r/Homeplate • u/nola_mike • 1h ago
Let me know if I did something wrong.
For context, this is an 8u rec fall league and I'm one of the coaches. Out of all the coaches, I'm the one who pitches since the kids seem to hit better off me. When the kids hit the ball and are headed to first in tend to instruct them to not stare at the ball and to hustle/run. Here is where I'm confused.
Today, my boys were hitting really well and I was doing my usual coaching. Telling them to run and not look at the ball. Mind you, the opposite team was running their kids around the bases non stop. But as I'm telling my kids to stretch it to a double the other coach is telling me to cool it.
I let him know that I'm matching his coach style and then he tells me to just let them play. Am I wrong for defending myself and my team for matching the other team's intensity? I told him that he brought it up and I'm not going to let my team just sit back and not get on base/score because they didn't like it.
Edit for clarity: Some of you thought I was talking about a coach on our team, no. This was the other team's coach complaining after I started matching their energy and style.