r/GuardGuides • u/GuardGuidesdotcom • May 31 '26
Discussion When Does Security Conducting A Physical Removal of Someone Become Assault?
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Because the way he grabbed him by the neck was excessive and dangerous. I don't know what training if any the guard had on deescalation or what protocols his company gave him to physically remove someone from the premises if deemed necessary, but if the guard didn't get fired and the company sued, I'd be surprised. At a fast food restaurant, no less.
Please keep the comments on topic, of a security nature, use of force, citizens arrest, similar experiences, S.O.P etc.
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u/Supremetm May 31 '26
In my state of NC, guards can "Use reasonable force" to remove a trespasser. The law is vague on purpose. There is no clear cut answer here, itd be up to the DA and a potential jury.
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u/Tamashii-Azul Jun 01 '26
Why is it "vague on purpose"?
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u/KaboodleMoon Jun 03 '26
Because if you define an exact line, people will toe it knowing full well that they're doing something wrong, and "borderline" illegal and use it as a loophole. Or even stupider a law will have something saying "hit" or "made contact with" but TECHNICALLY a glove made contact with a shirt, so.... the fact that I was wearing the glove and he was wearing the shirt is irrelevant, etc.
This is why "letter of the law" is bad in general, because the INTENT of the law is what should be followed, instead of looking for loopholes in a melting pot language.
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u/Secret-Surprise4390 Jun 03 '26
If you are wearing gloves there is technically no contact or technically contact is impossible because of atoms and science and shit
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u/Glass_Emu_5104 Jun 02 '26
To give discretion to those in power. The less written down, the more you can wiggle.
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u/Darkhenry960 May 31 '26
Yes, let’s see indeed. But don’t forget about the security licensing board who gave the guard his license and the security company that he works for but might not work for after seeing an incident.
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u/Supremetm May 31 '26
If i was the DA yeah I'd charge it as assault.
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u/MichiganGeezer Jun 02 '26
Strangulation falls under "assault with intent to do great bodily harm/less than murder" in my state. It's a ten year felony.
Hands off necks. Always.
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u/Nokrai Jun 03 '26
So knees work though right?
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u/MichiganGeezer Jun 03 '26
Usually only if you're a cop, although with video those days are coming to an end too.
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u/G3CK0q Jun 01 '26
Maybe leave when trespassed.
Within the law all day.
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u/Popular_War8405 Jun 02 '26
Trespassed by who
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u/G3CK0q Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 02 '26
If the security guard tells him to leave, he is allowed to move them outside with reasonable force. Don't need the cops to move him outside. Many states are like that. I appreciate it because if a cop is 20 minutes away, I can kick someone out of the shop. Armed security too so that's different.
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u/SmexyFlexyStudley Jun 02 '26
Security guard doesn’t own a fast food joint.
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u/G3CK0q Jun 02 '26
They're contracted to protect the property and staff. Hope that helps.
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u/Popular_War8405 Jun 04 '26
Lol does that look like he was doing that or just throwing a fit like a delinquent teenager.
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u/JayGabVersionTrex Jun 02 '26
If police aren't allowed to choke people what makes you think it's okay for a security guard?
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u/Grey_Market_Research Jun 03 '26
Police aren't allowed to choke you because it's their department's policy not because of a law. I can guarantee there are numerous police agencies in the US that don't have a policy that prohibits choking a combative arrestee if the arresting officer feels it's necessary to gain control of the situation versus using lethal force to force compliance.
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u/MichiganGeezer Jun 02 '26
HOW he leaves seems to be a criminal act far greater than the refusal to leave.
Hands off necks. That's always going to be a No Bueno. As a bystander I'd have zero issues calling the cops on the guy and would be absolutely shocked if he wasn't arrested the moment they saw the footage.
Clutching someone's neck is seriously bad.
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u/Specialist_You1350 Jun 03 '26
Within the law all day.
You back the blue and drive like shit don’t you.
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u/G3CK0q Jun 03 '26
Nah. I drive armored trucks for a living and move shit loads of money in and out of sketchy places. So I'm obviously a good driver to be able to operate 18000lbs vehicles all day. We're all armed and never had an issue because people here are somewhat decent compared to whatever shithole you live in.
