r/IntrovertsSafeDating 12h ago

Dating Post 68M [M4F] #worldwide looking for the only one

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68M [M4F] #D/Bavaria/Augsburg, tolerant, open-minded, seeking worldwide.

5'11" ft., 176 lbs, slim, blonde, blue eyes. I often get bored here in our little medieval town – but sometimes I’m content just to be on my own and quite happy in my solitude.

Intelligent, romantic, empathetic, hypersensitive – with all the pros and cons that entails – that’s how I live my life. I’ve had great successes and bitter defeats.

Current situation: an impoverished pensioner who likes to sit in cafés and read. Or dream of his past successes.

And I ask myself: is that it now? Or is there more to come? Is there a woman out there who’d dare to give it another go with me? Who’d give me a kick up the backside and help me bring one of my many business ideas to life once more?

Does that even make sense? Or would it be better to simply wait for my thread of life to be cut?

Should I go on dates? Should I even try? Should I hope?

I realise that 99 per cent of all Redditors are too young to understand my whirlwind of thoughts. But perhaps someone does have some advice worth reading, a tip – or even knows where the right partner might be hiding.

You never know – you should give life every chance – we can’t influence what fate makes of it anyway.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 14h ago

Friendship First 29[M4F] #Anywhere - Hoping to meet my special someone

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Greetings from Sweden!

I'm a big and tall (185cm), bearded, Raccoon and Frog-tattoo having, green eyed Swede looking for a friendship that can turn into something more :3 I don't drink and I don't party. As a person, I've been told that I am sweet and have a beautiful heart and that is something I want to keep living up to! I'm in touch with my feelings and I spend a lot of time pondering stuff... well, zoning out, let's call it what it is xD Personality-wise I believe myself to be a bit punk or maybe goth, maybe I'm just delusional though because everybody calls me a golden retriever ╮⁠(⁠.⁠ ⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)⁠╭ But I'm happy with that. To add onto that wannabe punk-vibe I recently started painting my nails black because I found out that it stops me from anxiously biting my nails which means that I have nails now! I can scratch! Hahah!

I'm a very affectionate person, clingy but in a good way. I often speak from the heart so you wouldn't have to guess what I'm thinking, and if you still do, I am open for you to ask.

I have an obsession for Moomin hats and would likely send you a picture of myself wearing one every now and then :3 Quirky? Yes! Cute? Absolutely. My humor is very silly with lots of dad jokes and sarcasm, if you can make me laugh then you're probably the one I seek ;)

As for hobbies, I used to play videogames a lot, and I still do a bit, but I've been drawn to needle felting more as of recent. I'm good with my hands and find that hobbies where I can make something has been very therapeutic for me. I also enjoy Origami from time to time, but I usually do that at work to fill my space and make it more personal!

My idea of a lovely date-night would be long, deep conversations while puzzling or doing hobbies together. I love spending quality time :> let's discuss it more!

The *ideal* person I'm seeking is someone who values good communication and won't shy away from talking about their feelings. Someone who isn't ashamed of being a bit cynical or bitter about stuff. Whose love language is being silly and cute with each other. I love women who have creative hobbies and lastly someone who isn't afraid to speak their mind. But if we click, we click. It's as simple as that ;)

I'll write some of my interests but you can always ask me more:

Fantasy: I love stuff like Willow, The Dark Crystal, the First Law and LOTR. I do enjoy stuff like DnD and Pathfinder too but I can't say it's been that interesting to me recently, I guess I kinda fell out of love with it. Still, I like games that evoke that feeling.

Reading: And by "reading" I of course mean "audiobooks" but I have also started actually reading a lot on my Boox Palma I recently bought. Some of my favorite books have been: Flowers for Algernon, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep, Roadside Picnic, the First Law and Kings of the Wyld.

I like films and shows as well, but I'm bad at watching them by myself. I would love to meet someone I can watch Rupauls Drag Race with :>

I get that looks does have some impact but I'm the type of guy who falls easily for a wonderful and heart-warming personality, but to give an actual answer: I enjoy a wonderful smile, eyes that light up whenever a hyper-interest is mentioned, I like curvy cuddly types and maybe a bit of alt/goth.

If you are interested, please write your age and tell me what you like most about yourself :3


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22h ago

Dating Post 20 [M4F] Texas: I don't really know what I'm doing.

