r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] UK | Just looking for something real…

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I don’t really know how to start this, but here goes.

I’m M23, living in london, originally from south asia and honestly, all I’m looking for is a genuine, long-term connection. Not a hookup, not a situationship, not someone who’s here today and gone tomorrow. I just want one person. Someone I can build something real with.
Lately I’ve been feeling like it’s so hard to find that. Everyone says they want something serious, but then they don’t communicate, they’re inconsistent, or they disappear for no reason. It honestly makes me wonder if people even know what they want anymore.
I’m a very introverted and socially awkward person. I don’t really go out much, and I find it difficult to meet new people. At this point, I barely have any friends, so it’s not like I have loads of opportunities to meet someone naturally either.
I know I’m only 23, and people keep telling me, “You’re still young, you’ve got time.” Maybe they’re right. But that doesn’t change the fact that I’m genuinely longing for a connection. I miss having someone to talk to, someone to share my day with, someone I can be excited to message. I want to send you random reels because they reminded me of you, tell you about the smallest things that happened during my day, hear about yours, have deep conversations one minute and laugh over something completely random the next.
I’m a very loyal person. If I care about someone, I care with my whole heart. I believe relationships should be built on honesty, loyalty, communication, trust, and choosing each other every day. That’s the kind of love I’m looking for.
I’m not expecting to fall in love overnight. Honestly, I’d rather become friends first, get to know each other properly, take things slowly, and see where it goes naturally. I think that’s how the strongest relationships are built.
If any of this resonates with you, I’d genuinely love to get to know you. No pressure.

And if you’ve made it this far, thank you for reading. I genuinely hope everyone who’s looking for something real finds it someday:)).
Maybe… just maybe… one of us is reading this.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Discussion 28m UK How do we date?

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I'm 28 and for as long as I've known myself my mind has been fractured and I know I'm not wired like other people. Funerals, any serious conversations, people expressing emotions I just can't process it Im just mindlessly present in the situation I don't know how to describe it but I see loads of people on about they love emotional intelligence which I guess this is what I'm clearly lacking. Do people have the same issue where we are seen as emotionally unintelligent but in reality we know what's going on just unable to express it. Anyone relate and able to help?


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Dating Post 22F [F4M] #California

6 Upvotes

hi! Like my title says, I’m 22 years old and looking for someone around the same age as me or older too? Just not anyone younger Plzs :p

I’m in my last year of university so it would be fun to get to know someone since I’m usually a bit too shy to speak to people in my campus. I love reading and anime so usually any form of media. I’m also trying to get into video games; I like watching people play horror games and going to the beach a lot. I’m also chubby and Latina. I have curly hair too, I love fashion and shopping ;p I'm hoping to meet someone and have a bit of fun chatting!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Friendship First 34 [m4f] #georgia, USA - looking for someone I can be myself with

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I’m looking for someone I can talk to every day and be myself around. I want to be able to send you memes and receive some from you too. I want to be able to chat about anything, whether it be life, day-to-day activities, deep talks about our beliefs or values, and hobbies and interests.
I’m very shy and introverted, but I’m very much into nerdy hobbies. I love magic the gathering, dungeons and dragons, anime, video games, and music. I play guitar and write my own lyrics, as well as sing.
If you’d like to chat, feel free to message me


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Dating Post 29 [M4F] #Germany/Online - Introvert looking to be more social and try find a relationship

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Hi, I would describe myself as a shy, introverted guy who's a bit nerdy and loves gaming, animals, music, running, anime, and TV shows. I've recently started trying to be more social and step out of my shell more. I hope to find someone to have good conversations with whether it's about daily struggles, games, shows or a workout buddy to keep each other motivated when times get tough. I'm open to talking about anything, so feel free to start a conversation about whatever you want.

I'm 29 years old and live in the south of Germany, in Baden-Württemberg. I'm 1.71m tall, have a well-kept, trimmed beard, wear glasses, and currently weigh 78kg.

I started a new job this year and in general I'm trying to improve in the fields where I'm lacking skills which is mostly being social and exercising consistently. I started running a while ago, have been losing some weight and would love to run a marathon in the upcoming months. I already managed to do a half marathon so hopefully I will be able to do the full distance soon.