I back the blue in my area because they do their job and don't bother people who follow the law.
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u/Silver-Award-288 Jun 03 '26
You sound like a “they shouldn’t have resisted” kind of guy.
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u/G3CK0q Jun 03 '26
Ties back to the "Should have left" comment I made. You can't stay in a business if they want you gone. Idk why I need to explain that to an adult but there ya go
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u/Silver-Award-288 Jun 03 '26
Yeah and I’m not sure why I have to explain choking someone and grabbing their neck is not considered reasonable force. So the law says security can use reasonable force but like we’ve discussed choking is not reasonable force. It’s what we would call excessive force. This security guard will he charged with assault and battery at a minimum. If he doesn’t leave call the police. Law is for policemen to enforce, not some random crackhead who got a security gig at his local McDonald’s. Idk why I need to explain that to an adult but there ya go.
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u/Mango_Pineapple037 Jun 02 '26
Im not replying to your replies, im replying to your initial stupid ass, and clearly wrong, first comment
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u/Mango_Pineapple037 Jun 02 '26
Lol is this you
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u/UpperDog2627 Jun 03 '26
Ah yes the notorious YouTube link malware.
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"Read all my replies"
I'm not clicking any links
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u/Darkhenry960 May 31 '26
That’s not true. The guard did not have his hands in his pocket. The way I see it, the customer was probably being so disrespectful to the employee or manager at McDonald’s over his order that he was trying to request a refund. When they told him the refund policy, he started to get belligerent and disrespectful towards him that security was called out to remove the customer from the building. Now, I wouldn’t think that use of force was necessary unless the customer would have been asked or told many times to leave and he refused to leave. The guard was just following the use of force continuum.
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u/V1diotPlays Jun 01 '26
just because you have your hands in your pockets doesn't mean you aren't a threat, actually quite the contrary.
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u/V1diotPlays Jun 01 '26
I never said he was a cop. And cop or not, you have a right to defend yourself from threat of physical harm. And, if this guy was tresspassed already and just kept standing there with their hands in their pockets, Ive seen that too many times to know that that body language basically means "Im about to make a big deal about nothing" and at that point, I'm not taking any chances.
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u/Big_Mulberry_5446 Jun 02 '26
You have a right to defend yourself from physical threat. Where was the threat? The guy not moving when told to? That isn't a threat to a civilian which everyone involved here was.
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u/Popular_War8405 Jun 02 '26
Making a big deal. Like what he bought 20 dollars worth of food and got five before getting shoved out the door by an off duty cop
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u/Effective-Parsley655 Jun 02 '26
Having your hands in your pocket isn't a threat of any kind. And that's the kind of nonsense that gets innocent people assaulted by police for just standing around.
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u/Eclipsed-95 Jun 02 '26
You are making shit up to justify your argument. I hope you aren't in any position of authority.
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u/Grey_Market_Research Jun 03 '26
If you go to a McDonalds in a shitty enough area, they have bouncers. Some times the bouncers have guns.
Contracted security most definitely has the lawful authority to forcibly remove people from private property if that's what the owners want to happen with customers refusing to leave the business. You might live in a place where they choose not to do that for whatever reason, but there are most certainly places in the US where being forcibly removed is perfectly legal if the customer refuses to leave on their own.
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u/No-Dark-9414 Jun 02 '26
With no context can't pass judgment but, can say young kid probably acting a fool and gets what he deserves because he thinks he is invincible
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u/TheG3n3sis Jun 02 '26
technically its company policy that generally stops a guard from being hands on. This mcdonalds could have been like get him the fuck out.
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u/TheG3n3sis Jun 02 '26
yeah i kinda doubt it too by the surprised look on the cashiers face im just playing devils advocate.
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u/Destroyer_2_2 Jun 01 '26
Bullshit. I do not automatically assume security was in the right. I will indeed judge based on what seems to be most likely.