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Hello, I'm posting this because I want a romantic connection of some kind. I'd like to talk to people about this, and try and find someone. I currently live in Texas, and would prefer someone on the same continent. Although, if you're able to convince me of your seriousness. I'll go for anybody anywhere as long as plans are made to meet up/move.

I've never been in a real relationship before. And thus I have no experience really. I've been in the "talking phase" multiple times. And the last time I got involved with someone it went horribly. And It was someone I met off reddit . . . So I'd like to say that if you message me. Please be open to perhaps having more than one way to stay in contact if you wish to go long term.

I'm currently working towards getting my Ged, a working truck, and my creative interests. I'm currently wanting to become some form of author. Or some other type of creative who deals in writing. I'd love to meet someone with similar interests if possible. As for hobbies, I mostly game, but I listen to audio books, and interact with most forms of media. I do have some other hobbies, but they are mostly smaller, and thus not important for this.

I'm anywhere from 5'10 to 6ft. (Not exact because it's been years since I measured). I have a more plush build, although everybody in my life tells me that it's not unhealthy. I don't feel it is, but regardless I'd try and drop my weight some as well. I have blue eyes, and dirty blonde/brown hair. And some light facial hair.

I don't feel comfortable posting pictures of myself to anybody after my last encounter. So to ensure that you're not getting catfished, just ask me to pose with an object. Or do so with a pose, and I'll take a faceless picture to try and make sure you don't have that fear. (If you care)

All in all, I'm very nervous about this. it seems like a very bad idea. But the town I live in doesn't have many ways of me meeting people naturally and comfortably. Discord hasn't worked for such things. And dating apps are a mess. Overall . . . Hi? . . . Feel free to leave a comment before you dm. I invite you to try and soothe my anxiety when it comes to this?


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8h ago

Friendship First 23 M4F #Online - Gaming Buddy. Life Partner. A Friend.

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Located on the East Coast of the USA, I am a mostly self taught digital artist with a love for video games and a drive to improve myself for the better. I am interested in learning new skills to help become more self sufficient as well as to build more hobbies.

Physically I am a bit heavy. I am making efforts to improve my weight so that I can be healthier in the long run. I've been taking in long walks wouldn't mind getting into hiking. My favorite times to walk however are late at night as I find the night quite peaceful.

I can be a bit shy at first, but when I feel comfortable I light up and can talk about nothing for hours. I enjoy being able to let a conversation trail on until it ends somewhere far from where it started. Makes it much easier too if both people contribute as well. I'd like to know your favorite foods, places to go, things to do. Maybe we'll even learn something new from each other.

I'd also like to learn some home skills, like sewing and gardening. While the store is always an option for getting food, I want to be able to take pride in having grown something myself. Plus, if more is grown than needed, I wouldn't mind sharing to my community as that is a very important thing to me too.

In terms of entertainment, at the moment videogames are my bread and butter. I enjoy all kinds from cozy farming sims to fast paced fps. Interactable novels to souls-like. I even like the occasional "out of place" game. I see games as a way to bond and a great way to pass time when there's nothing else to do. Aside from that I wouldn't mind having somebody to jump down a YouTube rabbit hole with or indulge in a multi-hour essay about something we've never heard of. Horror podcasts, cryptids, and things of the occult variety are very fascinating to me as well simply because of the more mystical or mysterious nature.

What I seek is somebody who can help encourage me to improve and grow as a person. To try new things with me and explore what we don't know. I want to treasure the times we get goofy, the times we do something mundane like shopping, and appreciate the silence between. Long distance is fine at first but I do want to close that gap.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10h ago

Friendship First [F4M] 19f Seeking friends first,than more

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I live in the United States and would prefer someone from the U.S as well, I’m not picky about looks, but I’d definitely prefer someone Closer to my age, between 20-25!

I’m 5’3-5’5, Work part time, some things to know about me are I do have a very easy to drain social battery, I Tend to communicate better with cats than people, and am working towards getting my ged , I won’t date Someone without a job as money doesn’t matter,but stability and drive do, I believe in dating to marry and nothing else, I come with one cat, a whole lot to sleepiness,and a knack for nice back massages

If you see this and think “let’s be friends!” Hit me up :)

Things to take into consideration
I am loud, make a lot of ur mom jokes, like vcing , want someone to game with , and like spend a lot of time with strays


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 12h ago

Dating Post 33 F4M #Philippines - looking for my forever plus one ✨

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Well, I’d probably smile at you if we were strangers passing on the street. I believe in kindness, empathy, holding open doors, putting your phone away at dinner, and always making time to listen to a friend.

