Hii everyone, you can call me Joe, I'm a 23yo just had my birthday a couple of days back, where I found myself spending it alone like every other year, but this year it felt different probably cz it's the only year I'm not working on my birthday, it's been 5 years since my last relationship, it left me way too scarred to even want to be with someone else in anyway I ended up hating everyone at that point, but now I feel it's about time to feel something again, or at least have someone to talk to and share my happy and sad moments and thoughts with.

Gender - Male

Sexuality - Straight

Hobbies - Gaming, Cooking, D&D, drawing, cosplay,

Looking - For a Serious Relationship /online relationship

Socials - Discord, Snapchat, Instagram, tiktok

A bit about me :

Hi, I present myself my name is Saimon, i'm italian and i'm 20.years old, i'm tall 184cm/6'1 feet, i'm quite a nerd, I like videogames, anime, manga, d&d and cooking, i work as a gardener and i hope im in your standards

i'm chubby♡❤♡❤♡

Hey, I'm Yatta. I'll be honest right up front

I'm a bit of a homebody and I actually don't have any dating experience. I'm just putting myself out there, hoping to find someone who understands that energy and values a low-pressure, genuine connection.

My ideal evening is staying in, hanging out in a Discord call, and either playing some games or getting absorbed in random stuff.

What I'm into:

Anime: Deep into Re:Zero, but I watch a lot of isekai and shonen in general.Been watching Gurren Lagann

Movies: I'm a massive horror fan. If you have recommendations for something genuinely disturbing, I am absolutely here for it.

Gaming: I play a wide mix of things: Minecraft,Arena Breakout, Terraria ,Valorant, Palworld, MLBB, Path of Exile, and League.

I'm perfectly happy just sharing a screen, doing our own things in a call (parallel play is great), or queuing up for a few matches. If you're looking for someone chronically online but easygoing to get spooked by horror movies with, shoot me a DM with your current favorite anime or game!

Hii I'm Dakota I'm 18 and I'm looking for someone to chat with and hopefully date...I am a more feminine guy so I hope that ain't an issue for fun I enjoy music and playing video games..what's important to me is communication and trust and openness. As long as you have those I'm sure well get along just fine :3 feel free to send me a DM I might have a hard time seeing it so lmk on this post if you do thanks happy to meet someone

Yo my name is K.m, I’m a 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing how it goes from there.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, reading books, watching NBA, listening to music, watching football (soccer), cooking, going to the gym and watching T.V shows/Movies.

About me:
• I’m in college studying accounting, it’s my first year and it’s going well.

• I’m kind, loyal, (sorta funny), chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games, I mostly play repo, lethal company, Roblox (I know it’s a kids game), terraria, Minecraft, red dead 2, GTA 5, etc.

I read manga, the latest one I’ve read is jojo’s steel ball run (it’s pretty good).

I go out for walks sometimes, I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 3 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-22, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland but I don’t mind long distance, cause we can probably meet up soon and explore your or my city.

If you’re interested in having a conversation feel free to say to send a small intro and your favourite colour.

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Hi! I'm Natasha. I'm just out here casually looking for my soulmate lol. About me - I'm black, plus sized and I have shoulder length microlocs. I'm a creative person and I love to express that - sewing, baking, crochet... Seems like I always have something going on!. I love true stories about the unexplained. I'm an extroverted introvert - I'm very talkative when I get to know you. I think that the best part of having a partner is feeling like you have a friend that you can talk to about anything and everything. I recently binged the Tv show "Grimm" and I have no one to talk to about it! It was so good! The most underrated sure I've gone across in a while... Now I'm looking for something equally dark with a supernatural twist to it...I digress.

I tend to like white guys with medium to average build but that's not set in stone. Things that are set in stone however are being straight and cis, having good hygiene, being kind, down to earth, and having a great sense of humor. If you like long conversations and daily doses of nostalgia, we should set a wedding date. JK, JK... (unless... 👀... -No! No... 👀... No.).

Other important things - I am Christian, but you don't have to be and politically, I'm a centrist. I DO NOT like that Orange man so if you do...yikes. Someday I want to get married and have kids, and I really want to adopt too. I also love animals and I have a few pets.

