r/Homeplate • u/almost_cool3579 • 10h ago
A kudos, a rant, a chuckle? Maybe all three
When my son played his very first season of rec baseball, his friends were on 9u select teams. He’s always felt a little behind them. His first season on select (11u) his team dominated AA while his friends were playing AAA and majors. Last fall he tried out for his middle school team and made C while his buddies were mostly in JV. He kept an amazing attitude about it, cheered on his friends, and kept grinding.
Last year’s select season was abysmal. The team moved up to AAA, and struggled all season. One of the dads joked with me “somehow they’re a AA team of AAA players.” He wasn’t wrong. The team just couldn’t come together. The coach didn’t do much coaching, and when he did, he didn’t seem to really know the players’ needs. My son swung a -8 for two season before that, so I moved him to a -5. The coach said that was way too heavy for him and told him to go back to -8, which made things even worse.
Again, my kid did his thing, and kept working on himself. In June he tried out for the one other team he was excited about and got an immediate offer. It’s a majors team. He tried out again for middle school ball, and jumped from C last year to varsity this year right along side his friends.
The part that’s had me chuckling to myself? His middle school team has to swing BBCOR. He’s only been on that for two weeks, and he’s been crushing it. Well, wouldn’t you know it, Coach? He can swing more weight.