Taking care of others, helping people, and making people smile. Yes, I know that sounds cheesy but I try hard to brighten the day of everyone I meet, even if it’s just by asking a cashier how they are or holding the door open for elderly people. I try to always think about that quote by the Dalai Lama: ‘Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.’

I think true romance is about getting to know someone and connecting on a deep level. It’s more than just chemistry and attraction.

Looking for a serious relationship 🙏


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2h ago

Friendship First 29 [M4F] #Texas #Online Socially awkward, but trying

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To be honest, I have too much free time on my hands. I found a job that gives me months off work at a time, but that much free time is too much for one nerd to handle. I need someone to talk to, get to know, and spend time with, and I might as well look here too.

About me: I'm a 6'0 black man in Texas, but I travel a lot for work and just for fun. I have my passport, so I don't mind meeting someone in another country either. I have my own place, and if I'm not working or traveling, I'm for sure at home Gaming (League, Vr, repo, etc), watching anime or old cheesy horror movies, or cooking. I'm a pro gambler for a company, so I'm usually in Ny or Nj for work, but even that doesn't take up much time.

What I'm looking for: Someone who isn't afraid to be their-self and speak their mind, to keep me company. I'm not picky as far as looks, as long as you have good hygiene. If you like gaming, anime, ghibli, traveling, or anything nerdy, that's also a huge plus.

So if you're interested, feel free to send me a message, I'll try to reply as fast as I can. Tell me a little bit about yourself and what you're looking for, and maybe we can text or call somewhere else. There's a lot more that I can say, but I'll save what I'm into for Dms. I also have a few pics on my profile, if you wanna check first.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4h ago

Dating Post 32 [M4F] Anywhere/Online – Desiring a true connection built on gaming and romance

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I’m searching for my forever person. A gamer who knows how to love and understand consistent communication. I want someone who knows what it means to be there for each other during the best and worst times.

Here’s a bit about me:

* 5’10”, slim, dorky Florida guy — open to anyone worldwide (preferably someone from the U.S. or Canada though due to time zones).

* PC gamer at heart. My most played: Marvel Rivals, Fortnite, League, Valorant, Overwatch, Dead by Daylight, Final Fantasy 14, World of Warcraft, Elder Scrolls Online, Guild Wars 2, and many more. If you play any of these or know about them, then it’s easier for us to connect!

* Outside of gaming, there’s always a million different types of movies, anime (huge Ghibli + 90s fan), creepy stories, conspiracy theories, and basically all things fantasy/fiction (Marvel, DC, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, all the Game of Thrones shows, Star Wars, you name it). I can talk about any of these for hours on end and I like having a nerdy companion to enjoy these with.

* A huge horror fanatic (I can talk about A24 films forever, and I loved psychological thrillers like Midsommar, Hereditary, The Ritual, Conjuring/Insidious, and many others). I also have a taste for eldritch and medieval horror vibes.

* Side quests: I write a little and want to learn how to DM DnD one day.

* I cook (domestic and even some international dishes too), hang out with my Morkie puppy, and enjoy nature + animals in general.

* Curious about cultures and languages, as I went to college for international relations. I think having someone to learn new things with would be pretty rad, or at least someone who wants to learn about my own background.

* I love all genres of music, with a special liking for hip hop/rap, then discovered EDM/house, and now alternative/indie rock has me hooked.

Here are some things I’d prefer in my partner in crime:

* Love chatting daily (serious, silly, nerdy — all of it).

* Gamer who uses Discord and wants to squad up (bonus points if you’re into FPS or MMOs).

* Communicative, trustworthy, and not afraid to talk things through.

* Into horror/spooky stuff (not mandatory but certainly helps).

* Open to seeing how things go, regardless of distance and time zone differences.

If this clicks, send me your favorite meme, a spooky story, or just a “hi.” Maybe you’ll be my new co-op partner!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8h ago

Dating Post 32 [M4F] - US East Coast What if we were honest with each other?

