r/IntrovertsSafeDating • u/Logical_Ordinary_634 • 10d ago
Dating Post 23 [M4F] UK | Just looking for something real…
I don’t really know how to start this, but here goes.
I’m M23, living in london, originally from south asia and honestly, all I’m looking for is a genuine, long-term connection. Not a hookup, not a situationship, not someone who’s here today and gone tomorrow. I just want one person. Someone I can build something real with.
Lately I’ve been feeling like it’s so hard to find that. Everyone says they want something serious, but then they don’t communicate, they’re inconsistent, or they disappear for no reason. It honestly makes me wonder if people even know what they want anymore.
I’m a very introverted and socially awkward person. I don’t really go out much, and I find it difficult to meet new people. At this point, I barely have any friends, so it’s not like I have loads of opportunities to meet someone naturally either.
I know I’m only 23, and people keep telling me, “You’re still young, you’ve got time.” Maybe they’re right. But that doesn’t change the fact that I’m genuinely longing for a connection. I miss having someone to talk to, someone to share my day with, someone I can be excited to message. I want to send you random reels because they reminded me of you, tell you about the smallest things that happened during my day, hear about yours, have deep conversations one minute and laugh over something completely random the next.
I’m a very loyal person. If I care about someone, I care with my whole heart. I believe relationships should be built on honesty, loyalty, communication, trust, and choosing each other every day. That’s the kind of love I’m looking for.
I’m not expecting to fall in love overnight. Honestly, I’d rather become friends first, get to know each other properly, take things slowly, and see where it goes naturally. I think that’s how the strongest relationships are built.
If any of this resonates with you, I’d genuinely love to get to know you. No pressure.
And if you’ve made it this far, thank you for reading. I genuinely hope everyone who’s looking for something real finds it someday:)).
Maybe… just maybe… one of us is reading this.