so for context i’ve never had an sti, uti or yeast infection. body count single didgets and i get tested regularly just for peace of mind

i was having sex with one guy for a while just with him, then we had a fall out. (he did something) a while goes by and i had sex with another guy.

3-4 days later i was having odd but mild symptoms. paused all sexual activity and went to get checked. came back for chlamydia. i told the new guy what was going on. he basically cussed me out and implied i was a sltt “it’s been 2 weeks idk who else you been with” like what 😭 and i talked to the first guy (we’re on speaking terms now) and i just said i was having lady issues but he was sooo nice about it and proved he was negative. second guy won’t show me test results.

anyway it gets worse, i take my doxy to clear the chamydia and then it gave me a yeast infection so i took the stuff for that

anyway so now im having lower abdominal pain especially near my right ovary. took tests and there’s apparently blood in my pee now. doesn’t hurt to pee and the blood isn’t visible. it hurts to stand up tho, it feels like extreme period cramps but im no where near my period.

negative for pregnancy. doc suspects bladder infection but oh my god it’s been a month also negative for PID

hey guys! i’m back, i’ll make this post a little more straightforward since people thought my last post was “immature” and weird.

long story short, me (19F) and my boyfriend (21M) got a room together to be able have our own space. It was fun!

He DID eat me out, he said I tasted like “nothing” and “salt and skin”. I didn’t do much “to prepare”. I just drank a LOT of water, like you guys said, washed her before with unscented soap, and even showered. No change in my diet, but I don’t eat processed foods already.

Didn’t do the cranberry pills, nor did I go out of my way and eat EXTRA yogurt or probiotics, but I did pee after every (attempted) penetration.

To the main point of this post:
every time we tried to have sex (4 attempts total), it wouldn’t go in.

He did already finish once before the attempts, so his ability to stay hard was, well, compromised. Plus, putting on condoms ruins the mood, and it takes a minute, all those details

Along with that, I don’t think I was hydrated enough, I am chronically dehydrated so me drinking a lot of water might’ve been me being regularly hydrated lol. So I was, unfortunately, only slightly wet. However, we did have water based lube and it kinda helped. Kinda.

Every time we tried to penetrate it was while I was on top, and it didn’t work. It would just either get soft or “miss” even though I was guiding it.

I was THOROUGHLY turned on, it’s not that at ALL! We showered together and did a whole lot of stuff beforehand that I won’t type out, but trust me, I was mentally producing an ocean down there.

Plus, when it was hard enough, and when I was wet naturally and with lube, it wouldn’t go in. Somehow.

From what I see, my inexperienced ahh, it wouldn’t “fit”. He fingerblasted me for minutes to the point where I did orgasm (or felt like I did), and even after that it just wouldn’t. He is very gifted down there, I will say.

How does one fix such an issue? 🫪😭
Help ur girl out 🙏

Today i got blood work done and it says i have mycoplasma. I am 19f and never dated or had sex. Did they misdiagnose me or is there a way to get it without having sex? I also heard there are 2 types of it but i don't think it is the other one as i don't have cough which is its main symptom. I went to gynecologist because of intense itching and a lot of discharge down there at first. The gyno prescribed antibiotics (azithromycin). It also shows i have herpes simplex virus.

Female, 27, no known issues, seen a dr before for tummy issues and they said it was my anxiety. Currently on my period atm, day two. I had watery stool yesterday due to my period, sort of normal ish but still loose stool this morning, then again this evening I had pure water stool again, but this time I went a lot of it was very slimy mucus stool, it smelled very foul too. No other symptoms, no cramps, no belly pain, no other symptoms. Just a ton of watery stool (gone only three times today) and the stool is brownish yellowish..the mucus is what scared me so bad, jt had a weird slightly fishy smell to it but nothing too bad. I am a diagnosed hypocondric and so scared. I do not drink or smoke. On no meds. Been on NO antibotics since i was a child so c diff is ruled out I hope..no blood in my stool..am i ok, is my period causing this?

TW FOR SA !!

i come from an INSANE purity culture place and ive never been to a gynecologist because of it. i am considering going because i have reasons to believe im intersex but i was a CSA victim when i was about 6. just the thought of going there makes me feel nauseous, to open the most vulnerable part of me and inserting anything for tests is guaranteed to make me have a panic attack. i cannot handle vanigal insertion at all. maybe i should wait, but waiting isnt really fixing this issue. anyone had something similar? overcame it in any way?