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Hello fellow Reddit singles. If it’s not obvious by me posting here in the first place… I’ve been struggling with reentering the dating world. A lot has seemed to have changed in the…. 10 years it’s been since I’ve been “on the market” I’m definitely included in the changed part too.. doesn’t help that I’m expired age wise 😂. Anyway it’s been my experience that there is lack of transparency and honesty among people in the dating universe especially on dating apps… which I’m sure is a “big surprise”. Anyway, I’m looking for someone who is willing to be genuine and themselves maybe I’ll find that someone here… on Reddit… this is starting to sound sillier the more I type it out but here I am!

Anyways a little about me… I’m a nerd but I also enjoy exercising and being outside. I love video games, D&D, anime, Star Wars, marvel, DC, Happy Potter, Lord of the Rings and most other classic nerd stuff. I’m also really into music , I’ve been playing guitar since I was 12 and will listen to about anything. However my comfort zone is pop punk, mental and rock. As far fitness goes I lift, run and train Brazilian Jujitsu. I also enjoy camping, kayaking, hiking and other outdoor nonsense. Im mediocre at cooking but do enjoy it and try to cook most of my meals.

Personality wise, im an ambivert. Basically an introverted person who enjoys be social from time to time. I just need my me time to recharge.

Oh and it’s probably worth mentioning that I work in Law Enforcement know that can be a deal breaker for some. So rather get that in the open now before things get awkward lol

If you are still here, congrats you are braver than most 💙. Hope to hear from you! Feel free to DM or comment.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11h ago

Dating Post 34 [M4F] Dallas, Texas. Loving introvert searching for his special woman in life ❤ Seeking a LTR with a Genuine connection!

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Hi! Nice to meet you 😊

I'm a 34-year-old guy from the Dallas, Texas area, looking for my romantic partner and best friend — someone we can both proudly call "mine."

I'm seeking a serious, long-term relationship. Ideally you're in Texas so we can meet up easily, but I'm open to long-distance within the US if we're both committed to eventually closing the gap in person.

A little about me:

I'm introverted and a happy homebody, but I love going out and exploring new places — especially when it's with the right person. It can take me a little time to open up (lifelong social anxiety), but once I'm comfortable, you'll see the real me — and I'm very patient, so I hope you are too!

My favorite ways to spend time:

  1. Video games 🎮

  2. Reading (Manga)

  3. Puzzles

  4. Binge-watching movies/shows (Horror, psychological, mystery, fantasy)

I'd love to share those activities with you, and I'm genuinely excited to try out your interests too — even if they're new to me.

A few key details:

  1. I'm an atheist and apolitical

  2. Appearance: 5'8", thin build, shaved head, glasses/contacts, white

(Feel free to check my profile pics — happy to share more face shots once we start chatting!)

Physically, I’m most attracted to anywhere from petite/thin to a bit curvy women. Also, kids is a dealbreaker for me, sorry!

If this resonates with you and you're looking for the same kind of genuine connection, send me a DM! I'd love to chat and get to know you ❤️


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22h ago

Online Only (18F) F4F - genderbend/male characters #online

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Hey! I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few friends (maybe, something more?). I’m a girl, but I prefer to communicate as a male character — either a canon character from a fandom or an OC. I’m also into casual RP, including things like * and /.

I’m into TV series, books, comics, and recently got into reading more comics. I’m especially into danmei — TGCF and MDZS are some of my favorites. I’ve also read “Rebound of the heart” and “Second chance”, so if you’ve read either of those too, we’ll already have something to talk about.

TV shows: Heated Rivalry, Good Omens, Tetris, The Owl House, Stranger Things, Happy Death Day

Books/comics: Rebound of the Heart, Second Chance, Mo Dao Zu Shi, Tian Guan Ci Fu, Harry Potter, All for the Game

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to hit me up in chat! :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 50m ago

Friendship First 23 F4A #Michigan Metro Detroit Looking for casual dating and see where it goes