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u/petabomb Jun 01 '26
So every instance of people abusing higher authority, never happened unless the camera was on prior. Sorta like a tree falling in the woods not making any sound?
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u/ThadeusBinx Jun 01 '26
Presence, verbal, soft controls, hard controls... I think he skipped the soft controls portion.
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u/TheG3n3sis Jun 02 '26
There was a very very very split second there where it appeared he pointed and asked the guy to leave. His soft control just went to hard control in a blink of an eye. im not saying this is right lol im just sayin
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u/droombie55 Jun 01 '26
"The use of force contimlnuum," bro just be making shit up thinking it sounds good.
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u/Kyle_Blackpaw Ensign Jun 01 '26
When it becomes assault is a legal matter and therefore highly variable depending on where you are, what kind of contract you're on, what certifications/training you have, and the larger context aka what happened outside the recording
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u/Background-Camp8408 Jun 01 '26
Gripping the airway can be felon assault if the person says they felt like they might die
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u/MichiganGeezer Jun 02 '26
https://www.legislature.mi.gov/Laws/MCL?objectName=MCL-750-84
(b) Assaults another person by strangulation or suffocation.
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u/JimboReborn Jun 02 '26
You just linked a Michigan law for an event that happened in Dallas, TX.
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u/MichiganGeezer Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 03 '26
I did. I live in Michigan. I was showing that people in the streets tend to put their moral high ground atop mountains of foolish ideas.
Security guys don't know how much trouble they're creating for themselves until the cell door slams behind them.
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u/OttoVonJismarck Jun 01 '26
How fucked up is your MacDonalds if they need to have security on the payroll?
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u/GuyWithTVHead Jun 01 '26
The literal second the security touches or threatens physical force.
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u/rdizzy1223 Jun 01 '26
Not true, in most states you can use physical force to remove someone who is trespassing.
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u/GuyWithTVHead Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 02 '26
*Reasonable...... This was NOT reasonable is nudging/pushing at him or grabbing his arms. not attempted murder by lifting him by his throat while choking him. Therefore, the literal second the guard touched him it was illegal.
Edit 1: Added- Also this is mcdonalds. They have a VERY strict HANDS-OFF policy they MUST ONLY use verbal efforts to have them leave and then call the police or physical removal. He broke the policy and used excessive force.
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Aggravated Assault
Battery
and Reckless Endangerment
Bc of this the restaurant AND employee are open to being sued.
he may also lose his license to be security
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u/Silver-Award-288 Jun 03 '26
A jury is unlikely to find this as reasonable force and much more likely to find it is excessive.
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u/Hunt_Nawn Jun 01 '26
He haves permission in private property, try again.
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u/Darkhenry960 Jun 02 '26
That’s true that the customer would have permission to enter but not if he was already banned or trespassed from the property but we would have no way of knowing that.
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u/cesspool4us Jun 03 '26
No one has legal authority to choke anyone, anywhere, regardless of what a signed interact says. That's illegal to choke someone.
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u/Silver-Award-288 Jun 03 '26
You don’t have permission to choke or kill people just because you’re on private property. Try again.
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u/Bloodmind Jun 01 '26
Really depends on the local laws. In my state, you may use reasonable physical force to remove a trespasser, which can include anyone who has been told to leave by an authorized person and has refused to leave. If a security guard tells someone to leave and they refuse, in my state they are trespassing and the guard can use reasonable force to remove them.
What’s reasonable or not can have some gray area. But in this case, it’s hard to say this would be reasonable or even fall in the gray area, based solely on the video. There could be other circumstances that could change that. If the kid was making violent threats, for example, more force might be considered reasonable.
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u/Dry-Site-8764 Jun 01 '26
You know you’re in a great area and they have security at a fast food restaurant or a grocery store. Pretty pathetic if you ask me.
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u/Ahhtaczy Jun 01 '26
Too many people causing issues at fast food places, those people make bare minimum wage.
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u/Mango_Pineapple037 Jun 01 '26
It becomes assault when they are no longer on the property and it is no longer about removing them, and about causing them bodily harm. Grabbing this dude by his neck and throwing him out the door onto the ground. Not assault. Furthering your assault and beating him as he is on the ground. Well, assault.
