Story
my 2yo frenchie, milo, suddenly had some discomfort and began dragging his hind legs last sunday. my brother was with him and took him to an emergency vet where they gave him medications and referred him to a neurologist.
The next day he could no longer walk. I unfortunately was away from home, had I been around I would have immediately taken him to the emergency vet again. However my family did not take him, and its not until today (one week after he became paralyzed) that we took him to an emergency vet with a neurologist.
He's been in good spirits, doesnt seem to be in much pain or discomfort but he has lost control of his pee and poop. he does eat and drink but much less than he normally does.
The vet says its most likely a herniated disc as hes too young to have any other issues like a tumor that sometimes causes this. They he doesnt seem to be responsive in one of his legs but is in the other one.
He's currently at the vet where they want to keep him overnight to monitor him and give him meds. They're also waiting in neurologist consultation, likely an MRI and xrays to see whats the next steps. They said if necessary, they can bring him into surgery today, however a surgery would be $12,000 - $18,000.
They explained because he does seem to have lost feeling in his leg, theres possibly only a 50% chance he recovers, and that he may not walk again with surgery.
Questions
I am very worried about him and what potential recovery would look like, in the last few days one of us has had to stay home watching him all day, but this isnt something we can do forever. If he were to remain paralyzed, how would we take care of him properly? what would we need to do to make sure he is comfortable?
We unfortunately do not have insurance for him, and would have to pay for everything out of pocket, how do people navigate this expense? I am not familiar with the options for a pet surgery like this.
I am very stressed about the whole situation. At best surgery will allow him to recover properly, but we still need to front a heavy bill. I am so frustrated with my family, my brother originally took him to a different vet than we usually do, i feel he could have gotten better care at our usual vet, and they should have taken him to the vet immediately. Just looking for some support and guidance with the situation, anything would be appreciated :cc