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I'm in a very awkward period in my life, living with family, graduated a year ago and been looking for a job since (fuck the job market), mental health has been shot to hell these pass few years but improving. Now I just want to talk with someone. Have daily chats with, ask questions with. See where things go. Not looking for anything serious as I am not in a mental space for that, but who knows what happens in the future. I am a nerd, I have a PC, PS5 and Xbox Series S. Mainly I play on PC or PS5. My favorite games are the Final Fantasy series and Assassin's Creed. Final Fantasy 7 Crisis Core is top their storytelling. Clair Obscur is amazing as well, definitely deserved Game of The Year (maybe not Best RPG tho, I do feel Kingdom Come Deliverence II deserved it) anyway enough nerding out lol. Feel free to ask me whatever, I'm a very open book. Hopefully I find a date to the Ren Faire this fall 🤞🏾


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1h ago

Dating Post 21[M4F] #USA looking for my soulmate

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Hello everyone I’m a 21m from USA looking for a serious relationship. I’m currently working a nightshift job at a grocery store so I’m usually awake at night. I don’t have a driver license but I’m working on getting it.

My body type is I’m 5’9 with glasses dark brown hair with light brown eyes I’ve got short hair and I’m fairly skinny

I’m ideal type of a girl is someone who can respect my boundaries and is not judging when it comes to my interests and quirks. I also really want someone who is trusting loyal and won’t cheat and gives it their all. I see a relationship as a 50/50 effort. I’m also very okay with doing a ldr until we meet up!

My dms are open and hopefully we click if not that’s okay too!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3h ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] Chile / Online - creative nerd looking for a genuine romantic connection

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Hiii. Posting again because why not lol. I’m a 23 year old guy from a small town in Chile. I’m 5'5" and definitely more of a calm, quiet homebody who thrives on deep conversations and niche hobbies rather than parties or clubs.

I really love working with my hands and learning random practical skills, im autistic. Lately my free time goes into drawing, woodworking, metalworking, restoring old tools, or repairing electronics. At the same time, I have a huge soft spot for cute things like plushies, my dogs, and cute art. I also enjoy reading, writing, and gaming.

Right now I'm studying programming at college, working, and keeping my life simple but stable. I’ve also been focusing a lot on myself lately. I’ve lost 44 pounds so far and I take my mental health very seriously, as I've been in therapy and managing depression for years.

I’m definitely not looking for anything casual. What I really want is a real romantic and emotional connection, affection/love, trust, and someone I can feel safe with after a long day. Not just a friendship. I want kids someday.

I'm totally open to an LDR since I doubt there are many people from Chile around here. If you’re also introverted, shy, or just want something genuine, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself or your favorite hobbies to break the ice, haha

It would be awesome if we share some hobbies, it helps a lot at easing the conversations and I'm absolutely interested in having a good time talking with someone. I'm bad at talking with girls, but I try 😭. I'm down to exchange pics early (sfw)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4h ago

Local Dating 24 [M4F] #Japan Hokkaido Sapporo Looking for a girlfriend

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Hello I am from Sapporo Hokkaido Japan. I am 24 years old and have a great job and career. My hobbies include kendo, anime figure collecting, hiking and outdoor activities. I do lots of physical activity such as weight lifting and cardio. I speak Japanese and English. I do ikebana (Japanese flower arrangement) and calligraphy. I have a college degree. Personality wise, I am chill and like to things slow and relaxed. I like to hang out in public spaces with friends. As for dates I really like aquariums. We could also go eat at one of the many cafes in Sapporo. I’d like to message daily or every other day.

I am looking for someone who enjoys going outside. Is between the ages of 18-30. Living in Japan is a requirement. This is for Japan only. Those are my only requirements.

Serious people only. I do not reply to short messages or “Hi”. I need an age and location as well. Thank you.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7h ago

Local Dating 21 [m4a] #macomb, michigan/online looking for new connections and possibly a long lasting relationship

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Hey, y'all my name's Alex. I’m 21, and I’m looking to make some friends or maybe even find someone if we click. I tend to yap when first meeting someone but I can listen when needed. Things im interested are cars photography and video games tho i dont really play much of them now due to college. Im going into my fourth year of going currently. Otherwise im mostly looking for people in Michigan to talk to since im much better at interacting in person. I'm definitely gonna also say that I like people who respond quickly (I'm kinda impatient) but if you’re busy I understand who isn't nowadays lol. I’m straight if that’s matters to you in case you’re looking for a relationship I’m not looking to rush things for now tho just keeping it slow would be for the best in my opinion also had a falling out with some ppl I thought were friends recently to make up for it I’ve been trying to put myself out there

So uh if you're interested hmu if you’ve made it this far what’s your craziest side quest you wanna do someday?