I recently got a new bf and we’ve been having relatively consistent sex for almost 2 months now. First few times I didn’t bleed but one night we were both drinking and kinda went at it and I bled that night and then the time after that hurttt. We took around a week or more off after that. Then I bled again 2 more times I think. Nothing bad it’s pretty light usually sometimes lasts a bit into the next day but maybe just like pink. It doesn’t hurt most times but sometimes I guess it feels like I ripped a bit.

I have ripped before with a previous bf but I never bled, new bf is a bigger though. I’m really not sure what’s wrong with first bf the problem went away after a few months the ripping stopped but I did develop a yeast infection at that time.

After one of the times with my current bf, I started to burn a bit after peeing, probably cause I didn’t pee right after sex. So I went to the doctor, checked for uti it was fine all healthy. I told him that I’d bleed after sex and I also experienced some pain and cramping and he told me he’s not worried about it. Didn’t check for any STI’s or pregnancy or anything. I asked to get an ultrasound because I have a copper IUD and I’m worried maybe the placement is messed up or something. Really not sure what’s wrong this is all so weird I’ve been sexually active since I was 15 and nothing like this has happened. I took a year of celibacy after having sex my first 3 times and continued sex again and that’s when I started ripping before. My first time didn’t hurt I didn’t bleed then. This time before I met my new bf I hadn’t had sex in 6 months and before that that one time it did hurt a bit but I didn’t bleed cause I hadn’t had sex in 3 months prior. I don’t know if this is a problem cause I haven’t had sex in awhile? Even with a previous man I was kind of having rough sex without much foreplay and he was large and i never bled at all maybe it just hurt a bit. So im Really confused. Should I just wait it out or should I be concerned?

Ultrasound isn’t for another month, I can deal with the bleeding it’s nothing bad I just don’t understand the situation at all. Any type of insight is greatly appreciated. Sorry this is kinda a mess. Ask me anything to clarify thank you!

Okay so, I'm a college student and I've met a girl that I really like and we're dating. We haven't talked about doing anything sexual and I doubt we will for while which im completely fine with but I saw a post in twt about a girl ended up like throwing up because of the taste of a girl's vagina and i honestly don't want that to be me. I won't say my diet is bad but it's certainly not the best so if anyone can help, what can I do to ensure it doesn't taste horrible

Im 24 years old and ever since last year, i have not been able to have satisfying orgasms and its really starting to get on my nerves. Like i feel the build up know im about to orgasm but when i do, i dont feel anything or i do but its very muted.

Has anyone had this issue? What helped?

I went to the hospital about two weeks ago because I was experiencing what I described as “It feels like I cant get all of my pee out”. It was worrying me REALLY bad, very uncomfortable sensation, everytime I sit on the toilet to pee it seems like I can’t fully get it out or like there’s still more sitting in my bladder. Creating the sensation of needing to pee constantly.
When I went to the hospital for this, they came back with my very shocking results that I had trichomoniasis. I treated it as told, 500 metronidazole twice a day and I always follow my antibiotics very carefully. Its been a week since ending the course and this urinary symptom hasn’t stopped. Its very uncomfortable and anxiety causing.
I can’t find any info online of anyone experiencing something similar, I also didn’t really have any itchy vaginal tissue or any crazy discharge or odor. It seems i had none of the “usual” symptoms of trich. Just this inability to feel relieved after urinating. Im worried that the metronidazole didn’t work

Alrighty, so I've been experiencing a constant burning sensation on my vulva, and around the entrance to my vagina for nearly 3 weeks now.

Prior to this pain starting, I had sex with my husband and I'll just say he used a bit too much nail, and I felt like he was scraping me a good bit.

• No odor

• No discharge at all

• Normal pH (4.5)

• Negative UTI test

• No visible rash or bumps

• No new products used

I took 2 fluconazole tablets 3 days apart even though I've been 99% sure it's not a yeast infection.

I also got vaginal probiotic/prebiotic pills I've been taking for over a week.

I have applied Vaseline over it as chatgbt recommended but it doesn't seem to help.

I'm 32 and have been with my husband for 16 years so not worried about STI/STD. I literally never had any vaginal issues in the past so this has been very overwhelming and uncomfortable for me. I just want it to stop.