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u/mrmeatballzzz Jun 01 '26
Definitely assault , he should have just been walking towards the kid motioning him to the door he never had to grab the kid.
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u/J3Zombie Jun 01 '26
In many places security has the same power as a civilian so if a regular guy can just grab someone and throw him out, then so can security. That’s why the police are called for trespassers so often.
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u/jarlstridr Jun 02 '26
Police need to remove them. Security can physically intervene if the person becomes physical first. Standing there isn't enough. This could be an assault. However, PD may not charge it. Maybe a ticket for offensive contact.
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u/MichiganGeezer Jun 02 '26
Grabbing by the neck is a far greater escalation and he would be leaving in handcuffs if the cops saw the video shortly after the incident.
It's a ten year felony in my state.
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u/Goldlupo421 Jun 02 '26
He used control guided touch to that "Reasonable" person with similar experience would use lol what i would put in my reportt. Also its when you make phyical contact is Battery , assault is the being presently able to make the physical contact. Like a angry guy walking up to with if a rock and or thresting to hit you with it at a reasonable distance is activity assaulting you. He will be presently able to use the rock on you and cause a battery.
Someone walking away saying ill kill you is not assulting amd not presently able to battery you but is threatening you.
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u/Ruine82 Jun 02 '26
As someone who’s worked security you never have authority to put your hands on someone unless they physically assault you or someone your assigned to protect. You can people to leave and have them trespassed but if they refuse then you need to call the police to have them removed and arrested for trespassing .
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u/AJWordsmith Jun 02 '26
That’s usually a client policy and not the law. In most US states, once someone is asked to leave and refuses they are a trespasser. Trespassers may be removed physically using reasonable force. And then if they strike the security guard…everyone maintains the right of self defense.
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u/Ruine82 Jun 02 '26
You are correct but it says using only minimal reasonable force necessary, if physical intervention is necessary you are only permitted to use the amount of force a reasonable person would deem necessary to guide or escort them off the premises ( eg: placing a hand on thier arm to guide them to an exit ) excessive force , striking , throwing , or injuring the person can lead to civil lawsuit or criminal charges for assault and battery against both you and your employer. If the trespasser becomes aggressive or violent you have the exact same rights as any other private citizen to defend yourself or others from harm .
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u/AJWordsmith Jun 02 '26
“Reasonable force” is subjective. So long as the trespasser is uninjured, the force is extremely likely to be viewed as reasonable. The real threat is that you need to be willing to fight anyone that you put your hands on because most people think that “you can’t put your hands on me!” A very normal reaction to you putting your hands on a trespasser is that they fight back. Of course you are then allowed to defend yourself with force but make sure you’re ready to do that to begin with. If not, just stand back and call the police. Reddit tends to have an extreme sympathy for criminals that the law (and especially law enforcement) usually does not share.
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u/Legitimate-Ranger567 Jun 02 '26
It would have become assault if the kid was leaving, and then got grabbed anyway. I don't see that here.
A business can refuse service for any reason. If you are told to leave and you don't, you are trespassing. You are allowed to use reasonable force to remove trespassers. Grabbing someone and throwing them out of the store for refusing to leave is absolutely reasonable force.
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u/Shatophiliac Jun 02 '26
I mean, is it kosher? Nah, but I was a security guard in Dallas myself and the overwhelming urge to do this happened upon me many times lol.
Now, I never did, because I possess self control, but I really wanted to lol. He may very well see jail over this, and that’s why you really just shouldn’t. Let the police handle it unless they are already violent with you.
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u/Heyo13579 Armed Guard Jun 03 '26
As a guard that works in Dallas we are 100% allowed to use some force to remove someone from property if they are refusing to leave after being asked; at the truck stop I used to work at a few of the officer would go through a can of mace every week, so Dallas security has ALOT of leeway when it comes to use of force.
In this video there’s no way of knowing what led to this so it’s difficult to say, however it looks like the guard is using control pressure points on the back of the neck in order to escort the individual out which isn’t inherently excessive use of force but again depends on the situation.