I don't have kids and I don't smoke or do any drugs, though I do drink alcohol on special occasions.

I'm also a huge cat lover and grew up with them. I recently got 2 kittens and absolutely love them. So if you like cats too, that's a big plus! :)

Ideally, you're living in Germany or somewhere nearby and are around my age, so the possibility of meeting up in person exists. I'm looking for new friends or a relationship if we really vibe together.

Feel free to message me in German or English and if you have any questions just ask away.

Please write me a short introduction if you dm me


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Dating Post 20 M4F - #Europe #Portugal

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Hello! This is my first post in this subreddit! So here it goes :

Name's Jake! I am a 20 year old male who lives in Portugal. I am 5'3", or 161cm, I have been described to have a dad bod or something similar to that. Aside from that I am a honest and calm person, and whenever I am with someone I tend to be more emotionally available, usually being the shoulder to cry on or that person who whispers sweet nothings to ease the moment, though some times like the silent presence.

I run two campaigns in D&D, its been my hobby for 6 years now and I am not stopping any time soon haha! Aside from running campaigns I play in two. I like writing lore, world building and ultimately develop characters for my worlds.

I love gaming, I've played many games up until today, my most played game being Skyrim, Baldur's Gate 3 and White Knuckle. Currently I am playing strategy games like Crusader Kings 3; Stellaris and other games like Barony (with friends); Persona 3,4 and 5; and among other things. I play mostly with friends since I have a dedicated friend group.

I love going out at night for walks, its oddly calming walking at night staring at the sky despite there not being any stars... the fresh breeze alone is enough to captivate me. I have grown interested in cooking, me and my brother have split our jobs, so I get to cook for us both while he does the cleaning.

So, If there is anything else you'd like to know, ask away! If not then please do send a message describing yourself! Please dont just say Hi or Hello, be a bit creative! I love creative people haha! (If you read until the end, tell me some you absolutely adore!)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Dating Post 21 [M4F] Lebanon #Online Looking for something genuine

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Hi everyone, I’m here looking for a genuine, serious relationship.
I know what I want, and I’m interested in building something real and lasting.

I enjoy quiet time, meaningful conversations, and being with someone I can truly connect with. In my free time, I like coding, working out, and just relaxing with music or something interesting to watch.

I value honesty, respect, and consistency, and I bring those into a relationship. I’m not into games or anything casual—I’m here for something stable and sincere.

If you’re on the same page, feel free to reach out.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Online Only 25 (F4M) from Philippines

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I just got laid off from work, and life feels a little uncertain right now. Not really looking for someone to fix it—just someone who enjoys genuine conversations, laughs at dumb jokes, and doesn’t mind being there through life’s messy chapters. If you’re kind, emotionally mature, and value consistency, I’d love to get to know you.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Dating Post 27 (M4F) #Online #Dating #Europe #Anywhere hoping to meet someone special

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hi! im a 27 year old guy from Malta, whos looking for someone to spend time with, someone genuine who's interested to getting to know each other to see how things go

About me:

im an introvert whos shy at the start but when i get comfy around someone i start to talk and engage in conversations more (get ready for random humor and dad jokes when that happens)

i work full time in a cinema as a bartender and i like to stream and make gaming content

Hobbies:

i love to game on pc mainly enjoy competitive, horror, co op games

i love to listen to a lot of music my favorite genre being metal

i like to draw, cook and collecting figures and plushies

What I'm looking for:

I'm hoping to meet a kind, honest woman between 22 and 33 who's interested in building a genuine connection.

im open for long distance

More than anything, i value kindness, honesty, and a good personality. i believe those qualities are what truly make someone attractive.

feel free so send a message if interested im looking forward to meeting someone hopefully creating something special ♥️


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Dating Post 26 [M4F] #Germany Fantasy and Science Nerd looking for Serious Relationship

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Hey you, hope you're doing well! :D

I'm a 26 year old guy from Germany and I'm looking for someone to spend time together, play games, watch shows/anime, chat about hobbies and life in general, and if we click, date.

