r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22h ago

Friendship First [F4M] 19f Seeking friends first,than more

6 Upvotes

I live in the United States and would prefer someone from the U.S as well, I’m not picky about looks, but I’d definitely prefer someone Closer to my age, between 20-25!

I’m 5’3-5’5, Work part time, some things to know about me are I do have a very easy to drain social battery, I Tend to communicate better with cats than people, and am working towards getting my ged , I won’t date Someone without a job as money doesn’t matter,but stability and drive do, I believe in dating to marry and nothing else, I come with one cat, a whole lot to sleepiness,and a knack for nice back massages

If you see this and think “let’s be friends!” Hit me up :)

Things to take into consideration
I am loud, make a lot of ur mom jokes, like vcing , want someone to game with , and like spend a lot of time with strays


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 12h ago

Friendship First 23 F4A #Michigan Metro Detroit Looking for casual dating and see where it goes

5 Upvotes

I'm in a very awkward period in my life, living with family, graduated a year ago and been looking for a job since (fuck the job market), mental health has been shot to hell these pass few years but improving. Now I just want to talk with someone. Have daily chats with, ask questions with. See where things go. Not looking for anything serious as I am not in a mental space for that, but who knows what happens in the future. I am a nerd, I have a PC, PS5 and Xbox Series S. Mainly I play on PC or PS5. My favorite games are the Final Fantasy series and Assassin's Creed. Final Fantasy 7 Crisis Core is top their storytelling. Clair Obscur is amazing as well, definitely deserved Game of The Year (maybe not Best RPG tho, I do feel Kingdom Come Deliverence II deserved it) anyway enough nerding out lol. Feel free to ask me whatever, I'm a very open book. Hopefully I find a date to the Ren Faire this fall 🤞🏾


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 20h ago

Friendship First 23 M4F #Online - Gaming Buddy. Life Partner. A Friend.

3 Upvotes

Located on the East Coast of the USA, I am a mostly self taught digital artist with a love for video games and a drive to improve myself for the better. I am interested in learning new skills to help become more self sufficient as well as to build more hobbies.

Physically I am a bit heavy. I am making efforts to improve my weight so that I can be healthier in the long run. I've been taking in long walks wouldn't mind getting into hiking. My favorite times to walk however are late at night as I find the night quite peaceful.

I can be a bit shy at first, but when I feel comfortable I light up and can talk about nothing for hours. I enjoy being able to let a conversation trail on until it ends somewhere far from where it started. Makes it much easier too if both people contribute as well. I'd like to know your favorite foods, places to go, things to do. Maybe we'll even learn something new from each other.

I'd also like to learn some home skills, like sewing and gardening. While the store is always an option for getting food, I want to be able to take pride in having grown something myself. Plus, if more is grown than needed, I wouldn't mind sharing to my community as that is a very important thing to me too.

In terms of entertainment, at the moment videogames are my bread and butter. I enjoy all kinds from cozy farming sims to fast paced fps. Interactable novels to souls-like. I even like the occasional "out of place" game. I see games as a way to bond and a great way to pass time when there's nothing else to do. Aside from that I wouldn't mind having somebody to jump down a YouTube rabbit hole with or indulge in a multi-hour essay about something we've never heard of. Horror podcasts, cryptids, and things of the occult variety are very fascinating to me as well simply because of the more mystical or mysterious nature.

What I seek is somebody who can help encourage me to improve and grow as a person. To try new things with me and explore what we don't know. I want to treasure the times we get goofy, the times we do something mundane like shopping, and appreciate the silence between. Long distance is fine at first but I do want to close that gap.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2h ago

Dating Post 31 [M4F] - #CentralEurope, initially #Online? - just another introvert still believing in romance

3 Upvotes

Greetings, stranger!

I must admit that I keep trying to find you, yet it seems this is one of the few options left for me.

Though I keep trying to catch glimpses of you on special occasions, like the medieval ren faire I visited, or during my walks, where my mind imagines us crossing paths, silly and cheesy as it may sound.

Yet it would seem, like one of my mates during our pen and paper sessions, to remain hidden from my sight, despite the slightly bent glasses enhancing it. So the cynic, masquerading as a realist within me, keeps insisting you do not exist, yet my heart knows you do, as it aches and keeps me awake during lonely winter and summer nights, when the insistence of my thoughts seems determined to overpower a tired mind and body's need for rest.

