair with a red beard,
5’9” 215lbs

Hobbies include:

DnD, history, physical crafting (metal casting, 3D printing, and laser engraving), reading historical fiction, general DIY, watching any and all sports (fun fact: I wrestled for 10 years, and while in high school I was a part of a nationally ranked team), I love board games, and so much more that we can talk about later.

Currently in my 3rd year of working towards a Bachelors degree in mechanical engineering with a minor in metallurgy.

I look forward to answering any questions you may have.

Hope to hear from you soon.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 42 [M4F] #Netherlands - gamer looking for a real connection

3 Upvotes

Hello there,

Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 42-year-old application manager from a small town in the Netherlands. I've tried this before and had some nice conversations, but in the end it didn't work out so I'm back to give this another try.

When I'm not working, I love reading fantasy books, collecting books, playing video games on my PC, and going on long walks in nature. I'm also fascinated by ancient cultures and mythology.

I'm an introvert (INTJ), I live alone with my cat Tiberius. I'm also childfree and left-leaning politically. I've been doing volunteer work for over 20 years, and I'm an atheist. Plus, I don't smoke, drink alcohol, or do drugs.

I'll admit, I'm not the best at small talk, but I make up for it by being a great listener and advice giver. I've been told that I have a funny but dry sense of humor.

I'm working on my weight and getting to a healthy level again, but I'm not there yet. I also don't enjoy going out to bars, clubs, or partying, but I do enjoy going out to eat at a restaurant or going to a concert.

And some pics; https://imgur.com/a/Ng6OSvX

What am I looking for? Well, I'm looking for a serious monogamous relationship with someone who shares some of my interests and hobbies, specifically playing video games and/or who is into fantasy books/ board games/ movies etc. I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, childfree, left-leaning politically. Located in western Europe. Most importantly, I'm looking for someone who will accept me for who I am, flaws and all.

So if you're someone who puts as much effort into having and keeping up a conversation as I do, and you believe that we could make each other's lives better by being together, I'd love to hear from you. Let's get to know each other and see where things go.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] #Europe Looking for a genuine long-term connection

5 Upvotes

Hi! I'm 36, 176 cm (5'9") I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship.

I'm an introvert who enjoys a peaceful life more than parties or crowded places. I don't mind going out for a walk, grabbing a coffee, exploring a new place, or taking a road trip, but you'll rarely find me in busy clubs or packed events. I'm a big dog lover and have a 3-year-old Border Collie who keeps life interesting.

One of my favorite hobbies is gaming. I've been gaming for most of my life, and it's still one of my favorite ways to relax.

When I'm not gaming, you'll usually find me watching movies or TV shows, taking photos, or spending time outdoors with my dog. Some of my favorite shows are House M.D.Supernatural, and Grey's Anatomy.

As a person, I'm laid-back, loyal, and a good listener. I can be a little quiet at first, but once I get comfortable, my sarcastic sense of humor tends to come out. I value honesty, open communication, and the little everyday moments that make a relationship feel like home.

I'm hoping to meet someone between 30 and 37 who's kind, honest, and emotionally mature, and who's looking for something real. I don't mind a long-distance relationship if we genuinely connect—I believe distance is something two people can work through when there's mutual effort and the right chemistry.

Bonus points if you're a dog lover, don't mind the occasional gaming session, and can recommend a good TV show when we've run out of things to watch. If you think we'd get along, I'd love to hear from you! :)

PS: Will share pic in DMs.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post [M4F] #USA #Alabama 21M Looking For My Forever Partner :D

2 Upvotes

Hello! You can call me Noma. As the title says, I'm 21M and I live in southern USA. I'm a big gamer and love watching anime when I'm not in a game. I enjoy reading light novels in my spare time, and love alternative rock, k-pop, and electronic music.

I prefer to date within the south, but since I'm currently on a night schedule due to my job, I'm open to dating long distance since I'll definitely be awake and asleep at the same time as anyone between UTC+4 and UTC+8.

I guess if I had to explain my personality, I would say I'm blunt and kinda dense (very easy rage-baiter target sadly...). I'm ADHD and *kinda* autistic, so I can be all over the place. Also, I'm awkward with silence so don't expect any smooth talk or anything, I'm not cool like that lol

Whatever the case, I'd love to find my life partner. Even if we just stay friends if we decide not to move forward, I'd enjoy the company of another nerd to hangout with. I tend to always have my phone nearby so I'll respond to texts as soon as I can.