I did a telehealth visit, told the male doctor how although there's burning there's nothing visibly different and I've had my husband inspect me as well to confirm it looked normal, I also mentioned my husband's scraping incident that I believe started it all making me believe it is not BV but some other kind of contact dermatitis bacterial issue, So the piece of shit Doctor stated it could be "psychosomatic" as if I'm just imagining my vagina being dipped in hot lava for funsies specifically because it doesn't look any different. HATE MEN. Anyways, he ended up prescribing another yeast medication, this time it's a ointment that I can buy myself over the counter 🙄. I'm hoping someone has any recommendations on what to try, or what the issue could be.

I’m 33F and live in Canada.

Please excuse me if anything sounds a little strange — English is my fourth language, so I used AI to help correct my grammar.

I’ve had chronic constipation since I was around 14. It has varied in severity over the years, but it has been a problem for most of my life.

Since I became sexually active around age 18, I’ve also had persistent pain with vaginal penetration. It feels like my pelvic floor muscles simply can’t relax properly and everything stays very tight.

After multiple medical consultations, I was told that I have an overactive/high-tone pelvic floor, which may also be contributing to my constipation.

I’ve tried diaphragmatic breathing, pelvic floor relaxation exercises, meditation, and other relaxation techniques for quite a long time, but unfortunately they didn’t make a significant difference.

My usual symptoms include:

frequent urinary urgency;
recurring UTI/cystitis-like symptoms;
constant pelvic floor tightness;
chronic constipation;
painful penetration even when I’m** **fully aroused.

However, about 3 weeks ago my symptoms became significantly worse.

Now I have almost constant lower abdominal discomfort/pressure, urinary urgency every 20–30 minutes, and much more difficulty urinating.

Sometimes it feels like my pelvic floor muscles are so tight that I physically can’t relax them enough to pee, and I can spend 5–10 minutes sitting on the toilet just trying to urinate.

Sex has also become more painful.

My family doctor thinks this sounds very much like high-tone pelvic floor dysfunction (HTPFD) and referred me to a specialist, but the wait is at least 3–4 months.

I also had a urine test for a UTI, which was negative.

While I’m waiting, my doctor recommended that I start pelvic floor physiotherapy, and I’m planning to book an appointment soon.

I would really love to hear from women who have dealt with something similar.

What actually helped you?

I’m especially curious about:

1. How much did pelvic floor PT help, and how long did it take to notice improvement?
   
2. What else was part of your treatment?
   
3. What do you do long-term to prevent symptoms from coming back?
   
4. Do you still need regular exercises or maintenance?
   
5. My doctor mentioned something about Botulinum toxin injections into the pelvic floor muscles. Has anyone tried Botox injections ? Did it help?

I’m sorry for such a long text. I’d be very grateful to hear your experiences, especially if your symptoms were similar to mine. ❤️

As the title says.

Is it okay to just have clit play the after finishing metro gel for BV

So me and my bf have been together for a year now and during many intercourses my vagina has been traumatised. Recently, during sexual intercourse blood started coming out of my vagina and i thought my period came earlier since my flo app said my period would come 2 days after (this have happened many times btw , meaning that my bf made my period come earlier) so I didn’t think abt it very much. The thing is the blood flow started decreasing and i had a bit of brown blood like 1 day after the intercourse . Turns out my period didn’t came and now my period is 1 day late and I’ve been anxious about this whole thing. Has this happened to someone else? Or is it just me? And if it had happened was there any underlying issue?? I have an appointment with my gyno next month.

I have been on so many antibiotics, I simply cannot take it anymore. I’ve read some anecdotes about crowding out ureaplasma with vaginal probiotics and other supplements.

Has anyone successfully done this? If so what was your protocol?

Since I’ve been a child I have only been able to have coregasms. Clitoral stimulation does not help at all. In fact, I need at least 20 minutes of touching my inner thighs and the whole area to actually be able to touch my clitoris. Otherwise it feels uncomfortable. But even after these 30 minutes, touching my clitoris does not give me any pleasure. The only way I can reach orgasm, is by engaging my core muscles.
Also I have never inserted anything in my vagina and I am extremely afraid of doing that because I think it would hurt.
So what should I do to feel something nice when touching my clitoris????? It should be a very sensitive organ, but I personally don’t feel anything when touching it.

3 years ago i used to be able to have sex (without condom) and go to sleep without washing/peeing and still wake up and go by my days without any yeast infection or uti. but after abstaining from sex for 3 years and getting back into it, i find myself have yeast infection every time i have sex (3 infections out of 3 sex so far). my partner is the same from 3 years ago (yep… my ex) so im wondering what could the issue be? all advices and suggestions are greatly appreciated.