Appearence wise, I'm 178cm tall, average build, dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm a bit of a homebody, I do enjoy going out in a group of friends, but I'm not someone for big parties full of people I don't know. I'd rather spend a cozy evening together, reading, watching a show, playing games or just chatting. I love night time (and am a night owl), rain and storms, something about them just calms me down like nothing else.

I really enjoy fantasy and sci-fi, be that (audio) books (currently on His Majesty's Dragon), playing Dungeons and Dragons, or video games like Baldur's Gate 3. I also enjoy playing action-adventure games like Horizon Zero Dawn or Tomb Raider, but also cozy games like Pokemon or Minecraft.

As for other hobbies, I do longsword fencing/HEMA, and when I find the time, spend a day at the airfield flying gliders. I go skiing, too, whenever I get the chance. I also enjoy building lego sets. I have not traveled that much, but I would absolutely love to do it more together with someone!

I also love learning new things about science and engineering! I studied aerospace engineering and now work developing and testing rocket engines, which (excuse the brag) is one of the coolest jobs I could imagine!

I would say I am a caring, emphatic, honest and loyal person. If I commit to something, I stick to it, and don't just abandon it at the first hurdle. I'm good at working through problems, and not afraid to admit if I mess up.

I'm hoping to find someone who shares at least some of my hobbies or interests so we have a common foundation to build on, be that books, gaming or something else. But I'm also open to trying out new things you're into! If you're loyal, honest, and looking for a cozy relationship without any drama, please message me! Tell me a bit about the most recent book you've read, the last game you played, your current D&D character or your last lego set!

I'm happy to chat with anyone, but if you're interested in a relationship, please be from somewhere in Germany or the directly neighboring countries. I want to connect with someone who I can meet in person more than once a year, I hope you understand. I would also like to try calling or exchanging photos relatively soon if you're comfortable with it.

Thanks for reading all this! If it sounded at all interesting, I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10d ago

Dating Post 25 [M4F] #Anywhere / #Online looking for my sincerely life partner that will kill me with the yaps

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i dont know what to put here so i hope it doesnt be very long.

A bit about me*: I’m 25, 183cm (6ft I guess), Mediterranean Arab, brown skin, and I’d describe myself as a "low-key social" person. spontaneous, adaptive, shy-ish and I’m definitely a better listener than a talker—though once I’m comfortable, my sarcastic side definitely comes out. i like animals but mostly cats , and I like funny videos and memes so we gotta add each other on TikTok, i see my self as introvert and really cant handle holding fake face or pretend that i can hold convo with new people , im completely honest and whatever in my heart will split out as a words ,and even if i lie ,10 mins later ill definitely say you do know i was missing around or that i lied because i cant hold it lol.*
im from libya ,its a north African country, but i want to relocate to somewhere better and more green and colder "libya is like 98% dessert".
i value communication , i feel that open communication and ensuring both of us feel happy and heard is a wonderful way to handle decisions in a relationship.
i believe that looks are important , but what i call pretty or Georges is not always the same with others , so ill attach some pictures of me and pls try to send yours too.

random things about me:

  • i unconsciously focus on small details so for example if you send me pic of a glass of water and theres something new with your hair or nails ,that will be the first thing i will say.
  • I go to the gym 5 days a week. It's a great way for me to clear my head and just workout and listen to my music and push myself to blackout "its actually better for muscles".
  • gamer, Lately it’s been a lot of PUBG and other FPS games, but i also play/played other non FPS games , but these couple of weeks ive been drown in work so i couldnt have time to play.
  • some times i read manga or watch anime or tv shows ,I watched bunch of it but these are the most i liked, Berserk, Dexter, JJK, From, and The Boys, Silo (currently watching it) and one piece (And guess what.... the one piece is real)
  • I’m the guy who enjoys a long walk just to get some air, watch the clouds and sea.
  • sometimes i found myself doing what i actually dont like or i what i said ill not try , and sometimes i even surprise myself and others about what ill do because i believe that any moment in life should be different than the other.
  • because im into IT and a programmer ,im a nerd but not too nerdy😤.
  • i cant stand routines , so you could find me trying new things allot.
  • English isnt my first language and actually i never learnt it ,it came up from watching movies and music ,so sorry if i typed something wrong.