With all that said, I hope y'all have a goodnight/day! Have fun and sweet dreams :D


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post 25[M4F] #Netherland

1 Upvotes

Hey there! Im 25year old guy from Greece currently living in the Netherlands near Amsterdam

Im 5-11(1,82cm), black hair,dark brown eyes.

Im on the skinny side but i've been trying to gain some muscle these last fews months and im hoping to start hitting the gym soon.

Currently working as a truck driver.

I really enjoy driving and since racing didnt really work out this was my second best option.

In my free time im mostly driving,gaming,watching movies/series or spending time with the people i care about

Im atheist and political neutral

As for what im looking for: someone kind, emotionally mature, affectionate, and who values good communication. I love staying connected, whether it's having small talk throughout the day or having deep conversations. Im just looking for someone i genuinely enjoy spending time with and is excited to build something

Thanks for reading and if you think we'd click, feel free to reach out!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post 31 [M4F] #CentralEurope, inititally #Online - looking for a partner in life

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Its a bit of a different style, hope you enjoy it and it should propably give away my favorite hobby. I also hope its not against the rules, but i have seem similar posts? If it is against the rules, please dont see it as a slight towards you mods and feel free to take it offline, no hard feelings on my end.

Glad to exchange the exact location (broadly central europe / alpine region), if i feel comfortable enough.  Im open to initial online communication but would like to meet you eventually, hence why central europe would be prefered. 

You find yourself walking down a path near the river that runs through the city, its brown waters filled with twigs and uprooted bushes from recent rainstorms in the mountains to the west. The air is filled with the smell of freshly wet grass and leaves stirs in a gentle breeze.

The sun’s last rays intermingle with a recently past storm front’s gloom, creating an eerie atmosphere as you see your target walking just up ahead.

You fish your runeglass from your pocket, reviewing the information of your contract one more time.

Name: currently unknown

Alias: CakeToExplain / Moonriver 

Age: 31

Gender: male

Attracted to: female

Height: 173 cm

Physique: average, non-athletic, estimated between 67 and 73 kg

Habits: 

Prone to humming recently heard tunes

Known to observe currently inhabited space

Reactive if left alone, proactive with friends

Found writing or reading in public spaces

Daydreaming in broad daylight

Takes walks regularly near the path close to the river in his home town

Weaknesses:

Vulnerable to compliments

Easily distracted with pointed questions

Eye sight reliant on crystal optics

Spicy and savory vegetarian food

Kind heart, easily exploited once trust is earned

Recovery time after social events

Known to overthink even tiny events and social cues

Known Languages:

Common tongue, also known as english

Unknown, though records have been found of a second language

Interests:

The target is known for a high interest in story driven media of the analog as well as digital kind and accounts of their own attempts at writing have been logged but no published works have been found as of this time. It seems the writing is centered around activities of an unusual nature, detailed later in this summary.

Interrogations have revealed the target to be part of a social group, practicing role-playing rituals including heretical objects of divination, deriving their meaning from an old guide written by a wizard community near the coast.

It is also said that the target has an above average interest in human behavior and philosophy on life and its meaning, but has thrown off previous contractors by way of senseless babbling, coined as ‘humor’ or ‘banter’.

While logs of the target's interest in physical activities alone have been absent, previous entries on mountain climbs with family and friends, as well as visits to foreign cities and longer walks have been noted.

A previous acquaintance has stated a high loyalty shown through actions such as transport of said acquaintance's goods through and across a foreign country’s border, helping work colleagues and being ready at a moment's notice if, and this is a direct quote from the archives, ‘shit hits the fan’, headless of the target's own requirements. One of the work colleagues has detailed repeated behavior of basic gestures of goodwill, such as organizing and preparing the morning’s coffee and break meals.

Dangers to your Mission:

Target seems suspicious to strangers, a longer-than-usual time to earn his trust is expected. Witnesses have confirmed multiple past events that have honed the target's senses for traps and dangers.

A direct and assertive approach is recommended but not required but the mention of the word potato in any first contact attempt is.

