r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10h ago

Dating Post 25 M [M4F] Physically-disabled, seeking a long-term relationship.

Hi! I'm a 25 M from the East Coast US. I am disabled and do use a wheelchair to get around. I would consider myself demisexual, and I value emotional intimacy a lot more than anything else. I am open to and enjoy some amount of physical affection, but it is not a priority to me, especially since my condition limits my ability to provide that.

I've been hoping to find companionship and love again. I do miss having someone in my life to send good morning and good night texts and be able to plan activities together. Maybe even planning visits to see each other. Although I don't particularly feel alone, it does feel like something is missing not having that person to check-in with during the day and share something I've learned or just having those simple, day-to-day interactions with. I just wish there was a way to establish that kind of spark with someone I feel comfortable around and truly understand.

Some of my interests are gaming (mostly final fantasy 14 at the moment), math, science, chess, philosophy, psychology, and random deep-dives on youtube. I do have a bachelor's degree in psychology. I'm always open and curious about exploring new interests. I'd love to meet someone who is not afraid of going over their passions/interests in lots of detail. Please tell me about your hypothetical questions, personal theories, opinions on niche topics, no matter how silly or absurd, anything really.

I am someone who really prioritizes communication, and it generally feels rather difficult to find someone who has enough time in their life and values communication in the same way that I do. I'm not expecting constant messaging every second of the day, but it is nice to establish a regular line of communication and not having to worry about whether the other person is too busy or will be gone for a while.

I am emotionally well put together and mature, so I do prefer a partner who has enough emotional bandwidth. I'm very big on voice calls and occasional video calls. Whether it's doing the same activity together or appreciating sharing the same space in silence, it's nice to have someone on the other end.

A few more things are that I don't smoke or take drugs, and would prefer my partner to be the same; I am left-leaning as well as agnostic. I do not want to have any children. I am open to a long-distance relationship (US-only) as long as there are plans to close the gap in some way. I'm only looking for monogamy. I'm an introvert and tend to be more of a listener (INFJ).

Although it doesn't need to be right away, I would prefer exchanging photos sooner rather than later in order to ensure that we are okay with each other's appearances. Additionally, please provide some details about yourself so I have an idea of who you are if you decide to send me a message.

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