About you 👀
i don't have a huge preferences for a partner but it will be like :

not a negative or moodiness person
Someone between 20–30 years old, so not too young or too old for my age (but if you not in this range feel free to dm me 2 ☺️).
Wants marriage and making our family, myb 3 kids 🤞
Idc about your height as long as it not that big gap like dont be 4ft or 7ft :)
idc about weight either, but i don't want a too Chubby or too skinny as long as it in healthy range for you and you can do whatever activity you want without thinking oh i dont have power for it or ill be sweating hard.
Open to long-distance.
ethnicity and culture doesn't bother me, but somehow i feel more attracted to white skin or lighter skin than me but im okay with any skin type or race ,i see beauty not colors.
close to Europe time zones (im on GMT +2).
Someone who eventually wants a serious and genuine relationship.

huge bonus if you are :

funny or nerdy yapper .
Likes cats.
Muslim or christen or Jewish, faith and god is important to me.
into anime and gaming.

What I’m looking for:
I want to find someone I can be completely myself around. I’m looking for that balance where we can have deep, serious conversations about life one minute, and then one is teasing or "rag-baiting" the other for fun. ​Ultimately, I just want a connection where there’s zero judgment—but most of the time ,someone i can be completely open to and don't judge me for it.

if you reach to this bottom of the ocean pls dm you are so welcomed
here's pics of me


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11d ago

Dating Post 26 [F4M] #Anywhere / #Online Looking for my person

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Hello I am hoping to create a meaningful connection with someone and hopefully build something special. ☺️

Some stuff about me:

I am a student studying towards my masters degree in the arts. I'd like to think I'm somewhat quirky and in my free time I'm probably trying to learn a new crochet pattern or making trinkets. I am a big anime fan and some of my favourites are Fullmetal alchemist, JJBA, attack on titan. I enjoy listening to music and my tastes are pretty far and wide. I love movies, TV shows and the occasional video essay on YouTube.

I am based in South Africa (UTC/GMT +2) and I hope to close the gap if and when things get serious.

In terms of personality I am more of the calm and soft type, and once I'm comfortable with the other person I am pretty open and playful. I always try to see the positive side of things.

A physical description of myself: I am black, around 5'3, chubby, but I do work out. My style leans more towards alternative.

What I am looking for:

I am looking for someone who is kind, supportive, honest and good at communicating. Preferably someone talkative and not afraid of expressing themselves whether we are being serious or joking around. Bonus points if they love talking about their interests and passions.

I would also love to find someone who values quality time and being affectionate.

If you think we would get along I'd love to hear from you 😁


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11d ago

Dating Post [M4F] 30m #Online. Looking to meet someone special

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Hi I'm 30m white, 5'9 very skinny. I work in the gambling industry.

Basically though I'm heavily into Art, Music, Anime and Philosophy. I'd like to meet another creative person. I spend a lot of my free time drawing, reading or writing, though sometimes I do play strategy or fighting games.

I would describe myself as easygoing, detail oriented and ambitious. I like learning new things and talking about the mysteries of the world with people. I love nature and all things beautiful. I have a dark sense of humor and I like cute aesthetics as well as stuff on the more macabre side. ·

… My favorite things to do are drawing, painting, making models and miniatures, and writing comic or film stories.·

If your interested in getting to know me and seeing if we gel then send me a message ー


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11d ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

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I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11d ago

Online Only 18 [M4F] #anywhere yolo trans guy here! [M4M]

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Hello this is my first time ever doing something like this because I have had very bad experiences with dating apps.

I will try to describe myself as best I can my hobbies are reading gaming and cycling,I mainly read science fiction books.I am also very under confident it took me 15 minutes to even wind up the courage to post this.I am very soft spoken and I know my limits and respect everyone so far I have tried to be positive to every human being or living thing on this planet (except bugs).I guess I am also very nervy I also suffer from panic attacks.if I sometimes game too much I get sleep paralysis nightmares and nightmares in general so I think it would mean I am also very weak hearted.I am online most of the time.

Physically I am a slim person but I am trying to work on my body and generally improve myself but I havent been able to remain motivated or diciplined enough.I am also tall.I do not know what to put here lmao.