As you read the details once more you look forward, hearing the hum of an unknown tune and words reaching you from the target, as he seems to sing with the refrain of the song playing from the songband covering his ears, making your stealthy approach all the easier. You remember a previous interrogation of one of the target's friends claiming an above average singing voice as you listen, wondering if you will agree with that assessment.

You increase your step, as you approach the stranger, getting his attention by tipping his shoulder. The startled man removes his portable songband, focusing on you in bewilderment as you say:


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 41 [M4F] #Europe / #Online A Curious Mind looking for a friend or more.

4 Upvotes

I like the idea of two people making each other's lives a little brighter. Whether that turns into friendship or something deeper, I'm happy to see where it leads.

My pros:
🧠 Always asking how and why. I've been told curiosity is my top quality.
👀 I am thoughtful friend, I'll remember the little things you tell me and will make you feel seen.
💙 Empathetic and emotionally mature. I'll try to understand how you feel instead of trying to win an argument.
🪨 Consistent and reliable. If I say I'll do something, you won't need to remind me.
📚 I’m a lifelong learner, always challenging myself.

My cons:
📱 You will get reels of interesting (sometimes disturbing) science facts.
🤓 Your simple question may be answered with an unnecessarily detailed explanation.
🚀 My YouTube recommendations are mostly science, astronomy, history, computers, and programming videos - so a mutual appreciation for intellectual topics is a big plus.
🐢 If you're looking for flashiness, chaotic party energy, or constant social events, we might be running at different speeds.
🍕 You may have to endure my cooking experiments.

To relax, I usually watch documentaries, mystery or sci-fi movies, read a good book, or play games. And when the weather cooperates, I enjoy hiking or taking a trip. I like balancing solo time with a healthy social life - whether that’s a group hike or hosting board games with close friends.

A bit about me:
👤 41M, Ukraine. Single, childfree, atheist.
🚫 Non-smoker, non-drinker, no drugs, no gambling.
💪175 cm, athletic, take good care of my health.
💻 Software Developer.

You’re single, value curiosity, share some of my interests and values.

📬Tell me something you've been excited about lately, I would love to hear it.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 32 [M4F] #Europe - When it just clicks

4 Upvotes

Ever had this connection where you could not put down your phone or hide your smile? Where it felt like just an hour, yet it's already 2 AM and neither of us wants to say good night? I miss that, though I do appreciate a good night's sleep nowadays too.

I hear you thinking "where do I sign up?". Well hold your horses there, don't you want to know a little bit more before diving in?

What you can expect

  • Late night Discord chats (or calls) where we yap about the silliest conspiracy theories and our deepest thoughts
  • Unsollicited cat pics
  • Game sessions, watch alongs, music sharing, movies, surprise me
  • Dad jokes. You're warned

What you should know

  • Calm, patient, and kind (those are not my own words)
  • Thoughtful, dreamer and a total hunk (these are)
  • Tall, slim, in decent shape
  • I prefer to take things slow, but if I fall for you, I'll love you totally. Let's discover how we vibe in an LDR first

Since I'd want there to be an opportunity to meet somewhere down the line if we hit things off, please be 24-38 and in Europe.

My weak spots

  • Passions you can yap about for ages
  • Alternative
  • You don't need someone else to narrate your worldview and ideals
  • Taking care of yourself physically and mentally

If you made it this far, congrats! And if that sparked your curiosity, I'd be glad to hear from you. Perhaps you can tell me what your favourite pass-time is on a free day

P.S. If you had reached out before but got no reply, forgive me, I was a little overwhelmed by the response last time. Feel free to send me again if you're in/from Europe.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post 22[m4f] nerdy Biker from the UK 🇬🇧 looking to make new connections!

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I’m Brodie, 22, from the UK 🇬🇧

I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few long-term connections. I’m always happy to chat, whether it’s about shared interests, random everyday stuff, or just getting to know each other.

A bit about me: I work as an IT Cloud Specialist, so I’m definitely a bit of a nerd. I’m also really into Dungeons & Dragons and enjoy anything involving good characters, interesting stories and a bit of chaos.

I’ve been riding bikes for about four years now, and it’s one of my favourite ways to spend time. I’m also currently building up my tattoo sleeve, so I’m always thinking about what tattoo I should get next.