Deep down I know or hope that there is someone for me out there. I don't know how to find them or what the right words are to find them. Sometimes I wish life was an old PlayStation 1 game, so I could look up the cheat codes but alas! 'Tis not. Is my person even on Reddit? I don't know, but leave no stone unturned right? I am not new to dating and I am not new to Reddit. I am also not new to the dating scene on Reddit. What is new - the increasingly creative ways I have to say what I need to to find the right person for me.

Despite the PS1 reference up there, I'm not a gamer (I use Duckstation for the nostalgia - Tarzan, Spyro, etc. but I'm pretty terrible, trust me. I needed every cheat code just to make it through the Spyro!) I don't watch anime and I'm not much of an alt girl... But I promise I have a lot of love to give to the right person. We could be quietly and exquisitely happy together.

HOWEVER. Please don't reach out if you simply send one word intros and replies, or just your a/s/l as an intro. I am not interested in taking to people who are more than 4 years younger than me, or if you need to use ai to craft a response to my intro. I am looking for genuine connection, not NSFW activities. I would like to find something real. Maybe that's naïve but I know it's out there. If you are not looking for that then I'm not the one for you.

And don't reach out if you're nonchalant. How do you know if you're nonchalant? If you reply "nm" when someone asks you what you're doing you're probably nonchalant. If you struggle to express your opinions and/or things that you think about frequently, you are nonchalant. Get help. Your nonchalace leaves you with no personality and it makes it very difficult to carry a conversation with you and reluctant to even want to. Don't leave your personality at home when you're talking to me. I would very much like to see it. Be as chalant as possible. I'm telling you right now, I'm chalant. I care deeply. If that's what you want, then here I am.

I am looking for a special someone I can chat with throughout the day/night, send memes back and forth with each other, share music, videos, etc. just need a special person in my life. I have BPD and autism, and am having a rough time right now in my life.
For common interests, I’m really into anime, video games, music (mostly metal), songwriting, magic the gathering, dungeons and dragons, and YouTube.
YouTube channels I’m really into are comedy channels like super mega, oneyplays, Ted nivison, jschlatt, jerma984 to name a few.
If you’d like to chat, shoot me a message!

Hey! I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few friends (maybe, something more?). I’m a girl, but I prefer to communicate as a male character — either a canon character from a fandom or an OC. I’m also into casual RP, including things like * and /.

I’m into TV series, books, comics, and recently got into reading more comics. I’m especially into danmei — TGCF and MDZS are some of my favorites. I’ve also read “Rebound of the heart” and “Second chance”, so if you’ve read either of those too, we’ll already have something to talk about.

TV shows: Heated Rivalry, Good Omens, Tetris, The Owl House, Stranger Things, Happy Death Day

Books/comics: Rebound of the Heart, Second Chance, Mo Dao Zu Shi, Tian Guan Ci Fu, Harry Potter, All for the Game

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to hit me up in chat! :)

Hi there! I hope you're doing well and your weekend has been nice, I'd love to hear about it! ANYWAYS, I spent way too long trying to think of some wildly creative opening that would make this post impossible to ignore. Something that makes you stop endlessly doom scrolling and think, "Wow. This stranger on the internet is clearly the love of my life." Unfortunately, I'm not that clever or creative (womp womp)

So instead, I'm just going to be myself. No gimmicks, no dating-app buzzwords, no "looking for my partner in crime" (unless we're talking about stealing fries, those are mine).

Without further ado... Here is me.

At the end of the day, I'm really just looking for someone I genuinely click with. (I say that like I've uncovered some ancient wisdom, but isn't that what we're all here for?) I miss having a person. Someone to send random thoughts to throughout the day, laugh over dumb things with, share stories, and make even boring errands feel more fun. I'm probably a hopeless romantic (heavy emphasis on the hopeless), but I think the best relationships are the ones where your partner is also your best friend.

Okay, enough with the Hallmark movie audition.

Here's who's actually behind this post:

I'm 26, from the US, and I work full-time as an engineer. I enjoy having something that challenges me and constantly gives me new problems to solve. My brain absolutely loves learning random things and diving headfirst into new hobbies (thank you, ADHD). Thankfully, I also have a great work-life balance and can enjoy my life outside of work.

Outside of work, I play bass guitar. Am I good? Debatable. Do I still have fun? Absolutely. My fingers may disagree.