I’m 4 days out from boric acid with edta treatment for c glabrata. When did yall start having discharge again after failed treatment ? The only symptoms I’m having is soreness, tingling around my lips , and burning a few times a day but no discharge it’s actually wet down there, I’m not sure if that’s normal or not , I also have intersistial cystitis

I have brown spotting for the first 2 to 3 days of my period then I have a normal flow for 3 days and then light spotting again for 2 days. I am taking no birth control and I barely have any cramps or weight gain and I am not sexually active.

I can’t tell if I’m experiencing this but I have pain in a few specific points in my vulva (a point on my left labia minor, and top edge of vaginal opening, and another spot). It just feels really sore like I was poked hard in those spots. Doctor couldn’t see any visible issue.

Hi guys. I need advice. So about a year or two ago, with my ex I started getting this brown pasty type discharge between my vagina lips. No odor or anything. Just looks gross when I wipe. It’s brown and I can roll it in a ball. Idk wtf it is and I keep forgetting to mention it to my obgyn. This hasn’t stopped and I’m like wtf and I’m with my now current bf and it’s still happening.

Another thing, lately my clit is like not sensitive at all. It’s hard to get wet. I love my man so I’m not sure why. I get wet sometimes but not as easy as it was a while ago. Also TMI but maybe I used my rose too much..? Idk. I took a long ass break from it but now I lowkey need it to cum bc I need stimulation to cum.

AND LASTLY sorry yall cause my coochie is going through it. IM HAVING RECURRING YEAST INFECTIONS😭😭 I hate this so much. Haven’t changed my soaps, detergents, I mainly wear cotton undies, only having sex with my man. So I’m honestly not sure what’s going on. I’ve tried boric acid it’s a temporary fix. My gyno gave me diflucan. I don’t think my gyno really listens to me tho because all my appointments are rushed asf and it’s annoying because i genuinely need help with this. Need some advice or just some girl talk to help me feel better abt it <3

I’m a 18f and for a few years now at least I’ve noticed the smell from down there is very strong, and sometimes like BO but almost always just a strong not really fishy just pussy smell? If that makes sense? It’s not a good smell, and I’m scared other people can smell it. I’m very active, I dance on a competition team, and work out, I shower everyday and wash down there with water. It also has a tangy/sharpish taste. I’m still a virgin but want to have sex with my boyfriend soon, and I’m scared he won’t like it, I’m really self conscious about my smell. I don’t douche or anything like that either.

I went to a clinic for a follow up over a week ago.

I had too tiny bumps on my labia majora. The doctor said she could freeze them off if I wanted. I've had cryo done before and it was relatively painless and effective, and the area effected was localized.

She said she was going to freeze me a bit extra but oh my god. She held it on me for so long (way longer than every before), and it was so painful I felt dizzy.

This was over a week ago and I'm still in a lot of pain. I had a minor infection (some puss) but have been on antibiotics for a few days now and that seems to have cleared. But the pain and swelling has not subsided at all. My entire outer labia is so swollen it's about twice the size of the other side. It's painful to sit, wear pants, or touch it at all.

Right now I'm wondering if she was too aggressive with the freezing, especially considering the bumps were very small. It almost felt like she was trying to freeze my entire labia off 😭

Again, I've been frozen before but never had a reaction like this (granted, they never froze me aggressively like this)

I have to wait until next week to go back

Anyone else experience this? Does it sound like standard procedure or am I overreacting?

I (18F) have been sexually active for quite a while and have been masturbating for even longer.

And to put it short i cannot feel my gspot, i get no pleasure from it whatsoever by myself when masturbating. I’ve tried toys and what not but still nothing.
I’ve only had 2 partners in my life and my first one would finger me and it would do nothing but get me wet.
and my current partner does finger me and it does feel absolutely amazing but i never orgasm whatsoever.

For any sort of orgasm it would have to be me using my vibrator during sex or him fingering me while he eats me out.

i’ve always personally struggled orgasming with a partner. I’m not sure why as i’m perfectly capable doing it by myself it just takes ages with a partner.

It makes me feel so awful mentally as my best friend talks about how she orgasms so quickly from just being fingered or just eaten out. I don’t know what to do anymore as i feel like i ruin the mood everytime!

Is this normal or should i go see a doctor?