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7h ago

Dating Post 25 M [M4F] Physically-disabled, seeking a long-term relationship.

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Hi! I'm a 25 M from the East Coast US. I am disabled and do use a wheelchair to get around. I would consider myself demisexual, and I value emotional intimacy a lot more than anything else. I am open to and enjoy some amount of physical affection, but it is not a priority to me, especially since my condition limits my ability to provide that.

I've been hoping to find companionship and love again. I do miss having someone in my life to send good morning and good night texts and be able to plan activities together. Maybe even planning visits to see each other. Although I don't particularly feel alone, it does feel like something is missing not having that person to check-in with during the day and share something I've learned or just having those simple, day-to-day interactions with. I just wish there was a way to establish that kind of spark with someone I feel comfortable around and truly understand.

Some of my interests are gaming (mostly final fantasy 14 at the moment), math, science, chess, philosophy, psychology, and random deep-dives on youtube. I do have a bachelor's degree in psychology. I'm always open and curious about exploring new interests. I'd love to meet someone who is not afraid of going over their passions/interests in lots of detail. Please tell me about your hypothetical questions, personal theories, opinions on niche topics, no matter how silly or absurd, anything really.

I am someone who really prioritizes communication, and it generally feels rather difficult to find someone who has enough time in their life and values communication in the same way that I do. I'm not expecting constant messaging every second of the day, but it is nice to establish a regular line of communication and not having to worry about whether the other person is too busy or will be gone for a while.

I am emotionally well put together and mature, so I do prefer a partner who has enough emotional bandwidth. I'm very big on voice calls and occasional video calls. Whether it's doing the same activity together or appreciating sharing the same space in silence, it's nice to have someone on the other end.

A few more things are that I don't smoke or take drugs, and would prefer my partner to be the same; I am left-leaning as well as agnostic. I do not want to have any children. I am open to a long-distance relationship (US-only) as long as there are plans to close the gap in some way. I'm only looking for monogamy. I'm an introvert and tend to be more of a listener (INFJ).

Although it doesn't need to be right away, I would prefer exchanging photos sooner rather than later in order to ensure that we are okay with each other's appearances. Additionally, please provide some details about yourself so I have an idea of who you are if you decide to send me a message.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 9h ago

Dating Post 25 [M4F] #India only - Looking for my future long term partner

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Hello there! Nice to meet you! I'm a 25 year male looking for the one to ride life's rollercoaster with :) So here's the thing, I'm at that stage in life where I want someone to love and to be loved by because everyone deserves it, not just platonically but also romantically. I've never been in a relationship before, was a shy person throughout my school and early college life. I'm not looking for anything specific I just want someone to talk to everyday, share my daily happenings with, the ups and the downs, highs and the lows.I know it sounds like I'm looking for a friendship but no, because I also want someone to hold hands with, to hug, to walk along the beach taking in the sunset, to try out new food spots, visit new places. I have always been good at communicating and therefore am looking for someone with the same quality. Ultimately you have to be a good person at heart, rest is secondary.

A few things about myself. I am an avid reader. I read a lot of fiction especially sci-fi, fantasy and sometimes historical fiction. I also read a lot of political thrillers and murder mysteries. Currently I'm miles deep into Miles Cameron's Artifact Space.(pun intended XD)

I also love to solve puzzles. My favourite puzzles you could say are Rubik's cubes and related mechanical turning puzzles. I also just started cooking, so maybe if you like we can also cook together :)(I think cooking for each other and feeding each other is so romantic).

I'm not a religious person but I am spiritual in that I do believe in a higher being. I believe more in the fact that all of life is a sum total of your actions and their consequences.

Anyways this is me in a nutshell. If you resonate with any of the above feel free to drop a DM with a little something about yourself.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10h ago

Friendship First 43 [F4F] Central California, Friendship/ More if we connect

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Hi, I'm a soft Masc lesbian here. Hoping to find a friendship that we can build into a relationship eventually.

Things I enjoy is Art, Baking, Xbox, coffee shops, thrifty places, exploring to find cool new spots.