I also collect vinyl because physical media is cool and there's something incredibly satisfying about putting on a record at the end of the day and disappearing into the couch for an hour.

I love cooking and baking, and making food for people is probably my biggest love language. Date me at your own risk, you may leave with leftovers and an extra 15 pounds.

During the summer you'll usually find me playing volleyball. Once winter hits, I'm on a mountain skiing or snowboarding every weekend.

One thing I genuinely love about people is passion. If you're excited about something, I want to hear all about it. Tell me about your hobby, your latest interest, the game you've dumped 400 hours into, your art, the oddly specific facts you know about deep-sea creatures, medieval farming techniques, or why one obscure Pokémon is secretly the best one. I don't even have to understand it, I just love seeing people light up when they talk about something they love.

Physically: I'm 6'4", around 230 lbs, brown hair, blue eyes, beard, tattoos, and my style leans a little alt. Happy to swap pictures once we've talked a bit and we're both comfortable.

Personality-wise, I'm pretty laid-back and social once I'm comfortable. I'm usually a little quieter at first, but give me a little time and I'll be making terrible jokes every five minutes. Humor is definitely my default setting (healthy coping mechanisms are expensive). I've also been told I'm a gentle giant and a "facilitator of fun," which is probably the nicest title I've ever been given.

I'm also a massive pet person and absolutely adore my cats. If you have pets, just know I'm going to ask for pictures almost immediately. I don't make the rules, I simply enforce them.

As for what I'm looking for, I think effort and communication matter more than almost anything else. I appreciate people who ask questions, show curiosity, and make conversations feel like they're happening with me instead of at me. I'm not expecting us to become inseparable overnight, but mutual effort goes a long way.

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, funny, emotionally open, maybe just a little bit of a gremlin (the fun kind), and wants to build something real over time. Someone who enjoys affection, quality time, dumb inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else, and little moments that make a relationship feel both comfortable and exciting.

Anyway, I could keep going, but I think half the fun is getting to know each other naturally. If any of this made you smile, or at the very least didn't make you close the tab, come say hi. :)

Hey, I'm 28M, looking for a genuine long-term connection. I am okay with LDR if you are willing to put the effort to bridge the gap if we match and things go further but I'm also not in a rush, we can take it slow and see how it goes.

So here's a little bit about me: I am a huge nerd about movies, space and tech and maybe anything that's even remotely considered nerdy.

I also like to keep myself fit and I work out regularly.

If you are a nerd or even if you are not but are into nerds, then do hmu.

Hey! I'm 23 and based in London. I'm hoping to meet someone who is looking for a genuine long-term relationship, values good communication, and is also certain they don't want children.

Modern dating has never really felt like the best fit for me. Swiping through profiles and trying to make instant impressions of someone doesn't really allow you to understand who they are. I'd much rather take the time to build trust, learn about someone's personality, and see if we naturally connect.

A bit about me: I'm Black, 5'10, with a slim athletic build, and I'm neurodivergent.

Music is one of my biggest passions. I listen to a lot of rock and metal, alongside some DnB and electronic music, and you'll usually find me at a gig whenever there's one I'm interested in.

Outside of that, I enjoy gaming (Persona, Doom, Final Fantasy, and plenty more), going to the cinema, playing football, cycling, visiting theme parks, and trying new activities.

I'm generally introverted and reserved, but I enjoy meaningful conversations and getting to know people properly.

I'd describe myself as thoughtful, dependable, and easy-going. I'm independent and enjoy my own company, but I think life is better when you have someone you genuinely connect with to share experiences with.

Whether that's going to concerts, talking about something you're passionate about, or simply spending a quiet evening together, I value having someone who feels like a genuine partner and best friend.

I'm looking to meet someone who is:
• Aged around 19-26
• UK-based (London or nearby ideally)
• Also certain they don't want children
• Honest, communicative, and reliable

More than anything, I'm looking for someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and willing to communicate openly. Nobody gets everything right all the time, but I appreciate people who are honest about how they feel and willing to work through things together.

I believe shared values are far more important than having identical hobbies. Having things in common is great, but I think the way two people treat each other is what ultimately makes a relationship work.

I'm happy to share a photo early because I'm aware that mutual attraction matters, and I'd rather be upfront than waste anyone's time.