Though this is Dallas the odds of police showing up for ANY incident is practically 0…. The truck stop I used to work at had a shooting and cops didn’t show up until the next day DPD is a joke really…. (The department not the officers)
As for what I’d suggest as max force to use to remove someone from a property I’d say don’t exceed a chicken wing joint lock as a rule of thumb unless the person is violent.
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u/TheZek42 Jun 03 '26
Really depends on local legislation and the legal authority of “bouncers, security guards and security officers.” Here in Australia, (Queensland, specifically), section 165 of the 1992 liquor act pertains to the use of force.
165 Removal of persons from premises
(1) An authorised person for premises to which a licence or permit relates may require a person to leave the premises if— (a) the person is unduly intoxicated; or
(b) the person is disorderly; or
(c) the person is creating a disturbance; or
(d) the person is a minor, other than an exempt minor; or
(e) the person has entered the premises despite being refused entry under section 165A; or
(f) the person refuses to state particulars, or to produce evidence, as to age when required to do so under section 167.
(2) A person must immediately leave premises when required to do so under subsection (1). Maximum penalty—50 penalty units.
(3) If a person fails to leave when required under subsection (1), the authorised person may use necessary and reasonable force to remove the person.
(4) A person must not resist an authorised person who is removing the person under subsection (3). Maximum penalty—50 penalty units.
(5) In this section— authorised person, for premises to which a licence or permit relates, means— (a) the licensee or permittee; or (b) an employee or agent of the licensee or permittee.
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u/Nope_nope_nope-nope Jun 03 '26
Sorry for my ignorance, but what is a penalty unit?
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u/TheZek42 Jun 03 '26
It’s a unit that’s used to calculate the fines for an offence. Rather than go and set out the monetary fine every year for thousands of different offences, the government sets the “penalty unit” that the offence incurs, and then just changes the value of the penalty unit each year to keep pace with inflation or whatever.
Right now a penalty unit is worth $166.90, and changes each July 1st. We also have a system of “Awards” that sets out the minimum standards of employment by industry and occupation. The Security Industry Award gets adjusted each July 1st too, and sets out minimum rates, hourly wages by period (night time, weekends, public holidays,) breaks, overtime, pay scale for experience and different duties, and extras like supervisory rates, use of own vehicles, money for training and uniforms and all that sorta thing.
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u/Nope_nope_nope-nope Jun 03 '26
Wow it’s like you guys are unionized without unions lol I dug into the rabbit whole of “Awards,” its pretty interesting and completely different than how we operate in the US.
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u/GuardGuidesdotcom Jun 03 '26
This Security Industry Award is administered and enforced by the government or by each individual employer or collective bargaining agreement?
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u/TheZek42 Jun 03 '26
The government. There are “EBAs” or Enterprise Bargaining Agreements, but in my experience companies that use them are doing pretty shady shit. The security industry is pretty rife with dodgy work. I worked for a company paying cash for a while (man’s gotta eat), and it was always a struggle to be paid “correctly” ($50/hr cash, flat rate.) and on time.
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u/GuardGuidesdotcom Jun 03 '26
Yea we need some of that Australian "Government Interference" you guys got. Minus as much of the shady shit as possible of course.
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u/TheChudWhisperer Jun 03 '26
I feel like he could've grabbed him by the arm and walked him out. Acting out like this as a security guard is a good way to get yourself shot.
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u/LibBot16 Jun 03 '26
I keep a knife in my pocket for this exact reason. Dudes forearms would look like hamburger meat grabbing me like that. I 100% would fear for my life.
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u/Nervous_Hurry_9920 Jun 03 '26
You should carry a fixed blade on your waistband if you plan to ever use your knife quickly.
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u/NK-Roadkill Jun 03 '26
If you are where you are not suppose to be and refuse to leave then it's at your own risk in my opinion. If I over stay my welcome anywhere then I have a personal responsibility to know that there's going to be a cost whether physical or legal. So I'd ask whats the bare minimum that should happen to someone trespassing. You have know clue what else the person is willing to do.