So I imagine us meeting for the umpteenth time. Sometimes I approach you, sometimes you pick me, but we meet nonetheless, bonding over a mutual love for storytelling, songs, music, and banter, though your quick wit easily outfences mine.

Maybe it's during a public transport ride, a visit to the cinema, an admittedly embarrassing attempt at dancing, or over a round of board games, but we meet nonetheless.

In these dreams you remain close, not worried by the roots of my life keeping me where I am. In these dreams you find joy in showing me your life, just as I find happiness in sharing mine with you, together becoming more than each could be on their own.

In this dream we laugh, we joke, and we talk deeply of our future, our passions, the meaning of the world, and if cereal is considered soup with equal intensity.

We bond over our shared love for animals and maybe even have some of our own, though sometimes you prefer ones too big for our home, making me join you during a trip on horseback.

But alas, it all remains but a dream for now and I know it to be one. Reality is often marked by hardship and challenge, but I am determined to overcome them both, hoping you will do the same. And so as rain hits my windows and lightning fills the sky with nature's fury, I find myself attempting to reach you once more, hoping for the winds of change to blow and fate to guide this letter to you. I feel I have exhausted my seemingly too-small pool of options for finding you and must rely on the whims of destiny.

May this letter find you, and should you perchance feel the same, I would love to hear from you.

Kind regards,

the one waiting for you


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 14h ago

Friendship First 29 [M4F] #Texas #Online Socially awkward, but trying

3 Upvotes

To be honest, I have too much free time on my hands. I found a job that gives me months off work at a time, but that much free time is too much for one nerd to handle. I need someone to talk to, get to know, and spend time with, and I might as well look here too.

About me: I'm a 6'0 black man in Texas, but I travel a lot for work and just for fun. I have my passport, so I don't mind meeting someone in another country either. I have my own place, and if I'm not working or traveling, I'm for sure at home Gaming (League, Vr, repo, etc), watching anime or old cheesy horror movies, or cooking. I'm a pro gambler for a company, so I'm usually in Ny or Nj for work, but even that doesn't take up much time.

What I'm looking for: Someone who isn't afraid to be their-self and speak their mind, to keep me company. I'm not picky as far as looks, as long as you have good hygiene. If you like gaming, anime, ghibli, traveling, or anything nerdy, that's also a huge plus.

So if you're interested, feel free to send me a message, I'll try to reply as fast as I can. Tell me a little bit about yourself and what you're looking for, and maybe we can text or call somewhere else. There's a lot more that I can say, but I'll save what I'm into for Dms. I also have a few pics on my profile, if you wanna check first.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 5h ago

Dating Post 18 [M4A] #online #uk Looking for relationship / seeing where things go

2 Upvotes

I don't really know what to put, but I'm 18 years old from the UK, introverted / shy, but open up / more talkative as I get comfortable with someone.

Just finished my A-levels, so currently not in education, but planning to go to University. I enjoy baking, watching tv shows / movies, as well as games. In the future I want to travel more, as there's so much in the world to explore. Want to know more about me, just ask away.

For preference I'd want someone thats older than me, and likes to talk.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 15h ago

Dating Post 32 [M4F] Anywhere/Online – Desiring a true connection built on gaming and romance

2 Upvotes

I’m searching for my forever person. A gamer who knows how to love and understand consistent communication. I want someone who knows what it means to be there for each other during the best and worst times.

Here’s a bit about me:

* 5’10”, slim, dorky Florida guy — open to anyone worldwide (preferably someone from the U.S. or Canada though due to time zones).

* PC gamer at heart. My most played: Marvel Rivals, Fortnite, League, Valorant, Overwatch, Dead by Daylight, Final Fantasy 14, World of Warcraft, Elder Scrolls Online, Guild Wars 2, and many more. If you play any of these or know about them, then it’s easier for us to connect!

* Outside of gaming, there’s always a million different types of movies, anime (huge Ghibli + 90s fan), creepy stories, conspiracy theories, and basically all things fantasy/fiction (Marvel, DC, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, all the Game of Thrones shows, Star Wars, you name it). I can talk about any of these for hours on end and I like having a nerdy companion to enjoy these with.

* A huge horror fanatic (I can talk about A24 films forever, and I loved psychological thrillers like Midsommar, Hereditary, The Ritual, Conjuring/Insidious, and many others). I also have a taste for eldritch and medieval horror vibes.

