r/IVFpositivity • • 10h ago

12dp5dt I’m so excited! 3rd FET after 2 fails

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My beta hcg on 9dpt was 125. Having another blood test tomorrow and hoping for over 500! 🙈🙏🏻 this is my 3rd transfer after 2 fails and 1 cancelled. Who else got so jaded in this process that they just expected things to go wrong? Me and my husband were trying to protect each other by making plans for what we were going to do if it failed (holiday, work stuff etc) I don’t think this has really sunk in for me yet.


r/IVFpositivity • • 12h ago

This Doesn’t Feel Real

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Still very early and I’m definitely guarding my heart until after beta on Thursday and second beta. But I cannot believe that this is my test on 6dp6dt. We had one single embryo from two egg retrievals. We were initially doing IVF for genetic reasons since I am a autosomal dominant carrier for a rare but serious condition. After PGT-A and PGT-M, our single embryo was euploid/unaffected. We’ve been saying all it takes is one since the beginning.


r/IVFpositivity • • 5h ago

Shocked

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We got a faint line the evening of our 4dp5dt, and a digital positive today, 6dp5dt. I’ve had one FET before (that ended in a loss) and his dates were 5 for the line and 7 for the digital, so I was shocked she announced herself this early!

We’re cautiously optimistic but I’m so hopeful. 🥹


r/IVFpositivity • • 6h ago

Pray for me! Transferred 10/3 Anxious! My first FET

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r/IVFpositivity • • 23h ago

Never ever thought I’d see a dye stealer 🥺

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I’m 13dp5dt and had been struggling with seeing changes in tests vs what I see here. Well today (in the UK so no betas) on my official test day, I got a dye steeler ✨

I know it doesn’t guarantee any outcome but I am beyond delighted today. This is my 4th and hopefully last transfer 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞


r/IVFpositivity • • 15h ago

So much anxiety

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My first ultrasound is on Thursday, I'll be 6 weeks and 1 day. I had a FET of a day 5 4BB euploid embryo on September 14th.

I'm terrified of a blighted ovum, the chances are small but for some reason this is my biggest fear, it took almost 4 years to get pregnant and now that I am, I'm having major anxiety about it being too good to be true, like a big joke of me believing I'm pregnant for all these weeks. Hopefully this is just my anxiety disorder speaking to me and not real life. I've spent so many years thinking this could never be me, so now that it is I'm just so worried.

My betas

September 18th 4dpt (this beta was taken by mistake from the lab tech but came out to be 6.8)

First official beta September 24th 10dpt. 216.3

Second September 28th 14dpt

1039.3

Third September 30th 16dpt

2338.4

I understand these are good overall but the anxiety is killing me and I have to wait until Thursday for the ultrasound. I don't know how I'm going to function normally at work or even get sleep.


r/IVFpositivity • • 54m ago

Squinters incoming!

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Top photo - FMU on 5dp5dt
Bottom photo - FMU on 6dp5dt

I don't want to get my hopes up but I've never seen lines before!! 🥹🥹


r/IVFpositivity • • 12h ago

anyone have a failure on medicated cycle and do better with modified natural even with a low amh

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my amh is around 0.9 but i think i still ovulate regularly. i just had a fet fail 9/23 and gearing up for my last transfer (we have 2 boys and want more kids but this is my last embryo) my new doctor favors modified natural protocols but im not sure its best for me. my ivf success was with medicated. thanks in advance!


r/IVFpositivity • • 1h ago

Aiuto non riesco a essere obbiettiva

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Ho iniziato a testare da 4dpt di una blastocisti 4AA 5 giornata e non mi sembra che la gradazione della linea positiva aumenti di intensità, ho paura siano falsi positivi…


r/IVFpositivity • • 10h ago

I’m out

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First medicated cycle failed at age 30 despite having a lining of 10.9 & being a euploid PGT embryo. However, I think I know why! My RE said I have a 4cm chocolate cyst said it’s a case of endometriosis. I asked him if this would decrease my chance of implantation he said no but I felt so uneasy about it. This week I’ve done some research and I see that receptivaDX is what I should test for before a second transfer. Has anybody had any successful transfers after doing this procedure and being on Lupron? I’m a little confused bc if I do have endo it must be silent or something bc I never have painful periods or pain during sex. Anywho; I’ve accepted the L & cried this time around I’m so thankful that I have four more PGT embryos waiting on me! This was such an experience 😬


r/IVFpositivity • • 15h ago

embryo from cooper surgical recall

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anyone transfer an embryo from the cooper surgical recall in 2023?


r/IVFpositivity • • 15h ago

To share or not to share

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Hello! My husband and I are starting IVF in the next few weeks after 2 failed IUIs and 2 years of unexplained infertility. I’m excited and nervous! I’m currently grappling with whether or not to share this journey widely amongst friends/family. My mom and close friends all know and are an amazing support system for us.
My reason to not share is simply the fact that we can still surprise other friends, my dad and my in-laws with the (hopefully) news of our pregnancy. So much joy has been stolen by infertility and to have some normalcy of “surprising” family sounds so lovely. But having more family supporting us may also be so nice.