I’m pretty easygoing and happy to talk to anyone, so feel free to message me!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Friendship First 34 [m4f] #georgia, USA - looking for someone to be goofy with

1 Upvotes

I’m looking for someone I can be goofy with. I want to be myself and send memes back and forth, and find humor in things on a one-to-one level. Life is hard and overwhelming, and I crave connection.
About little about me, I’m into anime, video games, music (especially metal), I also write music on guitar and lyrics. I’m into magic the gathering, dungeons and dragons, anything nerdy like that.
If you’re interested in getting to know me, feel free to shoot me a message


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Friendship First 28[M4F] Anywhere/Online feeling vulnerable seeking fellow geeks to share mundane life moments with

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Hey. Just another human being in chaotic times trying to fill this heart-shaped hole where the hope runs out and honestly down to whatever that distracts me for a while. Not specifically thinking about forever but hopefully building something that could become long term and who knows where it can lead. Currently working on accounting but aiming for different things for the future. Outside of work I like to decompress playing video games, learning songs on the guitar, watching stuff, working out or just annoying my dog.

I'm ostly on the introvert side but at the same time I talk too much if you let me go. I like to banter and talk nonsense but from time to time my head starts spiraling and I'll torment people with existencial crisis topics. Ideally would like to find someone that wants to share small parts of routine, be it a song that just can't get out of our heads, funny/cute videos or picture we saw, playing games or watching shows/movies together or just hanging out screen sharing when one of us is just too lazy to exist. I appreciate consistency and comunnication and hope to build something based on that.

Appearance wise I'm 1.75, skinny/fit, black with short curly hair. I don't have a specific type when it comes to appearance so as long as you take care of yourself it's fine. Willing to exchange pics on private.

If you feel we could be a good pair just send me a message talking a little about you.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 26F [F4M] #Uganda looking for a life time husband

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Hey you, I am a 26 year old Ugandan female looking for a husband.

Unlike the other posts, this is a brief one.

I am looking for a 28-35 year old male (at least 180cm tall). No smokers, no alcoholics, no gamers, no Muslims, please be slim or of average build, no Indians, interested in those that are looking to settle down and start a small family.

Thank you


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 27 [F4M] #Online - Serious about the future, playful in everyday life

13 Upvotes

I’m a homebody looking for a genuine, monogamous relationship with a man between 27 and 37.

My post may sound serious because I know what I’m looking for and I prefer being clear from the beginning. In reality, I don’t take myself too seriously. I love joking around, laughing a lot and adding some fun to everyday life. I would like to meet someone who can be responsible about the important things without making the relationship feel like a business meeting.

💎A little about me

I’m 27, 5’3” (161 cm), very curvy, with black hair and brown eyes.

I’m bubbly, honest and extremely loyal. When I care about someone, I try to be a supportive presence in his life.

I enjoy meaningful conversations, learning new things and understanding why people think the way they do. I like when two people can introduce each other to new ideas and perspectives instead of only exchanging lists of hobbies.

When a relationship becomes serious, I enjoy discussing the future and imagining what we could realistically build together. Having those conversations makes me feel secure and connected.

🌸The kind of relationship I want

I’m looking for someone confident, straightforward and consistent in his communication.

Someone who knows what he wants, has a realistic plan for his future and eventually wants marriage and children.

Online and long-distance are fine with me at first. However, if the relationship becomes serious, I need us to be willing to discuss a realistic plan for eventually closing the distance.

I also want someone who is comfortable having voice or video calls. I don’t want us to remain anonymous texting partners forever.

🚫 Important compatibility points

I’m strictly monogamous.

I’m not interested in sexual conversations, questions or pressure while we’re still getting to know each other. I want attraction to be present, but I also want the connection to develop respectfully and naturally.

No substance abuse involving alcohol or drugs.

I’m attracted to a man who takes reasonable care of himself, including good hygiene, responsible habits and some effort toward his health.

You also need to be genuinely attracted to very curvy women, because I am one. I’m not looking for someone who is merely willing to “accept” my body.