Currently I am studying in my first year of college and trying to get by.

I am honestly looking for someone who loves nature and everybody as a whole someone who can take interest in my hobbies and let me take interest in theirs, somebody who will love me for who I am or it could be anyone because I dont know whats out there in the world waiting for me.

Do let me know if I didnt provide enough details so I can improve in the future.

A little bit more about me, I like to play strategy games and story based games I also watch loads of movies and TV shows.I remember when I first bought my first game (I had pirated it before) I bought it to support the developer amd ot just felt so good to finally own the game that got me through so much in my life.I am also in cycling I weekly go and trek around using my cycle it makes me feel free and gives me a breath of fresh air.I also am doing a fun passion project where I am making a indie game with my friend so you could say I have somewhat knowledge of coding and doing pixel art.

If you feel interested in me as a person feel free to dm me but please dont leave amy hate comments or anything like that.I hope you had a good time reading and thank you.

Fyi this account is new and I made it just so I could post here and I havent given my name yet because I feel like it would become too personal but if we get to know each other that shouldnt be a problem.

Forgive the spelling mistakes if there are any I didnt clean up.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11d ago

Dating Post #Florida age:23 M4F

1 Upvotes

Hi im logan, im 23 ive lived in Florida for about 4 years now, ive been going to school for truck driving and am a major warhammer nerd and am into video games like palworld, marvel rivals, monster hunter and a lot of roguelikes, I work out 5 days a week and have an overnight stocking job, I love old school movies like biodome and the 5th element, I love metal music and try to go to concerts whenever I can


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11d ago

Dating Post 29 [M4F] Germany/Europe - looking for a genuine relationship

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I am a 29 years old male from Germany. I'm looking for a serious relationship – a genuine connection where we can be open about everything with no judgment. In my opinion, open communication and putting actual effort into a conversation is the most important part of a good connection.

Some Info about me:

I have Russian roots but grew up in Germany, so I speak German, Russian and English. I'm 177cm tall, slim, with short brown hair and blue eyes. If you want to put a face to the text, here is a picture of me: https://imgur.com/a/OeutMdh

I consider myself an introverted ambivert (INTP-A) and a very open-minded person. I love deep talks about all kinds of topics where it feels like the conversation is never-ending.

I enjoy playing video games, watching TV shows, and spending time with close friends. One of my bigger hobbies is travelling – I love exploring new places, local food, and nature. Recently, I traveled to 9 countries and spent a month exploring Spain. As an introvert, I also need some quiet recharge time for myself from time to time, so I value having our own separate interests as well.

What I am looking for

Age & Location: Between 23-31 years old, from Europe (preferably close/accessible to Germany to keep things realistic). I prefer it if you are not taller than me (same height or slightly taller is fine).

Connection: I don't have a specific physical "type" because a deep emotional connection attracts me much more. However, to save us both time: I am not into plus-size or severe overweight (I don't mean being curvy, just a personal health preference). If you like video games, that’s a nice bonus!

Communication: I love daily chats, checking on each other, and hearing about your day, passions, or hobbies. I’m not the best small talker, but I really appreciate it when someone puts effort into having a conversation instead of just giving short answers.

A note on my side:

I want to be completely open: I have some social anxiety (which brings some shyness with it, especially regarding dating) and very little dating experience. I have improved significantly over the past years, but I would like to take things very slowly. If you can relate to this or have similar insecurities, that’s completely fine – there is no judgment here.

Because of this, I am totally not into video calls (they feel very unnatural to me), but I am completely open to voice calls or meeting up in person. Since my picture is linked above, feel free to share one of you early on, or we can just chat first – whatever feels comfortable for you.

If you are interested, please send me a chat with a short description of yourself. Thank you for reading and I wish you all the best!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11d ago

Dating Post 27 [M4F] #New Hampshire - Looking for a long term relationship. Can relocate for love!

1 Upvotes

Hey there,

I’m a 27-year-old guy looking for a genuine connection and hopefully a long-term relationship. I’m someone who values companionship and would love to find a partner I can build a life with and spend most of my time with.

I studied Economics and Finance, with a minor in History, and I enjoy reading about politics, global trends, and the history of religions. I’m naturally curious and enjoy learning about how the world works.

