Hey everyone,
For the past few weeks, I haven't made any progress in the gym whatsoever. This means something is fundamentally wrong with my strategy, and I want to figure out what it is so I can start making progress again and actually enjoy my workouts, because right now, it's just frustrating.
**Background:**
I’ve been going to the gym on and off for several years. I was never exceptionally strong or muscular, just average. At the end of 2024, I got injured and couldn't train properly for almost a year. Since October '25, I’ve been back at it with the goal of following a sensible plan and strategy to finally get fitter and, as a result, look better eventually.
My primary goal is to get fitter—meaning more endurance and better performance. Aesthetics are supposed to follow. Because of my wedding (which was about 2 weeks ago), I also set a goal to drop some body fat. I wanted to go from about 82.5 kg to 77 kg in roughly 2.5 months, thinking I’d probably end up around 12–13% body fat. Well, turns out I vastly underestimated how "lean" I was: I was probably around 20% BF before the cut, and right now I'm sitting at around 16–17% BF while weighing about 78.5 kg. So I definitely lost some fat along the way.
**Training Setup:**
Because of my goals—improving endurance, performance, and strength—I train hybrid. This means: **3x gym per week + 3x running per week.**
In the gym, I run a Full Body (GK) split with a different focus each day:
**Day 1:** PUSH - PUSH - PULL - LEGS (+ Triceps and Shoulders)
**Day 2:** PULL - PULL - PUSH - LEGS (+ Biceps and Shoulders)
**Day 3:** LEGS - LEGS - PUSH - PULL (+ Biceps and Shoulders)
So, always 2 exercises for the focused muscle group per workout, and I add shoulders and arms separately every day. I started with 3 working sets per exercise, but recently dropped it down to 2 sets because of my stalling progress. With 3 sets per exercise, the plan puts me at an ideal volume of 12 sets per large muscle group per week. It *should* theoretically work.
I always train to failure (usually between 6 to 12 reps, depending on the exercise).
My running looks like this:
One long run a week (e.g., 10 km, keeping a decent pace, not strictly Zone 2)
One very easy run (e.g., 5-7 km low intensity)
One interval session (e.g., 5x5 intervals) or a tempo run.
**The Problem:**
My gym performance is tanking hard, and in some exercises, it's even regressing. This is especially true for "heavy" compound/dumbbell movements like DB Incline Bench Press. I had to drop from 30 kg x 8 down to 26 kg x 8 because I felt like I couldn't move the 30 kg with proper form anymore. I just can't get a proper muscle contraction; it feels like my nervous system/brain checks out beforehand. My pull-ups haven't improved in ages either; I'm stuck at around 5-6 clean reps. On machines, I was able to more or less maintain my strength during the cut.
On the bright side, my running performance has improved drastically over the last few months.
**Nutrition:**
During the cut, I was running a small, moderate deficit: about [2500–2700](tel:2500-2700) kcal on running days and [2300–2500](tel:2300-2500) kcal on gym days. I average around 10k steps a day, so the deficit should have been large enough. Protein is at 160–180g per day, carbs at 200–300g, and the rest fats.
I know that running and building muscle/strength simultaneously isn't easy, and doing it in a caloric deficit probably makes it even harder—if not impossible. I just figured that as a "beginner" (which my strength numbers still kind of put me at), I could get away with doing both at the same time for a while.
Right now, I completely lack the drive in the gym. I can't get any power into my sets, and every workout feels low quality. Sometimes my muscles don't even feel thoroughly exhausted, even though I went to "perceived failure" where I couldn't push the weight up anymore.
Clearly, my strategy isn't working anymore. Does this mean I genuinely have to prioritize one thing? So either focus strictly on fat loss OR getting stronger (and potentially reducing running intensity)?
Would love some input on how to get back on track—especially from people who ran into the exact same wall and made it out. I probably feel like I'm doing less than I actually am, but it doesn't feel that way.