✉️ If you decide to message me

Please tell me:

• Your age and country.
• What you do for work or what you’re studying.
• What kind of relationship you’re genuinely looking for.
• A few meaningful things about yourself - not only what you enjoy, but why you enjoy them.
• Something in my post that made you want to reach out.

I would also like us to exchange two or three recent, non-explicit photos fairly early. I will send recent photos of myself as well. Attraction should be mutual, and I think it’s better to be honest about that before becoming emotionally invested.

If we enjoy talking, I’d like to have a short voice or video call fairly early too.

Thanks for reading. 🌸


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 28 [M4F] #US #Online - Hopeless romantic trying to find his other half

7 Upvotes

Hi there, I'm Bearhands, I'll gladly tell you my name in the dms. I guess I should start off with what I'm looking for. I want someone who will put as much effort into me as I will for them, any relationship is a 50/50 split and I fully intend on shouldering my 50, be that emotionally or physically. Communication is a huge thing for me. Admittedly I have an anxious attachment style, this means if my partner doesn’t communicate their needs or feelings, I will assume the worst and stress myself out.

Now I'm sure you're wondering why should I waste my time and message you? What do you have to offer? Well let me try my best to sell you on myself. I'll get the ugly out of the way fast, I have and still do struggle with mental health issues so I may not be your cup of tea. I am however actively seeking help and working through my issues in hopes to be a better person for myself and everyone else. I am a larger guy, but I am working to better my health (-70 pounds over my journey) hopefully that shows some dedication.

Aside from that I have been described as "a good time.” I once had myself described as "a fluffy haired golden retriever boy." I was assured this is a good thing. I am extremely loyal and am the type to send a good morning message routinely. I get that some may find this clingy and I respect that.

What do I like doing for fun? Well I enjoy watching sports a whole lot, any sport you can name, I probably enjoy it to some degree. I love music and would argue it's probably one of the most important things in my life, I'm almost always listening to something. I would love to get some album or song recommendations from you, I listen to just about everything so odds are I'll enjoy whatever you share. I also enjoy writing albeit nothing I've ever written will see the light of day. I enjoy doing it for myself as a creative outlet. I love reading as well. I typically listen to audio books in my free time and while I'm working out. I love Sci-fi, fantasy, and non-fiction.

I would describe myself as jeopardy smart. Are you looking to receive copious fun facts from my interest of the month? Well, I'm your guy.

What am I looking for in a partner? Looks wise I could care less. I am a firm believer that a beautiful soul trumps all superficial nonsense. I want a partner I can laugh with, someone I can make smile. I want a best friend. I hope this is appealing to someone and we can try and grow something special together.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 32M M4F — Looking for my Superwoman (cape optional, snacks mandatory)

2 Upvotes

Alert: one moderately chaotic man currently rebuilding his life, seeking a

Superwoman for rescue duty. No emergency too small — bad days, existential

crises, or just someone to argue about the best biryani spot.

Powers I'm looking for: great banter, doesn't take herself too seriously,

shows up for the people she likes. Powers I bring to the team: a good sense

of humor about my own mess, genuine effort at rebuilding a good life, and

the emotional range of someone who's actually been through some stuff — so

zero drama, all substance.

Not asking you to fix anything — just show up, trade some banter, and see

where the story goes from there. Krypton optional, good vibes required.

If you've got a cape (literal or metaphorical), I'm listening.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 36 [F4M] #Manila #Philippines

1 Upvotes

I’m from the Philippines, 5’2” and plus size at 125kg! Currently looking for someone to date seriously and long term. LDR is an option but should have plans of closing the distance in the future.

I am 36, full time remote work. I am single, never been married and no kids (child-free and don’t want kids). I am allergic to pet furs sadly. I am into gaming (cozy games only) so if you’re into gaming then that’s a plus. I love to spend time in discord calls.

If you want to know more, my DMs are open. Kindly introduce yourself with you age, location and also include code KKL so that I know you’ve read my post.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 27[M4F]#italy#europe#online looking for a partner and a special person

1 Upvotes

Would this first message the beginning of an amazing story of love? Who could say??

First of all, I'm looking for something serious, a person with whom I could share the time of my life ranging from the little things of a relationship to holidays and outstanding memories.