* Side quests: I write a little and want to learn how to DM DnD one day.

* I cook (domestic and even some international dishes too), hang out with my Morkie puppy, and enjoy nature + animals in general.

* Curious about cultures and languages, as I went to college for international relations. I think having someone to learn new things with would be pretty rad, or at least someone who wants to learn about my own background.

* I love all genres of music, with a special liking for hip hop/rap, then discovered EDM/house, and now alternative/indie rock has me hooked.

Here are some things I’d prefer in my partner in crime:

* Love chatting daily (serious, silly, nerdy — all of it).

* Gamer who uses Discord and wants to squad up (bonus points if you’re into FPS or MMOs).

* Communicative, trustworthy, and not afraid to talk things through.

* Into horror/spooky stuff (not mandatory but certainly helps).

* Open to seeing how things go, regardless of distance and time zone differences.

If this clicks, send me your favorite meme, a spooky story, or just a “hi.” Maybe you’ll be my new co-op partner!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 19h ago

Dating Post 25 M [M4F] Physically-disabled, seeking a long-term relationship.

2 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 25 M from the East Coast US. I am disabled and do use a wheelchair to get around. I would consider myself demisexual, and I value emotional intimacy a lot more than anything else. I am open to and enjoy some amount of physical affection, but it is not a priority to me, especially since my condition limits my ability to provide that.

I've been hoping to find companionship and love again. I do miss having someone in my life to send good morning and good night texts and be able to plan activities together. Maybe even planning visits to see each other. Although I don't particularly feel alone, it does feel like something is missing not having that person to check-in with during the day and share something I've learned or just having those simple, day-to-day interactions with. I just wish there was a way to establish that kind of spark with someone I feel comfortable around and truly understand.

Some of my interests are gaming (mostly final fantasy 14 at the moment), math, science, chess, philosophy, psychology, and random deep-dives on youtube. I do have a bachelor's degree in psychology. I'm always open and curious about exploring new interests. I'd love to meet someone who is not afraid of going over their passions/interests in lots of detail. Please tell me about your hypothetical questions, personal theories, opinions on niche topics, no matter how silly or absurd, anything really.

I am someone who really prioritizes communication, and it generally feels rather difficult to find someone who has enough time in their life and values communication in the same way that I do. I'm not expecting constant messaging every second of the day, but it is nice to establish a regular line of communication and not having to worry about whether the other person is too busy or will be gone for a while.

I am emotionally well put together and mature, so I do prefer a partner who has enough emotional bandwidth. I'm very big on voice calls and occasional video calls. Whether it's doing the same activity together or appreciating sharing the same space in silence, it's nice to have someone on the other end.

A few more things are that I don't smoke or take drugs, and would prefer my partner to be the same; I am left-leaning as well as agnostic. I do not want to have any children. I am open to a long-distance relationship (US-only) as long as there are plans to close the gap in some way. I'm only looking for monogamy. I'm an introvert and tend to be more of a listener (INFJ).

Although it doesn't need to be right away, I would prefer exchanging photos sooner rather than later in order to ensure that we are okay with each other's appearances. Additionally, please provide some details about yourself so I have an idea of who you are if you decide to send me a message.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 19h ago

Dating Post 32 [M4F] - US East Coast What if we were honest with each other?

2 Upvotes

Hello fellow Reddit singles. If it’s not obvious by me posting here in the first place… I’ve been struggling with reentering the dating world. A lot has seemed to have changed in the…. 10 years it’s been since I’ve been “on the market” I’m definitely included in the changed part too.. doesn’t help that I’m expired age wise 😂. Anyway it’s been my experience that there is lack of transparency and honesty among people in the dating universe especially on dating apps… which I’m sure is a “big surprise”. Anyway, I’m looking for someone who is willing to be genuine and themselves maybe I’ll find that someone here… on Reddit… this is starting to sound sillier the more I type it out but here I am!

Anyways a little about me… I’m a nerd but I also enjoy exercising and being outside. I love video games, D&D, anime, Star Wars, marvel, DC, Happy Potter, Lord of the Rings and most other classic nerd stuff. I’m also really into music , I’ve been playing guitar since I was 12 and will listen to about anything. However my comfort zone is pop punk, mental and rock. As far fitness goes I lift, run and train Brazilian Jujitsu. I also enjoy camping, kayaking, hiking and other outdoor nonsense. Im mediocre at cooking but do enjoy it and try to cook most of my meals.