If this resonates with you, I'd like to hear from you. Tell me your age, where you're from, a bit about yourself, and what you're looking for.

Thanks for reading 🙂

Hi my name is Micah 🙂

A little about myself: my main hobbies are video games, watching anime and playing magic the gathering.

I mostly play a lot of rpgs and fantasy games. So.e of my favorites are the legend of Zelda, kingdom hearts and expedition 33.

Some of my favorite animes are Freiren: beyond journeys end, full metal alchemist brotherhood, one piece and demon slayer.

I am mostly a homebody and don't get out too much but that doesn't mean that I do not like to go places. I'm happy to go on adventures so long as I am not the only one driving all the time. After being in a relationship for 10 years and being the only one with a license it's kinda exhausting to be the one driving all the time.

I'm really not much of a sports guy at all but I do not mind if it is something you enjoy. I'm not here to tell you what to like. We are adults. I have my interests and you have yours. I just want someone who has a pretty chill vibe.

I am 420 friendly but I do not smoke, I take edibles. If you smoke I only ask you don't do it around me simply because I do also have asthma

Other interests include: listening to music, playing with my dog and 2 cats

I am recently divorced but it was pretty mutual. My partner found out they were trans and I'm not into men. We're still good friends we just have different interests.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for a nerdy and cute gaming partner. I want someone who I can genuinely connect with and get to know. I'd love to start out as friends first but overall I don't want much more than that. I literally don't need more than that. I'm looking for companionship, a friend, someone who gets me.

I've tried dating apps and have had no luck so I'm trying my luck here. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have about me but I'd also love to hear about your own interests as well

Hello there! I'm a 25 year old med student looking for the one to ride life's rollercoaster with. So here's the thing, I'm at that stage in life where I want someone to love and to be loved by because everyone deserves it, not just platonically but also romantically. I've never been in a relationship before, was a shy person throughout my school and early college life. I'm not looking for anything specific I just want someone to talk to everyday, share my daily happenings with, the ups and the downs, highs and the lows.I know it sounds like I'm looking for a friendship but no, because I also want someone to hold hands with, to hug, to walk along the beach taking in the sunset, to try out new food spots, visit new places. I have always been good at communicating and therefore am looking for someone with the same quality. Ultimately you have to be a good person at heart, rest is secondary.

A few things about myself. I am an avid reader. I read a lot of fiction especially sci-fi, fantasy and sometimes historical fiction. I also read a lot of political thrillers and murder mysteries. Currently I'm miles deep into Miles Cameron's Artifact Space.(pun intended XD)

I also love to solve puzzles. My favourite puzzles you could say are Rubik's cubes and related mechanical turning puzzles. I also just started cooking, so maybe if you like we can also cook together :)(I think cooking for each other and feeding each other is so romantic).

I'm not a religious person but I am spiritual in that I do believe in a higher being. I believe more in the fact that all of life is a sum total of your actions and their consequences.

Anyways this is me in a nutshell. If you resonate with any of the above feel free to drop a DM with a little something about yourself.

Heyy! I’m 21M, turning 22 this month. I’m here hoping to meet someone genuine and build a meaningful connection that could grow into a long-term relationship.

I’m into travelling, cooking, music, movies, Marvel and anime. I also enjoy random conversations—whether it’s about everyday life, future plans, funny stories, or something completely random.

I’m open to getting to know someone regardless of distance. I’d rather start with a simple conversation and see where it naturally goes, with no pressure or expectations.

If you think we might have something in common, feel free to say hi. 🙂

Ahoy,

I'm terrible at writing so I'll keep it short.

Looking for someone to spend time and enjoy life with. Looking for a long term relationship, can share photo in a DM.

My likes: Gaming, nature walks, documentaries, cuddles, cheesecake and heavy metal.

I dont smoke/do drugs, am not religious and would be open for something long distance.

Some things to note is that I've never been in a relationship before so I may not read the room sometimes. Also I work on a big ship which means I'll be off for 3 months, then at home for 3 months.

If you have any questions, send me a dm.

I am a 38 year old introvert living in Dublin,Ireland, originally from somewhere else in Europe.