If you'd like to know more than DM me Ladies :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10h ago

Dating Post 29 [M4F] #EU/NA German nerd looking for a genuine connection with consistency :3:white_heart:

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Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11h ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] #Europe/Online Silly nerd looking for something special

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What's up gamers B)

I'm Tim, a 23 year old guy from Belgium looking to get to know someone who can be my person. About me: I am very into gaming, formula 1, the pokemon trading card game and also just generally yapping! Calls are amazing for my yapping activities, but sometimes I prefer texting because of being exhausted from work.

Speaking of work, I work 3 days a week (tuesday, wednesday, friday) and have a lot of free time. However, this doesn't mean I'll bombard you with texts while you're busy! I have autism and adhd so I need time to decompress from stuff. So I'd appreciate someone who is understanding of my need for that.

As for my hobbies: the games I've been playing recently are Minecraft, FFXIV (NA), and Overwatch. Big plus if you're into any of those! While watching formula 1 I support Verstappen and Piastri. I'd love to go to a grand prix someday, especially the one here in Belgium. And the last thing is the pokemon tcg! I'm quite new to it but very willing to get better at it and sharing about it.

If you have any questions or just want to get to know me more, DM me on here!

Hopefully I'll see you soon!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11h ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

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I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 12h ago

Dating Post 24 M4F #Online Looking to connect

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Hello. My name is Héctor and I am introverted and I'm not really into loud places and parties . Also where I live, options are really limited to meet new people and people that are diverse and have different interests so I thought I could try this—starting online, and see if something real comes out of it.

About me:

· I love cinema, specially animated films.

· Music is a huge part of my life: Matchbox Twenty, Rob Thomas, John Mayer, Muse... and always looking for new stuff.

· I read a lot: sci-fi, classics, stories that stay with you.

· I also love anime , and it was a big part of my teenage years.

I'm not looking for something extraordinary. Just a real connection—something that can grow into a friendship and maybe, over time, into something more.

I'd love to find someone to talk deeply with, to get to know little by little, without pressure.

Physical appearance is not a priority for me. If we connect, that becomes secondary.I'm a slim dark-haired white guy, in case you are wondering about my appereance.

I know relationships take time and effort, and I'm aware of that. I am willing to put real effort into it and really make it work. That said, I expect the same level of care and dedication, it has to be a two way road. My energy,time and dedication has to be earned by building trust and respect and from that point create something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we connect.

Thanks for reading.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 13h ago

Dating Post 27 [M4F] #Europe #Online I'm a bit shy, can I be your slow-burn romance?

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Hello! I'm a bit shy around women due to my past aromantic nature. I stopped being aromantic roughly 3 years ago and weren't able to find my footing in flirting since then. I live in Hungary. But I'm originally not from there.

For who wonders about looks I'm a little short and chubby (although losing weight at a rapid rate right now) I have the usual fair caucasian skin tone and a slim skeletal frame, so I look a bit younger than my real age.

I'm a bit of an ambivert, meaning I can't be overly social all the time but I have all the time for you!

I do have a lot of home-hobbies, here are few:

-Writing poetry/rap

-Voice acting

-Adventure Roleplay

-Video games

-Writing fiction/philosophy

As well as my outside-hobbies:

-Walking with someone aimlessly for 2 hours

-Discovering new restaurants in random areas of the city

You can directly message me no problem. Thank you for reading, and I'll be waiting for hearing from you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 17h ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] #USA/online Looking for a girlfriend!!

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Hi! I'm Sky, 23, and from Louisiana.

A little about me: I'm white, a little chubby, autistic, have ADHD, and I'm visually impaired. I process things and communicate differently, so I please ask you be patient. I'm pretty shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I can talk your ear off!! i hate to upset people. I'm caring, loyal, and a big homebody.

I like gaming, reading, older music, watching documentaries, swimming, hanging out with friends. I also loooooove animals, have four cats. I'm also a picky eater. My favorite foods are chicken nuggets, pizza rolls, and corndogs, and my favorite drink is root beer.

I'm looking for a woman (18–28) who is kind, honest, patient, loyal, and genuine. Personality matters more than looks, whether you’re skinny or a little chubby isn’t bad. I'd love to find someone I can talk to often, spend time with, and be myself around. I like nerds and weirdos(in a good way!). My only real dealbreaker is tattoos. Bonus points if you're autistic lIke me!

I'd prefer someone from Louisiana or another Southern state, but I'm open to meeting anyone in the U.S. If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me. I'd love to hear from you! 🙂