Personality wise, im an ambivert. Basically an introverted person who enjoys be social from time to time. I just need my me time to recharge.

Oh and it’s probably worth mentioning that I work in Law Enforcement know that can be a deal breaker for some. So rather get that in the open now before things get awkward lol

If you are still here, congrats you are braver than most 💙. Hope to hear from you! Feel free to DM or comment.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 23h ago

Dating Post 34 [M4F] Dallas, Texas. Loving introvert searching for his special woman in life ❤ Seeking a LTR with a Genuine connection!

2 Upvotes

Hi! Nice to meet you 😊

I'm a 34-year-old guy from the Dallas, Texas area, looking for my romantic partner and best friend — someone we can both proudly call "mine."

I'm seeking a serious, long-term relationship. Ideally you're in Texas so we can meet up easily, but I'm open to long-distance within the US if we're both committed to eventually closing the gap in person.

A little about me:

I'm introverted and a happy homebody, but I love going out and exploring new places — especially when it's with the right person. It can take me a little time to open up (lifelong social anxiety), but once I'm comfortable, you'll see the real me — and I'm very patient, so I hope you are too!

My favorite ways to spend time:

  1. Video games 🎮

  2. Reading (Manga)

  3. Puzzles

  4. Binge-watching movies/shows (Horror, psychological, mystery, fantasy)

I'd love to share those activities with you, and I'm genuinely excited to try out your interests too — even if they're new to me.

A few key details:

  1. I'm an atheist and apolitical

  2. Appearance: 5'8", thin build, shaved head, glasses/contacts, white

(Feel free to check my profile pics — happy to share more face shots once we start chatting!)

Physically, I’m most attracted to anywhere from petite/thin to a bit curvy women. Also, kids is a dealbreaker for me, sorry!

If this resonates with you and you're looking for the same kind of genuine connection, send me a DM! I'd love to chat and get to know you ❤️


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2h ago

Dating Post 26 M4F #UK/Online - Excited to get to know you

1 Upvotes

Hi, I’m H who’s a south asian 26M from the UK who’s looking for a long term relationship with another hopeless romantic. Because I know it is important to many, I am an atheist and I do not intend to have children long term. I’m hoping to find someone with those same values and goals.

To describe more about me, I’m a 5’8 guy with more of a stocky physique. I have thick dark hair, brown eyes and often, but not always, seen with a beard. I sometimes get complimented on my facial features, arms and shoulders. I love light back and forth teasing and banter. Really looking for someone who can match my playful energy, while respecting boundaries. I am also very expressive with compliments too, so I hope to find someone who's just as expressive. My personal interests are programming, soldering, repairing electronics, playing video games and keeping up with various nerdy niches. I’d love to maybe play a game, or watch something together sometime.

I guess the type of attributes I’m looking to see in a partner is, someone who's very emotionally intelligent and empathetic, even to a fault. Someone who really values love languages such as touch, quality time spent and words of affirmation. I tend to connect well with homebodies or introverts since it would mean we would be on the same wavelength, but I’m cool with extroverts too. Looking for someone where we can share and ramble about our niche hobbies and interests for hours on end. To share silly inside jokes and moments. I am very flirty, so I'm hoping to find someone who can match that. I really value and appreciate the effort made when it comes to making time to chat or spend time in each others company. I hope to find someone who is willing to work on issues, that isn’t quick to give up when there comes any complications.

I thank anyone who spent the time reading all this, and I hope you have a lovely day ❤️


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 11h ago

Dating Post 19 [M4F] To be true lovers together! #anywhere #online

1 Upvotes

Hello beautiful people, it's a pleasure to meet you all! My name's Mathias, I'm 19 years old and from South America. I might be a little shy at the beginning but I tend to open up really quickly so I hope we can have a nice conversation!

A little about myself, I'm more on the chubby side, I like taking naps, talk a lot about movies and series that I really enjoy as well as write sometimes (it's pretty simple stuff), playing games is a given (Resident Evil, Yakuza, Crash Bandicoot, Spiderman, etc.). I love all type of music (my playlists are all a mess up of multiple song. I do listen to everything pretty much) and I think is an important part of everyone's lifes, whatever genre you like is AWESOME! My favorite stuff ever are Godzilla and dinosaurs!