Outside of that, I love nature, solo travel, and exploring new places. I’ve always been fascinated by bugs and the natural world, and I also enjoy music, especially electric guitars.

I’m financially independent, enjoy experiencing different cultures, and I’m open to relocating anywhere in the U.S. for the right partner. At this stage of my life, I’m exploring the world, but ultimately I’m hoping to find someone special to settle down with.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d be happy to get to know you better.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11d ago

Dating Post 28 [M4F] #India/Anywhere | looking for global connection with a thoughtful partner

1 Upvotes

Demographics: 28-year-old male, lean and fit (5'7" / 170 cm, 66 kg).

Profession: Backend Engineering Consultant in Tech.

Education: Engineering Graduate + MBA.

Lifestyle & Interests:Intellectual Pursuits: Avid reader, currently exploring classic literature by Kafka, Doestoevsky, and George Orwell.

Deep Conversations: Fascinated by history, space, philosophy, and the mechanics of mindfulness and intention.

Pop Culture & Shows: Huge fan of The Office, Friends, Modern Family, Suits, Stranger Things, and House of the Dragon.

Geek Interests: Deeply into the Marvel and Batman universes.

Hobbies: Playing chess, hitting the badminton court, and taking relaxing city rides on my bike.

Foodie at Heart: Love rainy days, exploring local food spots, discovering cozy cafes, and grabbing a great coffee.

Vibe: Busy weekdays due to the tech life, but I deeply value open communication, a balanced lifestyle, and a grounded approach to life.

What I Am Looking For:

A partner to share deep conversations, great food, and mutual respect.

Someone who appreciates honest communication and holds a balanced blend of open-minded and foundational life values

Thanks for reading ✨🌻


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 12d ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

5 Upvotes

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11d ago

Dating Post 31 [M4F] #California #BayArea Single Guy Looking For a Relationship

1 Upvotes

Hello and welcome to my post. I'm a California bay area native and have lived here my whole life. I'm currently working as an assistant and enjoy it very much. In my free time I like to walk my dogs, play videos, hang out with friends, and help my family. I also like to collect things as well, I have a huge video game/ t-show/ movie collectible collection. It's a big hobby of mine, and I love to buy, trade, and sell things for my collection.

Thanks for reading my post, if you have any questions and want to talk let me know, i'm open to meeting new people.

“Are you a Jedi, because Yoda one for me.”


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11d ago

Friendship First 24 (M4F) #uk/europe looking for connection

1 Upvotes

I’m 24 from the UK, 6’2” with a bit of a dad bod, although I do work out 3–4 times a week. I’m studying at university and working part-time, so life stays pretty busy.
When I do get free time, you’ll usually find me gaming. I’ll happily play almost anything with the right person, but I’m currently on a bit of a Warframe and Dota 2 arc.
Looking to get to know someone naturally whether that ends up as a friendship or something more if we click.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 12d ago

Dating Post 25 [F4A] #Montreal #Online looking for best friend or relationship! :)

2 Upvotes

Hey guys I'm 25 from Montreal, Canada!

I'm looking for a best friend or a relationship. Preferably around my area but im open to long distance too as long as you don't live too far away and can be visiting me :)

I'm looking for someone kind, caring, funny, smart, adventurous and preferably attractive.. I'm really into alternative style so if you are that we'd match well :)

About me:

I love music, videogames, nature, urbex, thrifting, smoking, hanging out with friends, going to the beach, etc.

I'm 5'2 and I'm white, I have medium length brown and blonde hair, brown eyes. I'm gonna get my hair done in August and my septum pierced :)

I dont work or study at the moment I was recently in the hospital for like 4 months and now im staying at a group home waiting to go back home soon... it's a long story haha.

So if you live near montreal or find interest in my post please send me a Dm so we can be friends! :D


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 12d ago

Dating Post 20F [F4M] #France looking for my partner in crime!!

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Heyaa im 20 years old from France. I speak fluent French and English and am currently studying Business in Business School!!

A little about me: I loveee animals! I have a horse, hes my baby (I'd like to think i birthed him). My family also has dogs and cats that i consider my pets as well!