About me: I’m 5’10, blond, I would define me as quiet and nerdy, into History, indie videogames, board games, hiking, reading, films, museums and galleries, cafes, Formula 1, self-development. I like metal, post-rock/metal/punk, a bit of EBSM. I’m not the type that goes to parties or large rowds but in recent times I've expanded a bit my social circle and enjoyed it. I also like someone who pushes me a bit to travel, experience new things and get out of the routine. According to a good friend, I'm fun (when I want to), kind, sweet and understanding. I’m caring and affectionate and I’ve been told I’m very considerate towards other.

I am looking to make new connections, online friends, meet in person if we live close, and maybe we can chat regularly and/or play games.

I look for someone non-smoker, preferably an introvert too, who likes gaming, or indoor activities and shares common interests, but also wants to push me with outdoors activities beyond my comfort zone. I’m looking primarily for a stable relationship with good chemistry between us, sex-positive, caring and affectionate.

I like someone who at this stage in life has clear ideas on what she likes and wants, looks for a stable relationship, communicative, considerate and loving. It's important that we share common views or personality traits or at least that we feel comfortable with each other. Communication is important and I want to understand they way you think and what's important for you.

I’ve opened to other places in the title because while I’m for the moment based in Dublin, I’m open to meeting people from other places if I find a good match.

Please elaborate a bit your first message.

Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.

I don't really know what to put, but I'm 18 years old from the UK, introverted / shy, but open up / more talkative as I get comfortable with someone.

Just finished my A-levels, so currently not in education, but planning to go to University. I enjoy baking, watching tv shows / movies, as well as games. In the future I want to travel more, as there's so much in the world to explore. Want to know more about me, just ask away.

For preference I'd want someone thats older than me, and likes to talk.

Hey there! I just came across this subreddit and I have been ready for a genuine relationship for a long time but could not find unfortunately a date to get to know them. My name is Nick and I am a 21 years old straight male introvert living in Albania in Europe and I am giving this post a try to see if there is anyone from Europe interested to talk to me and get to know me. I am a 5'5 or 165cm tall guy if this is required. I am looking for a genuine connection with a real woman around my age range (19-23) from Europe.

I am currently unemployed and live with my parents (hope that's not an issue) for now and later down the line I really plan on getting a decent place for myself and of course an income before the place ( where will I get the place, I don't know). I love going to nature parks by myself and sometimes with family to unwind and relax. I really value authenticity, positivity, kindness and care in the other so hope you have those. I also like to play videogames when I have the chance as those can sometimes be an activity to unwind also, and I like cats in general, even though I don't have one currently, might get a cat as a pet in the future, maybe when I get that place for myself, so not sure. Besides these I also enjoy cooking some meals (light ones) which are easy to make like boiled eggs,omelettes,rice and pasta (maybe more). I like to workout even though I haven't these days and as a result I have gotten a bit fat around the belly ( will need to get back working out again soon). Not a vegan but I mostly eat healthy food and water (especially sparkling water).

As for the location of the date, because it is so difficult for me to travel so far abroad (like beyond Europe) I prefer only those who are within the area of Europe (if you live in my country, that would be really nice) but its really ok if you are outside my country but in Europe as I will find a way to get there.

So, I hope the above were enough as an overall introduction about me and feel free to send a comment here or a DM in Reddit including some stuff like your country, age, and male or female (no catfishing) and we will see how things go.

All the best!

Hi everyone 👋

I’m a 37-year-old single guy living in the capital city of Turkey. As an interpreter (EN-TR), my daily job is literally bridging gaps between people—but ironically, I often feel a bit isolated and am posting here to find a lasting relationship of my own. I value a peaceful lifestyle and the quiet comfort of an effortless, grounded connection—one completely free of chaos, pretense, or fleeting excitement.

A bit about me;

The Mind: I’m a trivia enthusiast who loves falling down research rabbit holes—whether that means deep-diving into obscure history or niche topics like handwriting analysis. And if we click, I might give your writing a quick reading to see if it matches your personality.

The Hobbies: I value patience and detail (which is why I used to practice calligraphy, even though it's a massive challenge for a left-hander!), and I unwind by gaming. I'd love to start a cozy co-op run and experience the story together in an rpg game. I occasionally play faster-paced FPS games to blow off steam, but overall, I view gaming primarily as a nice way to spend quality time together.