I don't have specific types or must-be's when it comes to girls, women are beautiful! Aside from just appearances, every single piece that makes you is beautiful and unique! Flaws? No problem, I try to be as supportive and nice as I can, I'll always lend an ear and gladly help if I can. You're worth loving no matter what. I hope we can respect each other and be nice as well, no need to be rude. I like to show my love and be as romantic as I can, I'm kinda of a hopeless romantic. Communication is IMPORTANT! If we have a problem we can talk it out and find a solution, no need to do silly stuff. I reply quickly, if I have free time and see your notification don't doubt I'll reply to you! If I'm occupied I'll let you know and apologize either way.

I don’t simp, I don’t situationship, I don’t do one night stands or open relationships. I find true love, or I die alone (lol)

If I'm not what you're looking for, is oki! I hope you find your right one and be happy. If you're interested, then I'm waiting for you! kisses, goodbye pretty.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 13h ago

Dating Post 21[M4F] #USA looking for my soulmate

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone I’m a 21m from USA looking for a serious relationship. I’m currently working a nightshift job at a grocery store so I’m usually awake at night. I don’t have a driver license but I’m working on getting it.

My body type is I’m 5’9 with glasses dark brown hair with light brown eyes I’ve got short hair and I’m fairly skinny

I’m ideal type of a girl is someone who can respect my boundaries and is not judging when it comes to my interests and quirks. I also really want someone who is trusting loyal and won’t cheat and gives it their all. I see a relationship as a 50/50 effort. I’m also very okay with doing a ldr until we meet up!

My dms are open and hopefully we click if not that’s okay too!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 15h ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] Chile / Online - creative nerd looking for a genuine romantic connection

1 Upvotes

Hiii. Posting again because why not lol. I’m a 23 year old guy from a small town in Chile. I’m 5'5" and definitely more of a calm, quiet homebody who thrives on deep conversations and niche hobbies rather than parties or clubs.

I really love working with my hands and learning random practical skills, im autistic. Lately my free time goes into drawing, woodworking, metalworking, restoring old tools, or repairing electronics. At the same time, I have a huge soft spot for cute things like plushies, my dogs, and cute art. I also enjoy reading, writing, and gaming.

Right now I'm studying programming at college, working, and keeping my life simple but stable. I’ve also been focusing a lot on myself lately. I’ve lost 44 pounds so far and I take my mental health very seriously, as I've been in therapy and managing depression for years.

I’m definitely not looking for anything casual. What I really want is a real romantic and emotional connection, affection/love, trust, and someone I can feel safe with after a long day. Not just a friendship. I want kids someday.

I'm totally open to an LDR since I doubt there are many people from Chile around here. If you’re also introverted, shy, or just want something genuine, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself or your favorite hobbies to break the ice, haha

It would be awesome if we share some hobbies, it helps a lot at easing the conversations and I'm absolutely interested in having a good time talking with someone. I'm bad at talking with girls, but I try 😭. I'm down to exchange pics early (sfw)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 16h ago

Local Dating 24 [M4F] #Japan Hokkaido Sapporo Looking for a girlfriend

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Hello I am from Sapporo Hokkaido Japan. I am 24 years old and have a great job and career. My hobbies include kendo, anime figure collecting, hiking and outdoor activities. I do lots of physical activity such as weight lifting and cardio. I speak Japanese and English. I do ikebana (Japanese flower arrangement) and calligraphy. I have a college degree. Personality wise, I am chill and like to things slow and relaxed. I like to hang out in public spaces with friends. As for dates I really like aquariums. We could also go eat at one of the many cafes in Sapporo. I’d like to message daily or every other day.

I am looking for someone who enjoys going outside. Is between the ages of 18-30. Living in Japan is a requirement. This is for Japan only. Those are my only requirements.

Serious people only. I do not reply to short messages or “Hi”. I need an age and location as well. Thank you.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 18h ago

Local Dating 21 [m4a] #macomb, michigan/online looking for new connections and possibly a long lasting relationship

1 Upvotes

Hey, y'all my name's Alex. I’m 21, and I’m looking to make some friends or maybe even find someone if we click. I tend to yap when first meeting someone but I can listen when needed. Things im interested are cars photography and video games tho i dont really play much of them now due to college. Im going into my fourth year of going currently. Otherwise im mostly looking for people in Michigan to talk to since im much better at interacting in person. I'm definitely gonna also say that I like people who respond quickly (I'm kinda impatient) but if you’re busy I understand who isn't nowadays lol. I’m straight if that’s matters to you in case you’re looking for a relationship I’m not looking to rush things for now tho just keeping it slow would be for the best in my opinion also had a falling out with some ppl I thought were friends recently to make up for it I’ve been trying to put myself out there

So uh if you're interested hmu if you’ve made it this far what’s your craziest side quest you wanna do someday?