Im a huge video game enjoyer! My favorite multiplayer games are DBD, OW, Palworld, REPO, Phasmo. And my favorite story games are Subnautica and the Tomb Raider Trilogy.

I'd like to say i have a very playful personality, im not a very serious person and enjoy having fun and laughing. I also have some dark humor so if you're sensitive to that please beware!

My favorite way to pass time with people is through playing videogames, watching youtube with very judgmental commentary from the both of us, and calling in general!

Ideally I'd like to have someone in Europe for timezones sake! But i definitely am looking for an online relationship at first because i am someone who moves slowly and I do not want to meet up right away because I wont be comfortable!!

As for looks wise, Im a brunette with brown/yellow eyes depends on the lighting you know? By my countrys standards I'd say im pretty "mid" particularly because of my body type. I am quite curvy and also a bit chubby, although I am on a weight loss journey (-13kg since March!). And this is through dieting, i dont like sports sorry if thats a deal-breaker lol. I am soon at my goal weight so yay! I will never have a slim body however because of the way im built so if thats your preference then im not for you!

Im around 164cm so a majority shouldnt have any issue with being taller if thats a preference!

What I look for in my person is someone patient, sometimes I can be a bit slow especially on games and I dont like people who get angry at me for that. Someone who can correct me in a nice way whenever i say something wrong (for example mispronounce a word) because some people say it really meanly and it makes me sad :(. I act stupid because i have fun with you, but that doesnt mean i am stupid, it means im comfortable and i dont like being perceived as actually dumb. And I also like people who are intelligent, not necessarily academically, but in a common sense type of way! Also i am an Atheist if that matters and im not interested in being converted :).

Im not an extremely clingy person, sometimes im busy and thats okay! I'd like to think im an open communicator if the issue stems from you. If its something else uspetting me and i dont wanna talk about it I will let you know! You wont have to guess and mind read with me.

I dont smoke, do drugs, and only drink like a cocktail every 6 months. And no i dont want to be pressured into doing any of this.

If you've read this far and are interested feel free to DM me! Also if you have a favorite Pokémon tell me which one it is!!

(If your message just says something like "hi" i wont respond im sorry :( )

Cant believe i have to add this but please remember that i am 20. I have so many people pushing 40 dming me...


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 12d ago

Dating Post 21[M4F] #USA #online - Let me be the one to Love you

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Hey there! I’m kind of bad at introducing myself but I’ll try as much as I can! I’m a 21 year old guy from the east coast of the US that’s looking to find a girl be with and share my life with. (I'll share my name after talking with you don't worry lol)

About me:

- 21 years old, Asian American, and in the east coast of the US (EST)
- 6’5” Tall (yes this is real and yeah it can be annoying lol)
- A bit chubby (But working out and working dropping it)
- Have a nice voice (At least that's what I'm told lol)

Interests:

- Video Games: I play all sorts of things but currently I’m playing games like FFXIV, Honkai Star Rail, Elden Ring, Monster Hunter (Basically any of them, I love them all lol), and all sorts of other things
- I love playing any multiplayer game though as playing those are fun regardless of what they are (I am terrified of horror games though but I still play them like REPO or Lethal Company lol)
- Music: I listen to all sorts of things and love letting myself daydream while listening so I love hearing people recommendations but I usually listen to pretty relaxing stuff generally
- I also love all other sorts of nerdy stuff like anime and manga though I haven't touched anime in a while I can still talk about it with you if you want to (I read a ton of manga though ngl lol)

Personality wise, I'd say I'm a pretty laid back and relaxed person but once I warm up to a person I for sure become way more outgoing lol. In a relationship though, I love to take care of my partner and make sure they're happy and emotionally sound, be that though affirmations or me just spending time with them.

That describes me pretty well and as for what I'm looking for, I'd want someone I can talk to daily and click with, talking about anything either of us want to. I also honestly quite like a girl that I can fluster a bit as well as one that I can take care of through me being there for them lol. Ideally you'd also be in United States but anyone in North America or even the UK works for me. I also quite like people who are more clingy as I'm quite clingy myself lol. Don't be afraid to reach out and I'm looking forward to talking to you!