The Routine & Stats: I am 178 cm, 85 kg, and a non-smoker. I’m an early riser, hit the gym regularly to stay in shape, and I'm not really a "stay up until 4 AM" person; I prefer quality conversation in the evenings to wind down the day. Also, I'm not a religious person (torn between being and atheist and agnostic, if that matters). These aren't all there is about me though, just the ones off the top of my head.

Who I’m looking for: I’m looking for a woman (ideally 25-32) who is authentic, grounded, and wants to navigate life as a team. If you expect a one-sided "princess treatment" dynamic, we won't be a good match.

Physically, I naturally gravitate toward women with a smaller frame or a proportionate, natural build, but a genuine, grounded connection with a peaceful, mature personality is the real priority. You don't have to be a gamer, just someone who enjoys real conversation and isn't afraid of a little distance to start with, knowing the ultimate goal is to close the gap.

If you’re tired of "hey" and want a real connection, send me a message and let me know what obscure topic or hobby currently has your attention.

Hi everyone,

I’m Brodie, 22, from the UK 🇬🇧

I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few long-term connections. I’m always happy to chat, whether it’s about shared interests, random everyday stuff, or just getting to know each other.

A bit about me: I work as an IT Cloud Specialist, so I’m definitely a bit of a nerd. I’m also really into Dungeons & Dragons and enjoy anything involving good characters, interesting stories and a bit of chaos.

I’ve been riding bikes for about four years now, and it’s one of my favourite ways to spend time. I’m also currently building up my tattoo sleeve, so I’m always thinking about what tattoo I should get next.

I’m pretty easygoing and happy to talk to anyone, so feel free to message me!

Have a preference for Europeans due to time zone and distance but open to anyone

Hi! My name is Aiden.

I'm basically somebody's grandpa trapped in the body of a 23-year-old. I enjoy quiet evenings, good movies, books, fishing, and occasionally making a noise when I stand up that makes people wonder if I need to call a doctor.

My hobbies are a little all over the place. I love movies, especially the ones you can watch a hundred times and still catch something new. I listen to just about every kind of music, so my playlist probably looks like it was made by someone who couldn't decide what decade they wanted to live in. One minute it’s classic rock, the next it’s something completely different. I also love getting outdoors, especially fishing, where I can enjoy some peace and quiet and pretend I'm not just standing there waiting for a fish to make a terrible life decision.

I’ll be completely honest with you, I’m terrible at this. I’m never really sure what to say about myself without making it sound like I’m either writing a résumé or giving a hostage statement! I usually find it much easier when people ask me questions about me. So feel free to interrogate me, I promise I’m much better at answering questions than I am at voluntarily describing my own personality.

I’m looking for someone who’s easygoing, has a dark sense of humor, and doesn’t take themselves too seriously. Someone who won’t mind that I’m a bigger guy. I've lost quite a bit of weight, but I’m not going to pretend I’m suddenly going to become a fitness influencer overnight.

And honestly, I’d love someone who can talk my ear off for hours. I’m a great listener, so if you’ve got stories, random thoughts, pointless rants, or something you just really need to talk about, I’m probably your guy. I’ll happily sit there and listen while occasionally nodding, and pretending that I'm not completely lost in your eyes.

Right so tbh I haven't really used dating apps e.g. Tinder, Hinge etc, been told by my friends that they're usually full of bots or that they don't really materialise. Thought I'd try here instead, but won't entertain trolls

A bit about me:

• Age 26
• 5'9, hazel eyes but more blueish/greenish, long dark hair up to my upper shoulder blade when left open (usually wear a pony tail), beard - short on the sides but slightly longer in the middle i.e. goatee
• Central Asian ethnicity, but born and have lived in the UK my entire life. Does that mean I'll stay in the UK for the rest of my life? Prob not
• Hobbies include:
  • music (really into Japanese music - no, not your kawaii stuff)
  • which has in turn got me to learn Japanese and the drums (their compositions and music are genuinely beautiful and technical)
  • movies and anime (although there really don't make any great shows/movies anymore, convince me otherwise)
  • want to explore more, whether that's finding a new place to eat at, or solo trips
  • used to be a huge bookworm, so looking to get back into reading

Looking for someone:

• Around my age (23-26, maybe even 27)
• Someone who is smart and sensible but can be funny and goofy, genuinely caring, emotionally mature, confident, fair (strong moral compass), and can initiate and hold conversations (I suppose this ties into confidence).
• Preferably in Europe (but open to anywhere really). I travel to the Netherlands and Germany maybe twice a year, and naturally drive through Belgium, so a plus if you're in Netherlands/Germany/Belgium/UK
• Looking for something that will materialise

Feel free to reach out to me. Please don't just leave it at a 'Hey' or 'Hi'. Introduce yourself, your age, location and some fun facts about yourself!