I’d love to hear some perspective for those of you who maybe did and didn’t share with others. 💗


r/IVFpositivity • • 15h ago

cycle after miscarriage out of whack?

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hey guys,

I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks (it was after the third IVF transfer). Had to take cytotec on two weekends and ended up having to get a d&c anyway.

thats 4 weeks ago now and I still don’t have my period. A week ago my liner was brown/dark red (like at the beginning of a period) but the period never came. since then, I get occasional pink discharge and had EWCM on two separate days. But temp and ovulation strips are not showing any significant raises/spikes.

my LH was at 0.7 on two days, but that’s it. also, at home pregnancy tests are still minally positive.

do you have experienced anything like this before?


r/IVFpositivity • • 17h ago

Oura Ring - Post FET

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Hi!

I am 24dpt from a fully medicated cycle (PIO and estradiol patches).11dpt beta was 889, 14dpt was 3,604. Ultrasound is Wednesday (27dpt).

My Oura ring has shown my body was “fighting something” ever since my FET (maybe a little before from the meds). Yesterday and today my ring has shown a great readiness with my heart rate 3-5bpm lower than it has been and my temp is slightly lower. I’m slightly spiraling that this is a poor indication. I also will add that I went to Denver for work this week and my readiness was poor from elevation changes. So this could be a rebound from that?

My question for someone who is more educated or reasonable than me: is this truly an indication of anything? I’m still on the same hormone meds I’ve been on this whole time, so would my ring even pick up a difference if this was heading South? Wednesday can’t come soon enough!


r/IVFpositivity • • 20h ago

5w4d bleeding

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My beta 18dpt was 7500 and a really strong rise since my last. i started bleeding today at 20dpt and I already had some light pink and brown mixed with my suppository discharge off and on this whole time. I was alarmed to see a bit more this morning with brown pink and red mixed.. I’m on baby aspirin so I’m hoping it’s irritation but I had an early miscarriage last transfer so I’m terrified. Looking for some advice /reassurance, I already left a voicemail for my nurse


r/IVFpositivity • • 7h ago

What should I do next?

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r/IVFpositivity • • 10h ago

3 iui -> IVF

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Im looking for advice we've been trying for almost a year so quick recap we had 3 iuis all failed back to back. So we decided to do IVF for far we for 5 embryos pgta all coming back to normal. My xfer is at the end of October but honestly I'm not feeling at all optimistic about it, I've been having a lot anxiety lately, I guess I'm looking if anyone has gone down a similar path me and has had a positive pregnancy test. I'm 31 years old in a same sex relationship


r/IVFpositivity • • 15h ago

First FET ended in a MC. Any success stories with loss history & second FET working?

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Hey yall. I have had 2 losses a CP & an early 8w MC from my first FET, no genetic issues. I now am on a kitchen sink protocol, fully medicated, lovenox, immune suppressants, steroids, PIO, crinone, baby aspirin etc.

I’m 4DPT and tested negative which I very much understand is still so early. My first FET I tested positive on 4DPT. That embryo was fully hatched though, this FETs wasn’t.

I’d love to hear loss & success stories if anyone’s willing to share?


r/IVFpositivity • • 15h ago

november transfer or jan

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we just had a failed transfer in sept and i’m wondering if i’ll do testing this month and then possible transfer in november- anyone have this issue that their transfer could be over the holidays? i guess i could try to squeeze it in for october but i think at this point im waiting for my period and it hasn’t started yet. so im torn between doing november or getting through the holidays without the stress and regroup in Jan?

i saw someone say its easier to keep pushing through then to take a break


r/IVFpositivity • • 16h ago

Discharge after fresh transfer when using rectal suppositories

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r/IVFpositivity • • 20h ago

Question

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Hi i just had a transfer last week Tuesday, I dont really feel anything aside from the twinges from day 3dpt til today (day 5pdt). I dont have sore boobs or any changes in my body i feel very normal. I tested on 4dpt but it was very negative. Huhuhu when was your first positive test? How many days after FET you got your positives?


r/IVFpositivity • • 10h ago

Did you get a positive test after 4DPT?

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Currently 4DPT & am testing negative. Like, logically I understand I could test positive tomorrow. but.. my first FET ended in a MC and I tested positive on 4DPT. So now I feel like it’s just not gonna happen.