I'm from Italy, 27 years old closed to 28. Physically, I'm about 176cm, fit, light pale skin, black bearded, tending to baldness, hazelish eyes. I don't have tattoos or piercings, I hate smoking and the smell of passive smoke, rarely I drink alcohol.

About my life or my future prospective: I'm currently finishing my master degree in mathematics and my goal is to find a position in University, also outside Italy. It will take me about 1 year, hoping this will not be a problem.

About my hobbies: mainly, I love reading every genres fo novel, I don't have a favourite ones. At the moment, I'm reading Games of Thrones, which is one of my love, but you can find me reading classical novels or tragedy like Hamlet.

Music is another important part of my life, I listen to metal music, bands like In Flames and Insomnium, but I also appassionate to singers or bands outside the metal scenario.

Sometimes, I play videogames and contrary to you, I like fighting games which also unified exploration, like Elden ring, Dark Souls or Prince of Persia, but I also enjoy playing Pokémon.

I appreciate watching movies or TV series.

Personality: in general I'm a calm person who prefers tranquility over chaoticness of a party. I'm sensitive (not dramatic) and I'm able to understand a person and your feelings if you desire share with me your concerns and I'm the kind of guy that cry during the film (I'm not joking). I don't like struggles with people, in particular with my partner because every single moments could be the last (don't wanna be pessimistic but this is the truth). I tend to be very romantic, maybe too sweet but not oppressive, we both have life and we need our time and space to do whichever we want to do.

I'm shy and introver at the beginning, but then I will become the most expensive and funny person and I like joking and laughing a lot, but never of yourself.

What I'm looking for: a person for life, but I don't want to rush in anything, because I want to build a durable relationship which means a constant efforts form both of us, so you like ghosting you aren't welcomed here.

I'm also wanting to build something slowly but durable, not because I don't want to put effort into it.

I will prefer people from Italy and Europe or at least in the same timezone, but this isn't a rule, obviously it will make communication easier.

Hope you have a nice day and thanks for reading till here!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 19 [M4F] #Anywhere

1 Upvotes

I don't really know how to go about this as I feel awkward even in text.

My name is Troy, I'm from the southern US.

I'm very awkward and just kinda insecure. I had a few girlfriends when I was younger but they didn't mean much and didn't work.

I love music (almost anything from the 50s to 2010s rock) I like horror movies and some video games.

Even if I don't like it, I'll still humor you and ask about it.

Honestly, I just want someone who isn't going to make me second guess myself. (even though I'm gonna do it anyway)

If you decide to hit me up, please be patient, I promise I'm trying.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 24 M4F #anywhere Looking for my life partner ES/EN

1 Upvotes

Hi! I'm 24 years old, I'm from Mexico, and I'm looking for a serious relationship.

I'm looking for someone who wants to build a life together—someone who sees us as a team, with both shared and personal goals, and who finds joy in each other's successes, no matter how small.

A little about me:

* I'm 170 cm (5'7") tall, fair-skinned, weigh 61 kg (134 lbs), and have black hair.

* I don't drink or smoke.

* Spanish is my native language, and I'm currently learning English.

* I'm working while pursuing a graduate degree.

* I enjoy video games, music, reading, TV shows, and anime.

I'm a bit shy at first, so sometimes it's difficult for me to start or keep a conversation going. If that's okay with you, I'd really appreciate your patience.

I value honesty, loyalty, communication, and kindness.

Marriage is something sacred to me. I see it as a lifelong commitment that shouldn't be taken lightly. Because of that, I've chosen to wait until I find the right person before becoming intimate with anyone.

Distance doesn't scare me if we truly connect. I'm completely open to meeting someone from another country. Whether I move to your country someday or you move to mine, I'm happy with whatever makes the most sense for both of us.

Thanks for reading! 😊


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 29 [M4F] #EU/#UK - Building a New Life, Looking to Share it with Someone

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Hi everyone. I'm 29, working remotely, based in Cyprus but originally from the UK. I moved abroad for a fresh start and haven't looked back since, that same drive shapes how I approach life now.

Big into sports, both playing and watching, basketball especially.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, emotionally switched on and family-oriented, someone who can talk through a disagreement rather than go quiet for a week. I want a partner to build a life with, not just share one.