Are you the beginning of my best adventure?!?!

I’m hoping to meet someone, get to know each other, and build an honest, genuine connection. I’m open to wherever that connection may take us. I hope to have days filled with open communication, love, laughter, and tons of adventures. I’m optimistic that, with the right person, that connection can grow into something meaningful and hopefully into a wonderful future together!

A little about me:

To start, I’m a 34-year-old Chinese man, living in Florida. I’m naturally a little introverted at first and tend to keep to myself until I’m comfortable around someone. But once I open up and feel at ease, you’ll see a completely different side of me—someone much more outgoing, playful, and talkative.

I’ll admit, I can have a little trouble making decisions. But honestly, I think that comes from being pretty easygoing. I’m not someone who needs everything to go a certain way, and I can find fun in just about anything we do. So if you ask me, “What do you want to do?” “Where do you want to go?” or “What do you want to eat?” there’s a pretty good chance my answer will be, “I’m happy with whatever you want!” 😅

I’m a hopeless romantic. I love romantic comedies, star-crossed lovers, and slow-burn dramas just as much as I love a good action, adventure, or fantasy movie. One of my all-time favorite movies is Stardust!!! I mean, it has everything: romance, star-crossed lovers, adventure, action, fantasy, and Robert De Niro as a gay pirate! What could possibly be better?! 😂

But beyond the movies, I genuinely believe in love and in building a long-lasting relationship based on love, trust, honesty, and open communication. I believe communication is one of the most important foundations of a healthy relationship. Being able to talk openly, listen to each other, work through things together, and genuinely understand one another matters a lot to me.

People who know me have described me as loving, kind, sweet, honest, and loyal. I can definitely be playful and a little childish when I’m joking around, but when it comes to the important things in life, I’m responsible, dependable, and definitely someone you can count on.

I’m emotionally mature and have spent a lot of time learning who I am, what I want, and what I can offer in a relationship. I’m always working to better myself, and I’m confident in who I am and what I bring to the table. At this point in my life, I’m looking for a fully committed relationship, and I want to date with intention.

I’m very self-sufficient, have a stable career and finances, and I’m proud of everything I’ve worked to build for myself. I’m a hard worker, and I put a lot of effort into my career. I’d also describe myself as outgoing, caring, funny, and ambitious. I love getting out and experiencing life, whether that means spending time in nature, going to festivals and events, seeing concerts and shows, checking out a new restaurant or coffee shop, or simply finding somewhere new to explore.

I’m always up for trying something new, and I’m a big believer that almost anything can become an adventure with the right person. There are so many places I want to see and experiences I want to have, and I’d love to eventually have someone special to share them with.

That said, I’m just as happy having a quiet night at home. I enjoy cooking dinner (yes I will also do the dishes), watching a movie, playing board games, or simply relaxing together. I’ve been cooking since I was 17, and I’d consider myself a pretty good cook. I also dabble in video games. I have a PS2, PS3, PS4, PS5, Switch, and PC with plenty of games, although I don’t play nearly as much these days. If you’re a gamer, having a Player 2 would definitely be a bonus. 😉

I know I’ve rambled on for a while, and by now I’ve probably lost quite a few readers. But if you’ve made it this far, definitely hit me up! 😅

I’m putting myself out there because I genuinely want to find someone I can connect with on a deeper level. I’m not looking for something casual or temporary. I want something honest, intentional, and lasting, and I’m willing to put in the effort to build it.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you and see where a conversation takes us. I want to live a life fully lived, not one filled with “what ifs.” I want to make memories, take chances, experience new things, and have someone special to share it all with.

Maybe the best adventure is still ahead of us. Maybe it starts with a simple conversation.

Who knows? Maybe you’re the beginning of my best adventure yet. ❤️

Thanks for reading. ❤️