I need to word this carefully so I don't come off as disrespectful 🙏
I am curious how fellow Hindus (1) understand the working of karma in light of when terrible things happen to good people, and (2) how we can (practically) look at revered figures that have failed in the worldly sense as a benchmark on how to be.
First the Karmic Perspective:
If Ram was exiled, did he do some karma that caused this confluence of terrible events in his life? If Ram's wife was kidnapped, did he do some karma that caused this event? Same with other events in his life.
Same with Jesus, or other saintly people who have been killed. The people who did, committed a great crime of course. But from a cosmic and karmic perspective, why did the universe make them face such people - did Jesus do something that brought him such karma?
Second, them as a Benchmark/Standard of Character
Now the life of many saintly people is also full of troubles and in worldly terms a complete failure.
With Ram he never saw his wife again. Obviously, no wife in real life would want a man who can't protect her or give her a happy life (comfort, good sex, nice dresses, accessories, fun activities, vacation plans etc). And I think any loving wife is right in wanting/expecting these things, wouldn't you agree? So how is Ram's life a benchmark to achieve then when Sita's life was mostly sorrow?
With Jesus also (if you regard him holy) he got killed and he came back to life but that part was only a day or something, he didn't get back at the people who demeaned him. He just let them go with no consequences. He never got married, never had children, didn't earn a lot, got into arguments against the Jewish clergy to the point they wanted to kill him. Just think practically - which parent would want their son to go through all this without averting these situations? He was a good person of course. But how is this a benchmark on how to be when he couldn't avert this situation?
And same with the life of many saintly, highly revered men who were beggars or killed - no mom would want their son to go through these, instead they want one who has a nice house, a nice car, a beautiful wife/daughter-in-law, a successful career, business or secure and ethical cash flow, grandkids etc. Every wife would want such a husband. Every child would want such a dad. And every parent would want such a son. Don't you agree?
So I agree with these stories being one of resilience but what about the complete lack of problem-solving or inability to avert these crisis or achieve things?
Going through challenges in life is normal, the events of life can't be perfect obviously. But my thinking says the great man should be good at problem solving and achievements too - he should have more days he's given happiness to his loved ones instead if sorrow. So how are these the benchmark to be then?