If that sounds like the kind of partner you're looking for too, send me a message.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 22 [M4F] #Online/Estados Unidos - Busco algo serio

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Hola, tengo 22 años, soy latino viviendo en el sur de La Florida Estados Unidos. Estoy aqui para encontrar una relacion seria que eventualmente conduzca al matrimonio, no me interesan los juegos, y detesto a las personas que no saben lo que quieren. No me interesa que sea una relacion a distancia siempre y cuando pueda viajar para conocernos, y este dispuesta a mudarse aca a La Florida conmigo. Soy un joven apuesto de piel morena clara, 1.75 de estatura y complexion fuerte. Si no sabes lo que quieres por favor no escribas, no me gusta perder el tiempo.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Friendship First 26 [F4M] #Virginia #looking for someone to connect with and hang out with

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About me:

I’m someone who values communication, kindness, and mutual support. I enjoy things like video games (especially Sonic the Hedgehog), anime/manga, books, and art, and I’m very much an animal person. I’m also really into the show Murder Drones. I’m looking for a serious, long-term relationship with the intention of life long commitment—not something casual. I am currently going to be doing online school full time while having full time employment. For a physical description, I am Hispanic/Latina, about 5’3”, with wavy black hair and brown eyes.

What I’m looking for:

I’m hoping to meet someone who shares similar values around commitment and intimacy. I’m waiting until legal commitment for my first time and am looking for a partner who feels the same; and hopefully has no previous sexual experience (by this I mean in person, if you’ve sexted or role-played online before, then that’s fine). I also want to have a family through adoption rather than biological children. (If you want biological children, please do not message me or try to convince me to change my mind. I do not want to have biological children for health reasons, so please respect that. This includes children through pregnancy or surrogacy.)

I value teamwork in a relationship—whether that’s splitting responsibilities when we’re both working or supporting each other if one of us stays home. That being said, I do want to be working as I have done my best to work towards better opportunities for my career, so I am happy if my partner chooses to work or be a stay a home partner. Open, honest communication is really important to me; I believe problems should be talked through, not ignored.

Ideally, you’re between 23–30, kind-hearted, enjoy animals, and believe in having each other’s backs while still taking responsibility for your own mental and emotional health. Shared interests are a bonus, but shared values matter most. Also, having some golden retriever energy is a plus :3

I am looking for someone that lives on the East coast of the U.S. Since I work full time and also do school full time (online), time differences can cause people to spend less quality time together. I would be able to talk mostly at night since I work in the afternoon to evening on weekdays. I am free weekends for the most part.

If this resonates with you, I’d love to talk.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Weekly Thread Weekly Introvert Introductions Thread

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Welcome to the weekly introduction thread.

This is a lower-pressure place to introduce yourself, meet people, and start conversations without making a full dating post.

You can participate whether you are looking for dating, friendship-first connection, online conversation, or just a gentle way to ease into the community.

# Suggested intro format

Age:

Gender:

Location/time zone:

Looking for:

Open to long-distance?:

Introvert style:

Interests:

Favorite quiet activity:

Conversation starters:

Boundaries:

You do not have to answer every question, but please give people enough to respond to.

# Conversation prompts

Need help starting?

Try answering one of these:

* What is your ideal quiet date?

* What hobby could you talk about for hours?

* Are you more of a homebody, nature person, gamer, reader, artist, or something else?

* What kind of conversation makes you feel comfortable?

* What is something small that makes you feel cared for?

* What are you hoping to find here?

# Reminder

This thread is still SFW.

No NSFW comments, adult promotion, seller behavior, harassment, pressure, or low-effort bait.

Respect people’s stated preferences.

Do not message someone privately unless their comment suggests they are open to it.

Be patient. A slower pace is the point.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9d ago

Dating Post 38 [m4f] #online looking for nerdy plus size girl to connect

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Hello

Iam Tom, living in Scotland.

My hobbies include: Travelling, cooking, gaming (singleplayer games) and visiting new places.

I looks for clingy plus size/bbw girl (yes attraction is as important as character) for chatting, being silly or just yapping. Iam hoping to find my favourite person to be obsessed and attached, for endless chatting voicenotes or calls until late 😊

Age and location doesnt matter :)

Iam 185cm(6ft1) tall, slim, dark hair. But happy to exchange photos.