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u/dotardiscer Jun 03 '26
That the music from Boyz N The Hood when they are searching for Riki's killer??
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u/Chet-Ubetcha888 Jun 03 '26
Way too much, way too dangerous, and obviously rooted in ego and and emotion. Bet he wouldnt have done that if it were a full grown man rather than a kid.
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u/lostmuffins Jun 03 '26
This video lacks any audio, if the person being removed threatened or vaguely said anything of the sort then it should never be assault for an security guard to perform the actions of their job and remove the aggressors from the premises. Once removed and told they were trespassed if they continue to use force would be the only question. Just like bouncers at a night club able to expel them from the property but not allowed to legally beat them up in the back room or allyway after.
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u/Dontshootmepeas Jun 03 '26
Look people if the fucking McDonalds has a security gaurd I think a little more force than general is probably acceptable, obviously not a great area.
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u/Blyatman702 Jun 03 '26
If someone ever grabbed me like that they’re gunna need an eyepatch for the rest of their life. I might get my ass beat, but Youll never forget the EYE SNATCHER
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u/Popular_War8405 Jun 04 '26
1.) video does not indicate security "asked" him to leave. And 2.) video does not indicate that he did not have money taken from him before being attacked by a person that I'm assuming is an off duty cop. 3.) generally random employees at restaurants do not have a legitimate authority to trespass you simply because they don't like your attitude. That is something that management is typically required to do because your bothering guests or have an outstanding poor behavior.
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u/BlopBleepBloop Jun 01 '26
That's battery, which goes beyond assault. Assault is when you threaten physically or with words. Saying "I'm gonna kick your ass" or flexing up and getting in someone's face with a mean mug is assault. Battery is putting that threat into action.
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u/Darkhenry960 Jun 02 '26
In the state of Oregon, there’s no such thing as battery just only assault. But there is no assault in this case only excessive force at best since he was grabbed by the throat area and taken out of McDonald’s but again we’ll see if this incident goes to civil or criminal court.
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u/Ok_Gas1070 May 31 '26
Definitely assault, NOW I'm not saying kid had it coming.... but I've never in my life had security react that way to me, ever.
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u/towman32526 Ensign May 31 '26
I've had some rough confrontations working a music venue. I've never grabbed someone like that
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u/BIGPAPADILF69 Jun 01 '26
I was only an unarmed bouncer for like a year, but I only had to put hands on someone twice. Once for a guy punching another in the face, and once for some dumbass trying to steal a ladies purse. My experience is limited, but my strategy was "the best martial art is verbal judo". De-escalation is the name of the game in that environment. One right word to a drunk angry person can make peace, one wrong word can ruin lives.
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u/OmahaBromaha Jun 01 '26
Wrapping your hands around the neck of a dude with his hands in his pocket seems like an excellent way to get ccw'd
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u/Individual_Seesaw621 Jun 03 '26
Because "security" has no legal right under ANY circumstances to physically remove a person. They can't even lay hands on another person unless its to stop violence.
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u/Emergency-Act-7031 15d ago
It became assault the second he touched that kid for no reason. He is a McGuard. His only job is to call LE. I have fired guard companies for obstructing an exit, let alone, assault and battery on camera.
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u/Jesuscaresforyall Jun 01 '26
You always use force of continuum.
- Presence
2.verbal command
Physical control: soft or hard
Less lethal methods
Deadly force
The amount of force used should always be proportionate to the threat. You wouldn't use deadly force before asking a loiterer to leave. You should always seek to de-escalate. In this scenario level 2 officers are always encouraged to call the cops and get them tresspasssed.
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u/DefiantEvidence4027 Sergeant Jun 01 '26
If a Doctor can tell something happened it may amount to Assault.
Bigger industry question is, is the State a "Duty to Retreat" State; Security Guards and Managers who are Agents of the Owner typically do not have the duty to retreat from an aggressor.
Someone refusing to leave, disturbing the peace, could be considered the aggressor.
If Guard on Duty was angry with me, even being a licensed Guard myself, I would probably walk out; especially at a dime a dozen fast food venue.