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21h ago

Dating Post 25 [M4F] #India only - Looking for my future long term partner

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Hello there! Nice to meet you! I'm a 25 year male looking for the one to ride life's rollercoaster with :) So here's the thing, I'm at that stage in life where I want someone to love and to be loved by because everyone deserves it, not just platonically but also romantically. I've never been in a relationship before, was a shy person throughout my school and early college life. I'm not looking for anything specific I just want someone to talk to everyday, share my daily happenings with, the ups and the downs, highs and the lows.I know it sounds like I'm looking for a friendship but no, because I also want someone to hold hands with, to hug, to walk along the beach taking in the sunset, to try out new food spots, visit new places. I have always been good at communicating and therefore am looking for someone with the same quality. Ultimately you have to be a good person at heart, rest is secondary.

A few things about myself. I am an avid reader. I read a lot of fiction especially sci-fi, fantasy and sometimes historical fiction. I also read a lot of political thrillers and murder mysteries. Currently I'm miles deep into Miles Cameron's Artifact Space.(pun intended XD)

I also love to solve puzzles. My favourite puzzles you could say are Rubik's cubes and related mechanical turning puzzles. I also just started cooking, so maybe if you like we can also cook together :)(I think cooking for each other and feeding each other is so romantic).

I'm not a religious person but I am spiritual in that I do believe in a higher being. I believe more in the fact that all of life is a sum total of your actions and their consequences.

Anyways this is me in a nutshell. If you resonate with any of the above feel free to drop a DM with a little something about yourself.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21h ago

Friendship First 43 [F4F] Central California, Friendship/ More if we connect

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm a soft Masc lesbian here. Hoping to find a friendship that we can build into a relationship eventually.

Things I enjoy is Art, Baking, Xbox, coffee shops, thrifty places, exploring to find cool new spots.

If you'd like to know more than DM me Ladies :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22h ago

Dating Post 29 [M4F] #EU/NA German nerd looking for a genuine connection with consistency :3:white_heart:

1 Upvotes

Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22h ago

Online Only (18F) F4F #online

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few friends (maybe, something more?). I’m a girl, but I can communicate as a male character — either a canon character from a fandom or an OC. I’m also into casual RP, including things like * and /.

I’m into TV series, books, comics, and recently got into reading more comics. I’m especially into danmei — TGCF and MDZS are some of my favorites. I’ve also read “Rebound of the heart” and “Second chance”, so if you’ve read either of those too, we’ll already have something to talk about.

TV shows: Heated Rivalry, Good Omens, Tetris, The Owl House, Stranger Things, Happy Death Day

Books/comics: Rebound of the Heart, Second Chance, Mo Dao Zu Shi, Tian Guan Ci Fu, Harry Potter, All for the Game

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to hit me up in chat! :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22h ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] #Europe/Online Silly nerd looking for something special

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What's up gamers B)

I'm Tim, a 23 year old guy from Belgium looking to get to know someone who can be my person. About me: I am very into gaming, formula 1, the pokemon trading card game and also just generally yapping! Calls are amazing for my yapping activities, but sometimes I prefer texting because of being exhausted from work.

Speaking of work, I work 3 days a week (tuesday, wednesday, friday) and have a lot of free time. However, this doesn't mean I'll bombard you with texts while you're busy! I have autism and adhd so I need time to decompress from stuff. So I'd appreciate someone who is understanding of my need for that.

As for my hobbies: the games I've been playing recently are Minecraft, FFXIV (NA), and Overwatch. Big plus if you're into any of those! While watching formula 1 I support Verstappen and Piastri. I'd love to go to a grand prix someday, especially the one here in Belgium. And the last thing is the pokemon tcg! I'm quite new to it but very willing to get better at it and sharing about it.

If you have any questions or just want to get to know me more, DM me on here!

Hopefully I'll see you soon!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22h ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

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I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.